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Harribbo

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After my recent neutral review of suziesex, I got a very polite email from her today asking me if she could give me a full refund as he prides herself on a good service and she was upset I don't have a good time.

She said she could meet me in person, I could go to her flat or she would do a bank transfer. I have never had a WG or heard of one doing this before. Just goes to show they are not all bad!

Anyone else had anything like this happen to them?

Offline Silver Birch

Haha! If you go, expect to meet Sergei and his mates. If you give her your bank details, expect to be outed  :dash:

Offline Turtle1

Wow, iv never even heard of something like this, then again i dont really speak to other punters cept a few close fiends so i don't really know of other cases.

Are you going to simply take a free punt or money back?

James999

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Haha! If you go, expect to meet Sergei and his mates. If you give her your bank details, expect to be outed  :dash:

Very Cynical, but probably spot on  :sarcastic:

touch.and.go

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After my recent neutral review of suziesex, I got a very polite email from her today asking me if she could give me a full refund as he prides herself on a good service and she was upset I don't have a good time.

She said she could meet me in person, I could go to her flat or she would do a bank transfer. I have never had a WG or heard of one doing this before. Just goes to show they are not all bad!

Anyone else had anything like this happen to them?

They would empty your bank account like kids in a sweet shop - mr Haribo

Harribbo

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I kindly declined but she actually seemed genuine. If I would of met her it would been in a public place for sure!

Offline bakerted

It's like taking sweets from a kid.

Seriously I wouldn't go looking for a cash in hand refund or otherwise. All for a neutral review!

Leads me to think what would have happened if you had done a negative review.

Hitman hired - Haribo kid found dead in alleyway, spilt starmix and fried eggs littered all over the floor  :lol:

Offline punk

I kindly declined but she actually seemed genuine. If I would of met her it would been in a public place for sure!

meet her in a public place of your choosing, set time get there early, try and pick a spot, where you can see as much as possible but also you are hard to spot, let her get there and wait,checking out as much as possible, just in case she has company or some one with a camera.

Offline threechilliman

After my recent neutral review of suziesex, I got a very polite email from her today asking me if she could give me a full refund as he prides herself on a good service and she was upset I don't have a good time.

She said she could meet me in person, I could go to her flat or she would do a bank transfer. I have never had a WG or heard of one doing this before. Just goes to show they are not all bad!

Anyone else had anything like this happen to them?

Walk away mate, don't get involved. In your mind the money is spent.

tcm

Offline Turtle1

So everyone's on the same boat here i see, its some sort of scam or a very low chance of being genuine. All this over a neatral review.....hmmmm does seem fish come think of it

leedsman

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I kindly declined but she actually seemed genuine. If I would of met her it would been in a public place for sure!

Ah. Do you like the idea of a girl telling the big guys next to you that you raped her daughter? Plenty worse things to do you you in a pubic place, mate!

Offline tantric talents

I agree it does sound rare, but having looked at her profile, age and interview details she looks like a real Indy, so maybe suggest a second go FOC rather than a refund. Limited cash and posessions in pocket of course.

One us could always volunteer to be you and TOFFTT of course?  (First F of course meaning "Freebie" :D )
« Last Edit: August 20, 2014, 04:37:57 pm by tantric talents »

Offline punk

may be she will give you a free one instead.

Offline smiths

After my recent neutral review of suziesex, I got a very polite email from her today asking me if she could give me a full refund as he prides herself on a good service and she was upset I don't have a good time.

She said she could meet me in person, I could go to her flat or she would do a bank transfer. I have never had a WG or heard of one doing this before. Just goes to show they are not all bad!

Anyone else had anything like this happen to them?

Yes it has to me. I criticised the low life scum that ran GP Parties now gone and they PMd me on here offering me a free party, i declined and posted about it on the open forum. As though i was going to meet up with the utter scumbag who ran GP, prick. :thumbsdown:

Harribbo

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I would never accept the refund whether I know she was genuine or not. Just she seems genuine and she has good rep I am led to believe so therefore I do think she had good intentions. Either way it's a small hit of £50 when I might be risking a lot if she has other intentions.

Offline Jeff_withpetersen

You have to assume it's bollocks and you'd end up out of pocket/hurt (or worse) if you went through with it. I'm sure there are some ladies who would refund - an incredibly small percentage no doubt - but unfortunately this isn't the sort of game where you can get involved in that sort of thing.

