LadyMarmaladeParty or escort?

[mrsaxon]

Hi,
I am massively planning ahead but I will be in London for a few days in October. My hotel is in southwark. For a one off trip to London would you lot recommend either an oriental style no holds barred escort or visiting a Lady M party? I can prob only fit in one. I am based in the Middlesbrough sites of England so it is a bit of a punting dessert and I really want to indulge myself.
Cheers
Mr S

[GalaxyMan]

If you *know* you can 'perform' in a party (in a group) then I'd suggest a party. If you haven't attended a 'group sex' party before, or are even mildly concerned that Mr Floppy will come too (instead of cum two) then I'd suggest the Oriental Experience within a solo booking.
hth
GM

[cockneybstrd]

Are you only looking for a oriental only...

As if so. I would have thought going for Chinese would be more what you want than all can you eat buffet (or fuck party)

[mrsaxon]

To be honest both things are punting experiences I think you get in London but not in the north east so that's why I want to try one. I don.t have a particular thing for oriental girls but I like the idea of being pampered in every way possible. I also like the idea of a LMP sex party as well. Decisions decisions....

[cockneybstrd]

Well then Mr Saxon

I suggest you do both if you can on your visit to the smoke... (Finances permitting)

[mrsaxon]

Better start playing the lottery then!
But thanks for the advice chaps

[JamesKW]

I have not been to Lady Marmalade but I have been to a party.Parties are worth the visit just for the experience and I intend to visit more in the future as part of my overall punting experience,however they can be extremely nerve racking the first time,it may take a few visits to get into the overall flow of things.Its not the naturalism in front of others that is difficult as I have done this a lot,it is the sexually performing infront of an audience which is difficult.If others tell you they are not watching,they are and some do it to try and put you off and hurry you up so they can have their go.
I felt that Parties are something you need to go to a lot to build up confidence,which I fully intend on doing,rather than a one off to tick off a bucket list of things to do.

[Curious6705]

I have not been to Lady Marmalade but I have been to a party.Parties are worth the visit just for the experience and I intend to visit more in the future as part of my overall punting experience,however they can be extremely nerve racking the first time,it may take a few visits to get into the overall flow of things.Its not the naturalism in front of others that is difficult as I have done this a lot,it is the sexually performing infront of an audience which is difficult.If others tell you they are not watching,they are and some do it to try and put you off and hurry you up so they can have their go.
I felt that Parties are something you need to go to a lot to build up confidence,which I fully intend on doing,rather than a one off to tick off a bucket list of things to do.

My first visit to a party was to LMP, and I've returned there many times since, and I have to say I have never felt this. I told the party managers of the day (Em and Barbara) when it was my first time and they made sure I was very well looked after.

As to nerves, I was probably "socially nervous" - not wanting to do or say the wrong thing - but not nervous about it being a sex party. IMO one reason for that was that I'd read many first hand reports and comments about LMP on UKP - especially from one well known poster - "smiths" - and could rehearse in my mind what to expect.

[mrsaxon]

It has been something that has crossed my mind, having sex with other people watching but I guess if we are all there for one reason and there is good ratio, which LMP seem to ensure it wouldn't be an issue. With the oriental escort option there is always the risk you have a bad punt. A party seems to ensure you will find someone there to help you blow your load.

[JamesKW]

My first visit to a party was to LMP, and I've returned there many times since, and I have to say I have never felt this. I told the party managers of the day (Em and Barbara) when it was my first time and they made sure I was very well looked after.

As to nerves, I was probably "socially nervous" - not wanting to do or say the wrong thing - but not nervous about it being a sex party. IMO one reason for that was that I'd read many first hand reports and comments about LMP on UKP - especially from one well known poster - "smiths" - and could rehearse in my mind what to expect.

I agree from reviews on UKP that LMP is the crème de la crème of partying due to its good ratios,but I fully intend to be on the partying scene for the longterm,and I am building confidence on the down market scene first before I hopefully go to LMP next year.£150 is a lot for me to spend in one go.For that I can get a party and a couple of half hour one on one sessions.

[Curious6705]

I agree from reviews on UKP that LMP is the crème de la crème of partying due to its good ratios,but I fully intend to be on the partying scene for the longterm,and I am building confidence on the down market scene first before I hopefully go to LMP next year.£150 is a lot for me to spend in one go.For that I can get a party and a couple of half hour one on one sessions.

Fair enough. 

Personally I'm not London based so it's not particularly easy for me to try other cheaper party options. Before my first LMP attendance I was paying one local WG £150 ph and she was sometimes good and sometimes crap, so LMP seemed inexpensive to me. As the OP has suggested, I reckoned my chances of a good time were better with 7 options instead of one - and so it proved for me. 

