SP’s not giving you feedback on Adultwork.

[Hamster55]

Hi All I have recently seen a few SP’s and not received feedback from them on adultwork despite me discussing it with them at the end of the meet. I gave them feedback but none of them returned the favour....

I currently don’t have any feedback due not being able to give feedback over the last year or so! So would be nice to have a couple.

Does this sound like a familiar scenario to anyone? What are everyone else’s experiences with this, Does this sound like a familiar tale?

Does feedback really matter that much? Some SP’s go on about only seeing punters with feedback but is that just to put off time wasters?

[FiveKnuckles]

it's all about the next client and dollars.  also depends if sergei manages the profile.

keep it fresh in their mind that you want feedback, send a booking request and leave the feedback quick-ish.  if you don't get feedback in return the next day drop a polite txt and let them know you left once and would appreciate one as well.

 

[SYorksPunter]

Funnily enough the last girl I saw hasn’t left me feedback yet, but has done for other guys she’s seen just after me. Maybe I was a crap shag and she doesn’t want to hurt my feelings! I’ve not contacted her about it, quite happy to leave it but seems a bit weird as I thought the meet went well.

I know some girls do feedback in batches (so they can just copy and paste “great guy would see again” etc) so maybe your FB is on the way?

[bedhedred]

It's happened to me a few times. It's annoying when you've been asked specifically to give them a cheer.

Some girls don't bother to tell the receptionist or handler. Other girls have no idea how to do it. Some worked it out eventually though.

[Atrueyorkie]

You have to keep in mind a few things. If they operate a conveyor belt there’s a slim chance she’s gonna be able to write a review while she’s in missionary.

Best bet is to do it with one firstly a independent WG that doesn’t see too many people which allows you to build up rapport along with ensuring a speedy feedback response.

Happens to everyone. I don’t have too much on mine but unless the WG demands a minimum amount of feedback prior to seeing I wouldn’t worry about it too much. Most just advertise their numbers and it’s easier to text to book than email.

[alabama1]

In terms of wg's prioritising giving feedback, i have found that it varies wildly from girl to girl. If you flick through AW, you will find that some girls leave feedback the same day, others after a few days, some leave it weeks, (though how much of the punt they remember is anyone's guess) ! And of course some never leave any. If you don't get left feedback, don't assume she didn't enjoy seeing you. And by the same token, if you are left some, don't assume that she liked seeing you either lol. What annoys me is the generic feedback whereby the wg leaves identical comments for everyone she sees,i.e. " Very nice gentleman, i spent good time with him, i can recommend"

[contentguy]

As suggested above, drop her a polite note in AW email.

Tell her you enjoyed the session, have left her feedback and hope she's able to do the same.
You could cheekily add that you hope you haven't offended her in any way as you're looking forward to your next meeting with her.

[Fkk]

I have seen a SP 4 times and asked again can you do a review. Answer yes darling.

Waiting and waiting.

0 review.

I’m not asking or booking her again.

[Colston36]

Most, but not all I see leave feedback, though have I never asked for it.

Despite this I am amazed to have now an astonishing 152 fanciful and misleading descriptions of my manly charm, massive member, wit, thoughtfulness, imagination, depravity and generosity. But when I told one I see that I would sing her praises she said she didn't care if I do and she won't - not that I asked her.

Of course, quite a few are illiterate so it may be a challenge.

[alabama1]

I often wonder if there is a secret code that wg's use that we are not privy to, as regards leaving feedback to punters. I see a lot of " clean, polite, and punctual gent. I would happily see again". I would be happy with this understated feedback every time. After all isn't that the ideal punter ?

[ShadowProclamation]

I prefer SPs who give feedback, after an AdultWork meeting, as I always do. However, it's not a big deal (apart from getting that first rating to set the ball rolling). What annoys me is when you get to the booking stage and the meeting happens, but the booking is not confirmed on the website. That means neither the SP or the punter can do a rating. This then becomes part of the UKP review and rating instead.

[sensualencounter]

Other than getting the 3/5/10 feedbacks that some escorts insist on, it’s pretty pointless.

