But it was a comment about killing her not a comment about criticism.
Yes I probably a being pedantic, but in these circumstances I think words matter.
I get it, but the comment I was responding to was "What a horrible thing to say about anybody,
let alone an 80 year old lady.". I thought my comment stating that the circumstances of her death were utterly, utterly appalling was important.
Nobody deserves it. So to be very clear, I reject kayak's statement. My response was ONLY about someone using the reason of her being "an old lady" to shield her from criticism. I guess technically it was bolstering defence from criticism rather than shielding. We all get old, but age is no reason to hide from criticism of what we have done in the past, especially in this case when age was clearly not preventing the now deceased from still doing what they always did.