Overnighters

[James999]

This guys experience perhaps sums up an overnight booking

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[hendrix]

Depends on the girl. He's clearly not a UKP member or he'd never have picked her! All this shit about "why pay a prossie to sleep?"..well, yeah, why do that?..why not keep her awake by having multiple girl/guy gangbangs?..take her to a swingers club, the ones I know are open till either 3am or 6am...so much you can do to make an overnight a great experience. It's down to the quality of the girl, and the wallet and imagination of the punter.

[Gigabyte]

Depends on the girl. He's clearly not a UKP member or he'd never have picked her! All this shit about "why pay a prossie to sleep?"..well, yeah, why do that?..why not keep her awake by having multiple girl/guy gangbangs?..take her to a swingers club, the ones I know are open till either 3am or 6am...so much you can do to make an overnight a great experience. It's down to the quality of the girl, and the wallet and imagination of the punter.

And you have a great imagination 

[Gigabyte]

I have done overnights with a couple of girls. Generally I have 6 - 7 hours of fun in the evening and then an hour of fun in the morning so its pretty good value for me. The rest is sleep time. Mind you one of the girls was insatiable and kept me up all night (well until 6am), that was a night to remember!

The girl mentioned in the OP has bid on my overnights before but I have never accepted because she barebacks and even if she didn't I got the impression she would not be a decent shag anyway.   

[James999]

The girl mentioned in the OP has bid on my overnights before but I have never accepted because she barebacks and even if she didn't I got the impression she would not be a decent shag anyway.   

She seems to bid on all RB's

Must be desperate for work / money 

[Robster199]

Depends on the girl. He's clearly not a UKP member or he'd never have picked her! All this shit about "why pay a prossie to sleep?"..well, yeah, why do that?..why not keep her awake by having multiple girl/guy gangbangs?..take her to a swingers club, the ones I know are open till either 3am or 6am...so much you can do to make an overnight a great experience. It's down to the quality of the girl, and the wallet and imagination of the punter.

That's what would make it worthwhile.... Swingers or fetish club with some sessions before during and after!

[SirFrank]

My days of fucking all night have long gone. It's too much effort now - fuck that.

[hendrix]

I have done overnights with a couple of girls. Generally I have 6 - 7 hours of fun in the evening and then an hour of fun in the morning so its pretty good value for me. The rest is sleep time. Mind you one of the girls was insatiable and kept me up all night (well until 6am), that was a night to remember!

The girl mentioned in the OP has bid on my overnights before but I have never accepted because she barebacks and even if she didn't I got the impression she would not be a decent shag anyway.   

That's the thing. Thinking of KDD in particular, who I've had lots of overnights with, she doesn't want to sleep!..I'm the one saying "stop trying to ride my cock with your arse, I'm dead!" We usually start with some fun with just us two and then I get other girls or guys in, then on to a swingers/fetish club, that's always the unpredictable part..can be brilliant with me getting civvie action and involved in full on orgies or can be quiet with just us fucking and others watching..then back after chucking out time for more action, some sleep instigated by me passing out and then more action before breakfast and home.

Pretty sure the girl in the OP joined here and was going on about hardsports..

[smiths]

This guys experience perhaps sums up an overnight booking

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A never in this lifetime, an overday punt or number of punts is far better VFM to me and more convenient. Holds zero appeal to me.

[Jimmyredcab]

This guys experience perhaps sums up an overnight booking

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The idiot traveled from Devizes to waste £600 on a girl he had never met, no sympathy from me.   

The only overnight I would consider would be with a girl I have seen at least 3 times and who would accept £300 ---------- it would break my heart to waste £600 on a total pisstaker like this girl.   

[GeeWiz]

Perhaps best left for outcall then?  But why do this with someone you've not seen before is madness IMO.

One I did was for three hour's rate with a regular.  She also saw a show, had food and drink, slept in a top hotel.  Both happy.

[threechilliman]

The idiot traveled from Devizes to waste £600 on a girl he had never met, no sympathy from me.   

