Real name with agency

[JB48]

I saw an escort for the first time through an agency and gave my real name, as I was using my personal email in correspondence. Only afterwards I thought I should have used an alias/alternate email. It was an incall but I thought they'd ask for real name/address just for safety of their escorts, so I didn't mind giving it, but they didn't!

Is this an issue?

[DaveMugabe]

yes you need to change you name by deed poll and try an remove every trace of yourself from the planet.  Start by putting a notification of your death in the local rag.

[vorian]

Probably not but still a error of judgement imo,  why take the risk when you don't have to.

[yorkshire123]

To be honest they would expect you to give a false name thus they would think the one you gave them as a load of shit.
School boy error but chances are nothing negative will come from it.

[JB48]

If it was like adultnetwork or something I probably would have, but it was an agency so I thought they'd demand it or something... plus they handle outcalls etc so I figured they are discrete with people's personal addresses/names.

What's the worst that could happen??

[yorkshire123]

If it was like adultnetwork or something I probably would have, but it was an agency so I thought they'd demand it or something... plus they handle outcalls etc so I figured they are discrete with people's personal addresses/names.

What's the worst that could happen??

Who the hell is "adultnetwork", either your pissed or trying to take it?
You tell us wants the worst that can happen, are you married, in a relationship, a vicar or someone famous?

[JB48]

typo sorry 

none of those thankfully

[smiths]

If it was like adultnetwork or something I probably would have, but it was an agency so I thought they'd demand it or something... plus they handle outcalls etc so I figured they are discrete with people's personal addresses/names.

What's the worst that could happen??

An Agency is just a pimp offering WGs if honest. DONT trust pimps with your personal information is my advice, EVER. And never think they are discreet as you have absolutely no idea if they are or not.

[pleasure]

On the one hand, it's something I'd never do, and I'd recommend anyone avoids ever giving out real information like this. Even if you're not in a relationship now, it's wise to separate your punting life from your real life as much as possible. You never know what repercussions there might be from friends, work colleagues or potential future partners finding out how much fun you've had. 

On the other hand, now you've done it, I wouldn't bother stressing over it. It's probably not an issue. If the agency is reputable, I doubt any of your info will ever make it outside of their records, or be used for anything more sinister than sending you an occasional begging email. If the latter is a problem, just set up an alternate email address now and "change" your address with the agency.

[Jimmyredcab]

I saw an escort for the first time through an agency and gave my real name, as I was using my personal email in correspondence. Only afterwards I thought I should have used an alias/alternate email. It was an incall but I thought they'd ask for real name/address just for safety of their escorts, so I didn't mind giving it, but they didn't!

Is this an issue?

No it's not.   

When I used to use local agencies I gave my genuine name many times, I assumed they did a quick check before the driver set out, too many paranoid people on here.   

[smiths]

No it's not.   

When I used to use local agencies I gave my genuine name many times, I assumed they did a quick check before the driver set out, too many paranoid people on here.   

Its called being careful not paranoid. Unlike you some punters have a LOT to lose if a partner finds out they are a punter.

[Closet freak]

No it's not.   

When I used to use local agencies I gave my genuine name many times, I assumed they did a quick check before the driver set out, too many paranoid people on here.   

Seriously what sort of checks did you think they did 

[Gordo987]

Lucky you got away without having to let them photocopy your passport, drivers license, two utility bills and birth certificate. I suppose you had to give them your fingerprints and a blood sample though, but I shouldn't worry too much, most places only keep the videos for a couple of years (or is it decades?) 

[Gordo987]

An Agency is just a pimp offering WGs if honest. DONT trust pimps with your personal information is my advice, EVER. And never think they are discreet as you have absolutely no idea if they are or not.

I can see the headlines now "Man Fucks Woman - Pays Her For It" 

[mattylondon]

Its called being careful not paranoid. Unlike you some punters have a LOT to lose if a partner finds out they are a punter.

Indeed. It's all too easy to be nonchalant if one doesn't. 

What powers does an agency have to check, my NI number? 

[smiths]

Indeed. It's all too easy to be nonchalant if one doesn't. 

What powers does an agency have to check, my NI number? 

