What SP's think of you

[myothernameis]

The Asian ladies keep on telling me, I have a big cock 

[RedKettle]

The Asian ladies keep on telling me, I have a big cock 

They tell me I have a big belly   

[Malvolio]

Here’s the thing. Ever been to a sex party and stark naked being sucked off by a gal whilst she is being pounded or vice versa.
1. How do you feel the SP thinks of the gangbang crew
2. How do you feel with other guys watching you? (They may or may not be comparising penis sizes etc)

Yes I have.  My answers to your questions are I don't know and I don't care.

[Thephoenix]

The Asian ladies keep on telling me, I have a big cock 

That's a coincidence!....same for me, and they all ask if I'm married for some reason.

[haltron1991]

I try not to worry about it too much. The SP's can read us, so if I'm not shy, they tend to be less shy. I treat them politely and they generally respond in kind. If they're comfortable and happy, they do a far better job too. Little things like asking before I touch initially, gentle dirty talk, and impeccable hygiene go a long way. I'm a big ugly hairy brute but the SP's I've seen have all been wonderful, friendly, and eager to serve so far.

[Roman77]

I think if the client turns up clean with good hygiene, on time, with a friendly manner and the correct payment the SP isn't worried about shape or size as they've seen it all before.
This also needs to be reciprocated. Never mind what we look like. There's nothing worse than turning up and seeing photos look nothing like the person in front of you and are informed on arrival about a long list of extras not on the profile.

At the end of the day it's their job and all the SP is really interested in is the colour of your cash.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

That's a coincidence!....same for me, and they all ask if I'm married for some reason.

Bugger! the number of times i've been asked that by Asian, well Chinese massage prioviders, i can only conclude a lot would like someone to be there and Provide for them!..

[Markc]

To the OP as many have already said on her most SP are only interested in our money. As long as we
turn up on time, have the correct money, don’t push their boundaries and treat them with respect you
will normally get a good service. They don’t really worry what we look like or our performance during sex.

One regular l have seen for about 15 years says she enjoys seeing guys over 50 as they have more life
experience and tend to enjoy more of the GFE and some of them she spends more time with them talking
and relaxing than actually have sex with them. She said she always enjoys bookings from guys in the 20’s
but they normally want a fuck feast and want sex non stop during the session as they have the stamina and
want to get their money worth. She is 48 years old. She also enjoys the life style and the money it gives her as now she works from home and only works about 10 hours a week but makes twice what l do working full- time.

I also seen a number of women from agencies and l always book the same type of SP. A woman in her 20’s and blonde.
I have many great experiences with them normally outcall bookings to the hotel l am staying at and l am normally twice there age.

[jesse4585]

I think this is happening to me now. Last SP reported kept saying I was young and didn't think much of it. I wasn't provided the service the reports on said on the site, yet my hygiene is good. Not sure if they are doing the least because they think my age comes with naivety, or because they find it awkward due to my age. I get YMMV, but fuck me if I'm getting suspicious now.

Thanks for the further verification of the 'middle age is golden punting age' theory.  It's not going to be all WG's that look down on youth, must be lots out there who prefer younger guys same as most young civy lasses do.  You're getting better at finding those ones in time. Maybe you'd do better on Seeking, that's where I'd focus my efforts on were I younger & had the cash.   Gaining experience & more confidence will help too. (not that you come across as the shy type, you don't, but more normally helps as long as you dont seem so over confident you're oblivious.)

[Puntingutils]

Thanks for the further verification of the 'middle age is golden punting age' theory.  It's not going to be all WG's that look down on youth, must be lots out there who prefer younger guys same as most young civy lasses do.  You're getting better at finding those ones in time. Maybe you'd do better on Seeking, that's where I'd focus my efforts on were I younger & had the cash.   

Thanks for the advice! Seeking seems to require more effort on my part, especially when you want to meet with multiple people, instead of than just making an hour booking on the day and be done with it. Then again never done it, but I'll stick with finding young-compatlible SP's for now.

Gaining experience & more confidence will help too. (not that you come across as the shy type, you don't, but more normally helps as long as you dont seem so over confident you're oblivious.)

I think some may have been me getting shafted by a lack of experience by not confirming the type of kissing prior the exchange, as kissing is an ambiguous term on the agency site - but when other reports have of the same SP and they DFK's and I'm initiating more tongue/open mouth but getting resistance . And the fact the last SP( an AW) DFK's and is all over you the moment you enter, mentions I'm young a several times(but might be because she don't know what else to say), and my service is the outlier in the forumn, seems fishy.

