That's disappointing to hear, Coconut.
It sounds as though she blows hot and cold. She had some poor reviews when she was working as 'Lydia', although her attitude was fine when I saw her, and she came across as a nice, uncomplicated, likeable girl.
Like with you, though, she didn't make any effort in cleaning me up afterwards; it's the only time I've ever had to remove the condom myself, although I didn't mind too much, because she'd already remarked on how sharp her nails were. She wouldn't do 69 either, which I thought a bit odd.
So it does sound as though anyone going to see her is taking a gamble. Better luck next time.