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walking dead

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I have decided to quit punting after maybe 20 punts over the last  12 to 18 months.

I have realised recently it's not what maybe I thought it was.
Obviously it's great to have sex with a young attractive lady.
But I guess I was looking for more than that. Nothing emotional or anything like that, but more of a connection and less of a business like transaction. I don't have any particular fetishes like some will, or look for anything out of the ordinary.

I think I have met two wgs who match what I think, one of them has stopped working and the other only does out calls and is a pain in the ass to organise!

Half of me thinks if I met them again, my more experienced cynical view may put the kaibosh on that too.

I know some girls , the very popular ones are probably very good, but I don't tend to go for ones with hundreds of feedback.

I think it's time I stopped looking for that elusive punt, I guess it probably doesn't exist. Or, if it does it will take me a long time to find it.

why am I blathering on? Just wanted to get it off my chest, and a little interested if I am just weird or if anyone has similar views

I think I am better off dusting the cob webs off the missus

« Last Edit: June 30, 2014, 01:55:44 pm by walking dead »

vorian

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aerofan5

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Maybe it's just me, but I get much better punts with older ladies in the 35 to 50 age bracket.

More enthusiasm, technique, understanding, willing to experiment.

Offline smiths

I have decided to quit punting after maybe 20 punts over the last  12 to 18 months.

I have realised recently it's not what maybe I thought it was.
Obviously it's great to have sex with a young attractive lady.
But I guess I was looking for more than that. Nothing emotional or anything like that, but more of a connection and less of a business like transaction. I don't have any particular fetishes like some will, or look for anything out of the ordinary.

I think I have met two wgs who match what I think, one of them has stopped working and the other only does out calls and is a pain in the ass to organise!

Half of me thinks if I met them again, my more experienced cynical view may put the kaibosh on that too.

I know some girls , the very popular ones are probably very good, but I don't tend to go for ones with hundreds of feedback.

I think it's time I stopped looking for that elusive punt, I guess it probably doesn't exist. Or, if it does it will take me a long time to find it.

why am I blathering on? Just wanted to get it off my chest, and a little interested if I am just weird or if anyone has similar views

I think I am better off dusting the cob webs off the missus

I have read this all before only for the punter to post they are punting again. I had a 6 month break a few years ago and returned fully recharged. Anyway best of luck to you.

Offline Jimmyredcab



I think it's time I stopped looking for that elusive punt, I guess it probably doesn't exist.

Oh it certainly exists but is extremely hard to find, about the same as finding an honest politician.    :hi:

I am now semi retired from punting, not for financial reasons but because of the lack of local talent, finding a decent girl on Adultwork is like trying to find a nugget of gold in ten tons of horse manure.     :hi:

Some gentlemen on here would fuck anything with a pulse, I simply couldn't do that.    :thumbsdown:

Offline Mij

Oh it certainly exists but is extremely hard to find, about the same as finding an honest politician.    :hi:

...... finding a decent girl on Adultwork is like trying to find a nugget of gold in ten tons of horse manure.     :hi:


Agreed. Partly why I joined UKP to get decent recommendations as opposed to trusting AW feedback.

Good luck Dexter!

cockneybstrd

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But I guess I was looking for more than that. Nothing emotional or anything like that, but more of a connection and less of a business like transaction. I don't have any particular fetishes like some will, or look for anything out of the ordinary.

I think I am better off dusting the cob webs off the missus

By the sounds of it you want a Mistress more than anything ??

Personally I approach punting a bit like one night stand I am going to try and get as much out of it as possible as I have no intention of seeing them again.

I do get what you say your looking for but that connection aint going to come if your just seeing them once.. Though when you have regular and you do get that connection then you run the risk of E.A.S. or B.B.S (Big Brother Syndrome)

walking dead

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By the sounds of it you want a Mistress more than anything ??


Thats exactly what I was thinking but can't really be arsed putting the effort in, and certainly not with emotional women. Been there before and it wasn't great!