Harribbo

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You have to assume it's bollocks and you'd end up out of pocket/hurt (or worse) if you went through with it. I'm sure there are some ladies who would refund - an incredibly small percentage no doubt - but unfortunately this isn't the sort of game where you can get involved in that sort of thing.

100%

ATMIV

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I think if it had been a genuine offer, I think she would've contacted you and offered the next punt at a much reduced rate. Rather than offering to meet you and give you a cash refund.

When I read your post alarm bells immediately started to ring, I don't think anything too serious would happen over a neutral review in think she may have been planning revenge by arranging for you to go for a refund and her just not bother to turn up

here4fun

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After my recent neutral review of suziesex, I got a very polite email from her today asking me if she could give me a full refund as he prides herself on a good service and she was upset I don't have a good time.

She said she could meet me in person, I could go to her flat or she would do a bank transfer. I have never had a WG or heard of one doing this before. Just goes to show they are not all bad!

Anyone else had anything like this happen to them?

When you get an email in from Prince Hazam Bako of Nigeria, offering you a "half share of an $80 million bank vault if only you'll send him your account details in advance", do you reply?


Offline tantric talents

From Haribos AW feedback when he gave a neutral  not sexually compatible hint.

Harribbo

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From Haribos AW feedback when he gave a neutral  not sexually compatible hint.

Yeah she must have an account or just browsing as I'm sure many do.

Offline tantric talents

Yeah she must have an account or just browsing as I'm sure many do.
Well of course she has an account! Isn't that how you found her and then left mutual feedback  :dash:

Offline Sir Lance-a-lot

It might be genuine.  It would be in her interests to do this, it would enhance her reputation.  If only more girls took that attitude.

Just be careful.  Use PayPal for any cash transfer, all she needs is an email address (and not even your main one, you can add multiple email addresses to the same account).

If you go back for a freebie, it depends where you're going (nice or rough area).  Tell someone who you're meeting and where (if you can't confide in a "real-life" friend, PM some local UKP members), and mention that on her thread (which she obviously reads).

It's your decision,  but personally I'd go for it.  If it was only a neutral review, she doesn't have much of a motive to do something that would wreck her career.

Harribbo

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Well of course she has an account! Isn't that how you found her and then left neutral feedback  :dash:

I meant on here, I saw her around 2-3 weeks ago with mutual feedback and she left me positive feedback, and heard nothing back. I posted a review on these forums with a neutral feedback 2-3 days ago and I get a message on AW today...

This was her message:


Hi,

I'm really sorry that you didn't have a good time when we met. I admit our session did feel a bit awkward, I'm not sure really why that was. I wish that you had said something at the time so that that maybe we could have resolved things then. Anyway, what's done is done. I do pride myself on offering a good service so I am sorry that you went away dissatisfied and unhappy. I would like to offer you a full refund (£50). This a genuine offer, with no strings attached. In terms of getting the money back to you, these are the best options I can think of:

(1) Meeting in person somewhere convenient to you
(2) I could deposit the cash into your bank account
(3) I could send a postal order to your address
(4) You can come and collect it from my place

Please let me know whats the best option for you.

Suzie x

 

Offline punk

your AW and ukpunting uses same profile avatar :scare:, not good idea.

ATMIV

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I think I would probably email her back and thank her for her offer.

Explain that you enjoyed her company but didn't hit it off physically but rather than receive a refund try another visit.

Maybe the honesty of your feedback has been a shock to her and her offer is genuine - if so I reckon you'll end up having a great punt with her next time.

I think most Escorts worth their salt follow this website - makes professional sense to if they care about their reputation.

Sending her a pm suggesting another try will give you an insight into whether she takes all feedback seriously - scrutinise the tone of her reply and take it from there mate

Harribbo

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I think I would probably email her back and thank her for her offer.

Explain that you enjoyed her company but didn't hit it off physically but rather than receive a refund try another visit.

Maybe the honesty of your feedback has been a shock to her and her offer is genuine - if so I reckon you'll end up having a great punt with her next time.

I think most Escorts worth their salt follow this website - makes professional sense to if they care about their reputation.

Sending her a pm suggesting another try will give you an insight into whether she takes all feedback seriously - scrutinise the tone of her reply and take it from there mate

I did reply back already with a polite message declining her off the offer, but I shal not see her again whether it was good or not. Unless she was a plan b. Don't like seeing the same girl more than once as I want to try and get through everyone lol.

Harribbo

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your AW and ukpunting uses same profile avatar :scare:, not good idea.

Never knew I had an aw Avitar lol.