[PuntingPete]

I have not been to Lady Marmalade but I have been to a party.Parties are worth the visit just for the experience and I intend to visit more in the future as part of my overall punting experience,however they can be extremely nerve racking the first time,it may take a few visits to get into the overall flow of things.Its not the naturalism in front of others that is difficult as I have done this a lot,it is the sexually performing infront of an audience which is difficult.If others tell you they are not watching,they are and some do it to try and put you off and hurry you up so they can have their go.
I felt that Parties are something you need to go to a lot to build up confidence,which I fully intend on doing,rather than a one off to tick off a bucket list of things to do.

I'm with curious on this one, I have never experienced this at a party. And I have never felt like I have been watched - well not uncomfortably so anyway. 

This goes for LMP and many others I have attended. 

[smiths]

I agree from reviews on UKP that LMP is the crème de la crème of partying due to its good ratios,but I fully intend to be on the partying scene for the longterm,and I am building confidence on the down market scene first before I hopefully go to LMP next year.£150 is a lot for me to spend in one go.For that I can get a party and a couple of half hour one on one sessions.

LMP charges £160 for one party actually. I also went to LMP last as it happens due to their cost compared to their rivals in London. GP Parties now gone, Sacred Rose also now gone, Desire Parties another now gone, The Limelight Club, now under a different name i think, and LAPC. When i finally went to LMP i saw the difference between them and these others. I still go to LAPC, mainly their Wednesday night party sometimes.

My advice to punters interested in parties is try all those you can get to and find the one or ones that suits you.

[JamesKW]

I'm with curious on this one, I have never experienced this at a party. And I have never felt like I have been watched - well not uncomfortably so anyway. 

This goes for LMP and many others I have attended. 

This happened to me at a party I had this bloke towering over me,I felt he was putting pressure on for a quick completion,so even though I had gone a bit floppy I carried on going deliberately as if nothing had happened and the WG acted it out as well because I don't think she was that comfortable with having him next,she even offered me hand job to try and delay my departure.I didn't mind too much as I felt this would increase my confidence and this sort of thing probably doesn't happen at LMP where the ratio is better.

[Convince Me]

I'm with curious on this one, I have never experienced this at a party. And I have never felt like I have been watched - well not uncomfortably so anyway. 

This goes for LMP and many others I have attended. 

There's always one at each party who struts around believing he's the alpha male & thus 'pressures' others out the way. From my experience the girls at LMP normally clock this twat early on deal with him accordingly.

My favourite parties by a long chalk were Sacred Rose, great girls, ok venue & fellow attendees were a good bunch. Why did they disappear?

[smiths]

There's always one at each party who struts around believing he's the alpha male & thus 'pressures' others out the way. From my experience the girls at LMP normally clock this twat early on deal with him accordingly.

My favourite parties by a long chalk were Sacred Rose, great girls, ok venue & fellow attendees were a good bunch. Why did they disappear?

They moved to a very nice place in Warwick Avenue or Road, i cant recall which now but one of the landlords workman saw what was going on and the landlord grassed them up to the police leading to a raid that closed them down. The host at that time was an Asian guy.

[mrsaxon]

So smiths from your experience is LMP a good place to try as a one off special treat for a northerner visiting London for a few days?

[smiths]

So smiths from your experience is LMP a good place to try as a one off special treat for a northerner visiting London for a few days?

Yes if you have no problem with there being other punters naked and punting.

[Curious6705]

There's always one at each party who struts around believing he's the alpha male & thus 'pressures' others out the way. From my experience the girls at LMP normally clock this twat early on deal with him accordingly.

My favourite parties by a long chalk were Sacred Rose, great girls, ok venue & fellow attendees were a good bunch. Why did they disappear?

I must be very lucky or unobservant because I've been to many LMP parties and not seen this.

Sometimes I try to start and keep going a general conversation in the kitchen before the party, which I think one or two of the girls have interpreted as me trying to assert some kind of alpha maleness (which I absolutely was not doing - just trying to break the ice as it can feel a bit tense in there sometimes).

[Convince Me]

I must be very lucky or unobservant because I've been to many LMP parties and not seen this.

Sometimes I try to start and keep going a general conversation in the kitchen before the party, which I think one or two of the girls have interpreted as me trying to assert some kind of alpha maleness (which I absolutely was not doing - just trying to break the ice as it can feel a bit tense in there sometimes).

I'm just overtly observant, it's my nature. Im very much aware of my surroundings & those I'm sharing it with so pick up personality traits quickly. I recognise we are all different & approach situations differently.

Interesting statement, & honest of you when you mention how the girls perceive you.

[Steve2]

My favourite parties by a long chalk were Sacred Rose, great girls, ok venue & fellow attendees were a good bunch. Why did they disappear?

I am sure LMP will be able to fill in the gaps. Em was a regular party girl there

[Curious6705]

I'm just overtly observant, it's my nature. Im very much aware of my surroundings & those I'm sharing it with so pick up personality traits quickly. I recognise we are all different & approach situations differently.

Interesting statement, & honest of you when you mention how the girls perceive you.

