Lilyjay, Kensington and Chelsea - Scammed deposit

[Massagestar]

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Comms : called her and didn’t pick up. Only message back and forth , so I should have known it’s a bait.
Arranged for a week after for a meet for incall then she asks me for 100£ deposit. As her profile looks genuine I thought fuck it. I have sent her the deposit. Week later she said I am busy I forgot about the booking. And asked me do I want my money back. I said no we will do next week as you are busy. So next week arrived . Now she says she has Covid. Fair enough then now I asked for money back. She asked me to send bank details , so I sent her but still waiting for my money back. Chasing her for two days now. Asked for PayPal now and still nothing. She is showing available on adultwork now. And her calendar is showing available for the whole week and next two weeks. How can she work if she has Covid. Scammer beware guys

[Fuzzyduck]

Sorry to hear that. I know it's no help whatsoever but I've reluctantly declined whenever I've been asked for a deposit. She's got some good reviews so she's not a total fraud but that's shit on her part to keep your money. Also for either lying to you about having COVID or, even worse, working when she's potentially infectious. 

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[inalco]

Sorry to hear that. I know it's no help whatsoever but I've reluctantly declined whenever I've been asked for a deposit. She's got some good reviews so she's not a total fraud but that's shit on her part to keep your money. Also for either lying to you about having COVID or, even worse, working when she's potentially infectious. 

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I agree, I always decline deposits too, because once they have your money they have no incentive to deliver the service, in fact they're better off meeting someone else, and doubling up for the same amount of time.

Builders and other trades people can be the same too, but at least they shoud be traceable, whereas someone using whatsapp isn't.

[Massagestar]

The deposit has been sent back to me. I have promised her I will take the post down. But I have no clue how to. Can anyone help. Thanks

[larryshouse]

Click on 'report to moderator' they will remove the screenshots with bank details and your name.
When you upload a review you are warned - Reviews cannot be deleted once posted.

[Fuzzyduck]

The deposit has been sent back to me. I have promised her I will take the post down. But I have no clue how to. Can anyone help. Thanks

what were the chances? At least we know she, her representatives or her fanboys are monitoring UKP. I'm glad you got your money back but I struggle to believe that that would have happened without this review. No doubt it was accompanied by some bullshit story about "sorry babe, I've been busy".

[daviemac]

The deposit has been sent back to me. I have promised her I will take the post down. But I have no clue how to. Can anyone help. Thanks

Reviews are not taken down mate as is made very clear on the 'new review' page.

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Not the brightest idea to post screenshots with your name on so I've taken them out.

[Massagestar]

Thanks. I have blurred them out. But this stupid iPhone posted anyway.

[Dangermouse82]

Or change the review to a postive. First time i 3ver heard of someone giving back the money. Fair play to her

[Fuzzyduck]

Or change the review to a postive. First time i 3ver heard of someone giving back the money. Fair play to her

Respectfully, I disagree. She had lots of time to give him his money back. Then, less than an hour after he posted this review, the refund amazingly happens. He'd still be out of pocket if he hadn't posted this review.

[daviemac]

Or change the review to a postive. First time i 3ver heard of someone giving back the money. Fair play to her

No chance, that would open doors for them to buy their way out of negative reviews. He posted this before he got the refund and it's quite likely only got it because of it.

[bonapati]

Beware she is highly unreliable and flaky, another one worth the wait.

[golden bull]

Lol miss piggy 🐖 scamming 🐩.

[FiveKnuckles]

awful timing for her.  she paid for escort of the day 

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[golden bull]

awful timing for her.  she paid for escort of the day 

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April fool lol

[Punter88]

This girl sounds like a skam! The guy that wrote her reviews made her up apparently

[Macmillan1964]

What on earth is wrong with her lashes ?

[lllllllllily]

Hi!

Sorry again for the delay in sending your deposit back. During that time I was suffering from grief so was understandably unable to function or deal with work admin as normal. I do profusely apologise.

All the best,

Lily   

[lllllllllily]

And yes further to my last reply I just don't answer calls as my phone would ring all day long if I did.  My personal communication preference for bookings has always via message.


Lily

[finn5555]

Hi!