Harribbo

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:D user name.  :scare:

Ahh I'm not fussed about that, they can know who I am! Lol.

Offline Jeff_withpetersen

Dude seriously, dont consider meeting or communicating again with her - even if shes genuine, risk is too high that she isn't. The normal rules of law that keep businesses straight dont apply to this game and ultimately you've only lost 50 quid - Im sure most on here,  including me, would say we have lost more on bad punts then that.  You did right to decline,  Sir

Offline madeinwales56

I've had a look at her profile and the feedback you left her and her other feedback. In my opinion she seems a genuine nice girl. If you didn't click sexually there's no point in going back for a freebie. If you really want to make a point you could meet her on her own in a public place (taking sensible safety precautions) and get your refund. On the other hand my opinion is to walk away and draw a line under it.

Offline Dani

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Its probably genuine however her reasons are surely not.   She gives you a refund and then hopes you post about it her so your negative then becomes a positive review.  What about all the guys that are not on forums that book by phone that also get a neutral or negative booking.  I bet she doesn't offer them their money back as they don't post reviews on here.

If she was genuinely sorry and she knew the booking was awkward and she felt bad about it why did she not offer a full or partial refund at the time?
It is much better to end a booking that is not going well and offer some money back if the awkwardness is down to him and all of it if it is down to her. 
Not offering at the time meant she didn't care how bad you felt on leaving.  She only felt bad when she saw your review here and realised it may affect her income a little. 

Apologies and/or refunds after a neutral or negative review are a bit late in my book.  Why not give them at the time if you know things are nto going well.   Like she admitted she knew the booking was not going well at the time so she should have made amends then

Harribbo

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Its probably genuine however her reasons are surely not.   She gives you a refund and then hopes you post about it her so your negative then becomes a positive review.  What about all the guys that are not on forums that book by phone that also get a neutral or negative booking.  I bet she doesn't offer them their money back as they don't post reviews on here.

If she was genuinely sorry and she knew the booking was awkward and she felt bad about it why did she not offer a full or partial refund at the time?
It is much better to end a booking that is not going well and offer some money back if the awkwardness is down to him and all of it if it is down to her. 
Not offering at the time meant she didn't care how bad you felt on leaving.  She only felt bad when she saw your review here and realised it may affect her income a little. 

Apologies and/or refunds after a neutral or negative review are a bit late in my book.  Why not give them at the time if you know things are nto going well.   Like she admitted she knew the booking was not going well at the time so she should have made amends then

I think you may of just hit the nail on the head.

Oldstager

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I think most Escorts worth their salt follow this website - makes professional sense to if they care about their reputation.


I was surprised to read this comment by ATMIV, which suggests that the Reviews are available to view by non-members.  I must confess that I had been under the impression that (as with most sites of this nature) the Reviews and the Forum were purely the views and opinions of members for the benefit of other members, and only available to members.  Am I wrong in this assumption, and if I am just how much of the content of the site is available to non-members?

Offline Silver Birch

I must confess that I had been under the impression that (as with most sites of this nature) the Reviews and the Forum were purely the views and opinions of members for the benefit of other members, and only available to members.  Am I wrong in this assumption, and if I am just how much of the content of the site is available to non-members?

I think only the Off Topic forum is members only. I think the rest is visible to the whole world.

Offline Malvolio

Only the off-topic section and AdultWork Guide are exclusively available to members.

SirFrank

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Fuck that for a game of soldiers. You can never be too paranoid in this game

ATMIV

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From what I have seen punters and escorts alike can be members of this site. So long as no UKP rules are breached that doesn't cause a problem with the administrators. And as a member either punter or escort you can pm each other.

This is a punters website but it cannot stop an escort following or making coo meant - which is quite right provided the escort member is legit -  and not touting - their input is most useful and valuable

Offline Daffodil

I'd go and collect the cash. Public place and all that. I don't think the risks are too great.

At least then we know one way or the other, rather than all this speculation. If she is genuine you could argue this thread has made her look much worse, will people insinuating this and that.

suziesex

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I am an independent and this was/still is a genuine offer. I naively didn't see how it could be construed as an attempt to screw Harribo over, or steal money from him or worse, but please be assured that absolutely wasn't/isn't my intention!

