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Offline Bat

I tend to research punts well in advance, build a potential list of new girls whilst keeping favourites from previous sessions high up in the mix.

Some visits are meticulously planned to coincide with existing trips or coordinated around times when I have potentially open availability.

To date I think the only spontaneous session was when a personal trip was already planned and the girl I’d pre-booked cancelled on the day. I took a punt, so to speak, on a seasoned pro and it was fun. Maybe not someone I would ever normally considered but she was simply available on 2 hours notice and in the location I was visiting.

My next 3 punts are already booked to span a 7 day period in the next 10. 2 are girls I’ve seen before and 1 is new, albeit very well reviewed here.

3 in 7 days is more than I’d normally choose but the punting gods aligned each of the days / times / locations just perfectly so I couldn’t turn these opportunities down  :yahoo:

In my case it’s almost all about timing. My opportunities are limited and I can’t just visit someone because I’m horny.

I wondered how many other people plan, and pre-book well in advance? I think my record was something like 5 weeks ahead of the meeting time!

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I usually arrange for every other day of the week, so a day off in-between, I usually set them up a few days before the end of the previous week.

That way when I get cancellations, or a 'can we move-it to another week'. I'm totally unbothered and a bit glad.

I've gone through all the established sp's in my region, so a lot now are toftt's which are inherently flakey.

Then London trips usually arrange a week in advance, most are via agencies so highly reliable so far.

Then same if a London indy cancels I don't really care since i've got secure back-ups.

This ends up averaging two a week, sometime more sometimes less, but very rarely a week without getting laid

Offline Stevelondon

Although I have booked something like a month in advance once or twice. It’s pretty rare to be honest.
I do see someone regularly now and because of circumstances I have to leave it up to her to let me know when it’s convenient. So on those occasions it can be a week or two in advance …….. usually.

All other times it’s sometimes on the day or a message sent may come back with a date a couple of days later.
I’m not confined by work or anything else really so go with my inner flow 😂

Offline big-al93

I almost always have to travel best part of an hour to punt, so tend to book at least the day before, or else I have a look at who's available on the day and decide I cba. However some that I see rarely have on the day availability so can be a week or more in advance and one is often booked 3 weeks in advance, sometimes booking 2 appointments at the same time for different weeks, or booking my next visit before I have had 1 that was already made.

Offline JonasG

Always on the day.

Very rarely in advance as plans can change from my side, never know if I can commit.

Offline Jonestown

if I want to be first through the door I might book on a Monday for later in the week, but its usually an impulse thing for me, so a lead time of one to two hours.

Offline theeaglekid

I usually see only PSEs, so it has to be a weeek to even months in advance (if international tour).
The quickest arrangement of seeing someone, was the day before.

I prefer also to be the first of the day, so that also limits.


Offline Bat

Always on the day.

Very rarely in advance as plans can change from my side, never know if I can commit.

It’s funny that we live relatively near each other (based on our reviews) and have seen quite a few of the same girls, yet our modus operandi is completely different!

Offline MissWolf

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I usually see only PSEs, so it has to be a weeek to even months in advance (if international tour).
The quickest arrangement of seeing someone, was the day before.

I prefer also to be the first of the day, so that also limits.


here we go again  :lol: :lol: :lol:
This first of the day stuff is disrespectful tbh it implies that you think they will be fresher, keener, cleaner etc

Honestly give your head a wobble,  many many escorts have husbands, partners, boyfriends, fwb, pimps who have all been there before you that day.

« Last Edit: May 20, 2023, 01:51:41 pm by MissWolf »

Offline Jonestown


here we go again  :lol: :lol: :lol:
This first of the day stuff is disrespectful tbh it implies that you think they will be fresher, keener, cleaner etc

Honestly give your head a wobble,  many many escorts have husbands, partners, boyfriends, fwb, pimps who have all been there before you that day.

Yes, here we go again, disrespectful my arse, how about live and let live ?