Sorry again for the delay in sending your deposit back. During that time I was suffering from grief so was understandably unable to function or deal with work admin as normal. I do profusely apologise.

All the best,

Lily   

If it wasn’t for negative reporting here you probably would never have repaid the deposit 

[lllllllllily]

If it wasn’t for negative reporting here you probably would never have repaid the deposit 

Hi!

Yes of course I would. I have no reason to scam or wrongfully keep someones deposit. Everyone I have ever taken a deposit from can attest to this, as can all my lovely clients that know this isn't my style. I was in the midst of communication with the OP to send it and, as previously mentioned it was a case of me going through an extremely difficult time in my life and thus finding it difficult to do work admin. On this occasion, I also sent compensation to the OP on top of the deposit to show my gratitude for his patience and how apologetic I was.

I hope that clears things up. I won't be responding to anymore similar comments re this if anyone else is unfortunately insistent in creating a false narrative and not believing my words.


All the best,

Lily   

[LLPunting]

Hi!

Yes of course I would. I have no reason to scam or wrongfully keep someones deposit. Everyone I have ever taken a deposit from can attest to this, as can all my lovely clients that know this isn't my style. I was in the midst of communication with the OP to send it and, as previously mentioned it was a case of me going through an extremely difficult time in my life and thus finding it difficult to do work admin. On this occasion, I also sent compensation to the OP on top of the deposit to show my gratitude for his patience and how apologetic I was.

I hope that clears things up. I won't be responding to anymore similar comments re this if anyone else is unfortunately insistent in creating a false narrative and not believing my words.


All the best,

Lily   

Do you only take deposits for the first time someone tries to book you?
Under what conditions do you not return a deposit?
How quickly do you return a deposit if the failure to meet or complete a booking is yours?

[finn5555]

Hi!

Yes of course I would. I have no reason to scam or wrongfully keep someones deposit. Everyone I have ever taken a deposit from can attest to this, as can all my lovely clients that know this isn't my style. I was in the midst of communication with the OP to send it and, as previously mentioned it was a case of me going through an extremely difficult time in my life and thus finding it difficult to do work admin. On this occasion, I also sent compensation to the OP on top of the deposit to show my gratitude for his patience and how apologetic I was.

I hope that clears things up. I won't be responding to anymore similar comments re this if anyone else is unfortunately insistent in creating a false narrative and not believing my words.


All the best,

Lily   

I don’t believe you 

[LLPunting]

I don’t believe you 

Well she could post a screenshot of her transaction with sufficient redaction to maintain privacy but enough revealed that the punter can confirm it was his account, assuming you trust the punter "associated" with her and her overly-checkered history in such a short and limited accounting on this board.

[Kev40ish]

Well she could post a screenshot of her transaction with sufficient redaction to maintain privacy but enough revealed that the punter can confirm it was his account, assuming you trust the punter "associated" with her and her overly-checkered history in such a short and limited accounting on this board.

  He did confirm it…

The deposit has been sent back to me. I have promised her I will take the post down. But I have no clue how to. Can anyone help. Thanks

[finn5555]

He did confirm it…

My point was Kev if he hadn’t of posted here he may never have heard from her again. In fairness she did the right thing 

[Kev40ish]

My point was Kev if he hadn’t of posted here he may never have heard from her again. In fairness she did the right thing 

Yes I wasn’t disagreeing with you 

[LLPunting]

He did confirm it…

He only confirmed the deposit refund not the compensation she claims to have sent.  Perhaps the payment system used allows transactions to be "undone" thus limiting the amount to what was sent.  She would then need to send the extra separately to the same punter account.  That should be easy to evidence in a filtered listing of transactions on most any online payments or banking service.

[lllllllllily]

I find it truly bizarre how many men on here spend so much of their lives totally consumed by this website. It's weird seeing these complete strangers choosing to spend their time on this earth gossiping on here about myself and my colleagues day in and day out. As I am not interested in attracting such clients who behave in this way, don't respect sex workers, spew misogynistic abuse online and spread untrue remarks, I will not be entertaining any other remarks from strangers on this forum relating to my business.