Offline ForrestGump

I have decided to quit punting after maybe 20 punts over the last  12 to 18 months.

I have realised recently it's not what maybe I thought it was.
Obviously it's great to have sex with a young attractive lady.
But I guess I was looking for more than that. Nothing emotional or anything like that, but more of a connection and less of a business like transaction. I don't have any particular fetishes like some will, or look for anything out of the ordinary.

I think I have met two wgs who match what I think, one of them has stopped working and the other only does out calls and is a pain in the ass to organise!

Half of me thinks if I met them again, my more experienced cynical view may put the kaibosh on that too.

I know some girls , the very popular ones are probably very good, but I don't tend to go for ones with hundreds of feedback.

I think it's time I stopped looking for that elusive punt, I guess it probably doesn't exist. Or, if it does it will take me a long time to find it.

why am I blathering on? Just wanted to get it off my chest, and a little interested if I am just weird or if anyone has similar views

I think I am better off dusting the cob webs off the missus

I'm still in the early stages of exploring the World of punting and, like you, I've been attempting to find a really great experience. But my expectations are not that high, or so I believe. So maybe I'll have more success than you.  :unknown:  However I can certainly empathise with you when it comes to the ease with which a punter can get completely disillusioned.

Good luck getting mrs dexter back into active service  ;)

Maybe it's just me, but I get much better punts with older ladies in the 35 to 50 age bracket.

More enthusiasm, technique, understanding, willing to experiment.

+1

Offline Jimmyredcab



Personally I approach punting a bit like one night stand I am going to try and get as much out of it as possible as I have no intention of seeing them again.


That makes absolutely no sense to me.     :crazy: :crazy:

If you had an excellent meal in a restaurant I assume you would return in the future -------------- so why not see a pro$$ie again.    :unknown:

Offline Jimmyredcab

Maybe it's just me, but I get much better punts with older ladies in the 35 to 50 age bracket.

More enthusiasm, technique, understanding, willing to experiment.

Maybe they are more desperate for business, pro$$ies over 40 are past their sell by date.     :thumbsdown:

Rememo

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That makes absolutely no sense to me.     :crazy: :crazy:

If you had an excellent meal in a restaurant I assume you would return in the future -------------- so why not see a pro$$ie again.    :unknown:

Yeah but the fun is finding the next great restaurant :D

cockneybstrd

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That makes absolutely no sense to me.     :crazy: :crazy:

If you had an excellent meal in a restaurant I assume you would return in the future -------------- so why not see a pro$$ie again.    :unknown:

Maybe I didnt explain myself well in this case Jimmy as usual.

A lot of my punts are on a whim at 11pm at night when I just fancy a fuck nothing more nothing less like a late night take away.

Therefore I tend to approach those kinds of punts like a one night stand. To get as much enjoyment as I can out of it.

If you find one you have a connection with (a bit like one night stand) then I would be maybe inclined too see them again.

From a punting perspective I have a regular that I see which is a bit like eating at a very nice restaurant.

However I still like to grab a dirty kebab on a regular basis and I never stick to the same one. As I like to try all the different kebabs on the menu from as many different kebab places as possible.
« Last Edit: June 30, 2014, 02:58:41 pm by cockneybstrd »

rolf32313

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I never really know what the OP want the world to respond with on this sort of dramatic I'm quitting thread but your right, if you have a misses then you probably have a lot more in common with her than the 20 y/o polish girl you have been seeing behind her back. This game is at the end of the day a business deal, as people have said it sounds like you want more of a mistress than an escort but this is a whole new fcking level of problems...
Mistress's txt and call you unsolicited, they get jealous and worse of all it's not uncommon for them to forget the agreed rules of engagement and start to make long terms plans for the two of you... Do you want to be in a situation where the mistress is telling you that she wants you to leave the wife and kids and move in with her oh and by the way she is pregnant....