Stansted Escorts told me on Pnet a few years back that they did an electroral role check on punters. A member called Stansted Escorts joined here the other day so perhaps they can confirm whether they still do this crap.

[Gordo987]

Stansted Escorts told me on Pnet a few years back that they did an electroral role check on punters. A member called Stansted Escorts joined here the other day so perhaps they can confirm whether they still do this crap.

Back in the 'good old days' you couldn't get a girl to do an out-call to your home unless you had a land-line and your number was in the phone book. For out-calls to hotels you had to give your name (the one you were registered at the hotel with) and of course the room number. Somebody always called back to check. Understandable I suppose, considering the chances of hoax bookings. Never bothered me coz I'm not married, but cheating husbands? 

I haven't tried to book an out-call using my mobile (mainly because I don't enjoy out-calls any more) so I wonder how they go about seeing if you are genuine? 

[Jimmyredcab]

If you are Fred the plumber or Bert the bus driver no none gives a fuck that you are a punter ---------- however if you are a famous politician or premiership footballer you have a good reason to protect your identity.
As I said, too many paranoid people on here.   

[Gordo987]

If you are Fred the plumber or Bert the bus driver no none gives a fuck that you are a punter ---------- however if you are a famous politician or premiership footballer you have a good reason to protect your identity.
As I said, too many paranoid people on here.   

Quite, and at my age and in my job, if the word got out that I was a 'player',  I'm sure I'd become a minor celebrity among most of the people I mix with socially. 

[smiths]

If you are Fred the plumber or Bert the bus driver no none gives a fuck that you are a punter ---------- however if you are a famous politician or premiership footballer you have a good reason to protect your identity.
As I said, too many paranoid people on here.   

Total bollocks, again. A partner, other family members and some employers may well give a fuck in reality.

[Jimmyredcab]

Punters who really love their wife or "partner" would not be punting in the first place.     

[smiths]

Quite, and at my age and in my job, if the word got out that I was a 'player',  I'm sure I'd become a minor celebrity among most of the people I mix with socially. 

A punter who was sadly outed by a WG and it got in the press also lost his job as a civil servant as they had some bullshit clause about acceptable standards of behaviour. So although he didnt break the law he still got the sack.

IF a punter has something to lose, a family or a job its smart to punt anonymously in my view.

[smiths]

Punters who really love their wife or "partner" would not be punting in the first place.     

Here we go, the moralist view, more total bollocks, and your usual trying to divert the topic as you have no answer to the point made.

[Gordo987]

Total bollocks, again. A partner, other family members and some employers may well give a fuck in reality.

However, leaving the obvious aside aside, I can imagine somebody's boss standing in front of an employment tribunal defending the dismissal of an employee on the grounds that he habitually gave a fuck

[threechilliman]

Punters who really love their wife or "partner" would not be punting in the first place.     

Depends how you define love does that....

tcm

[vorian]

Punters who really love their wife or "partner" would not be punting in the first place.     

Can't agree with that, I can see some circumstances where a punter may well love his wife/partner and even see prossies with her blessing. I do believe that punting saves far more marriages than it breaks up.

[smiths]

However, leaving the obvious aside aside, I can imagine somebody's boss standing in front of an employment tribunal defending the dismissal of an employee on the grounds that he habitually gave a fuck

Who knows what a tribunal result might be, the thing is the punter might save his job through one but lose his wife who takes the kids who he then sees every other Saturday.

My point is some people do have a reason to punt anonymously and its not being paranoid necessarily, its being smart as i see it. Even a single guy now might pair up later and if he has told all his mates he punts his new love might not be happy to hear about that from them.

[Jimmyredcab]

Depends how you define love does that....

tcm

As Prince Charles once said "Whatever love is" ----------- when sitting next to Diana.     

My point is that if you really care about your wife or girlfriend ( I hate the word partner) then you should think carefully before risking that relationship to fuck pro$$ies.   

[smiths]

As Prince Charles once said "Whatever love is" ----------- when sitting next to Diana.     

My point is that if you really care about your wife or girlfriend ( I hate the word partner) then you should think carefully before risking that relationship to fuck pro$$ies.   

