Irish Beauty - Newcastle- cancelled twice

[bestofthebest]

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I absolutely hate giving negative reviews, but on this occasion I'm having to give one because I was lied to. I was very interested in Sinead's profile after reading reviews on here, that I was prepared to travel to Newcastle from Yorkshire and book a hotel just to see her.

I initially contacted Sinead in April and fixed a date and time for a 90 minute session. Booked my train tickets and hotel. I then messaged her couple of days before the meet but no response. I then sent another message a day before the meet asking her to confirm the appointment. She responded back saying unfortunately there's been a bereavement and she was in Ireland.  I felt bad for her. I was able to cancel the hotel but not train tickets.

I then contacted her again earlier this month to fix a date and time. She was quick to respond, booking sorted. I then booked my train tickets and hotel. Couple of days before the meet, I messaged her on AW asking about her likes and dislikes and what would she like to drink etc. She read the message but didn't respond. On the morning of the meet, I sent another message saying I'm setting off for the train and I'll see her later, and asked to respond. No response to that. I checked into the hotel 4 hours before the meet. I sent another message an hour after checking in, but again received no response. She had not even read the messages. I then emailed her on the email address on the profile. Received this response:

"Sorry I am unable to access my AW account at the minute as the WiFi won’t let me enter a 18 plus site.

I was at the pink concert last night and have fallen and broken my wrist as well as some other issues. I’ve had to have a small operation and I am currently in hospital, I am getting discharged today, but my arm is now in full cast and have marking on my face etc. I won’t be able to escort or see you today for at least 6 weeks. I am so sorry for the late notice, I couldn’t access the AW site and didn’t have any way to contact you until I’ve received your email. Massive apologies, I’m very sorry, but I can’t unfortunately do much with this situation :-(

If you ever book again I will make sure the booking is at a 50% discount as an apology."

All very believable as accidents can happen. I felt sorry for her. I already lost £120 on the train tickets and hotel on this occasion.

However, since then there have been 4 further positive feedbacks for her on AW. This wouldn't have been possible if she had the fracture and the operation. Unfortunately having to mark this as negative experience, especially because she does outcalls only and there's a significant money to be spent even before seeing her, if booking a hotel.

I've marked it as a neutral on second thoughts, as I said I absolutely hate giving negative review. You can make up your mind on whether this was a neutral or negative experience. Just be aware of this issue when booking, especially if booking a hotel just to see her.

[OscarC]

Don’t understand why you have given this neutral when she has fucked you around twice and wasted your money, should be a a big fat red negative.  Sounds like she has used dubious excuses aswell.

[williambream]

Don’t understand why you have given this neutral when she has fucked you around twice and wasted your money, should be a a big fat red negative.  Sounds like she has used dubious excuses aswell.

Simpin ain't easy. But seriously I'd never get burned the second time.

[RonBurgundy]

If those excuses were genuine it probably warranted a neutral but she's clearly lied to you. So it's a definite negative IMO. Anyway, thanks for the review because it at least flags a problem that others have also experienced but not reviewed. Otherwise, with only positive reviews it looks like she's reliable SP. Although hopefully anyone reading this review will see it as a negative.

[FLYING BLUE]

I don't generally stick my nose into other peoples review rating.

However, on this occasion, I will say that, IMHO (although others may disagree) - this is most definitely a Negative
FB

[bestofthebest]

Oh well, I got my first negative feedback as a result of this review, despite me being honest word for word and also left neutral instead of negative. The reason I don't like leaving negative feedbacks is because I know it can affect the business of people trying to make a living. All I expected was honesty. I mentioned this in my previous review as well. If she was injured during the concert needing a bit of medical attention, I can understand. But then actually saying she had a small surgery and is out for 6 weeks, then continuing to see clients is what disappointed me.

You can see from all my previous reviews that I don't hold back in praising the people I've met so far. I respect them for what they do and help me feel complete as I've been missing intimacy in my life since more than 3 years after separating from my wife. Despite the transaction being purely physical, I see them as a person, inside and out.

[tynetunnel]

Thanks for reviewing. That she was vindictive on her review on AW speaks volumes. I’d she hadn’t messed you about, and frankly lied to you, then she’d not have got this review. If it were me I’d be pissed that I didn’t leave her a negative instead

Still we can all read the review and make up,our own minds. She needs to up her game and take responsibility for herself and her work. If I behaved in such a way I’d be getting the sack from my job.

