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Author Topic: Do pro$$ies ACTUALLY LIKE advance bookings?  (Read 5045 times)

Offline Silver Birch

I like to plan ahead & I have some free time this week so spent a bit of time last week trying to arrange a punt a week in advance. The success rate has been woeful!

In total I have contacted 9 pro$$ies (most have been recommended on here) with the following results:
2 replied but are on holiday (can't complain about that and at least they replied)
1 was going to take my booking but didn't actually confirm and when I contacted her to check we were definite she was 'busy'. I'm curious about that one.
3 have read the email but not replied, but haven't deleted it either
1 has been logging in but not bothered to read my email
1 has replied not working until later in the week "try me then" so clearly not wanting an advance booking
1 is available but she was No9 on my list of 9 and I'm not sure I really want to see her, but unless I get other replies, it looks like she gets the booking

My theory is that most don't actually like to take bookings a week or more in advance and I half expect at least one or two to reply the day before if they haven't been booked, and are saving my enquiry as a backup if they are quiet.

Maybe I should start booking same day but I find I am thinking solely with my dick, the pro$$ies I want aren't available, and I am likely to make bad choices.

Anyone else find it difficult to book in advance?


Offline Daffodil

I find prossies are very much "here and now" people with minimal advance planning. Most don't know what they'll be doing that evening, never mind a week in advance.

My experience is that advance bookings are very difficult to arrange and I tend not to bother with them.

Sparquin

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If it is the first time then generally I find they do not respond that well to advance bookings. I suspect it is because they reckon there is more risk of a no show/time waster. 

Should you be seeing them for a second time etc then advance booking works better as they know you are good for it.

Offline threechilliman

I find prossies are very much "here and now" people with minimal advance planning. Most don't know what they'll be doing that evening, never mind a week in advance.

My experience is that advance bookings are very difficult to arrange and I tend not to bother with them.

Complete opposite for me. I rarely book less than a week in advance and already have two booked for September. This morning's escapade has been booked for a fortnight. May do another next week, which I'll think about later today. Maybe, maybe not. We'll see.

I have a provisional date in December(!) for a girl I've seen a few times and already have my skeleton plan for the rest of the year....

tcm

Offline shagbambi

I agree with TCM. I prebook 90% of the time, normally a month in advance. Both outcalls and incalls. Girls have been very reliable too I might add.  In the initial booking phase, I find 50% answer.

JV547845

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It really depends on the girl.  Scatter brained teenagers don't want a booking tomorrow potentially interfering with their social life.  For the best most popular girls, or anyone who needs to make arrangements (e.g. child care or a hotel), advance booking is essential. 

Offline Jimmyredcab

It really depends on the girl. 

I agree with this.

From Michelle Independent's profile -----------

**Pre booked appointments are preferred as I'm rarely available for last minute appointments.**

Offline Boundless

I was going to start a thread on this as I like/need to book in advance but have had mixed success.

I have wanted to see CarysHollyJones for a while now and she was on tour in Birmingham last week. I know she's very popular so I e-mailed her 8 days before giving a 6 hour slot for an hour booking, she didn't read it for a couple of days so I put a booking on AW. I received no reply to either, my policy is that I'm not going to chase someone who's getting paid more than the prime minister per hour so it didn't happen.

I e-mailed her after, asking why she didn't answer and her reply was that she was sorry, but she gets approx 70 texts a day, mostly timewasters and had a lot of guys wanting to meet in Birmingham and mine must have got overlooked. As guys have said, surely not that hard to set aside an hour to sort out correspondence. She got a polite, concise e-mail request from me, I have plenty of positive feedbacks on AW, which I would have thought would do the trick. I think these prossies need a lesson in business, the guy that does building work for me I only have to leave him a message and he's back on the blower to me pretty sharpish asking when he can come round a have a look!

Result - a lost booking for her and another addition to my blacklist.


« Last Edit: August 18, 2014, 08:50:41 am by Boundless »

Offline CBPaul

I used to book ahead by a few days but have changed tactics as times have changed.

If the prossie remains in one place then booking ahead will depend on how well her time is managed. Some have been excellent with bookings made 4 or 5 days in advance but others woeful as they clearly forgot the booking and probably couldn't remember a booking made 5 hours ahead let alone 5 days. If you are lucky then they will have something useful on the profile with respect to making a booking.

Touring prossies are a different case, I assume they will be about for 3 to 7 days and I prefer to book a day ahead, leaving a clear day from when the profile appears because they are probably on a motorway somewhere rather than in town. Pot luck though, it works fine for decent touring girls but booking your average Sergei girl only seems to work if done 30 minutes ahead. Could be taken as a warning of an impending crap punt too.


