Relationships With Working Girls

[sentinel]

If you really feel that there is space and a desire in your life for extra-marital sex then pack her in and see another escort.

Hopefully you won't get emotional about the next one, and might not risk losing your marriage, home, friends and possibly even your children if you have any.

There's very little loyalty in the escorting biz and she might dump you as soon as another punter with more money came along.

[Josh Klinghoffer]

Nutley, you need to have a very open and honest conversation with her. Does she see you as just friends that have fun fucking, or what? Ask her if she is interested in a date, no money / sex involved. I do honestly believe that it is very possible to have a relationship with someone, even if their job involves sex, and even if from your point of view, it's going to be an affair.
However, working girls are just people, and even civvie women (or men) can be manipulative and out for what they can get.  It really does depend on whether you think you trust her, and what she says / does in response.
If she says "I will never take a penny off you from here to evermore", then that's a good start.
If there is any shortfall in ANY of the above, then be prepared to be taken for a ride and have it cost you thousands

[nutley]

I don't think that she fancies me at all. She acknowledges the sex is good but she is submissive and likes my control over what I want in bed. I'm 20 yrs her senior so I couldn't see it working out. Plus an affair for me is riskier than punting so I think I'm going to stop seeing her. Not texted her since I last saw her (tues) so think it's time to move on.. Although the sex is nigh on perfect for me.. Which keeps tempting me back.. Why would I punt with another WG when the sex will be nowhere nr as good??

[Barry Shipton]

Sounds like you've painted yourself into a 'no sex' corner there Nutley. Break off seeing her, can't risk an affair, and no other WG will be as good so no more punting.
Which sounds like the only option left is encourage the Mrs to host an Ann Summers party and hope she gets some gifts to spice up your bedroom gymnastics.

[JV547845]

Why would I punt with another WG when the sex will be nowhere nr as good??

Variety is the spice of life.

[nutley]

Ha ha ha..

[berksboy]

     The only good relationship to have with a working girl is find her-pay her- fuck her - leave her .

[sentinel]

Anyway what's wrong with just sticking with the Mrs.

Escorting has to be risky for a married guy with so many STD's going around.

[LostInMackemLand]

I don't think that she fancies me at all. She acknowledges the sex is good but she is submissive and likes my control over what I want in bed. I'm 20 yrs her senior so I couldn't see it working out. Plus an affair for me is riskier than punting so I think I'm going to stop seeing her. Not texted her since I last saw her (tues) so think it's time to move on.. Although the sex is nigh on perfect for me.. Which keeps tempting me back.. Why would I punt with another WG when the sex will be nowhere nr as good??

Link ?

[Karl123456]

If she was a proper sort id not care

[TallPaul]

Met a WG years ago that I would see probably too much. Was a tad infatuated with her. She told me she had feelings too but every relationship she had been it always ended because of her career and in her experience no one could cope with circumstances and that current partner did because of their child.

If I see the odd hottie now then I may go for a 2nd or 3rd booking but in general I'm older and wiser and prefer a bit of variety to my punting.