Taking the Secret Benefits plunge, wish me luck

[omgcrazyfun]

So I've been away in Canada the last week and got the horn. I punt frequently, but want to try arranging something more regular (naturally) so I decided to sign up to Secret Benefits (SB). As others have said, initially I was dubious about fake profiles. I signed up for the $59 100 credit package (which I believe is an intro package). Now I wouldn't say I'm particularly attractive nor in good shape at the moment, yet my experience to date with it is you are inundated by messages and each conversation is locked behind a credit paywall (10 credits to unlock). Surprising to say the least given I had literally one picture on there. Some of the profiles have looked dubious, there's an ecleptic mix of down right rough looking women and super hot models on there.

I've managed to completely burn through my credits now, and to renew they now want $89 for 200 credits. However, luckily, one girl has been actively chatting to me asking different things, and we've since moved the conversation to Telegram. She's 36 and frankly looks smoking hot. She has been sending me some pictures and whilst I'm still a little sceptical, we have agreed to meet at a hotel. I suspect she's just some seasoned brass, just using SB as an alternative avenue to AW. We'll see.

Arrangement thus far is a meet this week and she wants circa £300 for the meet + hotel fees (£49) that I've booked myself via dayuse.co.uk. Assuming she arrives on time, I'll be looking forward to roughly 3-5 hours in bed with this broad so fairly good VFM. She said she would only ask for more if it was an overnighter. Conversation thus far has been very risqué and looks like she's up for most things including anal.

I'll follow up with my experience later this week. If this go's well, I may get more SB credits.

[Al R]

There’s a good thread about SB in the main forum. I subbed once over a year ago and had a similar experience to you (and most others). Inundated with messages which, once replied to (and having paid credits for) you mostly never hear again.

I also met just one SB before all my credits disappeared, she was verified & I contacted her first. That to me would seem to be the way to go ie verified profiles only. The only good thing once you do get chatting to someone is you can always message them even if you have no credits. Which proved useful when I lost the girl who I did make contact withs number.

I wouldn’t use the site again though as I think that while there are obviously some genuine profiles, the site generally is bent as fuck.

[Easygoingdude]

Aren't they all bent as f*ck ? Bots or fake people who contact you to make you use and then but more credits?

Yet to find one that seems to be full of genuine people

[standardpostage]

Good luck, hope it works out.

[stanr]

Good luck, hope it works out.

Ditto but i feel it won't.. i tried it a while back and a complete waste of money ..too many fake profiles

[scutty brown]

OP - have you read this thread?
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=351124.0

I suggest you read all of it before wasting money on a scam

[omgcrazyfun]

So I just wanted to follow up. And yes I've been suckered into buying more credits ($89)

I did successfully meet the woman on SB. We met in a hotel in the city centre. I used dayuse.co.uk for a room for a few hours. We engaged a lot on Telegram prior to the rendezvous, parking, directions etc. She even sent some pictures that I asked for on-demand.

Once she arrived she knocked on my door and walked in. I liked what I saw. She didn't expect the money up front and the whole thing was very relaxed. We sat on the bed together, cuddled and chatted about relationships. I got the impression she did this a lot with different men. We spent nearly 4 hours together.

I made the first move and suffice to say nothing was off limits. Took her up the rusty bullet hole twice. I can provide more details if you wish but I did enjoy myself. We are still talking on telegram and I can book in with her again when it takes my fancy.

I'm trying my best now to organise another meet with another woman.

SB does feel scammy, there's unusual behaviour like women favouriting you but having not visited your profile. And like others have said I'm mainly sticking to those profiles that are verified with videos. But there are some real women on there that's the truth but you've got to be super careful with your credits.

[omgcrazyfun]

OP - have you read this thread?
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=351124.0

I suggest you read all of it before wasting money on a scam

I did read all that before diving in yes. The majority of the post is mainly about how to avoid wasting your money on all the secret galleries, boosts etc as as you say, to the uninitiated would be tempting.

I am actually going to raise the 'girls favouriting you' thing with the helpline as that activity just feels scammy. And the sheer number of messages you get is also scammy and unrealistic. These messages are always 1 liners with no useful introductory information.

The worst thing about SB in my opinion is that it's starting to take over my life. I'm spending a LOT of time just weeding out the crap looking for something that at least half resembles an actual legit profile.  AW is much less hassle for sure but there is something about finding a half civvie/half SP that's got me a bit hooked at the moment.

If I don't get anymore action inside a month I'll be exiting SB as it's simply not worth the time.