Paying a deposit before the meet

[punter6199]

Hi I have just come across a few profiles on adultwork and the girls want you to bank transfer 20% of their fee to them to confirm your booking. I'm just wondering if any of you guys have had any experience doing this as their are a few pornstars that will only see you if you do this. My biggest fear is getting played by them you give them the money and then they come up with some bs why they can't see you. If anyone has any advice or tips please do share thanks.

[Seand]

Did it once with Ms Whiplash, Lindi St Clair. No problem, did get to see her.

[WelshClipper]

I have done it 3 times over 7 years. Always with solid wgs with loads of ukp feedback. I would not do it with most of them.

My one gamble was with a wg on twitter. It was pretty scary but it worked out thankfully.

It depends on how bad the itch is to scratch. Think of it as a bet on the horses, only pay a deposit with what you can afford to lose. Do your homework..... and pray 

[Ghost89]

I don’t care how hot the girl looks I will never pay a deposit. As well as the risk of losing your money you also lose the anonymity and risk blackmail and all the shit that goes with it. Even runs a risk with “trustworthy” girls. They don’t trust you…you shouldn’t trust them.

[Omadon2001]

I fell for this a few weeks ago. I paid £20.

Then the WG said she'd never got the money. I never heard anymore from her and, of course, I lost £20.

About 15 years ago I paid a deposit (can't remember how much) for an overnight booking and that went off Ok with no problems.

I'd never pay a deposit again

[The0neAnd0nly]

I have done it 3 times over 7 years. Always with solid wgs with loads of ukp feedback. I would not do it with most of them.

My one gamble was with a wg on twitter. It was pretty scary but it worked out thankfully.

It depends on how bad the itch is to scratch. Think of it as a bet on the horses, only pay a deposit with what you can afford to lose. Do your homework..... and pray 

This is exactly what I was going to post. Think of it as a loan to a friend or family member. You might as well think you'll never see the money / SP again so only give it if you arent gonna come back on here moaning about her 

Good luck!

Edit - I've personally never paid a deposit and probably never would

[Henchmanlet95]

Personally I'd never do it and don't think anyone should. I learnt the hard way a while ago when I first started punting, paid an £80 deposit and lost my money/got scammed. Felt like a right mug that day but learnt my lesson to never do it again.

There might be some WG's who are genuine that require a deposit but the risk of losing my hard earned cash is far too big for me not matter how fit they are or how many good reviews they have.

Always pay cash upfront now no matter what, the vast majority of escorts are fine with this so don't see why you wouldn't.

[WelshClipper]

I don’t care how hot the girl looks I will never pay a deposit. As well as the risk of losing your money you also lose the anonymity and risk blackmail and all the shit that goes with it. Even runs a risk with “trustworthy” girls. They don’t trust you…you shouldn’t trust them.

Online gift cards are anonymous. It is the only way I have done it.

[lillythesavage]

Online gift cards are anonymous. It is the only way I have done it.

And just as easy to spend as cash, before you get to see them, Why would you send money or gift cards to a stranger?

[WelshClipper]

And just as easy to spend as cash, before you get to see them, Why would you send money or gift cards to a stranger?

My punt, my choice I suppose. I did say I have done it 3 times in 7 years so I am not exactly risking a lot.

P.S. dont read the recent Zara du Rose review, you'll flip 

[nbarnes]

I would generally advise against deposits.

One recent exception - I paid a deposit for a party recently - as I know the WG has setup costs and has to confirm numbers etc.

The deposit was low and the WG has an excellent reputation and it was a slick and professional setup.

[lillythesavage]

My punt, my choice I suppose. I did say I have done it 3 times in 7 years so I am not exactly risking a lot.

P.S. dont read the recent Zara du Rose review, you'll flip 

Lol, not seen it but I can guess, she did a runner with the money?

TBF, paying deposits just gives them ideas, ideas that people will send free money, when Aw had no feedback or booking system loads were at it, even well reviewed ones, might be so easy now.