[Bonker]

They all tell me I've got a tiny cock.
And ask if I've been single all my life.

[pantywetter]

It’s never really crossed my mind.

If I pay for a plumber to come and unblock my toilet I couldn’t care less if he thinks I’m fat and ugly.

Exactly the same feeling towards a hooker.  I’m paying her a lot of money to fuck & suck.

I’d like to be seen as a nice guy in all interactions in life, so that’s more important than the physical side.   

[Stevelondon]

They all tell me I've got a tiny cock.
And ask if I've been single all my life.

They all tell me you’ve got a tiny cock too. 

[Vice Admiral]

SP's all think that I'm great,
They say I'm their favourite date
– But they think you're a perv
They reluctantly serve
'Cos they gotta put food on their plate!

[Maak]

To the OP as many have already said on her most SP are only interested in our money. As long as we
turn up on time, have the correct money, don’t push their boundaries and treat them with respect you
will normally get a good service. They don’t really worry what we look like or our performance during sex.

One regular l have seen for about 15 years says she enjoys seeing guys over 50 as they have more life
experience and tend to enjoy more of the GFE and some of them she spends more time with them talking
and relaxing than actually have sex with them. She said she always enjoys bookings from guys in the 20’s
but they normally want a fuck feast and want sex non stop during the session as they have the stamina and
want to get their money worth. She is 48 years old. She also enjoys the life style and the money it gives her as now she works from home and only works about 10 hours a week but makes twice what l do working full- time.

I also seen a number of women from agencies and l always book the same type of SP. A woman in her 20’s and blonde.
I have many great experiences with them normally outcall bookings to the hotel l am staying at and l am normally twice there age.

 

Of course she enjoys seeing older gents than younger lads. She wants to get away with having the least sex as possible

[Bat]

I have 3 girls I see relatively regularly where I pay for an hour and stay at least 2 and often up to 3. I don’t think they ‘fancy’ me particularly, we just get on really well and any kind of clock watching goes out the window.

It might sound like a cliche but I try to treat them in exactly the same way they treat me - in fact, there’s 1 girl where it’s almost as if I’m the SP in the relationship. To be fair, I happen to love this and it’s something I really enjoy.

I genuinely hope that the girls I see like me as a person but I totally realise they are professionals. In return, I try to always be on time, clean, shaved (face and balls, the latter not totally!) hair cut, teeth brushed and a mouthwash, fresh clean clothes and, of course, with the correct cash in my pocket. None of this really requires much work but it makes me feel like I’ve at least put some effort in because I absolutely expect the girl to have done the same.

[Doc Holliday]

- in fact, there’s 1 girl where it’s almost as if I’m the SP in the relationship.

Lost me there?

[Bonker]

I think he means - the girl enjoys it so much that he feels he's servicing her.

Why I'm replying on his behalf, I don't know.  But it's done now.

[Charliehutton]

SP's all think that I'm great,
They say I'm their favourite date
– But they think you're a perv
They reluctantly serve
'Cos they gotta put food on their plate!

 

[Bat]

I think he means - the girl enjoys it so much that he feels he's servicing her.

Why I'm replying on his behalf, I don't know.  But it's done now.

Exactly this, we have a kind of arrangement where she will always come twice, once on my face and once from vaginal sex, before I even think about it for myself. It’s a mutual pleasure thing and, to be fair, she comes from RO relatively quickly, but she absolutely ‘uses’ me for both of those orgasms without particularly thinking about what I’m getting from it.

[SALIBA]

Depends on the WG's nationality too. I get the impression a lot of the foreign ones (especially the ones sending money back home) hate us.
But, no doubt there will be attractive guys out there who WGs will take a fancy too. I've come across (no pun intended) a small few who have told me they found me attractive and I think 1 or 2 of them genuinely meant it.  but it's still a transaction at the end of the day. The last thing you want in general is to catch feelings for them so treat it as such.

[Thephoenix]

They all tell me I've got a tiny cock.
And ask if I've been single all my life.

I'm sure that's more than compensated by the use of your legendary 'Bonker's Buggerer' as illustrated.

[Doc Holliday]

Exactly this, we have a kind of arrangement where she will always come twice, once on my face and once from vaginal sex, before I even think about it for myself. It’s a mutual pleasure thing and, to be fair, she comes from RO relatively quickly, but she absolutely ‘uses’ me for both of those orgasms without particularly thinking about what I’m getting from it.