The only overnight I would consider would be with a girl I have seen at least 3 times and who would accept £300 ---------- it would break my heart to waste £600 on a total pisstaker like this girl.   

Completely agree. For me I'd rather have 6 £100 punts - far more enjoyment!

[Daffodil]

Overnighters are a complete waste of money in my opinion. Before I even get onto the girl, the last thing I want is to be up all night anyway if I don't have to be. And if I'm going to sleep I much prefer a nice bed to myself than with some prossie who I barely know.

Most prossies, going on the reviews and comments of others, do not expect to be up all night fucking on an overnight. Once or twice in the evening and, if you're lucky, once in the morning. The rest is eating (at your expense), chatting (fine, on their time, but to pay a prossie for conversation?  ) and sleeping (see "chatting").

I'd pay for two separate prossies for thirty minutes (max an hour) in the evening, sleep solo all night, then pay another one in the morning. I wouldn't feed any of them, I wouldn't pay to chat with any of them and I certainly wouldn't pay any of them to sleep 

[dilettante]

I suppose the thing about overnighters is that you get what you don't get on individual punts - the ~REAL~ GFE where you spend time chilling out with a bird, go for a meal, watch TV then actually 'go to bed' with her rather than lie on top of the bed and do The Act. 

I can see that for people who have maybe had a LTR zilched, miss the intimacy of it and have plenty of surplus readies, this might be what they're really after.

[Daffodil]

Depends on the girl. He's clearly not a UKP member or he'd never have picked her! All this shit about "why pay a prossie to sleep?"..well, yeah, why do that?..why not keep her awake by having multiple girl/guy gangbangs?..take her to a swingers club, the ones I know are open till either 3am or 6am...so much you can do to make an overnight a great experience. It's down to the quality of the girl, and the wallet and imagination of the punter.

Hendrix, you are not the typical punter. Most don't have the disposable and/or the inclination to do this with prossies. I also wouldn't pay other men to fuck a prossie  But we've discussed that 

[hendrix]

I suppose the thing about overnighters is that you get what you don't get on individual punts - the ~REAL~ GFE where you spend time chilling out with a bird, go for a meal, watch TV then actually 'go to bed' with her rather than lie on top of the bed and do The Act. 

I can see that for people who have maybe had a LTR zilched, miss the intimacy of it and have plenty of surplus readies, this might be what they're really after.

Yep, that too. Punting isn't just one thing..some want to just spunk and go, some want the illusion of a "relationship". I don't judge, it's their money, as long as they report back honestly on here

[hendrix]

Hendrix, you are not the typical punter. Most don't have the disposable and/or the inclination to do this with prossies. I also wouldn't pay other men to fuck a prossie  But we've discussed that 

True  ...but that's the good thing about this whole business. It'd be pretty boring to discuss if we all liked and wanted the same thing. My perspective is that if I just wanted to fuck and go, I'd buy a fleshlight. Cheaper, and no talk at all

Also, I should add that I may not be a typical UKP punter..but there are loads of blokes who do way more than I do who don't care about posting or sharing information on punting sites.

[CatBBW]

This guys experience perhaps sums up an overnight booking

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I have zero sympathy for him. This was the second booking he had with her, the first time round she messed him about after he'd travelled to London - see her feedback! External Link/Members Only

"Arrived at the Rd she gave me and doesn't bother txting back. Time waster and costed a train fair and hours wasting my time. Be warned "

[Daffodil]

True  ...but that's the good thing about this whole business. It'd be pretty boring to discuss if we all liked and wanted the same thing. My perspective is that if I just wanted to fuck and go, I'd buy a fleshlight. Cheaper, and no talk at all

Also, I should add that I may not be a typical UKP punter..but there are loads of blokes who do way more than I do who don't care about posting or sharing information on punting sites.

The "loads of people I know do x, y, or z, but they won't post so just take my word for it" argument holds little water.