[Silencio]

Only with very reputable WGs who I really really want to see.

Because a) I don't want to get scammed and b) I don't want to create a financial footprint

[Bru1901]

I paid one recently. It was £20 (amazon voucher) and based on the fact it was wrotten in her profile but i took the risk as she seemed genuine and was om tour.

In the end she did see me and no issues.

Prior to this never done it for reasons of probably a scammer but as she was genuine, on tour, offered verification and was civil about it she got the deposit and booking

[mike63]

I have done once and would do again, depending on the circumstances. This was to a well known WG with restricted appointments, and a deposit required for new clients. I didn't expect it to be a problem, and it wasn't. If I wanted a WG to make an outcall over a long distance, I would pay travel expenses up front. I'd look at each situation individually, I've hardly ever done so but I don't have a blanket ban as many on UKP do.

[WelshClipper]

Lol, not seen it but I can guess, she did a runner with the money?

TBF, paying deposits just gives them ideas, ideas that people will send free money, when Aw had no feedback or booking system loads were at it, even well reviewed ones, might be so easy now.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=319511.0

I will agree with you that many will use it to scam and do a runner, but I will stress again that I have only done it three times in seven years, always with established, well reviewed wgs who would otherwise not see me. All three worked out.

I do not tend to make a habit out of it but a 4th time is always possible.....

[WelshClipper]

The deposit was low and the WG has an excellent reputation and it was a slick and professional setup.

This is my criteria for making an exception plus she needs to be an itch to scratch. 

[spiralnotebook]

I would generally advise against deposits.

But that would be the sole purpose of me being there 

[mr.bluesky]

Too many tales on here about deposit scammers. I would never pay a deposit to see someone no matter how badly I wanted to see her. I would just move on and look for someone else.

[signy]

I have done it twice. Both times to well-known/famous escorts who had a lot more to lose from reputational damage from any suggestion they were scammers than my £50 could ever be worth to them. I was not altogether happy about this, but willing under those circumstances. I would never pay a deposit to a random/unknown/under-reviewed SP.

[jimmymac]

Too many tales on here about deposit scammers. I would never pay a deposit to see someone no matter how badly I wanted to see her. I would just move on and look for someone else.

This is the same attitude I have. Don't care how hot she is or how many good reviews I just won't pay a deposit.

[Vic69]

I think I have said on a previous thread about deposits, I do on occasions take a deposit of £10 either by Am**** or bank transfer to my business account.  I only ask for a deposit if a. Client has no AW feedback and wants a "peak time booking", b. I have to travel c. I have a feeling they may be a TW. I would advise only paying a deposit to an established SP (and even then pay just a nominal amount).

I did the other week nearly get scammed myself with a client turning up with no cash, he insisted he had bank transferred my fee even showing me his account and the transaction.....needless to say the money never reached my account!

[bdyno]

only pay a deposit with what you can afford to lose.

I have this attitude towards the whole cost of a punt.

FWIW, I've tried the deposit thing twice.  Both times I never heard from them again as soon as it was sent.  Also both times they were unreviewed girls offering deals which were TGTBT so I only have my own stupidity to blame.

But I do accept that there are genuine girls out there who require a deposit.  It's not my thing, but I believe it's almost the norm if you're seeing a dominatrix?

[Stevelondon]

Some doms do ask for deposits and thats because they work from dungeons that require hiring out.
There are reputable SP's out there with plenty of feedback and reviews who you will not lose your money with.
As has been said....do your homework before sending any dosh.

[ulstersubbie]

This topic has been done to death on UKP. The individual punter chooses to pay a deposit or not, end of.

[Iceman90]

My mate recently got ripped off paying a deposit to a wg and then got ghosted. I’d never pay a deposit under any circumstances. If a deposit is a prerequisite, it’s a dealbreaker for me. Deposit scams are all too common. It’s bad enough having to pay before the service let alone paying before you even meet the girl.