All the best,

Lily   

[Ron89]

I find it truly bizarre how many men on here spend so much of their lives totally consumed by this website. It's weird seeing these complete strangers choosing to spend their time on this earth gossiping on here about myself and my colleagues day in and day out. As I am not interested in attracting such clients who behave in this way, don't respect sex workers, spew misogynistic abuse online and spread untrue remarks, I will not be entertaining any other remarks from strangers on this forum relating to my business.


All the best,

Lily   

Hope you realise that a significant proportion of the men you suck off use this site, be it actively posting or reading. Not to mention the reviews have undoubtedly made you a lot of money. Now I think I speak for everyone in saying fuck off and don’t come back.

[lllllllllily]

There is a difference between posting or reading the site once in a while and obsessive posters who spend their lives totally consumed by this website and, as I described before spewing misogynistic abuse, clearly not respecting sex workers and constantly posting about us. Concerning behaviour. The latter of which  I (or any other sex worker) do not wish to attract since that wasn't clear from my previous message. This is why I won't entertain further remarks relating to my business.

All the best,

Lily

[Fuzzyduck]

He only confirmed the deposit refund not the compensation she claims to have sent.  Perhaps the payment system used allows transactions to be "undone" thus limiting the amount to what was sent.  She would then need to send the extra separately to the same punter account.  That should be easy to evidence in a filtered listing of transactions on most any online payments or banking service.

I got the impression both were separate bank transfers.

A number of things don't sit well with me.

- There is something distasteful about the notion of this SP giving some extra compensation to OP along with a request to take the review down. I'd be interested to hear OP's view on that.

- Then there's the refund (plus "compensation") appearing in under an hour from the review being posted. Clearly her pimp/manager/agent is monitoring UKP. Yes you, you cunt.

- Also, I wondered why she suddenly appeared on here, bumping several of her reviews when she was taking a break according to her profile. Then I saw this pic. New tits? It would make sense - to pump up () the marketing before trying to sell at her new price point of £350/hr.

[lllllllllily]

I got the impression both were separate bank transfers.

A number of things don't sit well with me.

- There is something distasteful about the notion of this SP giving some extra compensation to OP along with a request to take the review down. I'd be interested to hear OP's view on that.

- Then there's the refund (plus "compensation") appearing in under an hour from the review being posted. Clearly her pimp/manager/agent is monitoring UKP. Yes you, you cunt.

- Also, I wondered why she suddenly appeared on here, bumping several of her reviews when she was taking a break according to her profile. Then I saw this pic. New tits? It would make sense - to pump up () the marketing before trying to sell at her new price point of £350/hr.





Hi!

It was simply to clear up the untrue remarks and fake reviews that have been written about me.


Have fun with your incessant bizarre gossiping,

Lily 

[LLPunting]

I find it truly bizarre how many men on here spend so much of their lives totally consumed by this website. It's weird seeing these complete strangers choosing to spend their time on this earth gossiping on here about myself and my colleagues day in and day out. As I am not interested in attracting such clients who behave in this way, don't respect sex workers, spew misogynistic abuse online and spread untrue remarks, I will not be entertaining any other remarks from strangers on this forum relating to my business.


All the best,

Lily   

And yet you keep posting, making claims of good deeds without proof.  But now you're making generalisations in condemning the vast majority who may not even know you exist and haven't shown the slightest inclination in engaging with you.  How nice you are.

This gossip you condemn is what leads to very good business for those who are praised and perhaps affects the trade of those who fall foul.  Otherwise why would you be here?  So perhaps you're condemning yourself?

It was nice of you to drop by and drum up business but since your reasoning seems to be ever so significantly conflicted perhaps you should just let your adverts do the work.  No stress or danger of you coming across us gossips again.

Perhaps you'd like us to embargo any positive reviewing of you?  No chance of contemptible gossips here then being encouraged to pay for your services.

The only true colleague of yours we're aware of has a bad history here, doesn't serve your reputation or sincerity well. 

It's lovely that you're well spoken but the airs and graces and level of presumption you're evidencing shows a degree of self-absorption that perhaps needs counselling for fear that it will not serve your future well-being.  We all struggle with staying sane.

[Ron89]

I got the impression both were separate bank transfers.

A number of things don't sit well with me.

