Paying via card to see Ella bolt.

[puntingking]

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Hello, I'm looking to see Ella bolt for a long booking so rather than draw a large amount of money out I think I might as well ought to pay by card as it says on her profile that she does accept card payment via zettle.

Is it safe to pay by card payment? I never paid in this way before.
Although Ella herself claims that this way is safe. What are your thoughts on this? 

[Rogerthedodger78]

I wouldn’t consider that.

It’s not a great hassle to go to a cash point.

If you pay by card your leaving the potential to get scammed by her or her pimp by them taking your bank details. Also you’re real name would be on the transaction leaving the opportunity of blackmail.

Not to mention if you have a OH who notices the transaction.

Cons massively outweigh the pros.

Use a punting phone and fake name give her cash less chance of any comebacks

[Trex]

I personally won’t do it, so much risks to do that method. I recommend you to move on to the next one and forget about her.

[puntingking]

I wouldn’t consider that.

It’s not a great hassle to go to a cash point.

If you pay by card your leaving the potential to get scammed by her or her pimp by them taking your bank details. Also you’re real name would be on the transaction leaving the opportunity of blackmail.

Not to mention if you have a OH who notices the transaction.

Cons massively outweigh the pros.

Use a punting phone and fake name give her cash less chance of any comebacks

ok. thanks 
just a unrelated question - what does OH stand for? i should know but i dont 

[puntingking]

I personally won’t do it, so much risks to do that method. I recommend you to move on to the next one and forget about her.

ok. thank you for your answer to my query. much appreciated 

[juzz]

ok. thanks 
just a unrelated question - what does OH stand for? i should know but i dont 

Other Half. I.e. your partner. 

[puntingking]

Other Half. I.e. your partner. 

Ok.. Thanks 

[Champ4]

Other Half. I.e. your partner. 

Oh really!? I always assumed it meant ‘old hag’  same difference I suppose. We probably wouldn’t be punting if we weren’t single or had an old hag at home.

[juzz]

Oh really!? I always assumed it meant ‘old hag’  same difference I suppose. We probably wouldn’t be punting if we weren’t single or had an old hag at home.

I like that better

[stampjones]

You could revolut. A lot of guys on SA use it for anonymous payment. They offer a disposable virtual card which only exists for one payment so pretty safe. You also can use any name/address you vhoose with each virtual card payment

[puntingking]

You could revolut. A lot of guys on SA use it for anonymous payment. They offer a disposable virtual card which only exists for one payment so pretty safe. You also can use any name/address you vhoose with each virtual card payment

Ok.  Thanks

[Royd30]

Deposit, No Way.

[puntingking]

Deposit, No Way.

I was not talking about a deposit. I was talking about paying the amount by card when I see her. I would not do deposit either

[Malvolio]

Every so often I go to the bank and take out £1k in cash - that becomes my punting fund for a few months.  I would never pay by card or see someone who insisted I pay by card - leave as few traces of who you are as possible.

[puntingking]

Every so often I go to the bank and take out £1k in cash - that becomes my punting fund for a few months.  I would never pay by card or see someone who insisted I pay by card - leave as few traces of who you are as possible.

TBH I don't like doing that either.
I may just do a bank transfer when I book with her. I think it will be fine.

[stayer]

I'm fairly sure that a few WGs are prepared to accept prepaid gift cards, this seems a good idea either in full or part-payment.

[LLPunting]

Whether you prepay or pay on arrival, what happens if something goes wrong and you want (some of) your money back?

[puntingking]

I'm fairly sure that a few WGs are prepared to accept prepaid gift cards, this seems a good idea either in full or part-payment.

If the wg cancel on me at the last second or for some reason the meeting can not happen but by that time I have purchased a gift card presuming you can get a refund for the gift card I had bought? 

[stayer]

I don't think you can get a refund, at least that's what Tesco's policy is and it's the store I'm most likely to buy a gift card from.

[Royd30]

Have seen both Ella and her stable mate, good meet, does what it says on the can BUT deposit, sorry NO

[puntingking]

I don't think you can get a refund, at least that's what Tesco's policy is and it's the store I'm most likely to buy a gift card from.

I found out tescos do offer a refund but only with their own gift cards online within a 2 weeks period. 

[puntingking]

Have seen both Ella and her stable mate, good meet, does what it says on the can BUT deposit, sorry NO

No not yet. To be honest I mostly do see atleast one wg each week but I don't think I will have time this week to see any wgs this week so I might look to see Ella next week if I can.

[Babblefish]

I wouldn’t trust her she’s actually mixed-race race but doesn’t advertise it fake blonde hair and blue contacts. I think she’s attractive but I just can’t handle the dishonesty/fakery

[mightymunce]

I wouldn’t trust her she’s actually mixed-race race but doesn’t advertise it fake blonde hair and blue contacts. I think she’s attractive but I just can’t handle the dishonesty/fakery

What mix and how do you know?

[puntingking]

What mix and how do you know?

+1
Could she just not caught a colour or something? Its hard to know if someone mixed race without them confirming their race to you.  Or it could just be her skin tone. It might not mean she is mixed race.