That being said, I know some escorts won’t leave any feedback at all if you were a bit of a cunt. They don’t want to lie and give a positive but they also don’t want any possible recriminations for leaving a negative, so they say nothing at all. Not saying that’s the reason why the OP didn’t get any but of the escort has left feedback for other punters’ more recent meets, then that is a possibility?

[Keema]

If they're too busy to leave feedback, they're too busy to read through your feedback as well. A quick look just to see you have a track record was all that was done according to one girl I asked.

[alabama1]

Sometimes if i have narrowed my shortlist down to two or three, an escort who always gives feedback can be the difference in me choosing to see her as opposed to someone who doesn't. Feedback in itself is not that important to me, it just gives me a good impression of the girl (rightly or wrongly), and my thinking is , that if she can be bothered with leaving it, then her customer service, and attention to detail will be better. I know it's not guaranteed !

[lamboman]

I think you've been unlucky I've never had one not give feedback.Some need a little reminder though.

[SYorksPunter]

Other than getting the 3/5/10 feedbacks that some escorts insist on, it’s pretty pointless.

That being said, I know some escorts won’t leave any feedback at all if you were a bit of a cunt. They don’t want to lie and give a positive but they also don’t want any possible recriminations for leaving a negative, so they say nothing at all. Not saying that’s the reason why the OP didn’t get any but of the escort has left feedback for other punters’ more recent meets, then that is a possibility?

Welll that was me, and I don’t think I was a cunt! I was on time, paid as soon as I arrived, was polite, clean, had a laugh with her and the sex was great ( from my perspective anyway! I’m more than used to disappointing women in that respect!). I was a bit  nervous as it was my first punt after lockdown and I have a tendency to ramble on and talk shit when I’m nervous but I definitely wasn’t unpleasant! Anyway I’m not too bothered I was just curious as to why. I’m planning a return visit at some point so that’ll be the real test I guess!

[southern punter]

I've got zero feedback and I can't get any because no SPs even answer my inquiries about booking - presumably because I have no feedback.  About 18 months I managed to finally see ONE SP from AW, asked for feedback to break that vicious circle, pandemic broke out, she deleted her account and moved back home.  Adultwork is completely useless to me as a result frankly

[lamboman]

I've got zero feedback and I can't get any because no SPs even answer my inquiries about booking - presumably because I have no feedback.  About 18 months I managed to finally see ONE SP from AW, asked for feedback to break that vicious circle, pandemic broke out, she deleted her account and moved back home.  Adultwork is completely useless to me as a result frankly

Bypass AW and phone or text them.

[BRBRBR]

I often wonder if there is a secret code that wg's use that we are not privy to, as regards leaving feedback to punters. I see a lot of " clean, polite, and punctual gent. I would happily see again". I would be happy with this understated feedback every time. After all isn't that the ideal punter ?

They don't need to do that. AW allows the girls to write a specific feedback about you that is accessible only to other WGs.

[alabama1]

They don't need to do that. AW allows the girls to write a specific feedback about you that is accessible only to other WGs.

Really ? i didn't know that !

[BRBRBR]

Really ? i didn't know that !

A while ago I had a Bi DP session with a russian couple in Stepney. The next week I had a 4-hour party session with a regular and she showed me the rather unkind remarks about me and advising providers to proceed with caution. Not entirely sure why they took against me as it seemed quite an ordainary session. All in the past now.

[Hamster55]

Further to original post said SP was independent and I get the impression she doesn’t see a conveyer belt of clients. I’ve sent a polite text to remind her to give me feedback but radio silence and still no feedback....

I’d quite happily take copy and paste feedback simply stating I was polite and courteous and turned up on time after all that’s probably more important rather than performance, I got the impression the meet went well anyway.

[alabama1]

A while ago I had a Bi DP session with a russian couple in Stepney. The next week I had a 4-hour party session with a regular and she showed me the rather unkind remarks about me and advising providers to proceed with caution. Not entirely sure why they took against me as it seemed quite an ordainary session. All in the past now.

This system is open to all kinds of abuse. You could get blacklisted by other wg,s just because she bares a grudge against you, for whatever reason. She could also make out that you are a nasty piece of work so as to limit your options with other wg's, especially if you are restricted to your immediate area and are unable to travel far, thus more business off you for her, as nobody else would want to see you.

