Working girls and their crazy mindset

[itk]

Had a very strange experience yesterday. Met a regular I’ve had a while but I’d decided I didn’t want the usual of oral and sex. So when I get in the room I told her all I wanted was to massage her and then for her to give me a slow oily handjob. She says ok, but two minutes in and while I’m massaging her, she said, ‘Do you want to fuck?’ 
I tell her no and explain again what I want, and then when it comes to the handjob which was good btw, she keeps stopping and asking if I wanted to fuck. Three or four times I’m asked this till I quite abruptly said, ‘For the final time, no.’ 
I ended up coming, and then she gets up and leaves the room, she’s never done this before and when I’d got dressed walked to front door, and there she ranted at me asking why I’ve gone off sex with her. Explained I wanted a change of things, and she mutters something which I didn’t hear.
Left the flat and now questioning whether I’ll return.

[Moby Dick]

Should’ve just fucked her. 

[fudi_maar]

Oscor Wilde once said "Women are not meant to be understood, but simply fucked   loved."

[tynetunnel]

Left the flat and now questioning whether I’ll return.

I don’t think I would. If she’s ranting about how you’ve gone off sex with her, instead of giving you the punt you’ve requested, she sounds more like a wife or girlfriend experience than an escort 

[PumpDump]

Working girls Women and their crazy mindset 

There, fixed the subject for you.

[SYorksPunter]

Sounds like she was taking 'the Girlfriend Experience' too literally. Your next punt will involve sitting watching TV with her in silence, until she eventually storms out the room for no reason....

[mrfishyfoo]

I don’t think I would. If she’s ranting about how you’ve gone off sex with her, instead of giving you the punt you’ve requested, she sounds more like a wife or girlfriend experience than an escort 

THIS ^^^^

[Vice Admiral]

Oscar Wilde once said "Women are not meant to be understood, but simply loved."

The quotation referred to comes from Wilde’s short story, The Sphinx without a Secret, in which the narrator, Lord Murchison, says to a friend: “My dear Gerald, women are meant to be loved, not to be understood.”  So, to be pedantic, Wilde himself never "said" this.  He put the words into the mouth of one of his characters.

Although he fathered two children with his wife Constance, Wilde was of course more interested in lower-class youths than in women – an interest that led to his imprisonment.

Wilde’s final heterosexual encounter, incidentally, was with a prostitute in a brothel in Dieppe after his release from prison.  His friend the poet Ernest Dowson arranged the encounter in the hope of “normalising” him.

The event was not a success. “The first these ten years, and it will be the last,” he apparently told Dowson afterwards. “It was like cold mutton.”

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Seems more like you make such a good job of fucking her she was missing you giving her a good seeing to!..

[berksboy]

I think some WGs prefer you to fuck them in the hope that you come quick then sod off.

[Straightsix]

Wow, you probably would have been carved up had you mentioned seeing other working girls!

[Sheraton]

maybe she's worried about you not returning..i.e. your request was a signal that you wanted to move on / change things

[southcoastpunter]

maybe she's worried about you not returning..i.e. your request was a signal that you wanted to move on / change things

i thought that - but we are mere men. What do we know!!

[Stevelondon]

Sounds like a service provider who did not want to provide the service you asked for. I go off temperamental women very quickly and \i doubt if I would be going back to see this one. Unless of course it was to fuck her as that is what she wants her punters ro do....or at least the OP.


By the way......thanks to Vice Admiral for those eloquent words. Nothing like a walk on the Wilde side.

[Fuzzyduck]

Could be a bunch of things - insecurity about her "sexuality" or perhaps it's what happened before to her in a civvie relationship before a painful breakup or she has EAS - but the outcome is the same. I wouldn't go back. Avoiding that kind of shit is one of the main reasons I go to SPs.

[lewisjones23]

less effort to get shagged than give a wank, can just lie there and think about what they’ll order online later

[thimble29]

less effort to get shagged than give a wank, can just lie there and think about what they’ll order online later

This, more pleasurable for her too. This is why my occasional punts are massages - the act can be just as enjoyable and you don't have to make any effort!

[willie loman]

you call her a regular, but neither of you seems to understand or know the other.

[berksboy]

"more pleasurable for her too" I not think they fuck for pleasure its all about the money !

[Colston36]

you call her a regular, but neither of you seems to understand or know the other.

Interesting observation. There are women one sees many times, but never more than an hour or two. How can we hope to understand them? I have known my last and thank God final wife since 1966. I'm still not sure I understand her.