Offline Boundless

I suppose this is another reason why I tend to see my 2 regulars a lot.

With both of them I can text or e-mail and say 12.30 next Thursday and if they are working and free I get a reply within an hour saying OK.
I then just text when I get up that day to confirm. easy peasey!

Offline smiths

I like to plan ahead & I have some free time this week so spent a bit of time last week trying to arrange a punt a week in advance. The success rate has been woeful!

In total I have contacted 9 pro$$ies (most have been recommended on here) with the following results:
2 replied but are on holiday (can't complain about that and at least they replied)
1 was going to take my booking but didn't actually confirm and when I contacted her to check we were definite she was 'busy'. I'm curious about that one.
3 have read the email but not replied, but haven't deleted it either
1 has been logging in but not bothered to read my email
1 has replied not working until later in the week "try me then" so clearly not wanting an advance booking
1 is available but she was No9 on my list of 9 and I'm not sure I really want to see her, but unless I get other replies, it looks like she gets the booking

My theory is that most don't actually like to take bookings a week or more in advance and I half expect at least one or two to reply the day before if they haven't been booked, and are saving my enquiry as a backup if they are quiet.

Maybe I should start booking same day but I find I am thinking solely with my dick, the pro$$ies I want aren't available, and I am likely to make bad choices.

Anyone else find it difficult to book in advance?

As ever it depends on the WG and how organised she is. Some WGs like Daff said are only interested in the here and now, short termism with no thought of the next day let alone the next week.

Some others have had a lot of timewasters who have booked in advance but not turned up so some of those WGs have stopped offering advance bookings.

I usually book same day and have few problems booking the WG i am interested in although that doesnt mean she will follow whats been agreed between us, or not be a liar. I might not be wanting a punt a week next Friday whereas i know i want one on the day i feel like one so booking same day after already having spoken to the WG is my usual modus.

James999

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Pro$$ies like the idea of advanved bookings but the reality is different, in the same way they like the idea of going legit or giving up working as a pro$$ie, the thought is nice but they tend to live for today, very few of them saving and many not even having a fiver to put credit on their phone, so they take bookings on a daily (a day in advance) basis and spend as soon as they get the cash.  :wacko:

Offline Boundless

As ever it depends on the WG and how organised she is. Some WGs like Daff said are only interested in the here and now, short termism with no thought of the next day let alone the next week.

Some others have had a lot of timewasters who have booked in advance but not turned up so some of those WGs have stopped offering advance bookings.

I usually book same day and have few problems booking the WG i am interested in although that doesnt mean she will follow whats been agreed between us, or not be a liar. I might not be wanting a punt a week next Friday whereas i know i want one on the day i feel like one so booking same day after already having spoken to the WG is my usual modus.

You raise a good point there Smiths.
The fact that sex is spontaneous and that is a problem with booking ahead. My strategy is that if I book ahead then I abstain for at least 4 days beforehand  to ensure a good performance. It's bloody annoying though when you have nothing arranged in advance, wake up feeling horny and can't arrange anything half decent. This is the time, I have to confess, when I've seen some right fucking mingers!
Before anyone says do your research, I live in a well known punting desert!

a10

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I'm more of a spur of the moment punter. The mood takes me when the mood takes me. The most I book in advance is 3 or 4 days. I simply can't tell if I'm going to be in the mood in a week's time - let alone a month or more!

It's why my hotlists are so many and varied - if I'm in the mood, I'll log on and check my hotlist to see who's available right now.

It's also probably why I see my regular so much as she's generally able to fit me in on the day I phone.

Offline Boundless

I'm more of a spur of the moment punter. The mood takes me when the mood takes me. The most I book in advance is 3 or 4 days. I simply can't tell if I'm going to be in the mood in a week's time - let alone a month or more!

It's why my hotlists are so many and varied - if I'm in the mood, I'll log on and check my hotlist to see who's available right now.

It's also probably why I see my regular so much as she's generally able to fit me in on the day I phone.

Oh the advantages of having a plentiful supply of WGs.

If I put in Available Now for a 20 mile radius, I know what I'll get - fuck all!! Maybe a couple of skanky EE's on tour in town or some old slapper that "looks like Kiss but without the make up"!!

a10

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or some old slapper that "looks like Kiss but without the make up"!!

Robbie Williams?

Not my type at all pal, but different streaks for different freaks and all that. Must cost a lot too - punting a celebrity  :sarcastic:

Seriously though that's the advantage of building the HL up, often WGs will be available even if AW doesn't say they are. I've emailed every pro$$ie in a HL before on the off chance (the wonders of cut and paste) to try and sort a punt.

