Craigslist...just wondering....

[Mij]

...if anyone actually has managed a true NSA meet-up with someone, or, as I suspect, are 95%+ of the ads all fake / scams?

I was in LA recently. The laws on prostitution there seem to be a lot stricter so less escorts "advertising" it seemed. The only real source of independent escorts was though Redbook (a San Francisco site originally I think, but now expanding out through CA). The only problem there seemed to be a paranoia of entrapment of the wg's by the police, so every enquiry I made came along with a need to verify who you were with a LinkedIn account or business email. Yeah...that's not going to happen!

So I turned to Craigslist.....hundreds of ads per day being placed, most seemed far to good to be true, most were scams.....

like I said....just wondering?

[vorian]

I remember a while ago a thread about a punter meeting up with a girl off Craigslist,  he was warned but went ahead,  turned out to be a total disaster. Not saying it will be in every case,  but does seem to increase the risk factor dramatically.

[mrfixit37]

Try tinder. Much better for NSA. Have had a few good visits to woman's houses. Like a punt  without the money.. its almost walk in get your kit of fuck and go .

[SirFrank]

Don't fucking bother. Full of dreamers and bullshiters

[JustAnotherPunter]

I tried it once a couple of months ago to try and hook up with a milf , got one response from a lady but no follow up, got several messages from gay guys trying their luck so no it doesn't work if your a straight dude.

[happyharry]

I dip into Craigslist every now and then. 98% of the females (or purporting to be female) are scams with links to Adult Friend Finder and the like.

I have had two successes during the past 3 years. 

The first one was advertising for "an adventurous male....". Plenty of e.mail exchanges where we both listed our "wants" and "don't wants". She lived in a rural area and said she didn't drive so I picked her up from her house and went to a nearby chain hotel where we had a couple of drinks and then spent 3 very raunchy hours with very little off limits. Drove her home, promised we'd do it again but never did. Truth is that the sex was good but she was no good looker and I really didn't fancy her.

The second occasion resulted from me placing an ad "Seeking adventurous female.....". I had about 15 replies, mostly scammers. One female did seem for real and after some e.mail exchanges we met for lunch and ended up sharing a most enjoyable afternoon. She was from the US and working over here. Not a great looker but highly sexed and up for most things. Told me her "hubby" was not physically interested in her. We met 5 or 6 times over the subsequent year and then she was posted back to the US.

So, it is possible but please be realistic. There's a lot of dross and you might subsequently conclude that it's more trouble than it's worth, and don't forget that by the time you've paid for lunch and a hotel room then you've almost spent enough to cover a punt ??

[pokenn]

don't forget that by the time you've paid for lunch and a hotel room then you've almost spent enough to cover a punt ??

There's the rub. Unless you enjoy the chase, the wooing, the email ping-pong etc, then you are gonna get better tottie for not much more money.

[CBPaul]

There's the rub. Unless you enjoy the chase, the wooing, the email ping-pong etc, then you are gonna get better tottie for not much more money.

Bingo.

So not really worth the effort then. I get the impression that for every one genuine female there are 500 blokes, OK you will probably stand out from the crowd by elevating yourself above troglodyte level and not emailing a picture of your nob, but the odds are still pretty crap.

[Andre 3000]

On London CL unless your offering money forgot about trying to arranging a NSA.

With a bit of cash you'll get better results,too many guys are on there looking for free sex. And the numbers your up against is just silly. I've had some luck on there but once again only by specifically offering a 'reward'. CL imo is good to find great looking ladies who find £100-110 quid for a couple of hours sex more than acceptable. I like it because you get the women who will probably only do something like this once.

Try tinder. Much better for NSA. Have had a few good visits to woman's houses. Like a punt  without the money.. its almost walk in get your kit of fuck and go .

Tinder is very good.  and had replaced my POF/OKcupid prowling grounds. Women are a lot more straightforward as to what they want off Tinder.
The only probs I could see suggesting it to everyone is you do need as a man to look semi attractive or you'll get passed over as a bulk of the Tinder userbase are women aged 20-35 and the site is built around looks first, personality second.

And a lot of bots have recently gotten onto the site.

[Siadwel]

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The only probs I could see suggesting it to everyone is you do need as a man to look semi attractive or you'll get passed over as a bulk of the Tinder userbase are women aged 20-35 and the site is built around looks first, personality second.

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That's me fecking right out the game, then.

[LanceVance]

Craigslist is mostly an internet cruising ground. M4M and T4M will be legitimate more often than W4M. Meeting women will often be more difficult.

I would say that 9 out of 10 W4M ads are fakes, and that 99 out of 100 would not meet for free. I only answer Ads looking meet for free, because I can always punt if I wanted to pay.

That said, finding group sex opportunities on Craigslist isn't too bad. I took part in a Bukkake after anwsering a W4MM Ad, and have been contacted by the girl since when she was organising repeats which I was unable to attend. I have also been in contact these past few weeks with another girl organising an upcoming NSA gangbang for herself.    

[LanceVance]

I had never heard of Tinder before, but I definitely will check it out. It sounds like I may not struggle if I did give it a go.  (famous last words)

[cockneybstrd]

I have had success with CL Reward Ads. I also had success with Tinder and I am a bit of ugly fuck in my late 30's so if I can I reckon most people will. She was pretty shit though.