Offline theeaglekid


here we go again  :lol: :lol: :lol:
This first of the day stuff is disrespectful tbh it implies that you think they will be fresher, keener, cleaner etc

Honestly give your head a wobble,  many many escorts have husbands, partners, boyfriends, fwb, pimps who have all been there before you that day.

I agree with that, however that is unlikely the case for me given I usually see girls whom are touring... So chances are that they are there alone.
And I tend to see them between 9 to 11AM, it is unlikely that they may have seen anyone prior to that...
Moreover, I specifically only see PSEs (may deviate from that if the right girl is found for my body type preference, but that is rare), so my hit list is very narrowed down in comparison.

I do not think what I am suggesting is any way disrespectful. Its just a preferene and they may not even be fresh or anything - I accept that.
I have seen some later on in the afternoon as well.

« Last Edit: May 20, 2023, 02:35:59 pm by theeaglekid »

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I agree with that, however that is unlikely the case for me given I usually see girls whom are touring... So chances are that they are there alone.
And I tend to see them between 9 to 11AM, it is unlikely that they may have seen anyone prior to that...
Moreover, I specifically only see PSEs (may deviate from that if the right girl is found for my body type preference, but that is rare), so my hit list is very narrowed down in comparison.

I do not think what I am suggesting is any way disrespectful. Its just a preferene and they may not even be fresh or anything - I accept that.
I have seen some later on in the afternoon as well.
It always makes me laugh when people think booking at the advertised start time means you're first. I know of one escort who will start 1 1/2 hours earlier than advertised to fit me in if the first appointment is booked. That's just one punter with one escort, if she does it I think it's safe to say there will be others who would do the same for regs.

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I always book on the day probably an hour or two before.  I'm pretty flaky about how I will feel on the day to pre-book.

Offline theeaglekid

It always makes me laugh when people think booking at the advertised start time means you're first. I know of one escort who will start 1 1/2 hours earlier than advertised to fit me in if the first appointment is booked. That's just one punter with one escort, if she does it I think it's safe to say there will be others who would do the same for regs.

I personally never claim to be first. I prefer to be the first. But I agree with you totally - some regs will get in before or after the allocated time slots they have.

I am simply stating a preference of mine, and going for the earliest possible time is likely to indicate being first.
Can providers see people before 9AM - absolutely, but it is unlikely - I do not think that is a farfetched suggestion.

Offline hendrix

Usually only see regs, so I plan well in advance based on their availability. Overnights/trips obviously need plenty of notice for most people.

Offline Lou2019

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here we go again  :lol: :lol: :lol:
This first of the day stuff is disrespectful tbh it implies that you think they will be fresher, keener, cleaner etc

Honestly give your head a wobble,  many many escorts have husbands, partners, boyfriends, fwb, pimps who have all been there before you that day.

Don’t forget our fannies and arses are tighter earlier in the day, they get baggy after a couple of bookings  :D (obviously they don’t, but some believe so  :lol:)

Offline Strawberry

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Don’t forget our fannies and arses are tighter earlier in the day, they get baggy after a couple of bookings  :D (obviously they don’t, but some believe so  :lol:)

Start times also don't mean that a booking has been made, or the person turned up. My first and only of the day has been 8pm or 9pm, and that goes back to many years ago when I was incall based. On the other hand I remember a punter being surprised I finished for the day at 1pm being the end of his booking. I had had my then by my choice 2 booking quota and was going to use the remainder of the day to exercise, do household chores, studies, admin, have a personal life. What if an SP has a 10am 1 hour then 7pm booking, is that any different to a late evening then early morning. Also when does the off time start, is it from moment penis leaves vagina, some bookings involve by choice or ability of punter minimal sex. One regular client wanted to make me a meal, receive a massage, watch me show off in a bikini, use my feet on his cock, with lots of chat.

I know I'm being devil's advocate, but different SPs work I  different ways and bookings are not always shag fests.