- There is something distasteful about the notion of this SP giving some extra compensation to OP along with a request to take the review down. I'd be interested to hear OP's view on that.

- Then there's the refund (plus "compensation") appearing in under an hour from the review being posted. Clearly her pimp/manager/agent is monitoring UKP. Yes you, you cunt.

- Also, I wondered why she suddenly appeared on here, bumping several of her reviews when she was taking a break according to her profile. Then I saw this pic. New tits? It would make sense - to pump up () the marketing before trying to sell at her new price point of £350/hr.

Those look rank, good thing she knows how to suck dick.

[Momodan38]

Unpopular opinion, but they look ok to me

Let’s not discourage other SP’s in bettering themselves with fake tatta’s 

[LLPunting]

Unpopular opinion, but they look ok to me

Let’s not discourage other SP’s in bettering themselves in their own eyes (and perhaps Momodan's) with fake tatta’s 

Clarified your statement.
I don't encourage women to surgically alter their appearance, particularly if it's to serve the male gaze, but that's mysogynist moi.

[Momodan38]

Clarified your statement.
I don't encourage women to surgically alter their appearance, particularly if it's to serve the male gaze, but that's mysogynist moi.

Look who’s a smarty pants

[LLPunting]

Look who’s a smarty pants

Something has to do the thinking when I'm out and about, the rest of me is usually pre-occupied with finding sex for sale.   

[Haderach]

There is a difference between posting or reading the site once in a while and obsessive posters who spend their lives totally consumed by this website and, as I described before spofewing misogynistic abuse, clearly not respecting sex workers and constantly posting about us. Concerning behaviour. The latter of which  I (or any other sex worker) do not wish to attract since that wasn't clear from my previous message. This is why I won't entertain further remarks relating to my business.

All the best,

Lily

Irrespective of the rights or wrongs, this thread was long dead before you bumped it back up, then you seem to lose your cool and slag off UKP members. Not clever, not professional and not good business.

A real Gerald Rather moment, poor show, poor show indeed.

[lllllllllily]

Find something else to do with your spare time than bullying a literal innocent 23 year old sex worker online you absolute incels.

As if sex workers don't suffer enough in society without being the culprits of online abuse and slander by nasty people like you. But again none of you posting clearly have an ounce of respect for sex workers, despite your lives being consumed by obsessively posting and reviewing them on this website.

This is not a site to 'help your client community'. It is a site to openly abuse sex workers. I suggest all of you posters do some reflective work on your abusive online behaviour and deeply misogynistic and whorephobic views. And why you feel the need to post unnecessary hate comments about a young woman with the intention of causing upset. And given the nature of your predictable replies to this, getting a kick out of upsetting people. Horrible.

I always say if you wouldn't feel comfortable telling someone in your life what you are doing such as a colleague, friend or family member, it is clearly wrong and not normal. Perhaps something for you all to think about. Shame on every single one of you posting.


Find a new hobby instead of secretly bullying women online in your spare time or seek help. 


Lily

[Haderach]

Find something else to do with your spare time than bullying a literal innocent 23 year old sex worker online you absolute incels.

As if sex workers don't suffer enough in society without being the culprits of online abuse and slander by nasty people like you. But again none of you posting clearly have an ounce of respect for sex workers, despite your lives being consumed by obsessively posting and reviewing them on this website.

This is not a site to 'help your client community'. It is a site to openly abuse sex workers. I suggest all of you posters do some reflective work on your abusive online behaviour and deeply misogynistic and whorephobic views. And why you feel the need to post unnecessary hate comments about a young woman with the intention of causing upset. And given the nature of your predictable replies to this, getting a kick out of upsetting people. Horrible.

I always say if you wouldn't feel comfortable telling someone in your life what you are doing such as a colleague, friend or family member, it is clearly wrong and not normal. Perhaps something for you all to think about. Shame on every single one of you posting.


Find a new hobby instead of secretly bullying women online in your spare time or seek help. 


Lily

No hate, just pointing out poor business practices, I would not go on TripAdvisor as a restaurant owner and post negative comments about my customers. Amy's Baking Company as seen on Kitchen Nightmares did this and it was poorly received by the general public. I appreciate that being an escort is a very hard job which is why the pay is ten to twenty times the national average as way of compensation.

