Interesting response thank you. Pushover and jumping through hoops definitely rings a bell with me.
Certainly not looking for a wg to replace the kind of relationship you describe.
I want to enjoy sex without all of the mind games etc that come with a 'relationship'. Also want to know what it is like to have sex with someone that I am actually attracted to.
Trust me very few prossies are a 10\10 - I never seen one even remotely close. Most are average looking, the plain janes and cute next door types, loads are fat housewives. When I first started punting I would accept a massage to begin as I thought it was non-negotiable and a given. I thought prossies would be pros at massage, it would be of spa masseur standard. And all, but two (out of around 10) were crap. It's a waste of 20 minutes, you get wise to these things. The sex is usually a bit better than average, but it depends on what someone calls average. It's usually awkward and staggered to begin just like all sex and I was expecting a full on shagfest, but it's usually no better than civvy sex, the only real difference is you don't need to be coy about asking for what you want. TBH, I didn't think an experienced prossie could give a crap BJ, but I was wrong. At least with civvy sex it's with someone you like and care for, or at least most of the time.
