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Offline Liverpool

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Recently (the last few weeks) I've had trouble sleeping so anyone got any suggestions for good sleep?

I don't drink coffee or eat late at night.
I don't live on a busy street or have noisy neighbours.
I don't get that stressed about things like health, wealth etc.

So any suggestions would be greatly received. Cheers!

Offline silverspoon

Try meditation,some useful vids on you tube

Offline mr.bluesky

A soak in a warm bath before bed, a hot milky drink always helps me. Perhaps change your mattress or fit a mattress topper if your mattress is a bit old and uncomfortable. Herbal sleeping tablets from Boots if all else fails.
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Offline myothernameis

Recently (the last few weeks) I've had trouble sleeping so anyone got any suggestions for good sleep?

Maybe also try and find out if there anything medical, which could cause this

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Test a blood test for vitamin levels. Vitamin imbalances can cause sleep problems especially durijg the autumn and winter months when we don't get enough sunlight to allow our bodies to produce vitamins like vitamin D.

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Thanks all. Will try all of these and see what works.  :thumbsup:

Offline Tokidoe

Recently (the last few weeks) I've had trouble sleeping so anyone got any suggestions for good sleep?

I don't drink coffee or eat late at night.
I don't live on a busy street or have noisy neighbours.
I don't get that stressed about things like health, wealth etc.

So any suggestions would be greatly received. Cheers!

Just curious, is trouble sleeping to do with a poor quality of sleep (things like not going into deep sleep or bad sleep timing) or are you failing to “fall asleep”?

I had something along the lines of failing to fall asleep not too long ago and took some valerian root pills off the shelf in store. Didn’t work that well to begin with but developed a routine to time myself with it and worked pretty well after and went off, back to normal for me now but it did take me 3 weeks at least, so it could be placebo.
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Try meditation,some useful vids on you tube

I recently read an article about the way the military advises soldiers how to sleep when they're in a combat zone. Just Google it.

It is based around meditation principles.

I sometimes have nights when my brain is going at 100mph, I tried the military technique and it works. I might have to repeat the process a few times when my brain just won't let up.

Offline Blackpool Rock

Recently (the last few weeks) I've had trouble sleeping so anyone got any suggestions for good sleep?

I don't drink coffee or eat late at night.
I don't live on a busy street or have noisy neighbours.
I don't get that stressed about things like health, wealth etc.

So any suggestions would be greatly received. Cheers!
As someone else asked are you struggling to fall asleep or waking up  :unknown:

I've previously heard that worry stops you getting to sleep but stress wakes you up, worry and stress are different animals.

Apparently if you are warm and cooling down then it can help you to fall asleep so as suggested perhaps have a hot drink (without caffeine) before bed or make sure the room is warm, i've started using an electric blanket which is great and far cheaper than using the central heating, put it on full so the bed is hot to get in then turn it off or right down so it cools after you get in  :thumbsup:

Offline Jumping Jack Flash

Limit your use of phones and tablets/laptops for an hour before you go to bed.

I have an echo dot next to my bed and I tell it to “play music to help me sleep for 30 minutes”. What follows is the most soothing background music that helps me drift off and I sleep all night.


Offline Rick2468

You mentioned not drinking coffee late at night. I suggest not having caffeine at all after lunch time. Someone suggested that to me once and I think it has helped.

Offline standardpostage

Physical exercise and fresh air helps.

Getting your body tired is required.

EG walking, running, swimming, gardening, outdoor stuff.

The above helps me  :hi:

Offline mikecee

Twelve pints of Stella works for me.

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as mentioned above physical exercise is good and all of us here know what the best sort of exercise is !

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Good workout session with a hot burd:-)))

Offline george r

A bottle of red wine works for me  :thumbsup: but have found I don't sleep as well as when I was younger?

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Recently (the last few weeks) I've had trouble sleeping so anyone got any suggestions for good sleep?

I don't drink coffee or eat late at night.
I don't live on a busy street or have noisy neighbours.
I don't get that stressed about things like health, wealth etc.

So any suggestions would be greatly received. Cheers!

Have you any previous history of sleep disorders or is your sleep usually normal? If the latter are you aware of anything that has changed in your life or lifestyle recently?