Always? Sounds very choreographed to me? She is 'orgasming to order' to suit the arrangement you want. Orgasms generally don't work that way. If you think she is 'using you' just ask her would she waive her payment.

Sorry to question you, but I think you are maybe deluding yourself?

[IndigoRocks]

Always? Sounds very choreographed to me? She is 'orgasming to order' to suit the arrangement you want. Orgasms generally don't work that way. If you think she is 'using you' just ask her would she waive her payment.

Sorry to question you, but I think you are maybe deluding yourself?

Agreed.

[Bat]

Always? Sounds very choreographed to me? She is 'orgasming to order' to suit the arrangement you want. Orgasms generally don't work that way. If you think she is 'using you' just ask her would she waive her payment.

Sorry to question you, but I think you are maybe deluding yourself?

The exact order and intensity changes each time I see her. I guess there is some choreography at play inasmuch as I try to make this happen twice before I come but the exact order of ‘play’ changes every time with lots of different positions, and even locations.

She has officially retired from the game and I’m her only client so that probably has an effect as well. Each appointment usually includes an hour or so chatting beforehand and then something similar afterwards. We’ve even been on what could be described as a ‘date’ which didn’t include any sex at all and, of course, no money changed hands.

We’ve also discussed going away together for a weekend where I would pay for travel, accommodation and meals, but no money would be exchanged directly between us.

I guess it’s an odd arrangement but it seems to work for both of us. I suppose I could try asking about not paying but then it would be getting a bit close to seeing a mistress rather than someone who provides paid services.

I feel the payment allows us both to keep some kind of distance between us and avoids other complications.

[PaulRuff]

How do you know she's retired by the way?

[Bat]

How do you know she's retired by the way?

I was introduced to her privately by a mutual friend who thought we would hit it off. She was the initial person that told me her friend had retired.

All of her public profiles were removed approximately 3 years ago. Of course, she could have told the same story to multiple people but I find this hard to accept.

We went to the same school, used to live near each other, I know lots of detail about her and her immediate family and have even visited her at some of those locations.

It all feels like way too much information to have shared with multiple guys.

[Payyourwaymate]

The exact order and intensity changes each time I see her. I guess there is some choreography at play inasmuch as I try to make this happen twice before I come but the exact order of ‘play’ changes every time with lots of different positions, and even locations.

She has officially retired from the game and I’m her only client so that probably has an effect as well. Each appointment usually includes an hour or so chatting beforehand and then something similar afterwards. We’ve even been on what could be described as a ‘date’ which didn’t include any sex at all and, of course, no money changed hands.

We’ve also discussed going away together for a weekend where I would pay for travel, accommodation and meals, but no money would be exchanged directly between us.

I guess it’s an odd arrangement but it seems to work for both of us. I suppose I could try asking about not paying but then it would be getting a bit close to seeing a mistress rather than someone who provides paid services.

I feel the payment allows us both to keep some kind of distance between us and avoids other complications.

This seems far more beneficial to her than yourself to be honest. Of course she will do what she can to keep you around.

[Bat]

This seems far more beneficial to her than yourself to be honest. Of course she will do what she can to keep you around.

I can see what you’re saying but it doesn’t bother me that I’m paying for it. It feels beneficial for both of us. We both have a few ‘dark’ secrets that we’ve shared and this is something of an outlet for us. I’m sure that, at some point, one or other of us will decide it’s not a viable relationship but it certainly works for us at the moment.

[Doc Holliday]

I guess it’s an odd arrangement but it seems to work for both of us.

Thanks for the reply. It's not especially odd, some SPs will not retire totally, but still keep the odd punter or two (or six) for a bit of extra money, in this case such as yourself. These are usually punters who, as regulars, have proved reliable, 'hassle free' and 'easy in the room'. In order to not lose you (as being retired they would struggle to replace you) then you will be treated well.

I feel the payment allows us both to keep some kind of distance between us and avoids other complications.

It can. This thread is about what SP's really think about us. Your perception is she is using you for sex. If that was the case then the acid test is to remove the payment. In fact it would normally be at the SP's instigation.  Only then will you know how she really thinks about you.

Anyway If you are happy with the arrangement, then I wish you well as ultimately that is all that matters 

[Jonestown]

I was introduced to her privately by a mutual friend who thought we would hit it off. She was the initial person that told me her friend had retired.

All of her public profiles were removed approximately 3 years ago. Of course, she could have told the same story to multiple people but I find this hard to accept.

We went to the same school, used to live near each other, I know lots of detail about her and her immediate family and have even visited her at some of those locations.

