Help a party Noob! please

[Hunter84]

ok people, i'm seriously tempted to lose my party cherry and try one of the couple out there. It might sound stupid to some of you, but I really would appreciate some advice.

!!Party Etiquette!!

Surely there is such a thing, Except the complete dumb obvious ones, are there any do's and don'ts?
i am really quite nervous about coming across rude accidentally, or standing around waiting my turn and in turn missing out - so hell been trying to write this for over an hour and not even sure how to ask or what to ask, so please Any advice, do's don'ts etc

Many thanks guys

[JackSaint]

A good place to start would be to read some party reviews, that'll give you a good idea of what happens and how to act.

[Colston36]

A good place to start would be to read some party reviews, that'll give you a good idea of what happens and how to act.

David Good is a mine of information about this. I have been trying rather lackadaisically to arrange a trip with a female friend and he is definitely the source to look up.

[davidgood]

David Good is a mine of information about this. I have been trying rather lackadaisically to arrange a trip with a female friend and he is definitely the source to look up.

Thank you for your vote of confidence.

Regards,

davidgood

[davidgood]

ok people, i'm seriously tempted to lose my party cherry and try one of the couple out there. It might sound stupid to some of you, but I really would appreciate some advice.

!!Party Etiquette!!

Surely there is such a thing, Except the complete dumb obvious ones, are there any do's and don'ts?
i am really quite nervous about coming across rude accidentally, or standing around waiting my turn and in turn missing out - so hell been trying to write this for over an hour and not even sure how to ask or what to ask, so please Any advice, do's don'ts etc

Many thanks guys

As has been said earlier, look at the reviews for the parties you plan to go so you have an idea of their format and what you can expect. Also look at the party's web site so you are fully aware of contribution, timescale  and booking arrangements.

I am sure there have been several threads already about parties and what to expect and how to behave but as I do not have the time to search for them I would comment as follows.

Firstly do not make a booking unless you are seriously going to attend. Lots of guys book then bottle it on the day.

Once you are there, some hosts/organisers ask if you are party newbie. If not tell them yourself and they will generally give you some brief house rules and a tour of the venue and introduce you to some of the girls. If they know it is your first party they are likely to invite you to join in and get involved. You will even find that some of the more polite nice guys will encourage you to get involved.

Make sure you are nice and clean. If showers are available take one.

Rather than hanging around waiting for a popular girl who might have several guys on her or waiting for their chance I would say it is best to start with a girl who is less busy and likely to give you a bit more time and encouragement. Once you have fucked one or two you will be into the swing of things and well on the way to being a party lover, or hater if it is not for you.

If you do take the plunge then please let us have a review.

Regards,

davidgood

[Hunter84]

Thanks mate and yes I will do indeed...I'm happy this site isn't getting bored of the reviews from there now lol. I keep looking and keep thinking just I get worried to much every time and bail out.

[Stevelondon]

Thanks mate and yes I will do indeed...I'm happy this site isn't getting bored of the reviews from there now lol. I keep looking and keep thinking just I get worried to much every time and bail out.

Here is some more advise then.
Don't overthink it.

[Hunter84]

Here is some more advise then.
Don't overthink it.

4 months far too late on that one

[Popwoger]

Thanks mate and yes I will do indeed...I'm happy this site isn't getting bored of the reviews from there now lol. I keep looking and keep thinking just I get worried to much every time and bail out.

I kept overthinking it for ages too, but just took the plunge. Most people are just there to have a good time. Phoenix Club is a more chill setting if you can get a good line up, or Rebecca Ryder puts on a more intense party monthly in Sutton. Went to the one in April this year and was a lot of fun, just left it too long to write a review. For the record I started out by attending phoenix a few years ago.

Agree with all the top advice as said above, being clean and polite goes a long way. Plus most of the WSPs don’t mind servicing a couple cocks at one, most of the time haha 

Really wish I reviewed more instead of being a lurker haha. Need to change that.

Anyhow, do report back if you do end up having a go!

[Thepacifist]

ok people, i'm seriously tempted to lose my party cherry and try one of the couple out there. It might sound stupid to some of you, but I really would appreciate some advice.

!!Party Etiquette!!

