I could never actually get a hold of BJ queen, I put through numerous requests over the years and never had a response. From what I gather she runs a revolving door style operation, which considering how cheap she is, I suppose makes sense.
I contacted Lilly years ago looking for a booking, however I tend to book via text so didn't have any AW feedback at the time, so she declined the meeting. She was polite about it though and I can sympathise with why she wants to see feedback... after all its rare for me to see a WG without feedback unless I'm taking one for the team.
So aye I don't have a lot to go on in terms of saying if either of them have an actual attitude problem, but it would be nice if BJ queen would respond either way to messages. I think she has a bit of a reputation for being a bit flaky.