So you would be happy for your partner(s) to be male escorts or porn stars?
Let's remove romance from the discussion as well as any deception for a level playing field. Let's concentrate on defining fun?
Do you never derive enjoyment from sex while you are working?
Yes, I would actually be fine with that. Some of the best longest lasting SP couples are both sex workers themselves in my experience, although I’ve only known lesbian SP-SP couples (power couples?) in real life.
There’s more money in male stripping, porn, or producing other content such as OnlyFans than there is in straight male FSSW, so it’s unlikely to actually be ever a career choice that happens but I have been with guys who have filmed content. It’s not an issue and if I did have a problem with that then yes I would consider that hypocritical.
For reference, I’d actually be alright with them with them seeing other people (open relationship) and have mentioned this to them, but they haven’t wanted to do that. I’d also be happy with us having bi threesomes but again, us being “ethically” monogamous is more his choice than mine. He’s not interested in threesomes, which people say is every man’s fantasy
Yes I can derive pleasure from sessions, not in every booking but sometimes does happen
doesn’t mean that I love the client though ??? When I masturbate I don’t consider marrying my vibrator either
I guess the distinction for me boils down to 1. emotional connection and 2. an ability to see a future with this person, which I wouldn’t say I have with clients.
But it’s fine if not everyone understands, as there’s lots of different ways of doing relationships in life and mine certainly won’t even be the strangest.
The main thing is if everyone’s happy, it’s definitely a very modern set up not everyone can hack it
but SPs throughout the course of history have sometimes had boyfriends, husbands, and wives etc who manage just fine ❤️❤️