You have watered it down now in comparison to your previous reply where you said punters who really love their partners wouldnt be punting with WGs in the first place. Now its they should think carefully about punting, indeed they should which is why keeping it a secret from them is a good idea, and punting anonymously a smart thing to do, which you see as paranoia.

Your all over the place flip flopping from one thing to another. Where the hell did your well known consistency go, what a crying shame.

[Jimmyredcab]

Can't agree with that, I can see some circumstances where a punter may well love his wife/partner and even see prossies with her blessing.

Only if she hates the sight of him and it stops him wanting to fuck her.     

Many wives suffer an unhappy marriage for the sake of the children.     

[smiths]

Only if she hates the sight of him and it stops him wanting to fuck her.     

Many wives suffer an unhappy marriage for the sake of the children.     

Totally wrong as i know from meeting some couples swinging. Some wives got off on watching their husbands fucking other swingers and WGs, and the husband got off on the same.

In more recent times i have seen couples at parties who got off on fucking WGs.

[rolf32313]

Can't agree with that, I can see some circumstances where a punter may well love his wife/partner and even see prossies with her blessing. I do believe that punting saves far more marriages than it breaks up.

One of my work mate's wife got him an escort for his 50th! He said he wasn't quite sure what to make of it, was it a trap to divorce him via the adultery route

He's still married to this day but I don't know I could do the deed knowing my partner was in the other room listening in (or knowing his wife downstairs having a cup of tea listening to radio 4!)

[jonalpha]

Only if she hates the sight of him and it stops him wanting to fuck her.     

Many wives suffer an unhappy marriage for the sake of the children.     

I think quite a few husbands suffer an unhappy marriage for the sake of staying with their kids especially since it's normally the man who ends up losing custody of the children after a divorce.

[Gordo987]

Totally wrong as i know from meeting some couples swinging. Some wives got off on watching their husbands fucking other swingers and WGs, and the husband got off on the same.

In more recent times i have seen couples at parties who got off on fucking WGs.

I've been in two relationships (not marriages) with women who enjoyed similar experiences. They both had a similar attitude towards sex, like it was something to enjoy and not get all sentimental and possessive about. 

[mh]

Punters who really love their wife or "partner" would not be punting in the first place.

OK, it may be feeding the troll, but I'll bite: How do you know this?

[pleasure]

IF a punter has something to lose, a family or a job its smart to punt anonymously in my view.

I'd go further - even if a punter has nothing to lose, it's smart to punt anonymously. You never know, one day you might wake up and find you do have something to lose. You never know when your past might come back to haunt you.

I'm not the least bit ashamed of punting, I think it's fucking fantastic, and I'd love to live in a society where I can be totally open about it. Unfortunately, prurient Britain in the 21st century is not that place, and it's looking increasingly less likely that it ever will be.

[smiths]

I'd go further - even if a punter has nothing to lose, it's smart to punt anonymously. You never know, one day you might wake up and find you do have something to lose. You never know when your past might come back to haunt you.

I'm not the least bit ashamed of punting, I think it's fucking fantastic, and I'd love to live in a society where I can be totally open about it. Unfortunately, prurient Britain in the 21st century is not that place, and it's looking increasingly less likely that it ever will be.

Good post.

[mattylondon]

I'd go further - even if a punter has nothing to lose, it's smart to punt anonymously. You never know, one day you might wake up and find you do have something to lose. You never know when your past might come back to haunt you.

Yep, I'd agree with that too. And it's the sensible option in this society.

Your all over the place flip flopping from one thing to another. Where the hell did your well known consistency go, what a crying shame.

Indeed but I think that Jim is just trying to wind up a few people up at the moment! 

[MancSean]

Topics like this should be banned on here. Who really gives a fuck if someone gives a real name or not nowt that can be done once it's done. Grow some balls and don't bore everyone

[Gordo987]

I've put this sign up in my front bedroom window:

Hidden Image/Members Only

I just don't care any more!

[MancSean]

I've put this sign up in my front bedroom window:

Hidden Image/Members Only

I just don't care any more!