Offline Lou2019

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Start times also don't mean that a booking has been made, or the person turned up. My first and only of the day has been 8pm or 9pm, and that goes back to many years ago when I was incall based. On the other hand I remember a punter being surprised I finished for the day at 1pm being the end of his booking. I had had my then by my choice 2 booking quota and was going to use the remainder of the day to exercise, do household chores, studies, admin, have a personal life. What if an SP has a 10am 1 hour then 7pm booking, is that any different to a late evening then early morning. Also when does the off time start, is it from moment penis leaves vagina, some bookings involve by choice or ability of punter minimal sex. One regular client wanted to make me a meal, receive a massage, watch me show off in a bikini, use my feet on his cock, with lots of chat.

I know I'm being devil's advocate, but different SPs work I  different ways and bookings are not always shag fests.

 :thumbsup:

Offline Bat


bookings are not always shag fests.

I know an SP that sees one guy 4 - 5 times a year and all she does is wear something sexy, not necessarily see-through but has to be lacy and pretty.

She gives him a hand job roughly once a year. Even then she remains clothed and there’s no kissing involved.

He pays her full hourly rate for this.

Offline Lou2019

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He pays her full hourly rate for this.

Our rate generally reflects to time spent with us not necessarily service based, do you think it’s unreasonable that he pays her full hourly rate for that? just curious as you mentioned it?
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I've often seen one girl, then gone to another booking straight after, not having a full shower & only washing my dick in between. Any saliva they leave on my body will still be there.

People being people hygiene varies across the board, not all people will wash as thoroughly.

Also, I would say I'm not as enthusiastic by the second or third as I am in the first, I can see that being true for some girls too, like any job a the end of the day.

As pointed out, not everyone who thinks they're first is always first, however, without a doubt sometimes they will be.

I'm not someone who's ever cared about that, however, I can see logical benefits to trying to be first, nothing to do with the sp's occupation, just the fact they're people.

Offline Bat

It always makes me laugh when people think booking at the advertised start time means you're first. I know of one escort who will start 1 1/2 hours earlier than advertised to fit me in if the first appointment is booked. That's just one punter with one escort, if she does it I think it's safe to say there will be others who would do the same for regs.

Same here. One of my regs is happy to change her daily schedule to see me. I’ve seen her both before her advertised time and also stayed well beyond her official finish time. Based on my most recent experience, this ‘last appointment of the day’ was actually the most special of any previous time I’ve seen her and she allowed some things that are clearly ‘off ratecard’ and she’s previously insisted she never did. It seemed she was just more relaxed knowing there was no one after me so she could just get into things more readily.

As you’ve said, this is a regs only offering. No idea how many that might be but my guess is that it’s in the 20’s.

Offline Bat

Our rate generally reflects to time spent with us not necessarily service based, do you think it’s unreasonable that he pays her full hourly rate for that? just curious as you mentioned it?

No, not at all. The rate is the rate. I only mentioned it as I thought some people might think it should be less and I don’t agree with that :)

Offline Lou2019

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I've often seen one girl, then gone to another booking straight after, not having a full shower & only washing my dick in between. Any saliva they leave on my body will still be there.


That’s a bit grim to be honest, but I’m a bit of a hygiene freak

Offline Lou2019

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No, not at all. The rate is the rate. I only mentioned it as I thought some people might think it should be less and I don’t agree with that :)

It’s no one else’s business really  :unknown:

Offline Bat

It’s no one else’s business really  :unknown:

Agree, but prices and perceived VFM comes up as a topic all the time here 😉

Online Cheshuk

That’s a bit grim to be honest, but I’m a bit of a hygiene freak

I'm definitely not the only guy who just scrubs their dick after sex, as an aside I do shower/bath morning and night though.

Point is, there are benefits to trying to be the first, even if they don't always come to fruition

Offline Lou2019

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Agree, but prices and perceived VFM comes up as a topic all the time here 😉

If both parties are happy that’s all that matters

Online mr.bluesky

Always on the day.

Very rarely in advance as plans can change from my side, never know if I can commit.

Likewise, always on the same day.

Offline Colston36

Usually only see regs, so I plan well in advance based on their availability. Overnights/trips obviously need plenty of notice for most people.