Offline Silver Birch

It's bloody annoying though when you have nothing arranged in advance, wake up feeling horny and can't arrange anything half decent. This is the time, I have to confess, when I've seen some right fucking mingers!

I am quite careful in choosing my punts and it has given me a pretty high success rate with planned bookings, but there have been occasions when I have woken up horny, none of my hotlist responding, so a desperate search on AW ensues. On 3 occasions I have been 'saved' by UKP  :drinks: from pro$$ies I wouldn't normally have considered if I was planning ahead (usually little or no FB).

Sometimes I wonder if pro$$ies delay replying to emails because they don't won't to appear quiet or desperate but that frustrates me, the first one to reply usually gets the booking. Pro$$ies, please take note, the early bird gets the worm  :wackogirl:


Offline Bangers and Gash

Good courtesans will always want advanced bookings, especially if they come from nice gentlemen callers they've seen before because they know they'll turn up, not haggle prices etc. Poor courtesans don't like advanced bookings as most hardly know what day of the week it is, so organising a diary is rocket science.

 :hi:


a10

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Good courtesans will always want advanced bookings, especially if they come from nice gentlemen callers they've seen before because they know they'll turn up, not haggle prices etc. Poor courtesans don't like advanced bookings as most hardly know what day of the week it is, so organising a diary is rocket science.

 :hi:

Eh? Do you mean pro$$ies and punters?  :hi:

Offline Taggart

If they are touring, or using a hotel, advance bookings are beneficial as they know the money from the punter will cover the room and travel costs.

Last week I emailed an escort called Chloe Willow asking for a meet in Manchester, at a hotel I was in, and after a delay of several days loggin in, she logged in twice in 2 days, didnt read my email. So I deleted it. Her fecking loss, as it was for 1.5-2 hours. Another I emailed was good enough to say she was moving to London, so would not be there, fair enough.

In a way, I dont give a toss they get 70+ emails, it's their business, they chose it and they need to manage it better.

Dodo

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I'm with the spontaneous brigade, my sexual makeup is such that I wouldn't have a clue if I am likely to fancy a punt say next Thursday but I could tell you now if I fancy a visitation say tomorrow. So, for me it tends to be the afternoon before the event that I line a girl up......I prefer that rather than leave to chance and maybe booking frustration on the actual morning. My experience in that regard has been ok....I will normally exchange a txt on the morning as confirmation everything is still ok with the WG.
« Last Edit: August 18, 2014, 11:40:02 am by Dodo »

Offline Bangers and Gash

Eh? Do you mean pro$$ies and punters?  :hi:

Sorry. What with all the fluffy posting at the moment I thought for a split second I was on either pro$$ienet, t.o.p. or saafe..  :sarcastic:

I'm with the spontaneous brigade, my sexual makeup is such that I wouldn't have a clue if I am likely to fancy a punt say next Thursday but I could tell you now if I fancy a visitation say tomorrow. So, for me it tends to be the afternoon before the event that I line a girl up......I prefer that rather than leave to chance and maybe booking frustration on the actual morning. My experience in that regard has been ok....I will normally exchange a txt on the morning as confirmation everything is still ok with the WG.

Please don't take this personally, but did you actually read the topic title before posting or are you so self fucking absorbed that you can only talk about yourself - a typical female/pro$$ie trait.  Fuck off back to mumsnet. :angry:

potato

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In my experience, girls with telephones numbers on their profiles are usually "same day" type bookings - many have the attention span of a goldfish....  If you have seen them before then there may be a chance of an advanced booking, if you haven't then prepare to be double booked if the girl is not organised.

Girls without telephone numbers are likely to be more organised and if you can find a part timer that has a proper job as well then they are more likely to appreciate an advanced booking - so that they can plan their week around their day job. The same caveat applies if you haven't seen them before - or if they have a regular that books short notice.

It also depends on how busy a girl is. Those that are in demand probably don't want advance bookings if their phone never stops ringing anyway - though they could take an advanced booking and fill the gap anyway if the punter cancels early enough.

If you get emails back saying "ring me nearer the time" or "on the day" then that's a firm indication she doesn't want advance bookings. Those that read the mail and do not reply straight away are either not interested or may respond the day before the meet day with "Yes, I can do that" - some help that is! That's a clear indication that they are only interested in their earning capacity and filling holes (no pun intended) left vacant.