[Kev3773]

Cheers for reviewing, it was very generous of you, her attitude doesn't warrant that generosity imo. You can change your rating should you wish, just say the word 

[twotight]

thank you for your review
this is one of the reasons I don't do outcalls, its annoying enough to get canceled on last minute when your already on your way without having to pay for a hotel and train. And what is to stop her giving your home address to her Sergei

[The Outsider]

The reason I don't like leaving negative feedbacks is because I know it can affect the business of people trying to make a living.

A negative review generally only affects the business of people who aren't very good at what they do. 

[tynetunnel]

A negative review generally only affects the business of people who aren't very good at what they do.

Spot on!

[Will2k]

A deal is a deal. And if they wanna say no they should just say no.

[bestofthebest]

I didn't see her message to me on AW earlier.

"I have regular clients who don’t mind I have been in an accident and where happy to still see me. Should I have turned them away to ensure you felt better about my situation?

To call me a liar to quite unfair. But boys will be boys and I get yous like to play god in this world of escorting and head straight to uk punting and sorts to vent about the awful big bad escort who was simply terrible to you!

Perhaps try be a little more understanding and less jaded. Things happen, I offered you 50% discount, it seems nothing would be enough to please you.

Again my apologies for being unable to make your appointment, should you have an email address I can happily send you proof of my injury."

I'll update the thread after I receive her email. It's likely this was all a misunderstanding.

[Festa]

You lost a significant amount of money and time and it happened twice.

Your review was accurate and factual. Move on, you have been lucky with the other girls you have seen who treated you well.

[RonBurgundy]

Just read the AW review she gave you. Totally over the top. You treated her with far more respect and understanding than she deserved. You definitely didn't deserve such a vindictive reply in response. Sorry you have had such grief for helping us out by reviewing her. Hope the next punt brings happier times. Thanks once again though for the review.

[tynetunnel]

I really wouldn’t engage with this one anymore. Despite her terrible accident, there’s no obvious lengthy gap in her reviews to suggest she had a period of time away from working. She has other negs also for not turning up. Obviously her Irish temper has been aroused. Forget it and move on. Her latest review 2 days ago mentions “car trouble” and she couldn’t meet

[The Outsider]

I didn't see her message to me on AW earlier.

"I have regular clients who don’t mind I have been in an accident and where happy to still see me. Should I have turned them away to ensure you felt better about my situation?

To call me a liar to quite unfair. But boys will be boys and I get yous like to play god in this world of escorting and head straight to uk punting and sorts to vent about the awful big bad escort who was simply terrible to you!

Perhaps try be a little more understanding and less jaded. Things happen, I offered you 50% discount, it seems nothing would be enough to please you.

Again my apologies for being unable to make your appointment, should you have an email address I can happily send you proof of my injury."

I'll update the thread after I receive her email. It's likely this was all a misunderstanding.

Please don't fall for her retrospective PR exercise.  Move on. 

Nobody here likes to play God.  We simply report on good service and bad.  Getting a green review isn't actually that hard.  Lots of people have them for communicating well, showing up, and doing what they promised. 

[datwabbit]

Please don't fall for her retrospective PR exercise.  Move on. 

Nobody here likes to play God.  We simply report on good service and bad.  Getting a green review isn't actually that hard.  Lots of people have them for communicating well, showing up, and doing what they promised.

She could have said something to include
 "as we can't meet now, would you like to rearrange for another date..."
Or
"As we can't meet now and I'm unable to say when I can meet again, please watch my profile for updates and contact me again if you still want to meet "

[daviemac]

I'll update the thread after I receive her email. It's likely this was all a misunderstanding.

If you have any updates then post them on here, reviews can't be deleted as is made very clear on the post new review page.

We expect members to be sure of all the facts before posting.

[bestofthebest]

I have been sent photos which proves she was genuinely injured. She is currently being subject to abusive messages on AW as a result of this, which was never my intention. I have requested the mods on this basis to take down the thread, or update my original post with an edit to explain this.

[Kev3773]

I have been sent photos which proves she was genuinely injured. She is currently being subject to abusive messages on AW as a result of this, which was never my intention. I have requested the mods on this basis to take down the thread, or update my original post with an edit to explain this.

