Author Topic: Atttending my first gangbang - advice? (Read 6434 times)

warbz83 · « **on:** July 03, 2021, 01:36:26 pm »

Hi all,

I'm attending my first ever gangbang at the end of the month and I'm not sure what to expect or what the etiquette is. Can someone with experience let me know how I should act, what the usual state of play is, and whether I bring anything with me etc?

It's 4 or 5 woman and 20 men I believe (i'll be one of those men). I'll be going on my own, so won't know anyone. I'm very nervous but excited at the same time.

Thanks in advance, any guidance appreciated.

davidgood · « **Reply #1 on:** July 03, 2021, 02:20:46 pm »

Quote from: warbz83 on July 03, 2021, 01:36:26 pm

Hi all,

I'm attending my first ever gangbang at the end of the month and I'm not sure what to expect or what the etiquette is. Can someone with experience let me know how I should act, what the usual state of play is, and whether I bring anything with me etc?

It's 4 or 5 woman and 20 men I believe (i'll be one of those men). I'll be going on my own, so won't know anyone. I'm very nervous but excited at the same time.

Thanks in advance, any guidance appreciated.

You should have a look at the party section of Punting Wiki-

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Based on the numbers you have mentioned it looks like you are going to a sex party rather than a gangbang.

If you can identify the party you are going to, others may be able to give you specific advice and guidance.

Regards,

davidgood

warbz83 · « **Reply #2 on:** July 03, 2021, 03:34:20 pm »

You're right. Probably more of a sex party in truth. It's a new one that's just launched in Dunstable - External Link/Members Only

It's local to me which is great. I was sceptical at first, but looked into it a lot and it all seems legit

fudi_maar · « **Reply #3 on:** July 03, 2021, 03:37:42 pm »

Remember to review it after the event.

Hope it's a good-un. The party scene has been dying a slow death for a decade and this is a welcome new arrival.
Good luck.

signy · « **Reply #4 on:** July 03, 2021, 03:46:48 pm »

Quote from: warbz83 on July 03, 2021, 03:34:20 pm

You're right. Probably more of a sex party in truth. It's a new one that's just launched in Dunstable - External Link/Members Only

It's local to me which is great. I was sceptical at first, but looked into it a lot and it all seems legit

There is a fair amount of interest in this venture in a thread on the East England regional board. I am sure people would appreciate a detailed review after your visit.

Steely Dan · « **Reply #5 on:** July 03, 2021, 03:53:46 pm »

As you say, a new party so hard to give you advice. But the girls look like the usual cast (I notice melody pleasure for example).
Simply:
-It is normal to go alone.
-It is normal not to know anyone. I would sometimes recognise guy from previous parties, but the greeting was always neutral. ' Hey, hows it going?'
-You don't need to bring anything. In fact, bring as little as you can manage. Extra cash/laptops/bags of stuff are a pest for you and the organiser.
-Guys are polite to each other. But formal. It is not quite like the sex party videos on porn hub.
-This ratio is a bit poor. You might need to be gently assertive to get your fair share. Hard to know what the vibe will be. I would suspect at that ratio that there will almost always be a dick in her mouth as you fuck her.
-Fuck a girl you normally would never book 1-1. Parties are not for your favourite type. Try something different.
-Don't hog. But have your fair share.
-Just a guess but these busy parties are sometimes best during the last hour. If you are struggling and not loving it, my tip would be to hold the course, and don't leave early. It sometimes gets better. (sadly, not always....)

davidgood · « **Reply #6 on:** July 04, 2021, 02:31:39 pm »

Quote from: Steely Dan on July 03, 2021, 03:53:46 pm

As you say, a new party so hard to give you advice. But the girls look like the usual cast (I notice melody pleasure for example).
Simply:
-It is normal to go alone.
-It is normal not to know anyone. I would sometimes recognise guy from previous parties, but the greeting was always neutral. ' Hey, hows it going?'
-You don't need to bring anything. In fact, bring as little as you can manage. Extra cash/laptops/bags of stuff are a pest for you and the organiser.
-Guys are polite to each other. But formal. It is not quite like the sex party videos on porn hub.
-This ratio is a bit poor. You might need to be gently assertive to get your fair share. Hard to know what the vibe will be. I would suspect at that ratio that there will almost always be a dick in her mouth as you fuck her.
-Fuck a girl you normally would never book 1-1. Parties are not for your favourite type. Try something different.
-Don't hog. But have your fair share.
-Just a guess but these busy parties are sometimes best during the last hour. If you are struggling and not loving it, my tip would be to hold the course, and don't leave early. It sometimes gets better. (sadly, not always....)

