AJ has always been my punting alias that’s got nothing to do with it.
Well it does, because if it isn't there would be an outing - and I don't mean a trip in a charabanc to Southend.
Look OP, the fact is that we don't really care about if you have been hurt or not. Yeah, there may be some sympathy, but nothing tangible. We'll go to sleep tonight without it effecting our sleep.
As detailed by some here before Paloma jumped in there are aspects to your behaviour that call the validity of your reviews and how you view things into question. I had a gander last night and wondered why you wrote such as negative on Amber Rose, having posted a (double) neutral review saying you wouldn't see her again. You are showing patterns of behaviour that look like they are caused by a difficulty you have in understanding the level of relationship you have with others. I may be wrong, but we all make our judgement on here about whether you trust the reviews of others when making choices.
There is a feeling on this site at times that this site is an echo chamber. That it will be an automatic supportive audience. It is not the case. Whilst I genuinely believe if someone was suffering mental anguish then there will be a sympathetic ear given...But...it isn't an echo chamber and shitty behavior or weird actions will be called out or at least questioned.
Fact remains, some will not book Paloma on the basis of what you've said, some will not care, and most punters won't even be aware. What is more certain though, is that there aren't going to be masses of blokes at your heel wanting some kind of vengeance for you. I just don't see people caring that much.
Yes, there shouldn't be threats, but it seems here you were given several polite warnings which went unheeded. I reckon Paloma shouldn't have given you your money back that time, if it took that to teach you then it may have been an expensive lesson, but one that you should have learned. Learn it now and try and retreat with as much grace as you can muster.
If she is as you want us to see her as, it will show in time.