I Might Be a Sexist Pig

[Pie Eater]

 But so be it

I have made an outcall booking with an SP who lives about 20 miles from me. I've found out she will be coming by public transport. Not only is this a ball ache for her but it's a late evening booking so she would be travelling back at night. This does not sit easy with me so I'm not sure I want to go ahead with the booking.

So, am I a sexist pig or would others feel the same?

[lewisjones23]

not your problem

she accepted the booking

probably wont turn up anyway

[Stevelondon]

Why are you asking if your a sexist pig.
It seems to me you are simply showing concern towards a female who will be travelling late at night.

That doesn’t make you a sexist pig mate.

Of course if your worried enough. Get her an Uber back 

[lillythesavage]

Done this many times, sometimes turned into an overnight, others been a gentlemen and offered to drive them home, sometimes accepted sometimes they have used Uber.

Only you can make your own decisions.

I have also picked them up if it is a ball ache.

[nwluvit]

As someone said it may turn into an overnighter!
You could always walk her back to the Bus stop, get her a taxi.
As someone else said she may not turn up.
Let us know what transpires.

[Aldebaran]

Your concern for this lady's safety is commendable, but perhaps you should bear in mind that this is a woman who makes her living by meeting strange men in private with no prior knowledge of whether they are decent guys or psychopaths. Like most SPs.I'm sure that she is well risk aware.
She is probably safer on a bus or train than she would be with some of her clients.

[king tarzan]

Why are you asking if your a sexist pig.
It seems to me you are simply showing concern towards a female who will be travelling late at night.

That doesn’t make you a sexist pig mate.

Of course if your worried enough. Get her an Uber back 

🤜🦊🤛

[Lou2019]

Confused like others what the sexist pig element is?

[JontyR]

Confused like others what the sexist pig element is

I presume because his concern is based purely because of her gender? Not saying it is, but thats the only way it could be perceived as being sexist.

[CheeseBoard]

She is probably charging you enough to be able to afford a taxi both ways and decided to use public transport.

Not sure why you are concerned about it.  I would imagine she has done her due diligence on transport.

Its her choice.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Had a girl call here, friend of another SP she lived up in Manchester took her back to the station and then found out that she'd missed the last train the the silly mare got a bloody Uber back to manchester from cambridge!! cost her a few hundred quid if she'd had called me she would have been wellcome of use the spare room for the night, as it was her train ticket was an open return. Never found out why she didnt try to get a hotel would have cost less!..

[southcoastpunter]

I think i must be a sexist pig as well. i met a lady off "seeking" aged about 24 or 25 for an initial drink and chat. afterwards i offered her a lift home and we walked back to my car and i open the car door for her. she told me that she had never had a guy do that for her before! I must try to be more PC!!

[Pie Eater]

I presume because his concern is based purely because of her gender? Not saying it is, but thats the only way it could be perceived as being sexist.

Correct. Wouldn't give it a second thought if it was a bloke. Not that I see rent boys. Honest.

[Lou2019]

Had a girl call here, friend of another SP she lived up in Manchester took her back to the station and then found out that she'd missed the last train the the silly mare got a bloody Uber back to manchester from cambridge!! cost her a few hundred quid if she'd had called me she would have been wellcome of use the spare room for the night, as it was her train ticket was an open return. Never found out why she didnt try to get a hotel would have cost less!..

Perhaps she had commitments and needed to be back at home. Even us prossies have families you know 

[The_Don]

But so be it

I have made an outcall booking with an SP who lives about 20 miles from me. I've found out she will be coming by public transport. Not only is this a ball ache for her but it's a late evening booking so she would be travelling back at night. This does not sit easy with me so I'm not sure I want to go ahead with the booking.

So, am I a sexist pig or would others feel the same?

I do in-call bookings (out-calls don't have any appeal currently) and have travelled late at night, (in some not great places) for a punt. Common sense and some street-wise knowledge, helps IMO.

A number of W/G have stated to me that, the location is the office and they travel home at night. Not sure how its any different from a person, going to and from a work location     

[The_Don]

Here some images of pie, if it makes you feel any better about it



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Meet pie / savoury pie now I'm hungry, with no pie in the fridge. Mite have to pop one on the shopping list 

[Stevelondon]

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Meet pie / savoury pie now I'm hungry, with no pie in the fridge. Mite have to pop one on the shopping list 

 A meet pie........thats a new on on me 

[s0whatsnew?]

 A meet pie........thats a new on on me 

Are you taking the piesss ?     

[Strawberry]

Has she told you it's a ball ache? Surely it's a decision for her, her risk assessment and she has the decision of whether to accept the booking. She might even like the journey.

[Hobbit]

I think if you were truly worried about her safety then you would offer to pay for a cab to and from your place, but I guess you won't. Call me a cynical pig. 

[thimble29]

Your concern for this lady's safety is commendable, but perhaps you should bear in mind that this is a woman who makes her living by meeting strange men in private with no prior knowledge of whether they are decent guys or psychopaths. Like most SPs.I'm sure that she is well risk aware.
She is probably safer on a bus or train than she would be with some of her clients.

Statistically, she's also much safer than the OP would be in the same situation (assuming he's male)

[Link7]

perhaps you should bear in mind that this is a woman who makes her living by meeting strange men in private with no prior knowledge of whether they are decent guys or psychopaths.

Precisely. This is an absurd concern in the context (relative to the risks being taken on both sides). Does OP really regard the bus/train journey as the most dangerous thing going on here?

Nothing chivalrous about this game, I wouldn't make a pretence if I were him.

[Lou2019]

Has she told you it's a ball ache? Surely it's a decision for her, her risk assessment and she has the decision of whether to accept the booking. She might even like the journey.

And hopping on a train or bus is the least of our worries in this job isn’t it 

[Stevelondon]

And hopping on a train or bus is the least of our worries in this job isn’t it 

I worry every time I log on to this forum Lou.
God knows how I would cope if I ever went into escorting. 


Come to think of it. Is there a web site for ugly male escorts. 

[Lou2019]

Is there a web site for ugly male escorts. 

Only if you take it up the arse 

[willie loman]

I think i must be a sexist pig as well. i met a lady off "seeking" aged about 24 or 25 for an initial drink and chat. afterwards i offered her a lift home and we walked back to my car and i open the car door for her. she told me that she had never had a guy do that for her before! I must try to be more PC!!

saw sean connery due this in charlotte square, not only did he open the door, he did this curious hand on the back to help her in, very "old school"

[shagmore]

I think its quite the opposite, you are concerned about the WG, a sexist pig wouldn't give a shite.
She knows where you are the distances and transport modes involved to get to the punt, its part of her job.