Nice to see another Manc being loud and proud. Yeah I understand keeping quiet if you are in a relationship but if you are single and not planning to going into politics why does it matter. Punting is not a bad thing so why the need for cloak and daggers.
I not been out with anyone for 18 months now and my 16 year old son that lives with me actually is encouraging me to get a WG. He wants me to shag charlotte fox the scouser but she's not escorting at the moment

[Jimmyredcab]

I've been in two relationships (not marriages) with women who enjoyed similar experiences. They both had a similar attitude towards sex, like it was something to enjoy and not get all sentimental and possessive about. 

Swinging and prostitution are not the same.     

Most wives would feel pissed off knowing that hundreds of pounds that could be spent in the home is being squandered on prostitutes.   

[Jimmyredcab]

Nice to see another Manc being loud and proud. Yeah I understand keeping quiet if you are in a relationship but if you are single and not planning to going into politics why does it matter. Punting is not a bad thing so why the need for cloak and daggers.

Brilliant post.   

Punting in this country is not illegal (yet) and there is nothing to be ashamed of, my friends know that I punt, so does my next door neighbour, I wear my badge with the utmost pride.   

[Gordo987]

Swinging and prostitution are not the same.     

Most wives would feel pissed off knowing that hundreds of pounds that could be spent in the home is being squandered on prostitutes.   

Ah, the old George Best quote "I spent 90% of my money on women, drink and fast cars. The rest I wasted." So don't let the wife chuck all the cash away on crap like shoes for the kids and food, say I!

[smiths]

Swinging and prostitution are not the same.     

Most wives would feel pissed off knowing that hundreds of pounds that could be spent in the home is being squandered on prostitutes.   

I didnt ONLY say swinging in my post, i said swinging and fucking WGs as a couple at parties. The point is you said only if she hates the sight of him and it stops him wanting to fuck her, wrong, thats not necessarily the case in reality.

[pleasure]

Topics like this should be banned on here. Who really gives a fuck if someone gives a real name or not nowt that can be done once it's done. Grow some balls and don't bore everyone

Good work reading the whole of a thread that you "don't give a fuck about", and then taking the time to join in on it.

[mattylondon]

Good work reading the whole of a thread that you "don't give a fuck about", and then taking the time to join in on it.

It always makes me laugh when somebody posts they don't care, but take the time to post. Of course, they could just fuck off then. 

[Gordo987]

It always makes me laugh when somebody posts they don't care, but take the time to post. Of course, they could just fuck off then. 

Good work reading the whole of a thread that you "don't give a fuck about", and then taking the time to join in on it.

Perhaps you two clowns could take the time and read what my fellow Mancunian wrote before mouthing off. He actually wrote; "Who really gives a fuck if someone gives a real name or not nowt that can be done once it's done." Perhaps you could get a grown-up to read it to you. Talk about Bevis and Butthead 

[mattylondon]

Talk about Bevis and Butthead 

"Huh huh huh, what's with you, Mr Magoo?!" Very apt! "I'll give you the finger, huh-huh-heh" !

[akauya]

It's nice to see some punter's true colours: "If it doesn't affect me I don't give a fuck". There should be a facility on UKP where to write notes like “if ever in any difficulty don't rely on this cunt for help” 

The fact that some of you who have never had a relationship with a civvy (and all you know about women is prostitutes) or others that were not able to keep a relationship doesn't mean that all other punters, who are in a relationships or actively seeking one, don't have to be discreet about their punting activities. Heck, even if some punters are not in a relationship or want one, they may still want to be discreet about their punting because of their jobs or family. You don't have to be a politician or a premiership footballer (fat lot of use that they are) to use an assumed identity to punt. We hardly need a reminder that we live in puritanical Britain after all.

A question for all those proud to be punters and who "have nothing to hide". Why don't you put your money where your mouth is, change your UKP handle and use your real name instead. Be loud and proud as you claimed. It's easy just ask Admin to change it. I expect to see a few name changes on the board.

As for this:

Punters who really love their wife or "partner" would not be punting in the first place.     

Most wives would feel pissed off knowing that hundreds of pounds that could be spent in the home is being squandered on prostitutes.   

Many wives suffer an unhappy marriage for the sake of the children.     

This from UKP's own hard man who, by his own admission, has never had a relationship with a civvy, ever. Suddenly not only is he is an expert on married women now he will start white knighting them  ...what a tool, you couldn't make it up!