I plan very carefully. I am seeing a couple at the end of next week for a meeting we have planned for weeks and another on Monday arranged ten days ago. I like to ensure I shall get exactly what I want.

Offline binbag

I plan well in advance, sometimes as much as a month. I'm usually in UK for just a few days at a time so I do a lot of research, choose a few providers ,contact  them and see who's available and who is willing to make a booking that far out. Unfortunately, as has been said before, plans can change so I am sometimes disappointed. A few months ago I had 2 sessions booked with different ladies a few days apart. One had to cancel due to illness, the other had to change the day but luckily I was able to accommodate her change. Usually my schedule is so tight I've no flexibility but this time it worked out. I recently contacted someone with my suggested scenario. She seemed really enthusiastic and said she could see me in the next few days. She had missed the part of my email that said I wouldnt be in her area for a few weeks. I got back in touch a couple of times letting her know approximately when I'd be there but she hasnt responded.
 

Offline Markc


here we go again  :lol: :lol: :lol:
This first of the day stuff is disrespectful tbh it implies that you think they will be fresher, keener, cleaner etc

Honestly give your head a wobble,  many many escorts have husbands, partners, boyfriends, fwb, pimps who have all been there before you that day.

I remember once seeing a regular at 10.30am in the morning as that was only time she said she free to see me that day. I thought l be the first of the day but she told me she had already a booking at 9am and fucked her partner at home that morning before leaving for her work flat.

Offline Watts.E.Dunn

Minitues usually! Something triggers the need off and we've got to get that satisfied and right now so we see who is avaiable and go for it!

Its getting better as time goes on tho;!

Offline akauya

I very rarely plan in advance; I'm more of an opportunistic punter. If I have some free time during the day I will quickly look at who's available in the area then off I go. Not knowing who I'm going to meet, new girl, new face, new body, etc. It's the thrill of the unknown that I find very appealing. Of course sometimes it has its drawbacks but on the whole I'm happy.


Offline Hornydevil666

I just wish I had more money to "plan" 2 or 3 visits in advance 😭😭

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I used to book well in advance, like 2 weeks. But I stopped doing that because I found that I just spent 2 weeks worrying that I might catch a cold and have to cancel. I usually book quite late now to reduce the probability of having to cancel.
I couldn't give a toss about being first customer of the day but one of my regulars has let me see her as early as 8am a few times when she officially starts at 10am. This is more out of convenience than being bothered about seeing her after someone else and it's always her that suggests the earlier time because she can't fit me in for the time I originally requested. I know that she sees other punters before 10am too because once when I was booked in at 11am she contacted me to ask if I could change the booking to 9.30am. It was obvious that someone else who was originally going to see her at 9.30am had cancelled on her. I don't care if other people see her before me though. I've been her last customer of the day a couple of times.

Offline Colston36

Our rate generally reflects to time spent with us not necessarily service based, do you think it’s unreasonable that he pays her full hourly rate for that? just curious as you mentioned it?

No two ladies are alike; I see one with whom I rarely spend less than an hour and half, though only paying for the hour. Yet less than half that time is devoted to her rather extreme specialities because we are dreadful gossips.   
« Last Edit: May 21, 2023, 03:44:38 am by Colston36 »

Offline Colston36

I just wish I had more money to "plan" 2 or 3 visits in advance 😭😭

I just wish I still had the stamina. Twice a week is my limit.

Offline nightbot

I like to plan then atleast 3 days in advance, that way if I have to cancel I can still give atleast a day's notice. Some girls don't take bookings that far in advance and instead only take it on the day or the evening before, which are my least preferred methods are arranging it on the day or the evening before, especially if it requires travel, as it becomes a ball ache to sort everything out properly.

In terms of timing, I actually prefer it as late as possible and be the last. For one, it means in the summer I'm not burning up in the heat. And secondly, I kinda feel more at relaxed about the meet if the only thing the girl has to worry about after my booking is to get home/finish up. Then again maybe there's nothing to it and it's all on my head.
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Offline mattmugwump

I wondered how many other people plan, and pre-book well in advance? I think my record was something like 5 weeks ahead of the meeting time!