It's fine if you get what works for you, but let's not pretend that most punters get a good deal from overnights or that most prossies don't get exactly what they want 

[Daffodil]

I have zero sympathy for him. This was the second booking he had with her, the first time round she messed him about after he'd travelled to London - see her feedback! External Link/Members Only

"Arrived at the Rd she gave me and doesn't bother txting back. Time waster and costed a train fair and hours wasting my time. Be warned "

Typical prossie mentality, the punter gets fucked about (after paying £600) and you blame him 

[CatBBW]

Typical prossie mentality, the punter gets fucked about (after paying £600) and you blame him 

No, I didn't say that. But the fact is he already got fucked about a few days before, costing him time and money, yet rebooked, would YOU go back for a second helping? With a woman who's feedback suggests she sends an older lady to bookings she can't make?

[hendrix]

The "loads of people I know do x, y, or z, but they won't post so just take my word for it" argument holds little water.

It's fine if you get what works for you, but let's not pretend that most punters get a good deal from overnights or that most prossies don't get exactly what they want 

I don't really care whether you take my word for it  ..although I take yours on your reviews..I presume long standing UKP members are honest about punting issues... but would have thought you'd be experienced enough to know that many punters don't even know or care about forums. Or do you think the entire punting world only exists here??

As for whether "most" punters or prossies are getting a good deal..who the fuck knows unless they leave an honest review here?..I'm not at those punts. Your idea of a "good deal" may not the the only definition out there 

[Jimmyredcab]

I suppose the thing about overnighters is that you get what you don't get on individual punts - the ~REAL~ GFE where you spend time chilling out with a bird, go for a meal, watch TV then actually 'go to bed' with her rather than lie on top of the bed and do The Act. 

There is no such thing as a REAL~GFE with a pro$$ie.     

They are merely acting, if you had no money they would not piss on you to put out a fire.     

[Daffodil]

I don't really care whether you take my word for it  ..although I take yours on your reviews..I presume long standing UKP members are honest about punting issues... but would have thought you'd be experienced enough to know that many punters don't even know or care about forums. Or do you think the entire punting world only exists here??

As for whether "most" punters or prossies are getting a good deal..who the fuck knows unless they leave an honest review here?..I'm not at those punts. Your idea of a "good deal" may not the the only definition out there 

I agree it may not be the only definition, but then there are a lot of fools 

And, to your first point, if you leave a review then I trust it. If you say a friend or a friend of a friend or a friend of a friend of a friend says or does this, but doesn't inform us first-hand, then I tend to disregard the information.

[Daffodil]

No, I didn't say that. But the fact is he already got fucked about a few days before, costing him time and money, yet rebooked, would YOU go back for a second helping? With a woman who's feedback suggests she sends an older lady to bookings she can't make?

Yes you did, or certainly implied it.

Why not try criticising the shit prossie instead? Or at least in conjunction 

[hendrix]

I agree it may not be the only definition, but then there are a lot of fools 

And, to your first point, if you leave a review then I trust it. If you say a friend or a friend of a friend or a friend of a friend of a friend says or does this, but doesn't inform us first-hand, then I tend to disregard the information.

That's fair enough on both points  ...certainly the punter in the OP isn't a candidate for Brain of Britain

[yorkshire123]

They are merely acting, if you had no money they would not piss on you to put out a fire.     

Jimmy even for you thats a little harsh, granted they do it for they money & so would i if i thought anybody would pay me for it.

Generalised sweeping statements like this are totally false in my opinion, Some of the prossies i have encountered have been quite caring individuals by nature.

Im sure there is quite a few Romanian prossies out there that would quite happily piss on you for free 

[CatBBW]

Yes you did, or certainly implied it.

Why not try criticising the shit prossie instead? Or at least in conjunction 

Well I thought I did, I posted a link to her feedback highlighting that she's a messer (ha! sorry, HS pun there) and that's only the people who have booked through AW and bothered to leave feedback for her. She's been active for a few years, has relatively low feedback considering, so most of her bookings must come through email/phone - if her fb reflects an unreliable lady/service then this must be happening to many more guys who haven't used the AW system.