Offline dandaley

Maybe it's just me, but I get much better punts with older ladies in the 35 to 50 age bracket.

More enthusiasm, technique, understanding, willing to experiment.

+1

its not just you  :thumbsup:

Offline CBPaul

Maybe it's just me, but I get much better punts with older ladies in the 35 to 50 age bracket.

More enthusiasm, technique, understanding, willing to experiment.

I agree with the idea, although my upper age limit is about 35 (so 25 in prossie years).

Of all the prossies in their early 20's I've seen very few give a shit about good service. It's as if it is enough to have the privilege to fuck a girl in her early 20's.

Generally, their attitude improves and their feelings of self grandeur diminishes as they get a bit older - more experienced, more relaxed, more enthusiastic and more willing to engage in the punt.

I know it's like kids in a sweet shop but that's why I would always advise a newbie to see an older prossie first off.

walking dead

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I never really know what the OP want the world to respond with on this sort of dramatic I'm quitting thread but your right, if you have a misses then you probably have a lot more in common with her than the 20 y/o polish girl you have been seeing behind her back. This game is at the end of the day a business deal, as people have said it sounds like you want more of a mistress than an escort but this is a whole new fcking level of problems...
Mistress's txt and call you unsolicited, they get jealous and worse of all it's not uncommon for them to forget the agreed rules of engagement and start to make long terms plans for the two of you... Do you want to be in a situation where the mistress is telling you that she wants you to leave the wife and kids and move in with her oh and by the way she is pregnant....

It wasn't dramatic and I didn't want the world to respond with anything in particular.  However it was interesting reading some of the other replies

James999

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You sound like a repressed homosexual  :angelgirl:

yorkshire123

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Good luck Dexter  :hi:
I decide to quit every Sunday straight after a punt but by Tuesday I'm planning another  :unknown:

Offline NIK

Yeah, I always thought I'd be in control when I quit and I'd often planned it, however it seems to have been ripped out of my hands by finances.
I desperately hope however that my last ever punts won't be the pair I had in London in May though at HOD and London Retreat.  :blush:

potato

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Guys punt for all sorts of reasons - their wife doesn't put out any more seems to be one of the majors ones or single people wanting some fun without attachment could be another.  Some have a fetish that they want to try out and they know the missus wouldn't entertain it, some are looking for that perfect meeting, some just find it a real buzz being able to have sex with someone that they could never pull.  Like any hobby, if its not fun then stop doing it. I can't see how any punt could match up against the fantasy one in our minds.  Whether the perfect punt exists I don't know. The closest I can get to  it is with a reg that knows what makes me tick and vice versa. There are probably other distractions that I could find but that one suits me.

Offline threechilliman

Good luck Dexter  :hi:
I decide to quit every Sunday straight after a punt but by Tuesday I'm planning another  :unknown:

What takes you so long?

tcm

Offline threechilliman

Maybe it's just me, but I get much better punts with older ladies in the 35 to 50 age bracket.

More enthusiasm, technique, understanding, willing to experiment.

+1 more.

My best single girls punts have all been older WG's. 46, 48 and Helen Jones (at least 50). Which makes them all older than me.......strange indeed!

tcm

yorkshire123

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What takes you so long?

tcm

Forgot to mention my maximum 2 punts per week limit gets thrown out of the window when a certain member posts a review  :angry:

Offline threechilliman

Forgot to mention my maximum 2 punts per week limit gets thrown out of the window when a certain member posts a review  :angry:

That's why I've missed a week out. There'll be a review next week though....

tcm

Offline MancSean

I haven't punted for nearly a year before that it was a couple to 4 times a month. I guess I stopped firstly due to money but secondly since money isn't a problem anymore I actually agree with Jimmy - the lack of talent and decent birds on aw.
I am single so not after a mistress but I also don't want to get into a serious relationship. The ideal would be a fuck buddy someone I can be mates with and shag occasionally. Problem is altho I have a lot of female mates none of them I fancy and the ones I do have other halves I am mates with too. I don't want anyone over 40 but also don't want anyone with young kids. Difficult but I guess punting should be the answer if it wasn't for the business feel to it. The again not many fuck buddies or gf's are into getting their arses pounded or spunked over the faces hair

