When I'm in bed with a girl, it's just me and her. I have no thoughts for others, even if it be my OH, let alone other punters.
I've been ghosted before, been delayed before. I just think good luck other punter.
I think of it as a game of football. If I'm playing a game and we're 5-0 up at half-time, I'm not thinking let's relax because the opposition have a relegation decider as their next game. I'm thinking I want my hat trick.
After the game we can hug and share beers etc, but on the field, I'm with Roy Keane.
So, after a punt, I will review the girl as fairly as I can. Any of the girls I have seen who are flaky time-keepers/attendees are well known for being so anyway. So no secret. Fact they'd never been flaky to me means I like them. If they're flaky towards others, well, as above.
One of my regs had a well flaky attitude before I saw her, but was always great to me.
If a girl has been flaky towards me, I'd've been unhappy and reviewed as such. As I have done.