[AnthG]

Some of the prossies i have encountered have been quite caring individuals by nature.

How would you define or asses if someone is a caring individual by nature? Do you mean she is just very nice to you during the hour? Or do you mean something else?

I have met some very fun girls who I had a great laugh with. But I can be certain as soon as the hour is up they want me gone.

For the girl all you, me and everyone else is to them, is 6th/7th/8th guy of the day of 20 bookings.

[broksonic]

No, I didn't say that. But the fact is he already got fucked about a few days before, costing him time and money, yet rebooked, would YOU go back for a second helping? With a woman who's feedback suggests she sends an older lady to bookings she can't make?

I totally agree with Catherine here .   

No punter in their right mind would have another booking with an escort that had fucked him about . 

[AnthG]

I totally agree with Catherine here .   

No punter in their right mind would have another booking with an escort that had fucked him about .

Looking at it, I also agree with Catherine, as forgetting all the other issues, if the guy has left her a negative feedback, it willl get her back up and thus then booking an overnighter with that same person is certifiable to have done.

[dilettante]

There is no such thing as a REAL~GFE with a pro$$ie.     

They are merely acting, if you had no money they would not piss on you to put out a fire.     

Well maybe I'm cynical enough to believe that if you pay a girl the right amount of money it automatically pushes her GFE buttons - isn't that why it's the "world's oldest profession", 'cos it's intrinsic, one way or another?

[yorkshire123]

How would you define or asses if someone is a caring individual by nature? Do you mean she is just very nice to you during the hour? Or do you mean something else?

Good question.
I would put it down to simple human instinct, prossies have the same personality traits as the general population, Most people have a gut instinct when deciding what others are like as people, yes there is a lot of acting involved on both sides but sooner or later the true person comes through be it good or bad, selfish or caring.
A caveat to my (shit) answer is if you are the kind of punter that hops from prossie to prossie then it can be quite difficult to see through the acting.
However to contradict myself again, the power of first impressions isn't to be underestimated.

I have met some very fun girls who I had a great laugh with. But I can be certain as soon as the hour is up they want me gone.
For the girl all you, me and everyone else is to them, is 6th/7th/8th guy of the day of 20 bookings.

In general i do agree with your other 2 points.

My main issue with JRC's comment was that lumping all prossies into one category is silly at best, for me that is the same as saying all coppers are bent.
They are merely acting, if you had no money they would not piss on you to put out a fire.

[Jimmyredcab]

My main issue with JRC's comment was that lumping all prossies into one category is silly at best, for me that is the same as saying all coppers are bent.
They are merely acting, if you had no money they would not piss on you to put out a fire.

I am sorry to piss on your bonfire but I stand by my comment, pro$$ies see us as walking ATMs, nothing more, nothing less. 

[Dani]

My main issue with JRC's comment was that lumping all prossies into one category is silly at best, for me that is the same as saying all coppers are bent.
They are merely acting, if you had no money they would not piss on you to put out a fire.

For one off clients then it is obvious that as soon as they are gone they are forgotten.  However I am sure I am not alone in having regular clients who I do care about.  I have known them a while and know a fair bit about them and will worry if they are ill, or offer support via email or phone or even just meet for a coffee if they have other stress causing concerns and they need a chat.  A few of my regs have become good friends and we are in regular contact and I do care about them.  I would not have a relationship with them but they are friends of mine and I know if I needed them they would be there for me just as I would them.  We are not heartless bitches just because we sell sex.  Just like every one else we make friends with the odd client, we care about people and not every client is seen as the next pay check.
It seems as soon as we do this job we are assumed to lose every bit of humanity we have and become a different species and not care about anything but money.  A tad unfair considering most people only do the job they do for money and would not do it if not paid for it

[AnthG]

It seems as soon as we do this job we are assumed to lose every bit of humanity we have and become a different species and not care about anything but money.  A tad unfair considering most people only do the job they do for money and would not do it if not paid for it

I would say I agree with JRC.

