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Offline MJ.spritzen

So today I was scrolling through AW and spotted a few girls in their early 20s I'd like to punt with. Next thing you know, I'm at my desk in work firing off txt messages to about 4 or 5 of them asking for locations, negotiating what they'll do and for how much extra. Then I had to take a step back and think, is it really worth £80-£120 for 30mins with a girl who may turn out to be a shit punt?
Very few WGs properly engage in the moment, very few are into actually making sure you enjoy your time spent and get you to return.

So I decided to delete the messages and had a wank to porn on 20something girls instead.

Sex brain satisfied. And it was free.

Later I got a few message replies asking if I'm gonna book or what? Attitudes from them. It made me think I'd had a lucky escape. Not a hint of buyers remorse today, which more often than not happens after a punt.

I guess sometimes all we need it to dump our load, not necessarily the whole rigmarole of a punt.

Online mr.bluesky

I hope you didn't have a wank at your workdesk whilst watching porn   :scare:

Online willie loman

i suppose the key issue is, what per centage of your weekly income is 80£, how old you are etc  i havent had a wank for forty years.

Offline KiloRomeo

Early research suggests that the tactical wank could collectively save punters enough money to end world hunger.

Offline pythondan

Working at home is really difficult for me as I have my personal laptop alongside my work one and spend far too long on here and AW.

I really just need to either have a wank first thing or lock all my personal devices away during working hours.


Offline tynetunnel

I hope you didn't have a wank at your workdesk whilst watching porn   :scare:

Exactly my thought  :D

Offline MJ.spritzen

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i suppose the key issue is, what per centage of your weekly income is 80£, how old you are etc  i havent had a wank for forty years.

I think of it in terms of what else I could spend £80 on which would have something to show for it at the end. If I could film the punts, now that would be a game changer.

Offline Stevelondon

i suppose the key issue is, what per centage of your weekly income is 80£, how old you are etc  i havent had a wank for forty years.

I’m not sure I understand this !!!

Offline Bat

Doesn’t apply to me at all. Since I discovered the joys of punting I haven’t felt the need, or desire, to wank once.

I’d much rather spend my money on an SP and get to feel some real flesh and have a sexy mouth engulf my cock than watch other people on a screen.

I guess it’s the old ‘you pays your money and you take your choice’ syndrome.

Offline MJ.spritzen

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Doesn’t apply to me at all. Since I discovered the joys of punting I haven’t felt the need, or desire, to wank once.

I’d much rather spend my money on an SP and get to feel some real flesh and have a sexy mouth engulf my cock than watch other people on a screen.

I guess it’s the old ‘you pays your money and you take your choice’ syndrome.

Whaaaat? I love a wank, and I love porn. I'll never give either up. Even when I was dating a pretty young thing I'd still wank to porn in conjunction to regular sex.

Offline Watts.E.Dunn

Doesn’t apply to me at all. Since I discovered the joys of punting I haven’t felt the need, or desire, to wank once.

I’d much rather spend my money on an SP and get to feel some real flesh and have a sexy mouth engulf my cock than watch other people on a screen.

I guess it’s the old ‘you pays your money and you take your choice’ syndrome.

Your choice eh?. Some choice, most of the time here in Mid Anglia:(...

Offline akauya

So today I was scrolling through AW and spotted a few girls in their early 20s I'd like to punt with. Next thing you know, I'm at my desk in work firing off txt messages to about 4 or 5 of them asking for locations, negotiating what they'll do and for how much extra.

Then I had to take a step back and think, is it really worth £80-£120 for 30mins with a girl who may turn out to be a shit punt?
Very few WGs properly engage in the moment, very few are into actually making sure you enjoy your time spent and get you to return.

So I decided to delete the messages and had a wank to porn on 20something girls instead.

Sex brain satisfied. And it was free.

Later I got a few message replies asking if I'm gonna book or what? Attitudes from them. It made me think I'd had a lucky escape. Not a hint of buyers remorse today, which more often than not happens after a punt.

I guess sometimes all we need it to dump our load, not necessarily the whole rigmarole of a punt.