[Cal55]

Pro$$ie’s are like men who have loads of one night stands. They just get paid for it instead. IMO - they put the ‘typical female’ mindset aside… masking their emotions. Yet, underneath are emotional grenades. Sounds like you just unintentionally pulled her pin.

[qwertyone]

maybe it was too emotional/intimate for her?

she doesn't see being fucked as anything like that, kind of disassociated herself form it?

[Trotter671]

Should’ve just fucked her. 

This ^^^

[The0neAnd0nly]

maybe it was too emotional/intimate for her?

she doesn't see being fucked as anything like that, kind of disassociated herself form it?

Shame to say but I've got to agree with the leech.

Reckon she just prefers going through that motions and anything different to this confused her. If she had a arsey attitude reckon it's worth knocking this one on the head as who needs the headache!!

[stevesucks69]

Perhaps a review too...

[dubhcarr]

shes getting paid to do what you want. So I cannot understand her POV.   

[PaulRuff]

Pro$$ie’s are like men who have loads of one night stands. They just get paid for it instead. IMO - they put the ‘typical female’ mindset aside… masking their emotions. Yet, underneath are emotional grenades. Sounds like you just unintentionally pulled her pin.

Agree with this, sounds like she may have some feelings for you which CAN make bookings more fun BUT if she's a bit unstable (let's face it, most of them are) you may be best calling it a day with this one.

[Stevelondon]

Interesting observation. There are women one sees many times, but never more than an hour or two. How can we hope to understand them? I have known my last and thank God final wife since 1966. I'm still not sure I understand her.

Understanding women is an impossibility....especially wives. You don't need me to tell you. If your right, your wrong and if your wrong, your just more wrong.

[JonnyJ]

I knew a SP once who said she didnt feel she had done her job if she didnt fuck as that is what most blokes pay for.

[Cal55]

I knew a SP once who said she didnt feel she had done her job if she didnt fuck as that is what most blokes pay for.

What makes you laugh is many of them say: “you’re paying for my time.”

If this SP said that… then she must have a great attitude towards the job!

[s0whatsnew?]

I think most Wg's have to go thru quite a complex process just to mentally survive.  Rejecting the client without even being themselves aware of it.  Suppose, now, that she actually felt quite warm towards you in past bookings, possibly enough for  a civvy relationship.   But cannot acknowledge those feelings to herself, never mind to you.  Your request for a change of routine must have come as a real challenge to confront her own feelings towards you.   Trickeee.   And we see what her solution was.  I'd give it a few weeks and try to approach her and ask what she would like for a successful booking.  Depends how much you care.

Well, sorry if this seems over complicated.  I find this a fascinating thread.

[Blackpool Rock]

Could be a bunch of things - insecurity about her "sexuality" or perhaps it's what happened before to her in a civvie relationship before a painful breakup or she has EAS - but the outcome is the same. I wouldn't go back. Avoiding that kind of shit is one of the main reasons I go to SPs.

That was my thought too, if she actually likes the OP and wants to fuck him then she has perhaps taken his service request as a Rejection of her.

Women are already flippy fuckers but women with emotions are flippy fuckers on speed 

Depends whether you are in any way interested in pursuing it and your circumstances but sounds like you could perhaps be getting it for free if she wants a relationship   

A link would be good 

[Colston36]

That was my thought too, if she actually likes the OP and wants to fuck him then she has perhaps taken his service request as a Rejection of her.

Women are already flippy fuckers but women with emotions are flippy fuckers on speed 

Depends whether you are in any way interested in pursuing it and your circumstances but sounds like you could perhaps be getting it for free if she wants a relationship   

A link would be good 

The theme here is women's crazy mindset. Pot/kettle.My late, much missed brother once said to me: "Your trouble is that your cock is your compass".

[B4bcock]

The theme here is women's crazy mindset. Pot/kettle.My late, much missed brother once said to me: "Your trouble is that your cock is your compass".

[/b]

No problem with that - as long as it keeps pointing North.   

[FiveKnuckles]

I knew a SP once who said she didnt feel she had done her job if she didnt fuck as that is what most blokes pay for.

That's what I'm thinking.

If her profile is typically offering penetrative sex then she expects you to walk away satisfied by giving her a fuck.
Perhaps you should had made it clear from the start you're going to role play and will on lay there with a hard dick, she will massage, HJ, suck or ride 
You may have inadvertently given her a complex, "oh does my pussy stink today?  Why doesn't he want to eat me out and fuck it today?" 