My experience of multiple bookings is not we become friends, it is a case of this thread happens each and every time.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=19193.0

And that is because they see a soft touch and take advantage.

Girls that generally come into this job - aged 21-25 they don't start it to make friends, they do it as they think its an easy way to make quick money. They also have huge contempt for the guys booking them, they generally think they are better people than punters.

So there is no chance a 24 year old hot girl is going to want to be friends with a 30+ something guy that is either married or is too socially awkward to go out pulling and thus resorting to punting.

[yorkshire123]

I am sorry to piss on your bonfire but I stand by my comment, pro$$ies see us as walking ATMs, nothing more, nothing less. 

And your opinion is as valid as anyones 
Thats the beauty of UKP Jimmy, opinions vary.
If we all agreed on every subject matter i doubt it would be growing at the rate it is.

[Horizontal pleasures]

I actually NEED to sleep if I am to enjoy life so it is indeed a waste of $£ for me to pay a lady to sleep next to me. and as I can only pop once, even by morning I should not be ready for another pop, just a bath and a cup of Earl Grey with a slice of lemon. So an overnight fee might pay for a good few punts, never worth it and never has been.

Even if away from home in younger days and in a hotel I would summon a companion for an hour and go to sleep happily when she left.

Enjoy it if you like it and have the stamina and cash but not for me.

[pokenn]

I've never seen the point of overnighters. Seems a massive waste of money. Also most girls I'm happy to see the back of them after an hour or two.

[Jimmyredcab]

I've never seen the point of overnighters. Seems a massive waste of money. Also most girls I'm happy to see the back of them after an hour or two.

Even in Thailand where overnights are £40 I am not really interested, once my balls have been emptied I am no longer "in love".   

[Rochdull lad]

For one off clients then it is obvious that as soon as they are gone they are forgotten.  However I am sure I am not alone in having regular clients who I do care about.  I have known them a while and know a fair bit about them and will worry if they are ill, or offer support via email or phone or even just meet for a coffee if they have other stress causing concerns and they need a chat.  A few of my regs have become good friends and we are in regular contact and I do care about them.  I would not have a relationship with them but they are friends of mine and I know if I needed them they would be there for me just as I would them.  We are not heartless bitches just because we sell sex.  Just like every one else we make friends with the odd client, we care about people and not every client is seen as the next pay check.
It seems as soon as we do this job we are assumed to lose every bit of humanity we have and become a different species and not care about anything but money.  A tad unfair considering most people only do the job they do for money and would not do it if not paid for it

+1  I know my 2 current Regulars are also friends - in both [very different] cases, we have other points of contact besides me paying them to shag them. [He wrote, eloquently! ]

I know that when they retire, I'll remain in touch with them in the same way that I am still in touch with Lustylush, the former client of Hp & me, who had to retire and is recovering from breast cancer; and with another former Regular of mine who retired when she settled down with, then married, another of her former-clients.

[Horizontal pleasures]

I agree with both of you here, Dani and RL.

[akauya]

The idiot traveled from Devizes to waste £600 on a girl he had never met, no sympathy from me.   

I have zero sympathy for him. This was the second booking he had with her, the first time round she messed him about after he'd travelled to London - see her feedback! External Link/Members Only

"Arrived at the Rd she gave me and doesn't bother txting back. Time waster and costed a train fair and hours wasting my time. Be warned "

Typical prossie mentality, the punter gets fucked about (after paying £600) and you blame him 

Thanks for that Daff, now we know JRC has prossie mentality! I knew there was something wrong with him but wasn't sure what!

[Daffodil]

Well I thought I did, I posted a link to her feedback highlighting that she's a messer (ha! sorry, HS pun there) and that's only the people who have booked through AW and bothered to leave feedback for her. She's been active for a few years, has relatively low feedback considering, so most of her bookings must come through email/phone - if her fb reflects an unreliable lady/service then this must be happening to many more guys who haven't used the AW system.