SirFrank

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If you think you are disillusioned with punting take a trip down to Wales - better yet Swansea. That will tip you over the edge. What a fucking shower of shit. Thinking of blowing my rancid seed over some lucky lass now I've been paid but a look at AW tonight has made me reconsider. It might be a wank again

Jim Panzee

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I think I am better off dusting the cob webs off the missus

Good luck there mate. Take her down to anne summers and get her some bit's and pieces. Mind you I got mine a dildo and she fucking threw it at me. I wouldnt mind but she watched me order it off the internet the cow.

yorkshire123

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Good luck there mate. Take her down to anne summers and get her some bit's and pieces. Mind you I got mine a dildo and she fucking threw it at me. I wouldnt mind but she watched me order it off the internet the cow.

Had the reverse effect on Mrs Y, i honestly believe that if her rabbit could earn as much as i do she would leave me & marry it.

Jim Panzee

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Had the reverse effect on Mrs Y, i honestly believe that if her rabbit could earn as much as i do she would leave me & marry it.

Hehehe. You have to laugh dont you, or you'd fucking cry!

Offline webpunter

I think I am better off dusting the cob webs off the missus
Not a bad idea.  You can get one in after MOD when the new footy season starts in August
Difficult / expensive to line up an AW girlie then if you've had a few beers and are watching the TV
Should hopefully prevent you shooting your bolt too early when you then go out punting in the week
Leopards & spots ?
Have a break - have a kitkat :)

Offline Daffodil

A connection? In punting?  :wacko:

It is a business transaction. Those wanting/hoping for more are in the wrong game.

It is sex, plain and simple. Just enjoy it. I thought it was meant to be women who look for connections/emotion with sex.

rolf32313

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A connection? In punting?  :wacko:

It is a business transaction. Those wanting/hoping for more are in the wrong game.

It is sex, plain and simple. Just enjoy it. I thought it was meant to be women who look for connections/emotion with sex.

Can you imagine how fcuked off you would be if it wasn't anything except a business transaction? you pay, you get serviced...

Can you imagine if escorts offered a true GFE, I.e. you gave her £100 for the hour and during that hour she sat on her laptop talking to Stacy on facebook and updating her status. You made moves to get some pussy only to be told "can't you see I'm arguing with someone on a facebook discussion about something trivial, go hang the washing to dry..."


Offline akauya

I have decided to quit punting after maybe 20 punts over the last  12 to 18 months.
...
I have realised recently it's not what maybe I thought it was.
...

Quote from: cockneybstrd
By the sounds of it you want a Mistress more than anything ??
Thats exactly what I was thinking but can't really be arsed putting the effort in, and certainly not with emotional women. Been there before and it wasn't great!


No need to give up punting completely then; do as I do. Get yourself a fuck buddy, not a mistress (around your age) for the "dating" type of meets and sex. Spice it up a bit by going swinging with or without her and spice it even more by seeing hot younger women (i.e. prossies) from time to time. The variety keeps you smiling like an idiot and gives you an inner smug glow ;)

The only problem of the above is finding a fuck buddy. Took me years and I've been lucky but a bit of perseverance pays off.

 :hi:

Offline akauya


Personally I approach punting a bit like one night stand I am going to try and get as much out of it as possible as I have no intention of seeing them again.
...


That makes perfect sense to me. I love variety, even though I would like to see again some of the outstanding girls I punted before. I just can't get enough of new pussy. I'm addicted to variety.  Why restrict yourself to  one pussy when you can have loads and loads more.

