xLily - 20s student - Kingston - Timewasting Teaser - Avoid

[k0589]

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I really didn't want to create this thread. But I forced myself to do it so as to stop others having to go through what happened to me. I was a bit angry but I brushed it off. In the long run I think she did me a favour. She stopped me from having to pay for a  bad punt.
 
I saw this great post on AW. 130 pounds one hr for a British girl and with no extra's.  I said that this is great and the girl is only 23. Little did I know what awaited me. A psycho, who probably enjoys wasting the time of punters. It wasn't nice of her but I took it like a man, still waited for 1 hr and with no response, she ghosted me despite me texting her for info.

What a nasty women. I actually think she enjoys doing this sort of thing to punters. Ruined my day. Made me take the train and travel an hour distance just to visit her. When I arrived she totally ignored me. Not a word. Made me walk around the area, just hoping that she would respond so I wouldn't have wasted a journey. It would have been a bit nice of her to send a text message saying she could not see me. Unfortunately I was left guessing and I didn't have plan B so my day was ruined. I haven't punted for a while so lost my wits. You always need a plan B. But what plan B can you have in an area like Kingston? Plus the cash machine took my card. I went back home tired, exhausted and cold.

I should have listened to the UKP member who warned about the likelihood of this sort of thing happening. But she had so many positives in UKP that I took the chance.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=280879.msg2918397#msg2918397

[Davey Dykes]

Did she actually agree to a meet to begin with?

[babayaga69]

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I really didn't want to create this thread. But I forced myself to do it so as to stop others having to go through what happened to me. I was a bit angry but I brushed it off. In the long run I think she did me a favour. She stopped me from having to pay for a  bad punt.
 
I saw this great post on AW. 130 pounds one hr for a British girl and with no extra's.  I said that this is great and the girl is only 23. Little did I know what awaited me. A psycho, who probably enjoys wasting the time of punters. It wasn't nice of her but I took it like a man, still waited for 1 hr and with no response, she ghosted me despite me texting her for info.

What a nasty women. I actually think she enjoys doing this sort of thing to punters. Ruined my day. Made me take the train and travel an hour distance just to visit her. When I arrived she totally ignored me. Not a word. Made me walk around the area, just hoping that she would respond so I wouldn't have wasted a journey. It would have been a bit nice of her to send a text message saying she could not see me. Unfortunately I was left guessing and I didn't have plan B so my day was ruined. I haven't punted for a while so lost my wits. You always need a plan B. But what plan B can you have in an area like Kingston? Plus the cash machine took my card. I went back home tired, exhausted and cold.

I should have listened to the UKP member who warned about the likelihood of this sort of thing happening. But she had so many positives in UKP that I took the chance.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=280879.msg2918397#msg2918397

I have never had issue with her, just late but 10-15mins wait the most

[Fu-Qin Boi-Ling]

Its standard practice 20+mins wait after booking time



Sorry op, you done the right thing mate. I can guarantee lilly ghosts a lot people but some choose not to report back

A friend of mine got ghosted a few weeks back but only entertained the radio silence for 30mins, so its definitely a norm for her

[Username77]

«I really didn't want to create this thread.»

Your time, 3h of life wasted, for sure its a negative experience,
But you saved our hours/money
thank you!

[Saltnpepper]

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I really didn't want to create this thread. But I forced myself to do it so as to stop others having to go through what happened to me. I was a bit angry but I brushed it off. In the long run I think she did me a favour. She stopped me from having to pay for a  bad punt.
 
I saw this great post on AW. 130 pounds one hr for a British girl and with no extra's.  I said that this is great and the girl is only 23. Little did I know what awaited me. A psycho, who probably enjoys wasting the time of punters. It wasn't nice of her but I took it like a man, still waited for 1 hr and with no response, she ghosted me despite me texting her for info.

What a nasty women. I actually think she enjoys doing this sort of thing to punters. Ruined my day. Made me take the train and travel an hour distance just to visit her. When I arrived she totally ignored me. Not a word. Made me walk around the area, just hoping that she would respond so I wouldn't have wasted a journey. It would have been a bit nice of her to send a text message saying she could not see me. Unfortunately I was left guessing and I didn't have plan B so my day was ruined. I haven't punted for a while so lost my wits. You always need a plan B. But what plan B can you have in an area like Kingston? Plus the cash machine took my card. I went back home tired, exhausted and cold.

I should have listened to the UKP member who warned about the likelihood of this sort of thing happening. But she had so many positives in UKP that I took the chance.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=280879.msg2918397#msg2918397

Sorry to hear mate, she had me waiting for 30 mins also, I pulled her up about this and she knows this is an area she needs to sort out or she will lose customers.