Yes, a good wank here and there is satisfying - takes the edge off for a while until you crave touching a beautiful woman again so it's back on AW looking for WGs.  :D

Don't forget though that most of the time the "girl" you are texting is not the actual girl you will see. Especially if it's a foreign girl who more often than not will have a 'maid' or 'receptionist' dealing with hundreds of blokes asking all sort of questions to which they will get one word answers or stock cut and paste.


Offline Dylanbob

The problem is every now and again that £80/120 turns out to be a bargain. Be it the girls looks, service or even just sometimes your own performance. It's why most of us come back to the table.

Offline Hornydevil666

This really just comes down to your disposal income, If only I had more money to punt

Offline Liverpool


Later I got a few message replies asking if I'm gonna book or what? Attitudes from them. It made me think I'd had a lucky escape.

Isn't this going to affect you in the long run as a potential time waster? Plus, aren't you risking a negative review on SAAFE and like minded escort sites?

Offline jamiekinkxxx

I guess sometimes all we need it to dump our load, not necessarily the whole rigmarole of a punt.

100% this is the best options sometimes, esp when the urge is an impulse visit, but do it before reaching out to them. As has been mentioned you don't want to be a timewaster.

« Last Edit: June 29, 2023, 07:32:36 am by jamiekinkxxx »

Online JonasG

Why not both I say.

I love wanking and I love punting. A nice medium between both and I'm a happy bunny.

Offline Darren101

I agree. So much money saved and less hassle especially if you don’t have time. Not all SPs are down the road.  I don’t normally message many providers though, just look at online profiles.

Still, can’t beat an actual meet with a beautiful SP if the session is good but good to get some relief by firing one off indoors to PH now and again.
« Last Edit: June 29, 2023, 08:07:35 am by Darren101 »

Offline Jonestown

Better to have a wank than let your raging hormones push you into an ill judged meet.

Offline Captainhowdy666

Depends on your age.
When young I could have a wank then still pull a bird a few hours later and be up for the job.
Now I’m in my 50’s a wank will destroy my sex drive in an instant and save me £80.

Offline Bat

Whaaaat? I love a wank, and I love porn. I'll never give either up. Even when I was dating a pretty young thing I'd still wank to porn in conjunction to regular sex.

I worked out that since I stopped wanking, I’ve seen an SP at an average of just under twice a week. It’s not always exactly this but I think the longest gap is about 8-9 days.

I’ve found it’s intensified the passion and orgasm for me and, strangely, I can actually last a lot longer than I did previously (no idea how this works, maybe just something psychological!).


Offline Bat

Your choice eh?. Some choice, most of the time here in Mid Anglia:(...

I’m pretty spoilt for choice where I live in the South East. There are a lot of decent SPs permanently in the area and it’s also a prime touring zone.

London is only an hour away by train. Especially since the new Elizabeth Line became fully operational. It’s not become a regular punting line for me  :lol:

Offline theaccountant

Like most of us in the West Mids like to moan every once in a while on the lack of good value talent in these parts.

I’ve tried to do a few TOFTTs on new SPs who pop up everyonce in the while and usually leave disappointed as they were pretty much shit.

I find myself wanking more often to ensure I don’t waste my money on what I sense would be a shit punt if I was to book a new girl who meets what I’m looking for.

Though have sex brings greater satisfaction in the end.

Offline CityTillIDie

Working at home is really difficult for me as I have my personal laptop alongside my work one and spend far too long on here and AW.

I really just need to either have a wank first thing or lock all my personal devices away during working hours.

This exactly. I wasted £240 today.
Review to follow in time

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Offline CityTillIDie

Depends on your age.
When young I could have a wank then still pull a bird a few hours later and be up for the job.
Now I’m in my 50’s a wank will destroy my sex drive in an instant and save me £80.

Yup
Again, my saving today would have been £240

Repeating myself now. But god I’m bitter  :D

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Offline thebastard

I would punt weekly if I had access to better quality GFE girls in my area. A wank doesn’t do it for me anymore!

Offline Cee92

I CONCUR!

