Dated a Woman, now an SP.

[theonlywayisup]

I matched with a woman on Feeld, and met her a couple of times about 6 months. Was on AW recently and found her profile there, made a couple of years ago. Just wondering if this has happened with anyone/ should a woman tell you she's a SP? Not a problem for me, but I think the honesty bit is what I would wanted. Although equally I didn't tell her I saw SP's - so it works both ways!

[Colston36]

Quite so; honesty works both ways.

[IAmNotFamous]

I don’t tell people I’m a spy. There’s somethings we don’t mention to everyone.

[Doc Holliday]

...should a woman tell you she's a SP? Not a problem for me, but I think the honesty bit is what I would wanted.

It would be highly unusual (though not impossible) that an SP would tell you after a couple of meets. Most men would run a mile.

The dilemma for an SP is if a relationship develops at what point she does tell? Very difficult.

You said it wouldn't be a problem for you as you are a punter. Whilst you may be less judgemental about her occupation than the average guy, as we know from many threads on here, the majority of punters would also run a mile.

[Stevelondon]

Thats a difficult one.
The relationship develops and your emotionally involved before the breaking news.
That could be heartbreaking in reality.

A while back I saw a young girl at the flat in Tolworth and she was a breath of fresh air. Saw her again too....for the life of me I can't remember her name.
I was there a few weeks later and over a cup of tea and chat with the maid (As I used too)
I asked when this sweet young thing would be working again.
"Never" came the answer.
She had met a young bloke (Outside of the punting game) and she had packed it all in cos she did'nt want him to know what she was doing...or had been doing.

Personally speaking. I'm too bloody old and could'nt be arsed to form new relationships with anybody never mind an SP (Although I am good friends with a couple)

Intelligent words from the Doc.

[Doc Holliday]

Thats a difficult one.
The relationship develops and your emotionally involved before the breaking news.
That could be heartbreaking in reality.

Yes that's the dilemma. In most cases there is never a good time.

The example you have narrated highlights another problem. The SP is taking a risk to her livelihood by giving up if it doesn't work out .. although she could then return (as many do) but if it does work out there is the chance that that her past could be discovered somewhere down the line. Then honesty comes back into the equation. Very difficult.

[datwabbit]

The question is: how would you take it, if you were told by a friend, family member, work colleague that they'd had sex with your lass for money? Lots of emotions to control.

I don't think she should give up the escorting when in a relationship, it is a job after all.

[Fuzzyduck]

I matched with a woman on Feeld, and met her a couple of times about 6 months. Was on AW recently and found her profile there, made a couple of years ago. Just wondering if this has happened with anyone/ should a woman tell you she's a SP? Not a problem for me, but I think the honesty bit is what I would wanted. Although equally I didn't tell her I saw SP's - so it works both ways!

So you met her own Feeld, had two dates and expect transparency from her about her life as an escort. WTF? Maybe spend a little time thinking about how she feels rather than about any honesty you feel you are owed.

[Bdk78]

Let's face it, feeld is just a fuck app. I have recognised sp's on there and on tinder. I met a woman on feeld once. Wasn't that attractive and her fanny smelt like burgers, but a free shag is a free shag, eh!? 

[Stevelondon]

Let's face it, feeld is just a fuck app. I have recognised sp's on there and on tinder. I met a woman on feeld once. Wasn't that attractive and her fanny smelt like burgers, but a free shag is a free shag, eh!? 

JEEZ………. I guess we all have different standards. 

[Fuzzyduck]

JEEZ………. I guess we all have different standards. 

Quite. Now, if it had been a cheeseburger...

[Doc Holliday]

Quite. Now, if it had been a cheeseburger...

 

[Mr Sinister]

Let's face it, feeld is just a fuck app. I have recognised sp's on there and on tinder. I met a woman on feeld once. Wasn't that attractive and her fanny smelt like burgers, but a free shag is a free shag, eh!? 

As someone on there doing some fucking I concur, I'm not there to find a wife I don't care about your previous life. This is a real dilemma for many naive men in the dating world now. You gonna marry an undercover hoe as she's been one or more of the following - a sugarbaby, insta "model", OF "model", Feeld member who's been going to parties and getting ran through etc....

Why you need to vet these women hard and make sure she's worth marrying or having kids with cause men have more to lose in the west.

[Colston36]

As someone on there doing some fucking I concur, I'm not there to find a wife I don't care about your previous life. This is a real dilemma for many naive men in the dating world now. You gonna marry an undercover hoe as she's been one or more of the following - a sugarbaby, insta "model", OF "model", Feeld member who's been going to parties and getting ran through etc....

Why you need to vet these women hard and make sure she's worth marrying or having kids with cause men have more to lose in the west.

I know women on the game who are excellent mothers. And women not on the game who are shit. You read about them every day. You cannot stick labels on them.

[Bdk78]

[Stevelondon]

I know women on the game who are excellent mothers. And women not on the game who are shit. You read about them every day. You cannot stick labels on them.

Bloody spot on. 

[lillythesavage]

I know women on the game who are excellent mothers. And women not on the game who are shit. You read about them every day. You cannot stick labels on them.

Absolutely, and the extra cash helps .

[Stevelondon]

Absolutely, and the extra cash helps .

Too true.

I recall a conversation some blokes were having in the pub and one of them comes out with,
"So Charlie just found out his wife used to be on the game. He's not sure what to do now"

One of the others piped in,
"He's fucking lucky. My missus is a traffic warden"

[Thephoenix]

Too true.

I recall a conversation some blokes were having in the pub and one of them comes out with,
"So Charlie just found out his wife used to be on the game. He's not sure what to do now"

One of the others piped in,
"He's fucking lucky. My missus is a traffic warden"

 

[Thephoenix]

A woman's best attribute is a good heart.
Much more important than her fanny!

[Lewis]

I matched with a woman on Feeld, and met her a couple of times about 6 months. Was on AW recently and found her profile there, made a couple of years ago.

Have you still got the AW link?
Asking for a friend 

[Bnd888]

Quite. Now, if it had been a cheeseburger...

Probably an extra mature blue cheese burger 🍔 

[king tarzan]

Absolutely, and the extra cash helps .

Crikey especially in these times

£2:35 for 6pint milk!!!!!

[theonlywayisup]

Have you still got the AW link?
Asking for a friend 

Haha. 😅😅

Also - just catching up on messages-sorry for delay all and thanks for responses. To be clear I wasn't looking for a relationship with her (!)-just some fun. Hence its not an issue for me. Mainly not sure whether I book her using my punting phone and turn up and pay. Could be quite a cool experience!!