Surely there is such a thing, Except the complete dumb obvious ones, are there any do's and don'ts?
i am really quite nervous about coming across rude accidentally, or standing around waiting my turn and in turn missing out - so hell been trying to write this for over an hour and not even sure how to ask or what to ask, so please Any advice, do's don'ts etc

Many thanks guys

I used to go to LMP back in the day. It’s a party, not a 121 so go in with that mindset. Sharing is caring. Have some banter with the punters. Tell the host you’re a noob and they’ll sort you out because they want you to return. Don’t be shy to ask to join in. Don’t hog. Encourage others to join in. Stop overthinking. Once you cross the threshold the nerves will go. The only fear is fear itself. Get stuck in 

[notcalledchris]

Dont over think it.  Be friendly and relaxed with other punters.  They are are there for the same thing. Get stuck into the girls.
Politeness and cleanliness  important just like a normal 1 to 1 punt.  Smile and have fun.

Oh and TPC is a smaller set up to the Sutton parties.  Might be better for a first timer. 

Remember shagging is natural. 

[SpaceRaiderDave]

Dont over think it.  Be friendly and relaxed with other punters.  They are are there for the same thing. Get stuck into the girls.
Politeness and cleanliness  important just like a normal 1 to 1 punt.  Smile and have fun.

Oh and TPC is a smaller set up to the Sutton parties.  Might be better for a first timer. 

Remember shagging is natural.

+1 for the above

The only other tip I'd give is that for your debut party is spend the first 5 or 10 minutes by watching the action and moving between the different rooms. This will allow you to observe the etiquete being adopted by others and is also likely to result in one of the girls to welcome you and help you join the fun.

[Hunter84]

+1 for the above

The only other tip I'd give is that for your debut party is spend the first 5 or 10 minutes by watching the action and moving between the different rooms. This will allow you to observe the etiquete being adopted by others and is also likely to result in one of the girls to welcome you and help you join the fun.

thanks bud, appriciate the advice, that goes for all the comments, i wont lie, i'm bricking it but i'm also looking forward to my first party

[Currywurst]

... here's my 2 pence ...
 
Treat the first party as fact finding mission. Stick it in your head that you're there for social & observational purposes only. Remove the pressure of participation + performance.
 
Target your 2nd party as the first time you intend to participate. It's a bit wasteful, but you may want to consider the staggered approach.
 
(my back-seat advice)  I can't be arsed to get down to London.
 
You never know, one of the lovely ladies might entice you and change your world entirely!

[stonebow1]

Treat the first party as fact finding mission. Stick it in your head that you're there for social & observational purposes only. Remove the pressure of participation + performance.

It is reasonable to attend a party purely as a voyeur?

[pantywetter]

It is reasonable to attend a party purely as a voyeur?

In the bigger parties you might get away with it.  A smaller one such as Phoenix might be a bit strange and you would be encouraged to join in.  You wouldn’t be thrown out or anything like that though.

[notcalledchris]

Purely fact finding is a waste of a party.  Dont over think it and get stuck in.

[scutty brown]

change condoms each time you change girls

[char45]

Good advice above, I am not new to parties but if going to one I haven't been to before I will tell the organiser, as well as showing you around experienced organisers will keep an eye out for you or ask the girls to.

Most parties have a lull after a few guys have come, usually quite quickly, so you can get the measure of the party and join in when it is a bit quieter.

Don't worry about being a voyeur, you are paying the same money. Same goes if you just want oral, doing RO, so long as the girl offers it do what you want.

Don't overdo drink or take drugs, it will be obvious and get you thrown out. Change condoms and don't throw used condoms on the floor for some other person to tread in.

Don't take expensive stuff if you can at all avoid it, parties will have a secure system for phone and wallet but often harder to stash laptops and easy to worry about it, ruining the experience.

Don't worry if it isn't for you, I went through a phase of loving parties but haven't been to one for ages, partly due to Covid and partly not as interested as before.

[Hunter84]

Good advice above, I am not new to parties but if going to one I haven't been to before I will tell the organiser, as well as showing you around experienced organisers will keep an eye out for you or ask the girls to.

Most parties have a lull after a few guys have come, usually quite quickly, so you can get the measure of the party and join in when it is a bit quieter.

Don't worry about being a voyeur, you are paying the same money. Same goes if you just want oral, doing RO, so long as the girl offers it do what you want.

Don't overdo drink or take drugs, it will be obvious and get you thrown out. Change condoms and don't throw used condoms on the floor for some other person to tread in.

Don't take expensive stuff if you can at all avoid it, parties will have a secure system for phone and wallet but often harder to stash laptops and easy to worry about it, ruining the experience.

Don't worry if it isn't for you, I went through a phase of loving parties but haven't been to one for ages, partly due to Covid and partly not as interested as before.

Didnt think about the work laptop, good shout

[Hunter84]

 :cool:ohhh, why did i leave it so long!!!  AMAZING - lost for words atm

[Malvolio]

No point beating yourself up about it - you went to a party when you were ready for it and not before.  Glad to hear you enjoyed the experience.