As others have asked do you get to sleep ok, but then wake up? Or do you struggle to get to sleep?

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A bottle of red wine works for me  :thumbsup: but have found I don't sleep as well as when I was younger?

Alcohol is not the answer. It's sedative effect will help induce sleep but will tend to wake you during the second half of the night. Longer term alcohol consumption may well worsen sleep disorders.

Offline mr.bluesky

Alcohol is not the answer. It's sedative effect will help induce sleep but will tend to wake you during the second half of the night. Longer term alcohol consumption may well worsen sleep disorders.

If I consume any amount of alcohol before bedtime I have to get up two or three times during the night to have a pee. Is that why they call it the wee hours   :D

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If I consume any amount of alcohol before bedtime I have to get up two or three times during the night to have a pee. Is that why they call it the wee hours   :D

Tea is my drink of choice. Some nights I get up 3 or more times to have a pee, other nights (e.g. last night) I slept the whole night through. I try to curtail drinking anything around 2-3 hours before I go to sleep.

I concur with Doc re alcohol, it's not a long term solution and consuming sufficient amounts to make you sleep, will most likely lead to other long term problems.

The sleep sounds that you can play on Echo devices I find useful too.

Offline dexpunt

A masseuse told me recently that Lavender either in a candle form or sprayed on a pillow really helps. I am going to give it a go soon and I must admit I almost dropped off on a few occasions when I was in her salon

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Some nights I get up 3 or more times to have a pee, other nights (e.g. last night) I slept the whole night through.

If the 3 times or more becomes a regular thing you might want to think about gettting checked for diabetes or prostate issues, just a suggestion.

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Wow, cheers for the responses.

So will try and answer questions put to me. Apologies if I miss anyone's.

So I have trouble getting off to sleep even if I'm tired.

I have tried a hot room and that doesn't work for me. Much prefer a cooler room.

I drive a lot for work so I don't drink a lot of alcohol anyway (I could count on one hand the amount of pints I had in 2022).

No history of sleep disorders.

I've tried soothing music but found I'd listen to it and not go to sleep.
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Offline Private Parts

I’ve just renewed my mattress after 8 years. Not cheap but what value sleep?
£1000+ is a small amount to pay.
I also always have a window open in the bedrooms. Fresh air makes for nourishing sleep.  :hi:

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If the 3 times or more becomes a regular thing you might want to think about gettting checked for diabetes or prostate issues, just a suggestion.

I get checked every year, all good, thankfully.

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Your bedroom is supposed to be cool to encourage your body to slow down and relax.

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Twelve pints of Stella works for me.
   
You wuss, fifteen pints of real ale does the trick!    :drinks::D

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Try the army's technique to quickly fall asleep wherever you are.

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Try the army's technique to quickly fall asleep wherever you are.

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Same thing that I posted

Offline Blackpool Rock

Wow, cheers for the responses.

So will try and answer questions put to me. Apologies if I miss anyone's.

So I have trouble getting off to sleep even if I'm tired.

I have tried a hot room and that doesn't work for me. Much prefer a cooler room.

I drive a lot for work so I don't drink a lot of alcohol anyway (I could count on one hand the amount of pints I had in 2022).

No history of sleep disorders.

I've tried soothing music but found I'd listen to it and not go to sleep.
Now i'm wondering if you struggle waking up in the morning  :unknown:

A friend of mine used to say he has problems in "changing state" so sleeping from being awake or waking from sleeping

I believe they also class some people as night owls or early birds
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Personally I tend to wake early but really struggle to stay awake in the evening, no point in me sitting down to watch a film in the evening as 10 minutes in and i'm sparko so watch it on catch up the following morning at 4.30  :drinks:

Offline sir wanksalot

Wow, cheers for the responses.

So will try and answer questions put to me. Apologies if I miss anyone's.

So I have trouble getting off to sleep even if I'm tired.

I have tried a hot room and that doesn't work for me. Much prefer a cooler room.

I drive a lot for work so I don't drink a lot of alcohol anyway (I could count on one hand the amount of pints I had in 2022).

No history of sleep disorders.

I've tried soothing music but found I'd listen to it and not go to sleep.