Especially in this climate. To say that the talent to cost ratio at the moment is abysmal would be the understatement of the century. I'll probably be abstaining (more than i even currently am) soon, in hopes that things get better in the time that i am gone but i am not optimistic.

Offline eric 70

prices going up and up and the quality going down! :timeout: just looked on adultwork not one girl caught my eye :timeout:
« Last Edit: June 30, 2023, 04:45:41 pm by eric 70 »

Offline redneon

Not always. I fell into the trap of cam girls after getting bored of regular porn. Either way, I'm getting drained and it's not easy to quit.

Offline MJ.spritzen

I think I'm gonna save the cash for two or three Greedy Girls Parties that are on regularly in Manchester. Usually 3 or 4 girls and they're sure things. You get the occasional porn star sometimes too. That's £150 for 2 hours. You're sharing with like 10 other men, though, but I find that actually helps because I can fuck one girl, take a break, move to another girl etc then cum when I want.

Offline Ghost89

I definitely still enjoy a good wank. Saved me a fortune. I’m slowing down my punting as it’s becoming costly to me. 

Offline DastardlyDick

I hope you didn't have a wank at your workdesk whilst watching porn   :scare:
If he's got his own lockable office, I can't see anything wrong with that? A bit kinky, maybe, but if needs must  :lol:

Offline Davey80

There is a counter to this I’ve experienced when waking up not that interested in sex but then habitually playing some porn in the shower which has ended up in a hastily arranged same day punt (instead of a wank).

Also - nice to get the “free money” in your back pocket when a punting arrangement has broken down for whatever reason.




Online southcoastpunter

If he's got his own lockable office, I can't see anything wrong with that? A bit kinky, maybe, but if needs must  :lol:

 - all joking aside,  just in case anyone thinks maybe i'll do that, its almost certainly gross misconduct if caught or if your employer has reasonable grounds to think you were. they don't need the same level of "proof" that a court of law requires!

Offline Jimbag1

i suppose the key issue is, what per centage of your weekly income is 80£, how old you are etc  i havent had a wank for forty years.

I’d probably be in the same boat if I only wanted to cum once a week. Some of us have much higher sex drives than that.

Offline I like natural boobs

I really enjoy a good wank but nothing feels as good as pussy.

Offline Chazz

I definitely still enjoy a good wank. Saved me a fortune. I’m slowing down my punting as it’s becoming costly to me.
What's the difference between an egg, a carpet, and a good hard wank?

You can beat an egg, you can beat a carpet, but you can't beat a good hard wank!

 :hi:

Offline Markc

I am in my middle 50’s and still wank to porn every day when l can. Where l live iis a city in the South West
the choice on AW is now really poor. A couple of times in the last year when l felt like l want to see someone
new it is very difficult to book the SP as she never gets back to you and one l did get to see was nothing like
her photo ( bait and switch), she didn’t kiss, had a funny fish smell about her when l went down on her so l stopped
that straight away and l ended up wanking myself while she watched me and l cum on my stomach.

There are no parlours near me but a couple of Chinese massage therapists in a nearby town that offer extras but
the foreign girls to nothing for me. One regular l used to see has just vanished but still has a AW profile to say she
is back soon. But saying that l had a session with my favourite regular the other day and that was awesome.

Luckily l still get to fuck the wife about once a week and as she is a teacher when she is on holiday we do it a bit more.
I have a punting fund which l add to regularly either from my salary, when l get bonus from work or if a get small wins on the lottery. If l can’t get a punt l treat myself in other ways like recently l purchased a new iPad and renewed my Onlytease subscription so l can wank to the women on there.


Offline DastardlyDick

they don't need the same level of "proof" that a court of law requires!
Until they're taken to a tribunal for unfair dismissal of course, where it would be decided "on the balance of probabilities" and they'd have to prove that's what was going on - I doubt that "the office door was locked, so therefore he's having a wank" would cut it.
All hypothetical of course, as surely nobody would be that stupid!

Offline MysteryManNo.7

Doesn’t apply to me at all. Since I discovered the joys of punting I haven’t felt the need, or desire, to wank once.