Depends on punting location... if I'm staying local then it's usually same day bookings due to lack of my availability, I do keep an eye out and hotlist any good 'uns but they change quite a lot here. If I know I'm going to be free then I would do a bit more planning, and possibly a day or two before book a SP.

If I'm going further afield then more research is done on AW and here, a list of SPs is drawn up a week or so in advance, and I may contact one or two if I know I'll have a specific time free otherwise I'd use the list to same day book.
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Offline Bat

One thing to add to my reasons for pre-booking, especially if it’s a girl I’ve seen before. The time between booking and actual meeting allows me to think/fantasise about the meeting. I never fap so I’m not doing this for that reason.

I just like to think about what might happen on the day. It all adds to the experience for me.

One recent SP asked me about what things I might like and we traded ‘fantasies’ in advance of the punt. She seemed quite into this and I got the feeling this was part of her service for some clients. Certainly heightened the excitement in advance and I was almost quivering with anticipation on arrival  :lol:

Offline Davey80

For me its typically a text or a WhatsApp just the day before based on what’s available then reconfirmed by both of us in the morning.

I’m a regular to London with work too and I do that a bit different - arranging with an agency like Diva a week or so out so I can get my preferred choice.

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I usually tend to book a few days in advance. I find it much easier to ensure I get to see the girl I want to see that way.

Offline jamiekinkxxx

I always research and plan well in advance... depending on the type of meet I am after this could be min a few days, maybe even longer.  :thumbsup:

Never do a same day booking as I know that is just my dik talking and having a wank save me £100's  :D

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I have a couple of regulars who tour to my area and I will book them when they announce their tours which may be six weeks in advance.

Local regulars when I have had them I would normally book a week or so in advance.

New girls who pique my interest I will try to book for the next mutually convenient time. Often the following day.

One thing that does frustrate me is girls who do not allow pre-bookings. No doubt they have good reasons but it can be really frustrating trying to see them on the day.

A couple of acquaintances who have legit businesses that operate via booked appointments have told me recently that no-shows are at an all time high so I guess that is also the case in the sex work industry.

Offline Bonker

Don’t forget our fannies and arses are tighter earlier in the day, they get baggy after a couple of bookings  :D (obviously they don’t, but some believe so  :lol:)
OK I'm one of the many. Only going by simple scienc, a basic understanding of elasticity and experience of many girlfriends over many years. I am open to being educated, enlightened, corrected.

Are your socks tighter at the end of the day?
Is one's foreskin tighter after a wank?

Offline Bat

Is one's foreskin tighter after a wank?

I have a feeling that asking Lou this question is somewhat redundant  :D

Offline Malvolio

I'm looking at flights to Berlin in October for a punting trip - so a long way in advance for some.

Other times I'll wake up on Saturday morning with the horn and see who's available today on my Adultwork hotlist.

Online Cheshuk

OK I'm one of the many. Only going by simple scienc, a basic understanding of elasticity and experience of many girlfriends over many years. I am open to being educated, enlightened, corrected.

Are your socks tighter at the end of the day?
Is one's foreskin tighter after a wank?

I'm not sure she's capable/willing to back herself up, I gave a reply and got back her usual judgemental negativity, stuck her on ignore now anyway.

I agree, experience with vaginas you ease in initially then after the initial bit can go in and out quickly, anal the same you don't force it in and it gapes after being fucked.

There may likely be occasional benefits for punters who want to be first when they achieve that, although as mentioned above they may rarely succeed.

Of the opinion let people do what makes them happy, if they not harming anyone else.

Offline Anadin

I like to have an idea the night before. I'm really only booking a few hours before the actual punt but I like to plan to be in the area if possible and have researched a plan b. I don't lock down the appointment until I'm sure I'm horny, there aren't better options and ideally I've positioned myself so I'm maybe 15 minutes away when I do make the booking.