With this in mind how people manage their social media image is important as many fall foul of emotions and outbursts.

[lllllllllily]

No hate, just pointing out poor business practices, I would not go on TripAdvisor as a restaurant owner and post negative comments about my customers. Amy's Baking Company as seen on Kitchen Nightmares did this and it was poorly received by the general public. I appreciate that being an escort is a very hard job which is why the pay is ten to twenty times the national average as way of compensation.

With this in mind how people manage their social media image is important as many fall foul of emotions and outbursts.

As I said previously incel UK punting obsessive posters who exhibit deeply concerning misogynistic views and abusive online behaviour are not my customer base, nor am I looking to attract this as my customer base. My main customer base is my countless amazing regulars and lovely clients I meet that don't engage in this behaviour.

Further, despite me stating I am an 100% Independent escort, people still seem to incessant on making accusations regarding pimps. If you're not familiar with the prostitution laws in the UK having a pimp is illegal and usually indicative of trafficking victims. I don't appreciate such accusations towards myself and I suggest you refrain from making such harmful comments towards escorts, especially those who state they are Independent.


As always queue the scury of predictable abusive comments towards me as a result of this post.


Lily

[Ron89]

Find something else to do with your spare time than bullying a literal innocent 23 year old sex worker online you absolute incels.

As if sex workers don't suffer enough in society without being the culprits of online abuse and slander by nasty people like you. But again none of you posting clearly have an ounce of respect for sex workers, despite your lives being consumed by obsessively posting and reviewing them on this website.

This is not a site to 'help your client community'. It is a site to openly abuse sex workers. I suggest all of you posters do some reflective work on your abusive online behaviour and deeply misogynistic and whorephobic views. And why you feel the need to post unnecessary hate comments about a young woman with the intention of causing upset. And given the nature of your predictable replies to this, getting a kick out of upsetting people. Horrible.

I always say if you wouldn't feel comfortable telling someone in your life what you are doing such as a colleague, friend or family member, it is clearly wrong and not normal. Perhaps something for you all to think about. Shame on every single one of you posting.


Find a new hobby instead of secretly bullying women online in your spare time or seek help. 


Lily

Can dish it out but can’t take it. Pathetic.

[finn5555]

As I said previously incel UK punting obsessive posters who exhibit deeply concerning misogynistic views and abusive online behaviour are not my customer base, nor am I looking to attract this as my customer base. My main customer base is my countless amazing regulars and lovely clients I meet that don't engage in this behaviour.

Further, despite me stating I am an 100% Independent escort, people still seem to incessant on making accusations regarding pimps. If you're not familiar with the prostitution laws in the UK having a pimp is illegal and usually indicative of trafficking victims. I don't appreciate such accusations towards myself and I suggest you refrain from making such harmful comments towards escorts, especially those who state they are Independent.


As always queue the scury of predictable abusive comments towards me as a result of this post.


Lily

Calm down  🤦🏻‍♂️ If you don’t like it here log off and fuck off nobody is making you stay 😂

[finn5555]

especially those who state they are Independent.

Herein lies the problem pro$$ies have a history of let’s say embellishing the truth … 

[Tomcat]

My point was Kev if he hadn’t of posted here he may never have heard from her again. In fairness she did the right thing 

One in a million as they say, however I'm thinking in the same lines as finn.

All the hassle he went through but a good result.

[PseLover]

Calls us out for punting yet makes her money from this. How many people in your life know that you do this job, before criticising us about "how many people know we punt". Besides one negative review and one fake review, you even thanked the guy on another review. Which is which?

[lllllllllily]

Calls us out for punting yet makes her money from this. How many people in your life know that you do this job, before criticising us about "how many people know we punt". Besides one negative review and one fake review, you even thanked the guy on another review. Which is which?

You have misunderstood what I have said entirely. No one is calling out your punting don't be silly. I am calling out the problematic behaviour on this website. What I said was towards the people that engage in this.

Hope that is clear,

Lily

[finn5555]

Calls us out for punting yet makes her money from this.

It’s either sucking every Tom, Dick and Abdul or working in Asda for her, but she shouldn’t bite the hand that feeds her like sadly so many do