[Vic69]

I have done it twice. Both times to well-known/famous escorts who had a lot more to lose from reputational damage from any suggestion they were scammers than my £50 could ever be worth to them. I was not altogether happy about this, but willing under those circumstances. I would never pay a deposit to a random/unknown/under-reviewed SP.

Exactly this, decent providers rely on their reputations.

[Stevelondon]

Exactly this, decent providers rely on their reputations.

Deposits are taken in all kinds of business dealings. No big deal in regard to punting.

Either you do or don’t.

[Lister]

I have never paid a deposit and wouldn't dream of it. Apart from the confidentiality problem of bank transfers etc (OK vouchers might be safer) the opportunity for scamming is so great I do not feel it is something to be encouraged or more and more SP's may start demanding one.

Happy to seek pastures new if a deposit is requested and SP's should be happy to refuse to see anyone who they regard as a TW.

[daviemac]

 No big deal in regard to punting.

I'm afraid the negative reviews from people who've been scammed tell a very different story.  How many legitimate businesses that would take a deposit do you know operate using fake names and throw away phone numbers.

There's no comparison.

[WelshClipper]

I'm afraid the negative reviews from people who've been scammed tell a very different story.  How many legitimate businesses that would take a deposit do you know operate using fake names and throw away phone numbers.

There's no comparison.

I think there is some middle ground here.

Paying a deposit to a fake name and throwaway phone IS a big deal and we must all be careful about scammers.

But there are many who are as close to honorable as you can get. For example, if Haley-x-x started asking for a £20 gift card from all new clients, I vouch there are very few who would not pay it even if they wont admit it.

N.b. Haley did not pay me to use her name as the example

[Stevelondon]

I'm afraid the negative reviews from people who've been scammed tell a very different story.  How many legitimate businesses that would take a deposit do you know operate using fake names and throw away phone numbers.

There's no comparison.

I was not making a comparison. Perhaps badly worded maybe but the sentiment is there.
If a deposit is required then you make your mind up as to wether you pay or not.

There is a world of difference in paying a deposit to a well known, well reviewed dom and a SP who is not well known and has possibly poor feedback.

I agree with the post regarding a good SP offering good service should not need to rely on a deposit system.

[Purple_Bariquade]

Unless they were very well reviewed and it was my first meet with them I wouldn't bother. Got strung along by a WG asking for deposits before when I was beginning so I learnt an expensive lesson

[contentguy]

It’s becoming more prevalent.
I’d see this SP, though expensive and has limited services.

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But to pay £100 as a deposit and give 48 hours notice is just out of my scope for a “work from home” sneak punt.  But my AW feedback is better than hers, mine being current in 2021, whereas she hasn’t had any fb since 2017.

Though to be honest, I’m not sure were compatible as I’m a slow reader and I’ve only just got to page 3 of her profile 

Delusional

[Problem Child]

Rule number 1) Don’t pay a deposit
Rule number 2) Don’t forget rule number 1.

[WelshClipper]

It’s becoming more prevalent.
I’d see this SP, though expensive and has limited services.

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But to pay £100 as a deposit and give 48 hours notice is just out of my scope for a “work from home” sneak punt.  But my AW feedback is better than hers, mine being current in 2021, whereas she hasn’t had any fb since 2017.

Though to be honest, I’m not sure were compatible as I’m a slow reader and I’ve only just got to page 3 of her profile 

Delusional

A £20 gift card is one thing but £115 is indeed delusional.

However a London banker into BDSM would be unlikely to blink. I am sure she does very well.

I also doubt said banker is on this site and gives a shit what we think. Just sayin’ ........

[thundercrackerxx]

Helllllllll no.

[smiths]

Hi I have just come across a few profiles on adultwork and the girls want you to bank transfer 20% of their fee to them to confirm your booking. I'm just wondering if any of you guys have had any experience doing this as their are a few pornstars that will only see you if you do this. My biggest fear is getting played by them you give them the money and then they come up with some bs why they can't see you. If anyone has any advice or tips please do share thanks.