Yes, so try criticising her then rather than making out it is all the punter's fault

If I leave my phone on view in my car and somebody smashes the window and steals it then, yes, I am foolish. But that doesn't exonerate the person who stole the phone and doesn't mean I deserve zero sympathy.

[Daffodil]

I totally agree with Catherine here .   

No punter in their right mind would have another booking with an escort that had fucked him about .

But that doesn't mean the prossie deserves no stick and the punter is fully at fault 

[Daffodil]

Looking at it, I also agree with Catherine, as forgetting all the other issues, if the guy has left her a negative feedback, it willl get her back up and thus then booking an overnighter with that same person is certifiable to have done.

A prossie has given a punter a bad service on two occasions. A different prossie (CTG) then lays the blame squarely at the door of the punter. I expect that sort of shit on saafe or %%%. "He only had himself to blame" 

My opinion is that yes, this punter had enough red flags to avoid this girl and could/should be considered foolish, but she does offer very specialist services that will be difficult to find elsewhere. Sometimes, when you're after something very niche, you have to take a chance or two. This prossie is fucking people about and it is not all the fault of the punter 

[NIK]

The idiot traveled from Devizes to waste £600 on a girl he had never met, no sympathy from me.   

The only overnight I would consider would be with a girl I have seen at least 3 times and who would accept £300 ---------- it would break my heart to waste £600 on a total pisstaker like this girl.    

As you know Jim I enjoyed half a dozen overnights with a great girl we have both seen. However it was £350! No clockwatching whatsoever and the most incredible service every time. How I used to scoff at those paying £600+ 

As I said in my chapter on her all the time I knew it was a strictly one off and I was so fortunate.  I would never meet anyone like that again in half a dozen more lifetimes.

I would never consider an overnighter ever again. Apart from the costs I have irregular sleep patterns in my old age and could never conceive of sleeping with someone anymore.

As for punters who book an overnight with someone they have never met they must be totally  and completely  .

It is one of the greatest mistakes you can make in punting!

[CatBBW]

Yes, so try criticising her then rather than making out it is all the punter's fault

If I leave my phone on view in my car and somebody smashes the window and steals it then, yes, I am foolish. But that doesn't exonerate the person who stole the phone and doesn't mean I deserve zero sympathy.

Using your analogy, I have sympathy if your phone gets stolen. However, if you then leave your phone on view in your car in the same place, within a very short space of time since it was stolen before, and it gets stolen again by the same people, my sympathy is diminished. Normally people learn from the first time round, don't make the same mistake twice. That doesn't mean I exonerate the crims. I just think you're silly for repeating the same mistake.

As the old saying goes: "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me."

But none of that detracts from the very obvious fact which I pointed out by posting her FB in my first post on this thread, that the lady in question has a history of being flaky and unprofessional.

[CatBBW]

A prossie has given a punter a bad service on two occasions. A different prossie (CTG) then lays the blame squarely at the door of the punter. I expect that sort of shit on saafe or pro$$ienet. "He only had himself to blame" 

My opinion is that yes, this punter had enough red flags to avoid this girl and could/should be considered foolish, but she does offer very specialist services that will be difficult to find elsewhere. Sometimes, when you're after something very niche, you have to take a chance or two. This prossie is fucking people about and it is not all the fault of the punter 

He wanted an overnight GFE with WS - these aren't that specialist or niche

But I do get your point generally, if a punter wants HS and it's easier/more discreet to travel to London than the next village, he's going to visit London.

[cockneybstrd]

He wanted an overnight GFE with WS - these aren't that specialist or niche

But I do get your point generally, if a punter wants HS and it's easier/more discreet to travel to London than the next village, he's going to visit London.

He must have wanted bareback as well as looking at her profile it suggests that this is the norm with her. So I would call that a specialists service.