Book Alexandra. Decide what you want, let her know you are an inexperienced punter and what your requirements are. For me, good DFK was the key on my first punt. I saw a girl who met my other requirements, but without kissing the experience lacked the intimacy I needed and I left feeling a little 'empty'. I subsequently saw another girl who was a great kisser and that really made the difference. Kissing is now less important to me, but at the start of my punting career it was a step on the ladder of experience. Decide what your initial requirements are and work up to your full fantasy in terms of services, but the first girl you choose should be someone who would normally be unattainable for you. Don't worry about performance issues, a good girl will look after you.