It all feels like way too much information to have shared with multiple guys.

……. I’m the only one …….

Wish I had a pound for every punter who has ever thought that

[Lastfour1479]

I'll tell you what they think, as I live with one. If your polite, clean and on-time it's a good start. They arent bothered about size, smaller the better. They french kiss as it's part of the service, but they don't like it. They don't really want that, or look at your face. That's why they do reverse cowgirl and doggy 😀. Their favourite view is closing the door behind you when you leave. They hate you chewing on their flaps, asking for discount and pinching time.

[Steely Dan]

They arent bothered about size, smaller the better.

These can't both be true.

[gbyld87]

I'll tell you what they think, as I live with one. If your polite, clean and on-time it's a good start. They arent bothered about size, smaller the better. They french kiss as it's part of the service, but they don't like it. They don't really want that, or look at your face. That's why they do reverse cowgirl and doggy 😀. Their favourite view is closing the door behind you when you leave. They hate you chewing on their flaps, asking for discount and pinching time.

Coincidentally, I hate them asking for extras and pinching time.  Who knew!

[Doc Holliday]

I'll tell you what they think, as I live with one.

You cannot really extrapolate what 'they' think based on 'one'. That said I am going to contradict myself, by saying her view of punters is not uncommon, but the spectrum of SS/SP interactions is vast. In addition whatever an individual SP's view is, will not apply to all punters she she's.

What does the one under your roof think of you?

This topic is really one of those "how long is a piece of string questions?"

[Malvolio]

I genuinely hope that the girls I see like me as a person but I totally realise they are professionals. In return, I try to always be on time, clean, shaved (face and balls, the latter not totally!) hair cut, teeth brushed and a mouthwash, fresh clean clothes and, of course, with the correct cash in my pocket. None of this really requires much work but it makes me feel like I’ve at least put some effort in because I absolutely expect the girl to have done the same.

You expect the SP to have shaved their balls?  That's fair enough if you've made the effort to trim your undercarriage.

[Bat]

You expect the SP to have shaved their balls?  That's fair enough if you've made the effort to trim your undercarriage.

Depends if it’s a TS or not 

[Lastfour1479]

Oh, and fluffy guys with EAS

[Payyourwaymate]

I'll tell you what they think, as I live with one. If your polite, clean and on-time it's a good start. They arent bothered about size, smaller the better. They french kiss as it's part of the service, but they don't like it. They don't really want that, or look at your face. That's why they do reverse cowgirl and doggy 😀. Their favourite view is closing the door behind you when you leave. They hate you chewing on their flaps, asking for discount and pinching time.

That all goes out of the window when they get on with the guy or are sexually attracted to him. She did not tell you that either?

The series of positive reviews where posters believe the chemistry is genuine is all just good acting on every single SPs part?
Posters talking about how they got more time or extras for one reason or another without money exchanging hands whilst other posters who have seen the same SP but did not, is all part of the service too?

1 is not enough to extrapolate such conclusions of how they think across all clients, though some observations maybe evident. The only potential issue, is that some posters seeing a few examples of posters getting more than they bargained for may, lead to some thinking they can also get the same with the SP, causing eventual grief for both parties in the end.

[alabama1]

I have 3 girls I see relatively regularly where I pay for an hour and stay at least 2 and often up to 3. I don’t think they ‘fancy’ me particularly, we just get on really well and any kind of clock watching goes out the window.

It might sound like a cliche but I try to treat them in exactly the same way they treat me - in fact, there’s 1 girl where it’s almost as if I’m the SP in the relationship. To be fair, I happen to love this and it’s something I really enjoy.

I genuinely hope that the girls I see like me as a person but I totally realise they are professionals. In return, I try to always be on time, clean, shaved (face and balls, the latter not totally!) hair cut, teeth brushed and a mouthwash, fresh clean clothes and, of course, with the correct cash in my pocket. None of this really requires much work but it makes me feel like I’ve at least put some effort in because I absolutely expect the girl to have done the same.

Do they have any say in the matter 

[Bat]

Do they have any say in the matter 

Absolutely. I am more of a clock watcher than any of them and always respect their time-keeping

I will check the time regularly and say that I should get going. With these particular SPs they’ll either join me in getting dressed etc or simply say there’s no rush and/or suggest a leaving time. As an example, the most recent session should have finished at 1 and when I mentioned going the SP said she was free until 3. We eventually, and mutually, dressed together at 3:15.

