Interesting, 13 and 20 years, that’s longer than most people stay married now, I had no idea girls stayed in the business that long. Currently there is one girl I’ve seen on and off for about four years, I might have a bout of seeing her every few weeks, then disappearing for several months. Usually I’ll meet a girl and think this is the best ever, this is all I need, then after half a dozen visits or so I slope off, partly boredom/predictability, partly embarrassment at thinking she goes, oh no, not him again. I used to have most days of the week covered by a reliable option, so if the opportunity or desire for a punt arose I knew who to call, but these days it’s impossible to keep your dance card more than half full with regular and reliable providers.