For me still way better than AW - I met one of my original contacts for 2nd time yesterday, 2 hours + for £150 and a lovely relaxed time, there is more feeling and passion than I thought I'd get. Yes I do chat with all 4 on whatsapp (archived out the way). My needs are not necessarily everyones - I prefer girl next door / young mum to model looks, so maybe Im fishing in a less frequented pond :-)
Well done!
I had created an account on secret benefits long ago just out of curiosity but did not really engage there. Since weekend, on spur and with some inspiration from this thread I started to vet some profiles on SB.
In span of 2 days, I had chat with four girls - 1st is a young kid who seem to be mostly time waster for me, 2nd was a cute lady but asking for "proof" with a gift from her Amazon wishlist to even discuss any arrangement, 3rd is an average girl with whom I am chatting on whatsapp, and the 4th was a stunning 22 year old, hippie-looking girl whom I met last night.
I am quite surprised with the level of success I got in two days and with just 100 credits on SB. Maybe it is beginner`s luck!
The girl I met last night was a sexy looking girl, we spent a couple of hours chatting, eating and sex. I did make some rookie mistakes - I felt I overpaid her at £250 and in the excitement to meet her I forgot to ask her about the sexual services she offers. During the session, she told me she does not do OWO, only OW. Though other part of the sex was nice (what an ass view during doggie
), I love OWO and OW does not work much for me, so was disappointed with that. Personality wise I could not connect much with her, she was quite dumb. Overall, it was an average session. As I could not host, had to book a hotel, so in the end was not entirely a VFM for me. The upside was that it was not a rushed meet, a girl I would never score in real life, and a new experience.
The other girl I am chatting currently with has agreed for 150 PPM, she seems to be nice and is making an effort to have some connect. I might meet her in a week or two. This time I will make sure to discuss on the services to offer.
It is too early to say, but personally I do not see using secret benefits further at the moment, mainly because of my inconvenient personal circumstances. Now, I could spend time on SB because my wife is abroad for a couple of months but when she is back it will be difficult to be away from home for long hours without raising suspicion (I work from home). I find the process of booking a hotel, travelling there a bit tedious and risk of leaving trails. I think it is a bit difficult to find a girl on SB who can host. Probably, it is more convenient to have a couple of escorts who provide great services for me of course the lack of passion is a bit of a compromise.