[Crockers]

I have seen her countless times and love my time with her.

However I did mention in my review that she has never, ever, once been on time. Never. I saw her a few days ago and she was 45 mins late!

I just take it easy with a lol. Everytime I book her I expect the session to start late and go with it. I just sit in a pub or find somewhere nice to have a cider and watch the girls go by.

[Alexmck]

Thanks for the review.

Was thinking of booking but sounds like it's a bit touch and go, leaning toward the go. Shame but for me maybe one to try if it's a very slow weekend sometime in summer

[Fu-Qin Boi-Ling]

I have seen her countless times and love my time with her.
 I saw her a few days ago and she was 45 mins late!

Seems like shes got you by the balls knowing you are going to wait for her. Ur a regular and this is how she treats you, shes taking you for mug

Not sure if you are getting compensated by her, are you?

[Crockers]

Read my review. I live 30 mins walk away. She is near my local. Or 5 mins from the river where I also hang. It is a great positive for me.

I am not decrying or challenging the OP's neg.

I made it clear that people who don't like her scattines will not like the experience. I have fun.

She will not be on time - mostly.

I'm laid back so don't care.

Her negs on here are clear for all to see. I knew what I was getting and didn't care. My review sums her up for me. I hid no faults.

[Crockers]

Sorry,  one more thing. I fully  understand the OP's anger at a wasted three hour journey. I have also given a neg to a girl who wasted three hours of my time earlier this year.

Cheers

[Strumpetlover]

The mystery is, what does she do in the time?  She was 30 minutes late for me on one occasion, and when I got in she seemed to be chilling on the bed, listening to music, as cool as you like.  No wet hair or other signs of a rushed shower, I didn't see anyone leave the building either....

[Fu-Qin Boi-Ling]

The mystery is, what does she do in the time?  She was 30 minutes late for me on one occasion, and when I got in she seemed to be chilling on the bed, listening to music, as cool as you like.  No wet hair or other signs of a rushed shower, I didn't see anyone leave the building either....

Mate i was thinking the exact same thing lol, she aint doing her makeup, she aint showering, i honestly think either chatting with mates on her personal phone or pouting her lips looking in the mirror

[Meursault]

Sounds quite simple to me.
She's a slovenly, lazy, sedentary, alcohol dependent young woman, probably having some sort of existential (or identity) crisis about what to do with her life. Perhaps lockdown has also been awful for her too.
Either way, she's clearly struggling to have any professional pride and make the most of her (clear, from some reviews) potential.
Have to admit, I'm intrigued 

[Alexmck]

Sounds quite simple to me.
She's a slovenly, lazy, sedentary, alcohol dependent young woman, probably having some sort of existential (or identity) crisis about what to do with her life. Perhaps lockdown has also been awful for her too.
Either way, she's clearly struggling to have any professional pride and make the most of her (clear, from some reviews) potential.
Have to admit, I'm intrigued 

Might have just nailed it!

[LLPunting]

She makes you wait regardless, there was no client before me as we were messaging regularly in the hour plus before my appointed time and she still strung me along with "wait for this, wait for that" excuses til 15mins after start, before then cutting the phone claiming she was out of power (she was using the phone during the punt!).  I was outside the building so despite her not having given the flat number after repeated requests I knocked on the door until she opened it.

She is on some little psycho power trip.  I would strongly advise all punters to walk if she's not ready on time, especially if you've been in repeated contact in the preceding hour.
From the above comments it's clear that there are too many indulging her wait times.  I have no idea why as she is wholly unremarkable in looks, personality and skills.  Those seeking a semi-compliant, English, white girl who carries the trope of fallen, public schoolgirl hooker are the only fetishists this girl ticks boxes for.  I wouldn't wait 30mins for the super-hunnies that knock socks off this girls "offering", absolutely no fricking reason other than stupid stubbornness to mewl about waiting for her highness to get sorted.

@OP,  there are enough options in Kingston and nearby areas for plans B-F so best do your research more widely before your next punt.  IF you're only heading out with one girl in mind then you've only yourself to blame for anger persisting beyond the moment you walk away.   Your mental health is all yours to manage.

[Wankingdead]

Oh dear  Lily or Sue or Carmen in other guises, I met her few times, always late and disorganised, once I gave up and went to the Turkish barber for a cut and shave and an hour later she text me to say she is ready, I always felt that she has a problem from the time she was studying for her exams till now, I think she is a girl who lost her way and ended in the dark side of the city.