I’d much rather spend my money on an SP and get to feel some real flesh and have a sexy mouth engulf my cock than watch other people on a screen.

I guess it’s the old ‘you pays your money and you take your choice’ syndrome.

I could have a girlfriend, be shagging gorgeous escorts and I'd still toss my own salad. I've definitely cut down on wanking since my teen years but I think for most men it's something you never grow out of and there have been one or two escorts I've seen where straight after I'd thought I wished I'd had a wank instead.

Offline Bat

I could have a girlfriend, be shagging gorgeous escorts and I'd still toss my own salad. I've definitely cut down on wanking since my teen years but I think for most men it's something you never grow out of and there have been one or two escorts I've seen where straight after I'd thought I wished I'd had a wank instead.

It’s not something I’ve grown out of (yet, anyway). It was just that after visiting my first SP, I immediately rebooked her for the following week.

I was quite satiated from that first experience and thought I’d ‘save myself’ for the next one. The week-long gap increased my anticipation and excitement and the following week I came like a train  :rolleyes:

It was a really intense experience. I rebooked her again straight away and followed the same routine. This time I found I could hold on almost as long as I wanted before letting go and, again, it was great.

I’ve not looked back since. I’m currently able to afford to see SPs regularly and not wanking between punts means that every punt is, for me, more of a release.

For the moment it keeps me happy anyway  :yahoo:

Offline trickyd2

" Don't knock masturbation. It's sex with someone you love". Woody Allen

Offline pantywetter

I often find myself thinking this.  Not only would a wank save me the money, it would also save a lot of time and the risk of a bad punt.

It seems like a no brainer, but the allure of pussy is just too much.
« Last Edit: July 03, 2023, 06:22:26 pm by pantywetter »

Online willie loman

I’d probably be in the same boat if I only wanted to cum once a week. Some of us have much higher sex drives than that.

i didnt actually say that one shag a week was enough, i personally have 3 encounters a week at a tariff, about 340£, at my age i will be dead before i run out of money,, i last had a wank around 39 years ago,
« Last Edit: July 03, 2023, 07:44:17 pm by willie loman »

Offline Darren101

i didnt actually say that one shag a week was enough, i personally have 3 encounters a week at a tariff, about 340£, at my age i will be dead before i run out of money,, i last had a wank around 39 years ago,

My hero   :)  :hi:

Offline fredhiggins

Why not both I say.

I love wanking and I love punting. A nice medium between both and I'm a happy bunny.
Agreed

Offline PumpDump

Early research suggests that the tactical wank could collectively save punters enough money to end world hunger.

Except the hookers would all be hungry  :lol:

Offline southern punter

It’s not something I’ve grown out of (yet, anyway). It was just that after visiting my first SP, I immediately rebooked her for the following week.

I was quite satiated from that first experience and thought I’d ‘save myself’ for the next one. The week-long gap increased my anticipation and excitement and the following week I came like a train  :rolleyes:

It was a really intense experience. I rebooked her again straight away and followed the same routine. This time I found I could hold on almost as long as I wanted before letting go and, again, it was great.

I’ve not looked back since. I’m currently able to afford to see SPs regularly and not wanking between punts means that every punt is, for me, more of a release.

For the moment it keeps me happy anyway  :yahoo:

I have always been a massive wanker (literally) so when I read this I thought "no way that would be possible for me!"  But I managed to lay off for most of the week prior to a punt the other day and christ it was incredible.  Don't think I have the cash to 100% copy your modus operandi (or a reliable enough reg) but I think I'll try and get as near to it as I can  :drinks:

Offline summernirvana

Pussy will always be better than cranking it to pixels on a screen.

But when you factor in uninterested prossies whose lack of interaction makes you feel like you're dealing with a blow-up doll with a pulse, costs, commute and time spent/wasted... a wank is indeed better.


Offline thebastard

Pussy will always be better than cranking it to pixels on a screen.

But when you factor in uninterested prossies whose lack of interaction makes you feel like you're dealing with a blow-up doll with a pulse, costs, commute and time spent/wasted... a wank is indeed better.

Yes I agree with this!