[alabama1]

Absolutely. I am more of a clock watcher than any of them and always respect their time-keeping

I will check the time regularly and say that I should get going. With these particular SPs they’ll either join me in getting dressed etc or simply say there’s no rush and/or suggest a leaving time. As an example, the most recent session should have finished at 1 and when I mentioned going the SP said she was free until 3. We eventually, and mutually, dressed together at 3:15.

Fair play. There can't be many WG's like that about. 

[Bat]

Fair play. There can't be many WG's like that about. 

I think it’s mostly a combination of the type of girls I tend to see and some fortuitous timing. One girl isn’t working with any regularity and when we see each other it is pretty close to a GFE inasmuch as we’ll natter over a glass, or two, of wine for an hour, adjourn to the bedroom and then continue nattering (but without clothes on) for another hour. It’s quite clear between us that it’s a transactional session with money changing hands, but for the time we’re together there’s no real clock watching going on. In this instance, I’m always the one who suggests time is up and I should get out the door 😂

It probably helps that I work in an industry where personal relationships are key to successful business. I know the names of many of my clients’ and colleagues’ wives, kids etc. I know what sports they’re interested in, which teams they support, what car they drive, where they go on holiday etc etc. After doing this for a few decades, quite literally, I can either natter about almost any subject going or simply sit and listen attentively. Helps to build a fairly quick rapport with some girls.

Of course, others are not like this at all and I’m out the door bang on time with a goodbye peck on the cheek 

[willie loman]

I think it’s mostly a combination of the type of girls I tend to see and some fortuitous timing. One girl isn’t working with any regularity and when we see each other it is pretty close to a GFE inasmuch as we’ll natter over a glass, or two, of wine for an hour, adjourn to the bedroom and then continue nattering (but without clothes on) for another hour. It’s quite clear between us that it’s a transactional session with money changing hands, but for the time we’re together there’s no real clock watching going on. In this instance, I’m always the one who suggests time is up and I should get out the door 😂

It probably helps that I work in an industry where personal relationships are key to successful business. I know the names of many of my clients’ and colleagues’ wives, kids etc. I know what sports they’re interested in, which teams they support, what car they drive, where they go on holiday etc etc. After doing this for a few decades, quite literally, I can either natter about almost any subject going or simply sit and listen attentively. Helps to build a fairly quick rapport with some girls.

Of course, others are not like this at all and I’m out the door bang on time with a goodbye peck on the cheek 

with your social skills i am amazed you have to pay for sex, many of us  get extra time,  in truth few of them have any pressing business to attend to, but accept the fact that what you really bring to the table is money.

[alabama1]

with your social skills i am amazed you have to pay for sex, many of us  get extra time,  in truth few of them have any pressing business to attend to, but accept the fact that what you really bring to the table is money.

Are you really saying that punters don't have social skills ???

[Bat]

Are you really saying that punters don't have social skills ???

I’m sure that some of us do and some of us don’t.

Some of us ‘choose’ to pay for sex and I’m guessing others ‘have’ to.

I’d think you and I fall into the former category and those choosing to rejoin with petty comments fall into the latter. . .

[willie loman]

I’m sure that some of us do and some of us don’t.

Some of us ‘choose’ to pay for sex and I’m guessing others ‘have’ to.

I’d think you and I fall into the former category and those choosing to rejoin with petty comments fall into the latter. . .

am quite relaxed about my place on the sexual pecking order, just bored with people boasting about how they are so hot they get an extra 15 minutes or so forth, as so many have observed over the years, ask for a free fuck, and see where it gets you.

[Bonker]

I have excellent social skills. The comedic potency of Billy Connelly and the charm of Dean Martin.

But I look like the illegimate offspring of Peter Beardsley and Kathy Burke.

Despite this, I can fuck a pretty 20 year old.

[Bat]

am quite relaxed about my place on the sexual pecking order

Yet you continue to try and criticise others for their experiences - somewhat oxymoronic. . .

[cunningman]

I think it’s mostly a combination of the type of girls I tend to see and some fortuitous timing. One girl isn’t working with any regularity and when we see each other it is pretty close to a GFE inasmuch as we’ll natter over a glass, or two, of wine for an hour, adjourn to the bedroom and then continue nattering (but without clothes on) for another hour. It’s quite clear between us that it’s a transactional session with money changing hands, but for the time we’re together there’s no real clock watching going on. In this instance, I’m always the one who suggests time is up and I should get out the door 😂

It seems to me that this has transitioned to SD/SB.  With a good SB.  In effect.

It is indeed a much nicer place to be.  Lucky you.