[alabama1]

Further to original post said SP was independent and I get the impression she doesn’t see a conveyer belt of clients. I’ve sent a polite text to remind her to give me feedback but radio silence and still no feedback....

I’d quite happily take copy and paste feedback simply stating I was polite and courteous and turned up on time after all that’s probably more important rather than performance, I got the impression the meet went well anyway.

I agree, feedback that is too impressive can be just as unhelpful as bad feedback. I'm sure a wg would be a little hesitant in seeing you if your feedback read something like "he fucked my brains out non stop for 2 hours solid with his massive cock"

[Strawberry]

They don't need to do that. AW allows the girls to write a specific feedback about you that is accessible only to other WGs.

This is not viewable by other SPs, the ability to read other SPs notes was stopped several years ago due to abuse of the system.

[scutty brown]

They don't need to do that. AW allows the girls to write a specific feedback about you that is accessible only to other WGs.

We've had several girls post in the past that this "secret feedback" doesn't exist. It's just rumour mongering

[alabama1]

This is not viewable by other SPs, the ability to read other SPs notes was stopped several years ago due to abuse of the system.

Thanks for clearing that up. I was hoping that an SP such as yourself was following this thread 

[Home Alone]

I often wonder if there is a secret code that wg's use that we are not privy to, as regards leaving feedback to punters. I see a lot of " clean, polite, and punctual gent. I would happily see again". I would be happy with this understated feedback every time. After all isn't that the ideal punter ?

One SP whom I started seeing perhaps 8 or 9 years ago but has now  vanished from AW assured me that there was. And some feedback on the lines of what you quote, alabama1, was the reason I got a booking. The comment you've italicised was the one that got me that booking at the date and time I wanted.

The other thing I use AW Feedback for is to see which other punters have seen someome I'm planning to see. They get the same sort of bland feedback as I do, but also give out more of a report on their meet with the SP I'm planning on seeing.

[bedhedred]

I agree, feedback that is too impressive can be just as unhelpful as bad feedback. I'm sure a wg would be a little hesitant in seeing you if your feedback read something like "he fucked my brains out non stop for 2 hours solid with his massive cock"

🤣

[Dillianbright]

Is the feedback really important for punters to have? It's been years since I used AW but I never had any feedback, never asked for any and never found it to be a factor in getting a punt.

[GingerNuts]

Is the feedback really important for punters to have? It's been years since I used AW but I never had any feedback, never asked for any and never found it to be a factor in getting a punt.

Some escorts will only see members who have positive feedback.

You've not used AW for years, how have you been arranging your punts since you joined UKP on 3 October 2017?

[Faraday]

Is the feedback really important for punters to have? It's been years since I used AW but I never had any feedback, never asked for any and never found it to be a factor in getting a punt.

Interestingly - it's only since post pandemic punting, I initially found a few SP's taking it into account / asking me if I had any feedback on AW.  Historically I didn't have much feedback on AW or make bookings directly through the site.  I'd typically find an SPs profile and call or text - but a couple of SPs were asking for deposits in lieu of feedback when I started punting again as soon as we came out of full lockdown (and a few more green lights started coming back on).  I won't ever pay a deposit so they don't fall under the rules for reviewing (ie. have to have a confirmed booking) except one - which was a duo, and once I had some feedback the deposit wasn't needed.  I've since taken it upon myself to try and make bookings through AW and garner some feedback.  I've got a few on my profile now, and haven't had any SP's ask for deposits since.  Maybe it was a "just got out of lockdown" thing early days with some SPs?  Not sure - but historically pre-pandemic, AW feedback was never a factor for me getting a booking - and more recently, doesn't appear to be a factor again.

I can see the benefit of positive AW feedback though - gives the SPs a little bit of extra reassurance we're on the level.

[Whiteknight]

Is the feedback really important for punters to have? It's been years since I used AW but I never had any feedback, never asked for any and never found it to be a factor in getting a punt.

Zero AW feedback and zero review on here   

[bossanova]

I've found it annoying when an escort won't see you if you have 0 AW feedback then after the meet they don't leave you feedback

[Stevelondon]

Only happened to me once where the SP (even though I reminded her a couple of times)...just never bothered leaving me feedback.