As has been said, so much depends on the girl. We can only generalise from our own experiences.
« Last Edit: August 18, 2014, 12:26:26 pm by potato »

Offline threechilliman

I can plan ahead because I know when my OH is going to be away. And if shes away, I'll want to punt! Dead simple.

tcm

Offline Paul31

I suppose this is another reason why I tend to see my 2 regulars a lot.

With both of them I can text or e-mail and say 12.30 next Thursday and if they are working and free I get a reply within an hour saying OK.
I then just text when I get up that day to confirm. easy peasey!



I only have one regular and it's the same for me or I book my next session as I'm leaving my las rapt session

Sparquin

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If a girl is touring and I want to see her I will let her know in advance and if I get a positive reply I will tell her closer to the time of her visit when I would like the booking. That way she knows I am genuine and am then simply confirming something she is expecting to happen.

Dodo

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Sorry. What with all the fluffy posting at the moment I thought for a split second I was on either pro$$ienet, t.o.p. or saafe..  :sarcastic:

Please don't take this personally, but did you actually read the topic title before posting or are you so self fucking absorbed that you can only talk about yourself - a typical female/pro$$ie trait.  Fuck off back to mumsnet. :angry:
Fuck me, are you part of the clique as well.........but of course what I should have added was 'so no, I do not experience the same issues with advance bookings as the OP' in much the same way as a few others on this post should have done but who fell into the same 'me me me'  trap as I did :(
Please B&S don't have a go at them as that could be misconstrued as you being even handed and that don't go down to well on here.
 

OldAdmin

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Fuck me, are you part of the clique as well.........but of course what I should have added was 'so no, I do not experience the same issues with advance bookings as the OP' in much the same way as a few others on this post should have done but who fell into the same 'me me me'  trap as I did :(
Please B&S don't have a go at them as that could be misconstrued as you being even handed and that don't go down to well on here.

There's obviously something wrong with West Midlands water, given that the majority from there behave like you and get banned.


cockneybstrd

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Oh well Apsley can take this up with his therapists when they next see them.

Offline tantric talents

I suppose this is another reason why I tend to see my 2 regulars a lot.

With both of them I can text or e-mail and say 12.30 next Thursday and if they are working and free I get a reply within an hour saying OK.
I then just text when I get up that day to confirm. easy peasey!

Yes I agree that does work well with regulars but for the newbies I am getting a little bored with emailing them for a contact number or booking preference, seeing them ( or Sergei) login everyday. Not then read the email or read it and delete with no reply.
It is especially puzzling when they have just a free pics site so with nothing to earn why the f**k do they bother listing themselves in the first place?

Apart of course from the cam girls who generally when they list escorting, never actually ever do!
« Last Edit: August 18, 2014, 03:45:59 pm by tantric talents »

Offline CBPaul

Oh well Apsley can take this up with his therapists when they next see them.

Good luck to them.

Got to say the ban was a long time coming  :sarcastic:

Offline smiths

Fuck me, are you part of the clique as well.........but of course what I should have added was 'so no, I do not experience the same issues with advance bookings as the OP' in much the same way as a few others on this post should have done but who fell into the same 'me me me'  trap as I did :(
Please B&S don't have a go at them as that could be misconstrued as you being even handed and that don't go down to well on here.

I daresay you are still reading this forum, you people always do, so a message from me, stick the PM you sent me at 1.21pm today up your arse you low life troll. :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

nova painted floozie

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In my experience, girls with telephones numbers on their profiles are usually "same day" type bookings - many have the attention span of a goldfish....  If you have seen them before then there may be a chance of an advanced booking, if you haven't then prepare to be double booked if the girl is not organised.

Girls without telephone numbers are likely to be more organised and if you can find a part timer that has a proper job as well then they are more likely to appreciate an advanced booking - so that they can plan their week around their day job. The same caveat applies if you haven't seen them before - or if they have a regular that books short notice.


I never take bookings on the day, and my profile clearly states this. I want someone who has thought about the booking and not just rung 20 girls with the intention of seeing the first one to respond. I also do this to deter guys who have been drinking etc and are just in the mood right now as well as incredibly nervous guys who have only just got up the nerve and will bottle it in the next 15 mins and fail to show up.
I also kind of like the idea of a guy looking forward to meeting me and being excited about that. Anticipation can build up the tension - in a good way.
I have another job and y'know - a life, so I like to know where I am in advance.
That said there is a limit. Someone once tried to book me for 1 hour 3 months in advance which just felt a bit silly. I asked him to get in touch nearer the time.
3-7 days ahead is about ideal for me but as has been said it's different for everyone.

Linker

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I also kind of like the idea of a guy looking forward to meeting me and being excited about that. Anticipation can build up the tension - in a good way.