Why on earth would I pay a WG a deposit, I may have no recourse to get it back if she fucked me over, punting is not like dealing with a registered business where there may well be a formal complaints procedure if they don't adher to what was agreed.

My advice is avoid WGs who ask for deposits as I have done for nearly 40 years, sure some will be fine, but some wont be as posts and some reviews on here over the years have shown. Why take the risk is my logic.

[Bru1901]

The thing is £20 is realistic. Why would a wg go to all the trouble to scam for £20.

£100 is too much irregardless of her fee. It means you have something to lose now and not the wg.

The way i see it - if i cancel or am late then fuck it ive lost £20 and shes made 20 quid.

If i have prepaid 100 and im late or have to last minute cancel them in fucked.

From the wgs prospective that potential meet then becomes more definitive. Also a deposit means you dont need to do the usual 9am confirmation. Thats always just as worse as the booking itself.

Many profiles state if you dont confirm by 9am or 10am the booking is gone to someone else.

£20 is fuck all to lose in this game when an average for 30mins is now creeping to £90/100.

If any wg is asking for 100. Counter with 20.

My only worry would be bank details. I would want anonymity on my end. Its why paypal and bank transfer is out the question.

Axxxxxx gift is fine as you can buy from tesco and scratch and send the code. No trace online and its 99% anonymous.

If anyone is a pg scammer or video scammer then ypur fucked either way. If shes a FT escort offering services but getting messed around then 20 quid is fuck all. Twice minimum wage.

As for service they are more inclined to offer a better service too as its a guaranteed booking like a regular

Im pro deposit but it should be exactly that a deposit ,(small percentage of the final fee) not a fraction like half.

[tesla]

The thing is £20 is realistic. Why would a wg go to all the trouble to scam for £20.

£100 is too much irregardless of her fee. It means you have something to lose now and not the wg.

The way i see it - if i cancel or am late then fuck it ive lost £20 and shes made 20 quid.

If i have prepaid 100 and im late or have to last minute cancel them in fucked.

From the wgs prospective that potential meet then becomes more definitive. Also a deposit means you dont need to do the usual 9am confirmation. Thats always just as worse as the booking itself.

Many profiles state if you dont confirm by 9am or 10am the booking is gone to someone else.

£20 is fuck all to lose in this game when an average for 30mins is now creeping to £90/100.

If any wg is asking for 100. Counter with 20.

My only worry would be bank details. I would want anonymity on my end. Its why paypal and bank transfer is out the question.

Axxxxxx gift is fine as you can buy from tesco and scratch and send the code. No trace online and its 99% anonymous.

If anyone is a pg scammer or video scammer then ypur fucked either way. If shes a FT escort offering services but getting messed around then 20 quid is fuck all. Twice minimum wage.

As for service they are more inclined to offer a better service too as its a guaranteed booking like a regular

Im pro deposit but it should be exactly that a deposit ,(small percentage of the final fee) not a fraction like half.

£20 may be nothing to you if you get scammed, but if the SP is scamming more people that day it's a good little earner, she gets away with it once and then it's easy money

so don't think your take on this is realistic

my advice from 42 years of punting, DONT PAY A DEPOSIT

[spiralnotebook]

I’m definitely in the No camp, not a chance. Perhaps the tart should pay the punter a refundable deposit in case the goods or implied service are not as described.

[daviemac]

The thing is £20 is realistic. Why would a wg go to all the trouble to scam for £20.

£100 is too much irregardless of her fee. It means you have something to lose now and not the wg.

The way i see it - if i cancel or am late then fuck it ive lost £20 and shes made 20 quid.

If i have prepaid 100 and im late or have to last minute cancel them in fucked.

From the wgs prospective that potential meet then becomes more definitive. Also a deposit means you dont need to do the usual 9am confirmation. Thats always just as worse as the booking itself.

Many profiles state if you dont confirm by 9am or 10am the booking is gone to someone else.

£20 is fuck all to lose in this game when an average for 30mins is now creeping to £90/100.