I'm genuinely a little puzzled by your experience. Having said that I'm usually concentrating on the girl I'm playing with and chatting to her and the couple next to us if there is one, rather than watching other people. Tbh I also believe people sometimes read things into situations that aren't always there.

As to how one or two girls reacted to my occasional attempts to "host" a pre-party chat - I wasn't totally surprised - I think I could have predicted who it would be beforehand. The overall reaction was positive.

[mrsaxon]

So general advice is not to walk in drop the robe and shout loudly "the mega cock is here" 

[Curious6705]

So general advice is not to walk in drop the robe and shout loudly "the mega cock is here" 

I think you have got the drift! 

[davidgood]

There's always one at each party who struts around believing he's the alpha male & thus 'pressures' others out the way. From my experience the girls at LMP normally clock this twat early on deal with him accordingly.

My favourite parties by a long chalk were Sacred Rose, great girls, ok venue & fellow attendees were a good bunch. Why did they disappear?

CM, one of the Sacred Rose guys started Annabelle's Parties. Held in a very posh mansion house block off North End Road, West Ken.

Unfortunately a guy tried to attack on of the girls in the garden area after a party. The Police were called, there were some complaints from neighbours and a day or two after there was a raid and they were closed down. Not aware of the organiser doing any parties since.

Regards,

davidgood

[Convince Me]

Tbh I also believe people sometimes read things into situations that aren't always there.

Yes, I agree sometime folk can be prejudge mental but also believe it's in our nature when in a social setting to find our genetic position within the group. There's nothing wrong with it & we all have different personalities.

[Convince Me]

CM, one of the Sacred Rose guys started Annabelle's Parties. Held in a very posh mansion house block off North End Road, West Ken.

Unfortunately a guy tried to attack on of the girls in the garden area after a party. The Police were called, there were some complaints from neighbours and a day or two after there was a raid and they were closed down. Not aware of the organiser doing any parties since.

Regards,

davidgood

Cheers DG, after all these years I can close that chapter, although not a happy ending for the girl involved.

[Curious6705]

Yes, I agree sometime folk can be prejudge mental but also believe it's in our nature when in a social setting to find our genetic position within the group. There's nothing wrong with it & we all have different personalities.

Well - can only say I've never seen this at LMP - an alpha male seeking to dominate the shagging. How I, or any other guest would be able to spot it "at every party" is beyond me. LG, Westminster, and the new venue all have 3 party rooms, and at a busy party it takes Em and another person to keep an eye on them - because even Em with 10 years experience cannot be in two places at once. And the party managers are not even doing any shagging.

I'd heard from LMP regulars of someone occasionally trying to be alpha but it seems very rare, and even though I've been there many times it's not happened in my presence.

It would be fun to explore how this spidey supersense of yours works, but in the end, you're not going to convince me though it appears you have convinced yourself. Anyway punting is a broad church, as is this forum, and I hope you enjoy your participation in both.

[smiths]

Cheers DG, after all these years I can close that chapter, although not a happy ending for the girl involved.

You asked what happened to Sacred Rose, i told you above. Good is talking about Annabellas here that started after Sacred Rose be it with some of the same people involved.

[ampersand]

£150 is a lot for me to spend in one go. For that I can get a party and a couple of half hour one on one sessions.

Really? Where?

[yuiop300]

If you don't mind seeing another guys cock go for it.  If the sight of another guys cock bothers you then partying isn't probably for you.  Everyone is friendly and there to have fun.  No one cares how big you are or what you look like. 

I've been to LMP about 15x over the past 4yrs.  It's well worth it.  The hosts will look after you if you tell them you have never been before.

The girls and hosts are pro active in making sure EVERYONE has fun.  99% of the time I've never seen any issues.

Y

[Convince Me]

You asked what happened to Sacred Rose, i told you above. Good is talking about Annabellas here that started after Sacred Rose be it with some of the same people involved.

Smiths, I stand corrected; heavy night

[smiths]

Smiths, I stand corrected; heavy night

No worries, i was told by someone who i know well what happened at SR, a pity as more party providers are needed in London in my view not less.

[Convince Me]

Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, so how much would it cost to set up as a rival to LMP? Website design, location..?

[smiths]

Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, so how much would it cost to set up as a rival to LMP? Website design, location..?

No idea, not something i am interested in doing, i dont fancy the risk of getting nicked.

[mrsaxon]

If you don't mind seeing another guys cock go for it.  If the sight of another guys cock bothers you then partying isn't probably for you.  Everyone is friendly and there to have fun.  No one cares how big you are or what you look like. 

I've been to LMP about 15x over the past 4yrs.  It's well worth it.  The hosts will look after you if you tell them you have never been before.

The girls and hosts are pro active in making sure EVERYONE has fun.  99% of the time I've never seen any issues.

Y

Thanks for the advice, Deffo booking when I go in October. I am there for an NFL game, maybe is should suggest an American football theme!