You make it sound like it's dating?
Punters have a life too and it's not always possible to book in advance because of work stuff. I'd be willing to bet that you get a lot of cancellations. I'd assume girls taking same day apps fare better.

nova painted floozie

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You make it sound like it's dating?
Punters have a life too and it's not always possible to book in advance because of work stuff. I'd be willing to bet that you get a lot of cancellations. I'd assume girls taking same day apps fare better.

Never fear - I'm under no illusions at all! I think it's possible for a client to look forward to a booking without wanting to date the girl.
I appreciate that not everyone can book in advance, but I'm just not willing to be glued to my phone and have to stay in all day waiting on calls and texts. I could work more if I did that but it's just not that important to me.

Linker

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...but I'm just not willing to be glued to my phone and have to stay in all day waiting on calls and texts. I could work more if I did that but it's just not that important to me.

That's not surprising, not many prossies are renowned for their work ethic.  :D
You sound like you have an over inflated opinion of yourself and what it is you actually do. Thankfully the more sensible ones out there understand how the game really works and are probably the ones laughing all the way to the bank.  :hi:

yorkshire123

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I daresay you are still reading this forum, you people always do, so a message from me, stick the PM you sent me at 1.21pm today up your arse you low life troll. :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

I like your style sir  :hi:
He asked me via PM to leave him alone & gave the impression i was picking on him (just before his last ban) so I've stayed well away & he still goes into self destruct, some people are just beyond help  :unknown:

nova painted floozie

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That's not surprising, not many prossies are renowned for their work ethic.  :D
You sound like you have an over inflated opinion of yourself and what it is you actually do. Thankfully the more sensible ones out there understand how the game really works and are probably the ones laughing all the way to the bank.  :hi:

It's not that important to me because I have another job. I prefer to see a few clients and really enjoy my job than take bookings back-to-back and provide a poor service while driving myself slowly insane.  :rolleyes:

Offline Bangers and Gash

It's not that important to me because I have another job. I prefer to see a few clients and really enjoy my job than take bookings back-to-back and provide a poor service while driving myself slowly insane.  :rolleyes:

Is it possible for you to talk about a subject other than yourself?

nova painted floozie

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Is it possible for you to talk about a subject other than yourself?

Quite happy to. Just answering the OPs question. :)

Offline claretandblue

i guess like punters it varies,some girls i have booked via aw weeks in advance,others i have called on the day.
As previously mentioned if there booking hotels they will likely be keen on advance bookings

petitealice

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Surely an advance booking is a good thing. You can guarantee you have someone on that day in, say, a months time. I suppose it depends how organised you are and how you arrange other things in your life. Sometimes if it's a specific date, you can organise any other bookings around it. If you have another job then again, if it fits around that, you can organise further bookings around it. If you prefer to do things on the spur of the moment, maybe not. I guess some girls may see it as a pain if they get a booking that will pay double or triple that can only do that day, but they already have the advance booking. Others may not know what they will be doing or where they will be that far ahead if they are touring, etc.

I think it depends on the girl, but a girl who prefers the advance bookings may be more suited to punters who like the same. I thought that the "available now/today" feature on aw was for those who prefer last minute or on the day work, rather than sticking to the working hours format where it actively encourages advance bookings.

pokenn

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Nearly all my punts are booked in advance, and mostly they are girls I have not seen before.

Offline jsparky


I've been twice tried to plan months ahead and both fell through at the end. One fell ill and the other completely forgot, fortunately I 've the common sense to check with them day before. Some girl who actually told me they only take booking at most two hours advance because of regular no shows when punter book well advance.

achilles

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Tried to book in advance for this weekend without any joy so far. One has read the mail but not replied and the other has ignored the mail but logged on!
I want to try different girls but its proving difficult!

Sienna_Bronze

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I prefer short notice appointments. Most if not all of my trade is short notice. I can't guarantee that I'll be working on the whatever date in September or October.

JV547845

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Tried to book in advance for this weekend without any joy so far. One has read the mail but not replied and the other has ignored the mail but logged on!
I want to try different girls but its proving difficult!

Use the telephone instead then.

Offline Bangers and Gash

Tried to book in advance for this weekend without any joy so far. One has read the mail but not replied and the other has ignored the mail but logged on!
I want to try different girls but its proving difficult!

Lots of these pro$$ies hide behind emails because Sergei/Omar is running the show and he likes to keep his bitches on a tight lead.

 

Offline Anadin

I notice that the pornstars I go for tend to prefer advanced bookings. I can usually get an appointment on the day but if I want a certain time then I probably won't get it, thankfully I only punt on my days off so not too much of a problem for me.