Whoever coined the phrase "variety is the spice of life" was spot on!  :)



Cornish sub

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While not actually quitting, I AM stopping for a few months, and the decision's already eating away at me as a few days ago I cancelled a punt I was meant to be having today with a regular, a punt I'd been looking forward to for weeks. My decision is purely financial though. For months I've been having to transfer money from my very modest savings (less than £3000, and that was BEFORE I started transferring out of it) into my current account to stop me going overdrawn before payday, but all of a sudden, reality's bitten and I realise I have to stop this hobby I enjoy so much for a few months to allow my finances to recover. Tis gonna be a very depressing few months.
« Last Edit: July 01, 2014, 06:50:53 pm by Cornish sub »

Rochdull lad

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I'm sure it will be a depressing time, Cornish; but, fwiw, that's a very sensible decision, imo.

I wonder how many punters [not many on here, I'm sure] allow themselves to become addicted to the comparatively easily-available fanny and overstretch themselves [and their families, maybe] financially.

Cornish sub

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I'm sure it will be a depressing time, Cornish; but, fwiw, that's a very sensible decision, imo.

I wonder how many punters [not many on here, I'm sure] allow themselves to become addicted to the comparatively easily-available fanny and overstretch themselves [and their families, maybe] financially.
Fortunately for me I have no family relying on my money, only myself, but even though I don't drink or smoke or spend on any other addiction, this punting habit is still very financially unfriendly.

Offline webpunter

Yeah but the fun is finding the next great restaurant :D
does this include having a kebab after a shed load of beers ? :)
i find that these evening type punts tend to go down the quality / price scale
but invariably are good at the time & often involve some form of me having to take over during a HJ - to get over the line
i have a fave pit stop on the way home which is 40 squid for 1/2hr
don't even bother having a shag - don't fancy the girlies that much & its more expensive
and invariably a waste of time as no chance of shooting my bolt with this.  2 min 'massage' & then onto the HJ with one eye on the clock

going a bit off thread but we all know what i'm on about & it's great fun too
quitting punting for good ?  Yeah right.  Might scale it back a bit if situation ever requires this.  Like a tinsey wincy teeny bit

not convinced with the real purpose of the OP - whatever - loads of replies anyway
 

Offline mattylondon

I have read this all before only for the punter to post they are punting again. I had a 6 month break a few years ago and returned fully recharged. Anyway best of luck to you.
Call me a cynic or perhaps the hour is late, but this appears like Groundhog Day. Exactly the same as 'please delete my account'.  :rolleyes:

It's simply a cry for attention. And soon enough, a complete 180 is performed and they're suddenly 'punting again'.

People who wish to quit punting simply stop. People who wish to no longer post, don't. There's no need to make grand announcements to complete strangers. Does anybody really give a shit? It would be slightly different if somebody was thinking of quitting punting but hadn't.

Offline webpunter

Call me a cynic or perhaps the hour is late, but this appears like Groundhog Day. Exactly the same as 'please delete my account'.  :rolleyes:
It's simply a cry for attention. And soon enough, a complete 180 is performed and they're suddenly 'punting again'.
People who wish to quit punting simply stop. People who wish to no longer post, don't. There's no need to make grand announcements to complete strangers. Does anybody really give a shit? It would be slightly different if somebody was thinking of quitting punting but hadn't.
+1, just like people who 'try' to top themselves IMO.  Those that really mean it succeed & people never find out about it.  Those who supposedly fail are just attention seeking - feel sorry for them to a certain extent.  But not for the OP on this one
Closest we've come to 'seeing' someone giving up punting is in the thread "where to fuck is SirF".  Just disappeared - for a while.  Turns out he was on hols with the Duchess.  TFFT - panic was beginning to set in about the future dearth of ace new threads & replies.  I can sense a new pearler on its way !