Just read the entire content of the "Hypersonics and defence ecoonomics" thread on this forum. That'll do the trick. Only kidding............not really!  :lol:

What about white noise. Find an app on your phone that plays white noise. That can often help

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Now i'm wondering if you struggle waking up in the morning  :unknown:


Think I'm going to have to see my GP as I always get up on my alarm and rarely sleep in.

Thanks everyone for your suggestions.
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Think I'm going to have to see my GP as I always get up on my alarm and rarely sleep in.

Thanks everyone for your suggestions.
I had a bout of this a few years ago. Turned out I needed more vitamin D. I had the vitamin D and it fixed it.

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Think I'm going to have to see my GP as I always get up on my alarm and rarely sleep in.

Thanks everyone for your suggestions.

Apologies for late reply.

Your GP is a good call assuming he/she is clued up (it is complex) and also assuming you can get to speak to them!!

If you have no history of sleep disorders then this would be considered as an acute episode at this stage and I would be optimistic it is temporary.

The good news is it appears once you do get to sleep it continues until the alarm wakes you and that means there is less chance of there being an underlying medical condition causing it. Your GP is best placed to advise on this as they will also have access to your history and any medication.

It is probable the trigger is something has changed in your life recently, but pinning it down is not always obvious and can be difficult. It could be just a change of routine or raised anxiety about something. This can be minor, but of course once you have issues getting to sleep, this in turn raises anxiety levels about sleep which increases your hyperarousal and you end up in a cycle.

The fact you have started this thread suggest it is worrying you which is understandable.

I had never had any real problems with sleep until some years ago a complex set of circumstances all came together at the same time including an unusual reaction to an OTC medication, resulting in my sleep deteriorating rapidly. At one point I had no sleep at all for over two months.  Fortunately I had at that point retired.

Best wishes





 
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A hard days graft should do the trick.  :drinks:

Offline mr.bluesky

A hard days graft should do the trick.  :drinks:

Or join a gym . A much preferable option. Get yourself fit and gives you the opportunity to oggle any fit gym bunnies that my go there which then makes you feel horny and want to punt more  :wacko:
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I watched this podcast recently and found it interesting - it's an interview with a sleep expert.

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Coincidentally I had already spontaneously tried one of the techniques discussed - remembering a walk I know very well step by step, and it has been useful for me.

Another approach I have used succesfully in the past is to remember a punt.

Anything that is calming, I think.

Hope you get some sleep - watching a 50 minute podcast might help!

(Listening to his accent I guessed he is also a Scouser - looked up his bio, and yes, he is!  :D )
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Decaffeinated coffee only
No Alcohol
No screens at bedtime
Listen to a podcast

The above have worked for me, good luck OP
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Offline mr.bluesky

I watched this podcast recently and found it interesting - it's an interview with a sleep expert.

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Coincidentally I had already spontaneously tried one of the techniques discussed - remembering a walk I know very well step by step, and it has been useful for me.

Another approach I have used succesfully in the past is to remember a punt.

Anything that is calming, I think.

Hope you get some sleep - watching a 50 minute podcast might help!

(Listening to his accent I guessed he is also a Scouser - looked up his bio, and yes, he is!  :D )

I sometimes re call a recent football match my team played recently that usually sends me to sleep 😴  as it did at the time.   :D

Offline lostandfound

I sometimes re call a recent football match my team played recently that usually sends me to sleep 😴  as it did at the time.   :D

Liverpool fans don't even need to go to sleep to have nightmares!  :scare:  :D

Offline Thephoenix

Liverpool fans don't even need to go to sleep to have nightmares!  :scare:  :D

Yes and they're getting worse! :(

Offline lostandfound

Yes and they're getting worse! :(

You must be looking forward to the derby!?

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You must be looking forward to the derby!?
If Everton play like they did against Arsenal, I might need some anti depressants. :rolleyes:

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If Everton play like they did against Arsenal, I might need some anti depressants. :rolleyes:

You would think that Liverpool on a bad day would still have enough about them to beat Everton on a good day  :unknown:

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green noise works for me - plenty of videos on YouTube - also could try the other sounds like storm and crackling fireplace -
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