[Royd30]

Well I’m on the other side of the coloured bar and can confirm she is NOT MIXED RACE. Was not dishonest with me provided services advertised only negative is she’s quite time conscious.
I enjoyed them but would not return, loads of others out there that need my hard earned.

[puntingking]

Well I’m on the other side of the coloured bar and can confirm she is NOT MIXED RACE. Was not dishonest with me provided services advertised only negative is she’s quite time conscious.
I enjoyed them but would not return, loads of others out there that need my hard earned.

 

[EllaBolt]

Hello Rogerthedodger78 why are you talking things wich you obviously don't know ? I am a fully independent sex worker.  I am not paying nobody, nothing...I have no pimp and I do this job by choice.  I like it and is good money.  So please mind your business. I will remind you that this is defamation and this is a written statement from you and I can go in court with this, pressing charges against you . So please next time be careful saying something publicly . Ella Bolt

[EllaBolt]

Hello Babblefish did you ever saw my passport? I am roumanian citizen 100% . I have never lied about this...my profile on AW says the same thing .
What's your problem ? And what if I were mixed race? Are you  racist? I will tell you same thing that I said  here earlier if you continue to defame me and if you keep saying to people not tu trust me because I have an olive skin colour I will press charges again you in court.  Please be careful with your words  .

[EllaBolt]

Thank you for having my back ❤

[Fuzzyduck]

Hello Rogerthedodger78 why are you talking things wich you obviously don't know ? I am a fully independent sex worker.  I am not paying nobody, nothing...I have no pimp and I do this job by choice.  I like it and is good money.  So please mind your business. I will remind you that this is defamation and this is a written statement from you and I can go in court with this, pressing charges against you . So please next time be careful saying something publicly . Ella Bolt

Don't see what your problem is. Rogerthedodger gave a perfectly good and helpful response to the question. He highlighted the risks of paying by card and made no defamatory comments. Your threats of litigation are laughable. Seriously, stick to what you're good at.

[EllaBolt]

Hey Fuzzyduck ...obviously you don't understand my point.
 he said I have a pimp then wich is not true. I have many clients who paid me by card payment or bank transfer and Rogerthedogger is not one of them. He is not able to speak if I am a trustworthy person. What he said is ruining my reputation . And yes it is reasonable for me to say what i said . And please don't being rude by saying "stick what you're good at " you don't know nothing about me and I do remember you that your using our services so you should be more respectful. 

[Fac51]

FAO SP: one thing is for certain - your spelling is fucking atrocious 😂....

Also, Don't forget this is a punters site...I'm sure someone will remind you of the rules...

[EllaBolt]

Hey Fac I know about my spelling but English is not my first language so please be gentle.  This is not the poin here .  So this website is about people saying lies? That's not fair !!

[The Ultracheese]

I do remember you that your using our services so you should be more respectful.

“I do remember you” that you are taking our hard earned cash so you should also be more respectful, if wasn’t for us you’d have to get a real job like the rest of us.

[Fac51]

Hey Fac I know about my spelling but English is not my first language so please be gentle.  This is not the poin here .  So this website is about people saying lies? That's not fair !!

I suggest you go on SAFFE & bleat about it on there.....

[EllaBolt]

Thank you for your suggestions but I don't remember asking for them. Enjoy your evening!

[EllaBolt]

Hey ultracheese....i have defended my self very respectul.  Did I offended you ? Or someone in here? I am just trying to defend my business reputation.  Wouldn't you do the same thing if someone spoke bad of you?

[Fuzzyduck]

Hey Fuzzyduck ...obviously you don't understand my point.
 he said I have a pimp then wich is not true. I have many clients who paid me by card payment or bank transfer and Rogerthedogger is not one of them. He is not able to speak if I am a trustworthy person. What he said is ruining my reputation . And yes it is reasonable for me to say what i said . And please don't being rude by saying "stick what you're good at " you don't know nothing about me and I do remember you that your using our services so you should be more respectful.

I think you are taking this waaaaay too personally. This key part of the discussion IS NOT ABOUT YOU (sorry to disappoint). It's about paying a sex worker by card. Rogerthedodger's reply was perfectly valid in that context. You might have a manger. You might not. It really doesn't matter. In terms of ruining your reputation, you're doing a very good job at that by yourself by showcasing your paranoia.

Granted, Babblelfiah was being a shitstirring dickhead about you. You can see that others jumped in to challenge him and he's been rightfully banned.

[EllaBolt]

You're right, I am taking personally because is about my business reputation.  Trust me I don't want to be in your attention and trying to defend my business reputation is not pleasant for me but please try to see it also from my point of view.  You can't know how many potential customers I lost because what he said .

[scutty brown]

Ella, time for you to face a few facts.
You're a self-declared prostitute. That effectively means you have no reputation to defend or defame. Any court action would be thrown out.
You're working under a pseudonym anyway, which isn't linked to your real name - so claims of defamation would again fail.
Who would you sue? You're threatening an anonymous punter on an anonymous forum, registered in the USA and hosted in the Netherlands.
How much do you intend to spend identifying posters?
You're working in a job which isn't recognised as valid for  establishing UK residence, so BorderForce can chuck you out as soon as they realise you are here.
Are you paying tax and national insurance? Be careful!