Offline mattylondon

+1, just like people who 'try' to top themselves IMO.  Those that really mean it succeed & people never find out about it.  Those who supposedly fail are just attention seeking - feel sorry for them to a certain extent.  But not for the OP on this one
Closest we've come to 'seeing' someone giving up punting is in the thread "where to fuck is SirF".  Just disappeared - for a while.  Turns out he was on hols with the Duchess.  TFFT - panic was beginning to set in about the future dearth of ace new threads & replies.  I can sense a new pearler on its way !
Indeed. Like the prossie who announces that she's 'quitting'. It's all nonsense. The prossies who genuinely quit don't need to announce it because they've already reconciled themselves to it and don't give a shit what any punter thinks. And rightly so. The ones who do announce it either continue to do it 'part time'  :rolleyes: or under the radar. I've punted a few of them to know!  :D

I'm not being mean when I say I've no desire to wish any such person good luck because they'll still continue to post (which is itself a direct contradiction to quitting) and ultimately, continue to punt after getting past their 'low point'!
« Last Edit: July 02, 2014, 12:45:04 am by mattylondon »

Jim Panzee

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I quit for a short while a bit back as I got told off by a SP while I was doing it to her and it kind of made me feel awkward.

Back in the saddle now though.

Offline webpunter

I quit for a short while a bit back as I got told off by a SP while I was doing it to her and it kind of made me feel awkward.
Back in the saddle now though.
Hope you didn't say that you were going to nominate her for the WEPC on UKP ? :)

Jim Panzee

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rolf32313

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Indeed. Like the prossie who announces that she's 'quitting'. It's all nonsense. The prossies who genuinely quit don't need to announce it because they've already reconciled themselves to it and don't give a shit what any punter thinks. And rightly so. The ones who do announce it either continue to do it 'part time'  :rolleyes: or under the radar. I've punted a few of them to know!  :D

I'm not being mean when I say I've no desire to wish any such person good luck because they'll still continue to post (which is itself a direct contradiction to quitting) and ultimately, continue to punt after getting past their 'low point'!

+1,

If your going to give up punting the last thing your going to do as scream it from the hills, your going to discreetly slip away. It's like killing yourself, the statistics escape me, but it was something ridiculous like >9x% of people can be talked "off the ledge" if they have told someone they are "on the ledge". Why? because they are having issues and just want to talk to someone about and this seems the only way to get someone to listen to them.

I too laugh at all these big fanfare "last week ever" escorts put up when business is slow... Their is one who's name escapes me in New-Malden who seems to be quitting the business every few months only to return...

Cornish sub

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Nah nothing that heinous.
Come on then, don't keep us (or me at least) in suspense, what did you do to warrant being told off by the SP? Actually, that'd make a good thread - Have you ever been bollocked by an SP for doing something wrong? Touch wood, I've been a good boy so far and not been told off for anything........yet! Anyway, sorry, back on topic.
« Last Edit: July 02, 2014, 10:42:29 am by Cornish sub »

cockneybstrd

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Come on then, don't keep us (or me at least) in suspense, what did you do to warrant being told off by the SP? Actually, that'd make a good thread - Have you ever been bollocked by an SP for doing something wrong? Touch wood, I've been a good boy so far and not been told off for anything........yet! Anyway, sorry, back on topic.

Sorry to take it back off topic. But Cornish I assumed you were a Submissive. So I assumed you would have probably been told off by a Pro$$ie at some point ??

Offline webpunter

Come on then, don't keep us (or me at least) in suspense, what did you do to warrant being told off by the SP? Actually, that'd make a good thread - Have you ever been bollocked by an SP for doing something wrong? Touch wood, I've been a good boy so far and not been told off for anything........yet! Anyway, sorry, back on topic.
Was told off once in a nice way.  The girlie winced a bit in one position so i laid still.  She smiled & said its because you've got a big cock.  Love it when they very occasionally say that.  She adjusted her position & then said that feels nice now.  Felt like a king for quite a long time afters

Offline shagbambi

Punters and whores.  Neither retire, they take a break, just the length varies.