Exactly, off on the wrong foot straight away. Then comes the old “sensitive” tit routine along with the claimed aches and pains which of course are going to limit her ability to provide a reasonable service.

You can tell a lot about the quality of the service you are likely to receive by how they behave with you when not in the room.
I was at Directors Lodge the other day and I’m talking to Lisa, and Gabriella walks in and looks at me, so I’m dead friendly like - I smile at her and says ‘hello, hows it going’. She looks at me like I’m a piece of shit, ignores me and goes to Lisa ‘where’s them towels’. And I’m thinking to myself, who the fuck do you think you are.
The trouble is that some girls who work in this industry have been ‘hard wired’ over a number of years into thinking that punters are desperate, sad, dysfunctional loners to be taken advantage of when the opportunity arises. That is one dimensional thinking though. That’s like posters on not allowed thinking we are all bald, fat, 50 somethings.
It’s easy to spot them though. They are transparent. They behave like Heidi or Gabriella. I think that attitude it is borne out of not enjoying the job and hating it, but liking the money. I’ve always thought that to be good at this job, you have to enjoy it. There has to be some element of the role which you like. Otherwise it eats you from the inside out.
There is no room for negativity. If you have that mindset, I should imagine that over time it makes you hate men. And it is one of those jobs you need to be invested in - do it with 100% commitment and dedication.
A well known east midlands working girl once said to me that people come to her for all kinds of services and reasons, but the satisfaction she got was making them happy and seeing them leave happy. I like that attitude.