[mrfishyfoo]

You're right, I am taking personally because is about my business reputation.  Trust me I don't want to be in your attention and trying to defend my business reputation is not pleasant for me but please try to see it also from my point of view.  You can't know how many potential customers I lost because what he said .

Fuck me a unicorn.   

I think I'm in lust  so I will help you out. 

This is not about you it is about discretion.

In the UK when you pay by personal bank card your details may be passed to the recipient as a fraud prevention measure.

Here it is in Romanian if you don't get it.

În Marea Britanie, atunci când plătiți cu cardul bancar personal, datele dumneavoastră pot fi transmise destinatarului ca măsură de prevenire a fraudei

So to answer the original question paying with a personal bank card is asking for trouble and is fucking stupid. 

[EllaBolt]

I just realised I have no chance with you guys
Nobody by my side and to many on the other side .
Yes I am paying taxes, i have settled status this is just a part time job . I thought I spoke with reasonable and respectful people.  But obviously in here you don't accept a girl's opinion 

[JackSaint]

This is turning into a bit of a pile on. Granted it's a public forum for punters, but it's anonymous people having a pop at a visible person, albeit working under a pseudonym, legal action obviously is a non starter, but insinuating that someone is not trustworthy or pimped, without due cause is not right and can damage their reputation and livelihood, which is not fair.

[mrfishyfoo]

I just realised I have no chance with you guys
Nobody by my side and to many on the other side .
Yes I am paying taxes, i have settled status this is just a part time job . I thought I spoke with reasonable and respectful people.  But obviously in here you don't accept a girl's opinion 

Damn you are feisty  BUT you also clearly do not understand  how this place works.

I will try to be nice to you again. 

We think paying a prostitute with a personal card is a bad idea.

Please explain to us why paying for a prostitute with a personal card is a good idea.

[mrfishyfoo]

This is turning into a bit of a pile on. Granted it's a public forum for punters, but it's anonymous people having a pop at a visible person, albeit working under a pseudonym, legal action obviously is a non starter, but insinuating that someone is not trustworthy or pimped, without due cause is not right and can damage their reputation and livelihood, which is not fair.

I read "potential" not a direct accusation. 

There is no way to know how honest, trustworthy or whatever you want to call it anyone that "walks in the shadows" really is.  That's why punting ain't for the faint at heart MrJS. 

As for a pile on  the only one here potentially doing damage to her business is the pro$$ie herself. 

[EllaBolt]

I exaggerated when I said I was suing someone.  I reacted impulsively but that doesn't mean I'm wrong.  I tried to bring in attention that this forum should be treated more seriously.  On this forum, unfortunately, people who did not know the escort they are talking about give their opinion, and people really take them seriously.  To answer to your question why it is not a bad idea: there are many people who can afford to pay only with a credit card.  I hope you know the difference between a credit card and a debit card.  I  want those people to know that they can trust that with me , everything is in a professional way.   I am professional and discreet .  I am not capable to do all those malicious things he mentioned: blackmail, pimps ... etc.  I've been in the industry for 2 years and whoever came to see me can say the same thing.  I just tried to explain that, i shouldn't be treated like this    This is the second time I've been put in this situation by this forum, and I want to ask you if you're really interested in whether the information is true or simply any man can give his opinion at random?
I expected to be treated more respectfully Regardless of my job, I am a human being . Good night gents. 

[scutty brown]

Prostitution on credit
That way lies madness. And bankruptcy

[bonapati]

I for one will never trust a hooker (with any personal information) no matter how polite and civil they are (a hooker also told me “never trust anyone who sells their body for sex) I have always held that thought to heart.

While you sound sorry for your previous comments, I can’t read your apology. Guess you are not used to doing that? Your services were recommended to me recently I just could not get around to it due to your location being on the opposite of mine. I might still visit but I will NOT pay by card, debit or credit, PayPal or similar. Like others have stated it is RISKY even for those who can’t pay by cash. (Watch the documentary “Inside Job” 2010)

There is an old east-end saying “what you don’t know don’t hurt ya”. There is a reason why you are a member of this site and we are not members of Saafe. It’s a competitive market and there is a market for every punter matching a of their hooker of choice. By the looks of it you don’t really provide services that can’t be found elsewhere, so punters will go where they feel safe by paying cash.

I would suggest you apologise to those upset with your comments and brashness - leave the building and close the door quietly. You say you have been in the business for 2 years. If London is your chosen city to continue to trade then “be a good girl” and you might get even busier. You could be a forum darling for your good services or for the wrong attitude.

A very high percentage of punters are aware of UKP (both contributors and lurkers) will read and decide if they 1) want to meet you 2) pay by card 3) put up with your drama. Reading your comments I imagine you feel entitled. Your legal treats are not helpful either. You sound like the kind of hooker that would cancel a punt last minute or promise a lot and deliver vanilla - I may be wrong as I have not dipped in.

P.S. hookers hardly win any digs on this forum, so don’t think you will be any different.

Good luck… in the deepend.

[Fac51]

Prostitution on credit
That way lies madness. And bankruptcy

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