How did she explain the reviews she received while apparently injured, how do you know the injury was at the time she is telling you. They are very good at making things up to suit themselves, the amount of accidents/emergency family problems these girls have is "unbelievable" Read her reviews on AW there are lots of cancellations due to 'unforseen circumstances' there is a pattern to her behaviour imo.

[daviemac]

I have been sent photos which proves she was genuinely injured. She is currently being subject to abusive messages on AW as a result of this, which was never my intention. I have requested the mods on this basis to take down the thread, or update my original post with an edit to explain this.

As explained reviews are not removed at the request of service providers and we do expect members to be in possession of all the facts before posting.

After Kev's comment I've read her AW feedback and sure enough there's loads of 'didn't happen' 'cancelled at short notice due to unforeseen circumstances' feedback.

I don't believe what she's told you for one minute.

[Kev3773]

I have been sent photos which proves she was genuinely injured. She is currently being subject to abusive messages on AW as a result of this

If you believe that you are very naive.
Her number isn't showing, so the only contact is via email, how many people do you think will send an abusive message knowing they will be immediately blocked 

[williambream]

If you regret the review - and personally I think she's full of shit, just stop commenting and it will drop off the front page and die. Tomorrow there will be another review to dissect with another delusional SP

[RonBurgundy]

You seem like a nice bloke who wants to believe in people but you can't believe everyone. I am not that experienced at this but from the reviews here it seems there are some reliable SPs about and there's some liars too, just like in any group of people. The purpose of this site is for us to find out off each other, rather than always having to find out for ourselves. Anyone can read this review and thread and use their own judgement now.

You just need to listen to what a lot of these more experienced punters are saying otherwise you might get in more damaging situations where your naivety is seriously taken advantage. You can still be yourself but just a wiser self. Keep the reviews coming though.

[tynetunnel]

I stand by what I said in post #15 - Don’t engage with her anymore. Whatever she says, your review is factual and valid. She’s the one with the issues and should have had a negative in many punters opinions

Block her, and move on. Find someone who won’t mess you about and wants your money, and won’t lead you to waste cash on travel and hotels.

[FLYING BLUE]

I stand by what I said in post #15 - Don’t engage with her anymore. Whatever she says, your review is factual and valid. She’s the one with the issues and should have had a negative in many punters opinions

Block her, and move on. Find someone who won’t mess you about and wants your money, and won’t lead you to waste cash on travel and hotels.

This is very good advice IMHO 

[Hardplease]

If you have any updates then post them on here, reviews can't be deleted as is made very clear on the post new review page.

We expect members to be sure of all the facts before posting.

Just out of interest. I know and respect that reviews and ratings cannot be revised or amended, I tried to have one removed a few years ago.  What is the rationale behind this rule? I'm not challenging it just interested as to why it was introduced.

[tynetunnel]

Just out of interest. I know and respect that reviews and ratings cannot be revised or amended, I tried to have one removed a few years ago.  What is the rationale behind this rule? I'm not challenging it just interested as to why it was introduced.

Reviewers are reminded before posting (in red text) that reviews will not be removed once posted. It is for the reviewer to ensure that the facts are accurate, and meet the rules of posting. Any attempt to remove a review may be due to pressure by the WG or someone else with an interest - so because reviews cannot be removed, any such pressure is futile. Equally a punter could attempt to gain favours or blackmail a WG into providing something she might not otherwise do, or a discount, in order to have the review removed, which would be an abuse of power

I’m sure one of the mods or owners will clarify the exact rationale

[daviemac]

Just out of interest. I know and respect that reviews and ratings cannot be revised or amended, I tried to have one removed a few years ago.  What is the rationale behind this rule? I'm not challenging it just interested as to why it was introduced.

Escorts put pressure on punters to get reviews removed and once we start giving in to that the site becomes pointless, like an extension of the AW feedback system where punters don't leave negative comments for fear of getting a neg in return.

It's recommended that different user names are used on UKP and AW, use a punting phone and that punters do not tell the SP that they are members, some people don't do any of that which leaves them open to threats from SPs who don't like the review they have posted.

Had I been in the OP's shoes I would have waited until I heard back from the SP before posting the review and rated it accordingly, had she not responded within a reasonable time then I would review anyway.