All good advice from SD.

Just a few things I would add;-

Remember that in the rules of these parties they want you to provide ID.

Check they are providing the condoms. Party organisers usually do, but this is a someone new to the game. Also swinger venues, which is where this party is being held, often like selling them to visitors at a mark up rather than giving them away.

At £60 for a 5 girl party it is likely to be busy and there will be a lot of spit roasting rather than cosy 1 to 1s.

If you can, try to chat the girls before the action starts. That way they are more likely to invite you to join them when things get busy.

I know two of the line up are experienced party girls. I have not seen Melody for a while but I had the pleasure of playing with Riley (fka Roxy) several times last year before Lockdown. She is an enthusiastic player and good fun proving you do not try to break her bones or give her lip.

I hope you enjoy yourself. Please let us have a review, be it good or bad.

Regards,

davidgood

SamOmar · « **Reply #7 on:** July 08, 2021, 08:51:11 am »

Quote from: warbz83 on July 03, 2021, 01:36:26 pm

It's 4 or 5 woman and 20 men I believe (i'll be one of those men). I'll be going on my own, so won't know anyone. I'm very nervous but excited at the same time.

Used to go to a fair few parties when i was younger never seen 20 men turn up for 4 / 5 ladies thats just a poor ratio imo

PunterNumber69 · « **Reply #8 on:** July 08, 2021, 10:17:19 am »

As they say in the song "Don't stand so close to me". 1 metre distancing recommended in the queue.

RogerThat · « **Reply #9 on:** July 08, 2021, 01:36:11 pm »

Pace yourself. You know if you're a repeater and how many times.

I went to a party that started with oral. That was 1..

marc_hotsteppa · « **Reply #10 on:** July 08, 2021, 03:32:05 pm »

Have a drink (just literally the one) before you go in to take the edge off and don't be alarmed if some of the guys have bigger cocks than you.

Tonyg · « **Reply #11 on:** July 08, 2021, 07:51:21 pm »

Make sure you don’t burn your arse on any wall lights.... it happens to even the most experienced of us

Lewis · « **Reply #12 on:** July 08, 2021, 08:29:47 pm »

Watch out for damp patches left by others, and used condoms on the floor. No matter how many times a member of staff goes around with a litter picker, idiots will still throw their rubbers on the floor instead of the bins.

pa5151 · « **Reply #13 on:** July 08, 2021, 08:33:04 pm »

Quote from: marc_hotsteppa on July 08, 2021, 03:32:05 pm

Have a drink (just literally the one) before you go in to take the edge off and don't be alarmed if some of the guys have bigger cocks than you.

In a gangbang I went to last year I was genuinely surprised by the size of guys cocks. I suppose guys with 2 inch cocks are less likely to turn up to a gangbang

It took me a while to get going, best to go when you're well rested (rather than after a long day of work) and well dehydrated. A glass of wine can certainly help and take the edge off.

Bonker · « **Reply #14 on:** July 08, 2021, 11:57:01 pm »

Another dodgy thread.

RogerThat · « **Reply #15 on:** July 09, 2021, 02:55:45 pm »

And always be ready to move, quickly.

Unless you like another man's cum on your leg

Dan25085 · « **Reply #16 on:** July 09, 2021, 03:28:23 pm »

Quote from: RogerThat on July 09, 2021, 02:55:45 pm

And always be ready to move, quickly.

Unless you like another man's cum on your leg

I second this. Some inconsiderate prick got semen on my neck in the last party I attended. It shocked me how warm it was.

PunterNumber69 · « **Reply #17 on:** July 09, 2021, 04:10:47 pm »

Quote from: Dan25085 on July 09, 2021, 03:28:23 pm

I second this. Some inconsiderate prick got semen on my neck in the last party I attended. It shocked me how warm it was.

Sorry about that. Poor aiming. I was going for your hair.

davidgood · « **Reply #18 on:** July 09, 2021, 05:36:13 pm »

Quote from: RogerThat on July 09, 2021, 02:55:45 pm

And always be ready to move, quickly.

Unless you like another man's cum on your leg

The OP is going to a Cos Play party, not a bukkake party, so not likely he will suffer any friendly fire.

Regards,

davidgood

finn5555 · « **Reply #19 on:** July 09, 2021, 06:33:08 pm »

Quote from: davidgood on July 09, 2021, 05:36:13 pm

The OP is going to a Cos Play party, not a bukkake party, so not likely he will suffer any friendly fire.