The rest have all been very eloquent.
Comments such, charming, treat him well girls, expert tongue, so sweet etc etc.

All totally honest of course. 

[southcoastpunter]

i think they must be using that old saying...... "if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all"!!!

haha

[OakTree]

The majority of the time I don’t get asked to put a booking through AW but if they do by and large they’ve reciprocated my leaving feedback. I did have one about three months ago specifically ask me to leave feedback which I did but she never bothered to leave me any. It’s just how it is, I certainly wasn’t going to go chasing her up and moaning about it.

It seems a pointless exercise anyway. My feedback goes back about eleven years and the vast majority of it is by girls no longer on AW. If I was the OP I wouldn’t worry about it.

[Dillianbright]

Some escorts will only see members who have positive feedback.

You've not used AW for years, how have you been arranging your punts since you joined UKP on 3 October 2017?

I haven't been punting just reading about people that have, I'm ready to start getting back into it, once I've had the booster jab.

[Punterperson1971]

Is the feedback really important for punters to have? It's been years since I used AW but I never had any feedback, never asked for any and never found it to be a factor in getting a punt.

So you’ve seen wg’s in the 4 years of being a member why no contribution in that time 

[Punterperson1971]

I haven't been punting just reading about people that have, I'm ready to start getting back into it, once I've had the booster jab.

There was no Covid in 2017 so what’s the excuse for first 3 years of you being on here

[Whiteknight]

May be the SP has nothing good to say about the punter, therefore she said nothing at all 

[alabama1]

May be the SP has nothing good to say about the punter, therefore she said nothing at all 

Yes i agree, that is normally the case

[Colston36]

I haven't been punting just reading about people that have, I'm ready to start getting back into it, once I've had the booster jab.

What a sad life. Just reading about other people's frolics. For four bloody years! Not much more exciting than watching paint dry.

It's hard to believe this is a preliminary to "getting back into it".

And since this is all about sharing experiences tell us when were you in it? And in what?

[Punterperson1971]

What a sad life. Just reading about other people's frolics. For four bloody years! Not much more exciting than watching paint dry.

It's hard to believe this is a preliminary to "getting back into it".

And since this is all about sharing experiences tell us when were you in it? And in what?

He was last on line around 2 hours ago doubt he will respond people like him usually don’t

[Hamster55]

Quick update SP has now given feedback which had several positives!  maybe I jumped the gun a little lol.

Obviously adultwork banned the option to make bookings through the site 12 months or so prior to June. So many were probably stuck on 0 feedbacks or a small amount for a long period of time and there was nothing we could do to resolve!

[Marmalade]

If you want to "exchange some nice feedback" then arrange it diplomatically at the end of the meet and post feedback for her after she's given you feedback.

Always express it as a mutual deal. She has no incentive otherwise unless she's a fucking charity.

[Dillianbright]

There was no Covid in 2017 so what’s the excuse for first 3 years of you being on here

I had life threatening medical problems, still have but it's more stable now, didn't much feel like having sex.

[Dillianbright]

So you’ve seen wg’s in the 4 years of being a member why no contribution in that time 

No I didn't I saw wgs before that time

[Marmalade]

So you’ve seen wg’s in the 4 years of being a member why no contribution in that time 

Well he did sort of add a line of review info with his first post… 

So if he’s about to start punting with AW again I suggest he follows my advice. However, in answer to his specific question of is feedback important, he’s in London apparently where the pickings are greater and feedback from p4ps is considered less necessary by many punters. But if it’s demanded, then there’s the choice of move on or get some. He has posted mostly about Soho walkups though so I wonder how relevant his question would be anyway. Perhaps he will enlighten us as to when his next punt is and any advice could be more specific.

Asking questions after being here for ages and not having reviewed is always going to raise eyebrows so he’ll have to live with that.

[Punterperson1971]

No I didn't I saw wgs before that time

So why are you on a forum like this? If you’ve not punted is it to leech or is it wank material reading the reviews?
Just asking because I can’t see a point in someone being on a forum that has no use to them