If any wg is asking for 100. Counter with 20.

My only worry would be bank details. I would want anonymity on my end. Its why paypal and bank transfer is out the question.

Axxxxxx gift is fine as you can buy from tesco and scratch and send the code. No trace online and its 99% anonymous.

If anyone is a pg scammer or video scammer then ypur fucked either way. If shes a FT escort offering services but getting messed around then 20 quid is fuck all. Twice minimum wage.

As for service they are more inclined to offer a better service too as its a guaranteed booking like a regular

Im pro deposit but it should be exactly that a deposit ,(small percentage of the final fee) not a fraction like half.

You are by far in the minority in this game and to be quite honest if you think that paying a deposit is going to guarantee anything you have a lot to learn.

I have no doubt that there will be some escorts who are genuine but the general consensus of opinion is that it is a bad idea to pay deposits and it is not necessary

You really need to read some negative reviews on here if you think anything to do with money makes a difference to services provided, an SP either provides a good service or she doesn't, I can show you a profile that has 50+ positive reviews on here and she charges £50 / £100, I can also show you some that charge twice that but have negative reviews. 

BTW outside of punting there's these phone and email scammers around who try to get a lot less than £20 out of you.

[jimbobted]

I wouldn't pay a deposit to a WG unless she was very well reviewed.
I have paid a deposit to an agency, out call to my hotel. It was less than a fifth of the total fee and I guess they get lots of cranks wasting their time. All went fine and had a good 2 hour romp.

[JasonsAllRound]

Not a chance. Never send money in advance, particularly given the increasingly extortionate pricing. A lot of greed about.

[Sexpest]

Have paid £20 and £50 deposits to girls before all English and with over 100 feedback. Didn’t bother me at all. In London £20 is nothing.  one even had a business account. Don’t feel they would have anything to gain by scamming all of them were first time meets. Was told if I booked again could just text the next time now we were well acquainted.

It depends who you are seeing I wouldn’t pay one to a rom or Brazilian’s pimp.

Also think it’s fair if your asking someone to travel to you for outcall to cover the taxi. Otherwise nut jobs probably send these women all over town for a laugh. How would they tell your genuine if you didn’t pay their taxi to you?

[tesla]

Also think it’s fair if your asking someone to travel to you for outcall to cover the taxi. Otherwise nut jobs probably send these women all over town for a laugh. How would they tell your genuine if you didn’t pay their taxi to you?

totally unacceptable, I don't pay my plumber until he has been and fixed my leak, he covers his transport cost from his fee same way I will not pay an outcall escort until she has turned up and delivered the goods.
As for how do they know you are genuine, well trust has to start somewhere, ideally with the person charging £120 plus

[Ali Katt]

totally unacceptable, I don't pay my plumber unit he has been and fixed my leak, he covers his transport cost from his fee same way I will not pay an outcall escort until she has turned up and delivered the goods.
As for how do they know you are genuine, well trust has to start somewhere, ideally with the person charging £120 plus

Also how do you know your not paying £20 for £2 bus ride.

[daviemac]

Also think it’s fair if your asking someone to travel to you for outcall to cover the taxi. Otherwise nut jobs probably send these women all over town for a laugh. How would they tell your genuine if you didn’t pay their taxi to you?

They do what we do, their due diligence only they check the likes of SAAFE, UglyMugs or Clienteye for any reports of the punter being dodgy.

The extra £20 I pay on the rate for an outcall is to cover their expenses, not a cat in hell's chance of me paying twice.

[sharpshoes78]

Would you pay before visiting MCDONALD'S?

[Steely Dan]

I'm in the 'no way' camp for the simple reason: POF.  There really are Plenty of Fish in the escort ocean.  So there is simply no need.

I did once pay a deposit.  It was for a Swingers and Sinners party.  Because I wanted to go to that party on that day and so POF did not apply.  But they had enough reviews on this site that I was not worried.  It was easy and they took the deposit off the fee so it worked out.