Regards,

davidgood

So are you saying if the pro$$ie is dressed as Elsa or some other princess another bloke will be more accurate with his jizz

RogerThat · « **Reply #20 on:** July 09, 2021, 07:29:00 pm »

Imagine somebody holding a hose-pipe a few feet from the end, and somebody else turning the water on.

This is a worse case scenario, but it can happen.

tigerbiker · « **Reply #21 on:** July 10, 2021, 10:02:52 am »

I attended one years ago and I found it disappointing. The ratio was about the same as the one you plan to go to and that was the main problem.
The "party" atmosphere was not there - it was really a queue of old fat blokes waiting to fuck some knackered prozzies who did not want to be there. When clients and girls paired off, they wanted to be on their own - no chance of a bj whilst another guy fucked them and all that - like you see in porno flicks. Nobody wanted to watch each other and nobody wanted to be watched.
The party was supposed to be 2 hours long and I could not get access to a pussy or mouth for the first hour (I contemplated having a wank to get into it) - then I fucked the first available (the fattest and ugliest there), popped my spunk. Afterwards I asked myself why I paid double rate for such a bad experience. Since then, I have only done one to ones. The other thing I remember was the smell of spunk and pussy in the rooms and used johnnies left all over the place - so a generally seedy atmos.

Having said that, I'm not really a party animal (in the normal sense) and I got the impression that everyone else there was not either. Maybe with the right mix of characters they can turn out better. Perhaps an umpire/organiser to formally share out the shagging and direct the proceedings in a porno movie style would help.

Lou2019 · « **Reply #22 on:** July 10, 2021, 10:27:23 am »

Quote from: tigerbiker on July 10, 2021, 10:02:52 am

The other thing I remember was the smell of spunk and pussy in the rooms and used johnnies left all over the place

I have been curious about attending a swingers/sex club for sometime but this is what puts me off

mexicola · « **Reply #23 on:** July 10, 2021, 10:46:27 am »

Quote from: warbz83 on July 03, 2021, 03:34:20 pm

You're right. Probably more of a sex party in truth. It's a new one that's just launched in Dunstable - External Link/Members Only

It's local to me which is great. I was sceptical at first, but looked into it a lot and it all seems legit

Are they running both themes on the same day, or is one a typo with the wrong date ?

There are 3 parties per day / theme, and looks like they are alternating them. That's 12 hrs of shagging the girls will be doing. Will be some well used fannys on that last party

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tigerbiker · « **Reply #24 on:** July 10, 2021, 11:44:46 am »

That is one heck of a schedule - it won't work. 4 back to back 2 hr parties with 20 guys at each one and the same 5 girls.
If each guy just fucks one girl, each girl will get fucked 16 times by the end of the day (probably good looking ones more?)
I can't see this is possible - sore vaginas

for sure.

I would not want to be the one that cleans that flat afterwards

If anyone goes, please do a report

davidgood · « **Reply #25 on:** July 10, 2021, 02:31:53 pm »

Quote from: mexicola on July 10, 2021, 10:46:27 am

Are they running both themes on the same day, or is one a typo with the wrong date ?

There are 3 parties per day / theme, and looks like they are alternating them. That's 12 hrs of shagging the girls will be doing. Will be some well used fannys on that last party

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Their site is not very clear as rather than take out wording they seem to want to keep the template and amend by crossing our words and numbers.

I believe they are starting off with two, 2 hour Pick & Mix parties. One at 11am and then one at 2pm. Then a Disney theme party at 5pm.

The venue is not a small flat it is a swingers club with a number of play rooms.

Regards,

davidgood

RogerThat · « **Reply #26 on:** July 10, 2021, 03:21:59 pm »

Yeah, I was seriously put off by smell comments I had read.

That was evident at swingers club but not at parties.
.
I put that down to some people having a poor sense of smell and not washing properly ;

Nothing is quite like a porno because they have a heavy amount of fantasy and some of the things done take preparation.

Sorry, but Santa Claus doesn't exist either.

Lou2019 · « **Reply #27 on:** July 10, 2021, 03:25:12 pm »

Quote from: RogerThat on July 10, 2021, 03:21:59 pm

Yeah, I was seriously put off by smell comments I had read.

That was evident at swingers club but not at parties.
.
I put that down to some people having a poor sense of smell and not washing properly ;

Nothing is quite like a porno because they have a heavy amount of fantasy and some of the things done take preparation.

Sorry, but Santa Claus doesn't exist either.