Also you could be 'going off' her and this last punt is to cement the idea that she's no longer worth your time?

[PaulRuff]

That's what I'm thinking.

If her profile is typically offering penetrative sex then she expects you to walk away satisfied by giving her a fuck.
Perhaps you should had made it clear from the start you're going to role play and will on lay there with a hard dick, she will massage, HJ, suck or ride 
You may have inadvertently given her a complex, "oh does my pussy stink today?  Why doesn't he want to eat me out and fuck it today?" 


Also you could be 'going off' her and this last punt is to cement the idea that she's no longer worth your time?

When I've binned regulars off in the past it's always following a meeting where they've acted a bit strange/tried to take the piss with time wasting or when I've walked away thinking something isn't right & realised that I'm a bit bored of them.

If it feels wrong seeing her now it's probably wrong.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Nothing as simple as a bit of pre menstrul tension there is there?, seen that cause a lot of odd things over time and differing manifestations for differing girls;!..

[Blackpool Rock]

Nothing as simple as a bit of pre menstrul tension there is there?, seen that cause a lot of odd things over time and differing manifestations for differing girls;!..

Ah yes Mad Cow Disease 

[Murray Mint]

........... Although he fathered two children with his wife Constance, Wilde was of course more interested in lower-class youths than in women – an interest that led to his imprisonment...........

I'm not sure that you could class Lord Alfred Douglas - 'Bosie' - as a "lower-class youth!" 

[Jeremy]

Ah yes Mad Cow Disease 

[Buttons]

Time to move on. SP ranting at you when you’ve paid good money. Fuck that shit 

[myothernameis]

Do you want to fuck?

I tell her no and explain

I had this a few years back with an escort, who I had booked for 1 hour. Brought along my toys, and was using them, with good effect, and at this point.  She told me to fuck her, still had around 20 min's but I wasn't ready to fuck her


I was getting the escort all wet, and she was starting to come, and having a full orgasm.   At this point slipped on the condom, and began to fuck her, as her orgasms got more intense.  As i came, we just held on to each other and cuddled, and waited till she had calmed down

So basicly she wanted me to fuck her earlier on, before she had her orgasm

[Bonker]

Am I the only one who thinks the OP behaved strangely?

Also, I find it incredulous that a WG is miffed because she wasn't fucked. Rather than pleased to be paid and saving her fanny.

[1599337]

Am I the only one who thinks the OP behaved strangely?

Also, I find it incredulous that a WG is miffed because she wasn't fucked. Rather than pleased to be paid and saving her fanny.

If the guy wants to pay for just a wank she should provide it, nothing weird about it.
Really I find it odd an escort wouldn't want to do something that takes less effort for the same money.
Girls who are too temperamental make for shit escorts in my opinion

[tazz]

Find it bizzare you'd rather her wank you then screw her. Is hernpussy not good.

[jlike]

Personally I don't always want to end with a fuck. Sometimes prefer a HJ or BJ and CIM. Penetrative sex, to me, is not the be all and end all. A good BJ and CIM can be mind blowing and you just lie there and not have to put in any effort 

[PunterNumber69]

It probably did seem a bit odd from the SP's perspective that you suddenly don't want sex with her. Probably quite confusing for her and she was clearly concerned. Not entirely unreasonable. Sounds like she was a bit wortied about losing you as a regular. Maybe you'd changed your mind about her attractiveness or the quality of her services she delivers?

If she does what you like then I'd go again but maybe she'll not be as good at sex now as she'll be worrying about that now.

[Vice Admiral]

I'm not sure that you could class Lord Alfred Douglas - 'Bosie' - as a "lower-class youth!" 

Fair point.

However – while Wilde's involvement with Bosie was indeed the catalyst for Wilde's downfall – Wilde was not charged with any offences relating to him. The offences for which he was jailed related to homosexual activity with the lower-class youths to whom I referred.

Bosie, incidentally, was equally partial to young rough trade.

[bukowski]

I think she simply felt rejected personally and/or professionally

probably no more than that

her purpose/function it to provide sex (for her, meaning penetration)

you not wanting penetration meant you might be going off her personally and/or professionally

[s0whatsnew?]

 Sounds like she was a bit wortied about losing you as a regular.


[/quote]

Yes, she was definitely wortled.