Yes, reading his neutral review here did prompt me to get in touch and offer him a refund. And, yes I realise that I should have done this at the time of the booking. As  has already been stated, the booking felt a bit awkward and while I did try my best to make it a better experience, I should have spoken about it to Harribo at the time, been more direct and offered him a refund. Reading his review about it it on here in detail did make me feel uncomfortable because I knew I hadn't dealt with it in the right way, which is why I got in touch with him. I can understand how it can be interpreted as being cynical, but I certainly wasn't expecting Harribo to comment about it on here. The way I see it, I am providing a service and someone wasn't happy with said service, so I am trying to put it right, albeit a bit late. 


Offline tantric talents

Well that's put the cat amongst the pigeons! We can all go for round 2 comments.. lol!

I must say that if I were offered a refund on all my punts that were less than perfect I would be a rich man again !
« Last Edit: August 21, 2014, 11:59:12 am by tantric talents »

Harribbo

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Well that's put the cat amongst the pigeons! We can all go for round 2 comments.. lol!

I must say that if I were offered a refund on all my punts that were less than perfect I would be a rich man again !

Sure has lol. :lol:

Offline punk

I am an independent and this was/still is a genuine offer. I naively didn't see how it could be construed as an attempt to screw Harribo over, or steal money from him or worse, but please be assured that absolutely wasn't/isn't my intention!

Yes, reading his neutral review here did prompt me to get in touch and offer him a refund. And, yes I realise that I should have done this at the time of the booking. As  has already been stated, the booking felt a bit awkward and while I did try my best to make it a better experience, I should have spoken about it to Harribo at the time, been more direct and offered him a refund. Reading his review about it it on here in detail did make me feel uncomfortable because I knew I hadn't dealt with it in the right way, which is why I got in touch with him. I can understand how it can be interpreted as being cynical, but I certainly wasn't expecting Harribo to comment about it on here. The way I see it, I am providing a service and someone wasn't happy with said service, so I am trying to put it right, albeit a bit late.

thanks for the clear up, if every wg seemed to be as honest as you, than life would be much easier.

Offline PatrickCarnes

Its probably genuine however her reasons are surely not.   She gives you a refund and then hopes you post about it her so your negative then becomes a positive review.  What about all the guys that are not on forums that book by phone that also get a neutral or negative booking.  I bet she doesn't offer them their money back as they don't post reviews on here.

If she was genuinely sorry and she knew the booking was awkward and she felt bad about it why did she not offer a full or partial refund at the time?
It is much better to end a booking that is not going well and offer some money back if the awkwardness is down to him and all of it if it is down to her. 
Not offering at the time meant she didn't care how bad you felt on leaving.  She only felt bad when she saw your review here and realised it may affect her income a little. 

Apologies and/or refunds after a neutral or negative review are a bit late in my book.  Why not give them at the time if you know things are nto going well.   Like she admitted she knew the booking was not going well at the time so she should have made amends then

You are assuming a lot about someone you don't know and a situation you weren't present at. Too much black and white thinking to be a useful post imo.

Offline seeker

It's only £50 put it down to experience. ...And move on .

Offline punk

I am an independent and this was/still is a genuine offer. I naively didn't see how it could be construed as an attempt to screw Harribo over, or steal money from him or worse, but please be assured that absolutely wasn't/isn't my intention!

Yes, reading his neutral review here did prompt me to get in touch and offer him a refund. And, yes I realise that I should have done this at the time of the booking. As  has already been stated, the booking felt a bit awkward and while I did try my best to make it a better experience, I should have spoken about it to Harribo at the time, been more direct and offered him a refund. Reading his review about it it on here in detail did make me feel uncomfortable because I knew I hadn't dealt with it in the right way, which is why I got in touch with him. I can understand how it can be interpreted as being cynical, but I certainly wasn't expecting Harribo to comment about it on here. The way I see it, I am providing a service and someone wasn't happy with said service, so I am trying to put it right, albeit a bit late.

one question, why did you decide on this course of action? After the review was posted?

Offline HS4000Kestral

she does seem genuine - if you read AW she even disputes one of the Positive Feedbacks!!!

SirFrank

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she does seem genuine - if you read AW she even disputes one of the Positive Feedbacks!!!

Yes have to agree.  I'm even more surprised to see that harribo has two positive feedbacks! I imagined to see feedback like 'he spent the entire meet talking in tongues'. In fairness sometimes there's no chemistry and that can often be a two way thing. Sometimes it just doesn't click. I tend to only leave reviews if I've had a good or bad experience. If it was so so I wouldn't leave any feedback at all. If this particular punt had happened to me, especially given the apparent subsequent effort to rectify the situation, I'd write the money off and move on