I have heard a few horror stories about clubs & anal and lack of prep

RogerThat · « **Reply #28 on:** July 10, 2021, 03:32:32 pm »

Lou2019 · « **Reply #29 on:** July 10, 2021, 03:36:37 pm »

Quote from: RogerThat on July 10, 2021, 03:32:32 pm

saying that I still give it a go once/if they open again, I'll put a bit of Vicks under my nostrils

RogerThat · « **Reply #30 on:** July 10, 2021, 03:41:15 pm »

Good idea. You could wear one in each nostril. Good look/luck.

davidgood · « **Reply #31 on:** July 12, 2021, 11:57:16 am »

Quote from: Lou2019 on July 10, 2021, 03:25:12 pm

I have heard a few horror stories about clubs & anal and lack of prep

I can't comment on swingers only parties as I have not been to one, but I have been to many sex parties and gangbangs. Anal is rarely available but when it is then the ladies are well prepared and there are not usually any mishaps.

Regards,

davidgood

warbz83 · « **Reply #32 on:** July 19, 2021, 12:15:30 am »

Hi all,

The location has been moved at late notice. Is this normal? Some have said that occasionally it's maybe switched to an air bnb or something. I think the original location might have worked out too expensive. I won't reveal the location but it's now a house (the one pictured).

As I say, this will be my first party but I'm starting to think it might not be as well run as I thought it would be?

Thoughts? Thanks in advance

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davidgood · « **Reply #33 on:** July 19, 2021, 07:42:27 am »

Quote from: warbz83 on July 19, 2021, 12:15:30 am

Hi all,

The location has been moved at late notice. Is this normal? Some have said that occasionally it's maybe switched to an air bnb or something. I think the original location might have worked out too expensive. I won't reveal the location but it's now a house (the one pictured).

As I say, this will be my first party but I'm starting to think it might not be as well run as I thought it would be?

Thoughts? Thanks in advance

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It is not unusual for sex parties to be held in private flats and houses.

In this case it looks like they might have been let down by the venue they were going to use as they are now advertising an opening party on 24th July.

If it is still on, then for £60 it is probably worth a punt.

Regards,

davidgood

warbz83 · « **Reply #34 on:** July 22, 2021, 04:14:02 pm »

Well, as much as I appreciate what the country's doing to tackle covid, I got bloody pinged to self-isolte today on the NHS app.

Was nervous but very excited about Saturday's party. I really hope someone else here is going and can report back.

davidgood · « **Reply #35 on:** July 23, 2021, 08:51:19 am »

Quote from: warbz83 on July 22, 2021, 04:14:02 pm

Well, as much as I appreciate what the country's doing to tackle covid, I got bloody pinged to self-isolte today on the NHS app.

Was nervous but very excited about Saturday's party. I really hope someone else here is going and can report back.

Sorry to hear you got pinged and can't go. I was looking forward to a review as it is a new party provider.

Regards,

davidgood

finn5555 · « **Reply #36 on:** July 23, 2021, 04:17:24 pm »

Is the party still on

warbz83 · « **Reply #37 on:** July 23, 2021, 04:40:06 pm »

Quote from: finn5555 on July 23, 2021, 04:17:24 pm

Is the party still on

It is yes

davidgood · « **Reply #38 on:** July 23, 2021, 05:23:24 pm »

Quote from: warbz83 on July 23, 2021, 04:40:06 pm

It is yes

Did you pay deposit? Have you got it back?

Regards,

davidgood

warbz83 · « **Reply #39 on:** July 23, 2021, 11:26:08 pm »

Quote from: davidgood on July 23, 2021, 05:23:24 pm

Did you pay deposit? Have you got it back?

Regards,

davidgood

I did pay a deposit yes, but they're more than happy to let me attend their next party instead. I'm sure they'd give me it back if I asked but I was happy to just defer to the next party.

Buttons · « **Reply #40 on:** July 24, 2021, 10:43:41 am »

I noticed Mandy Foxxx is listed on the website for these party’s. She’s been getting a few negative and neutral reviews in the East Midlands section. She used to have a great reputation a couple of years ago. But her prices have gone up considerably and some guys are saying she goes through the motions and isn’t interested in delivering a good service anymore. For these reasons she’s off my hot list now, should have seen her when she was new I guess.

But just a thought. As others have pointed out, the guy to girl ratio seems quite high for these parties. If someone isn’t delivering a good service, then that effectively makes the ratio even worse I guess ???

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davidgood · « **Reply #41 on:** July 24, 2021, 01:57:41 pm »

Quote from: warbz83 on July 23, 2021, 11:26:08 pm

I did pay a deposit yes, but they're more than happy to let me attend their next party instead. I'm sure they'd give me it back if I asked but I was happy to just defer to the next party.

I hope you can make it and let us have some feedback.

It looks like today's parties must have attracted plenty guys as the cost has gone back up to £120.

Regards,

davidgood

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