Seeking.com in the South West

[updownandaround]

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She's based in Bristol and starts at 300 but we settled on 200. Cracking body, excellent BJ and very enthusiastic but alas a very vanilla shag.

[Pawgylove]

I remember speaking to her when she first joined, had another name then… we never quite managed a meet, can’t remember why.

Been on for a bit, quite a few new faces but same attitudes from most. Some faces even reappearing

[updownandaround]

I remember speaking to her when she first joined, had another name then… we never quite managed a meet, can’t remember why.

Been on for a bit, quite a few new faces but same attitudes from most. Some faces even reappearing

I think I spoke to her ages ago on a different profile and a different number. I can't remember what happened the first time but she wasn't messing around this time for sure!

[southcoastpunter]

ok - which of you has a Bentley?

Been talking to Poppy 21, Bournemouth    and she has told me she has meet two guys from Seeking - one picked her up in a Bentley. Not sure i can compete with that!! anyone seen her or have any knowledge of her?
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also anyone seen or have any knowledge of Sophia, 21, Weymouth
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[Danj89]

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Wetcurve - Swindon

Wants gift card payments prior to meeting beware.

[Maverick090]

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Wetcurve - Swindon

Wants gift card payments prior to meeting beware.

NEW PROFILE - same bullshit, wanting gifts

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Jade - Swindon

[updownandaround]

NEW PROFILE - same bullshit, wanting gifts

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Jade - Swindon

She also hands out her address like it's going out of fashion, lord only knows whose address that is!

[Danj89]

Such a nutter literally on every sugar dating and normal dating platform there is. Feel sorry for any poor guys who pay upfront.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

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She's based in Bristol and starts at 300 but we settled on 200. Cracking body, excellent BJ and very enthusiastic but alas a very vanilla shag.

Cheers I’m in Bristol shortly, having trouble finding a decent Asian hotel outcall escort so this might be a good option. What ethnicity is she? 

[updownandaround]

Cheers I’m in Bristol shortly, having trouble finding a decent Asian hotel outcall escort so this might be a good option. What ethnicity is she? 

She's either 100% Indian or mixed Indian and White. Enjoy!

[Prifessionallondinguy]

She's either 100% Indian or mixed Indian and White. Enjoy!

[Maverick090]

She's either 100% Indian or mixed Indian and White. Enjoy!

I’ve seen her a few times, she’s enthusiastic. 100% Indian., highly intelligent, well travelled, very transactional. But for me, she just lacks a little bit of that je ne sais quoi," I just have reasonable standards, and she is slightly rough around the edges in terms of clothing and hygiene in my opinion.

[updownandaround]

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I've got really mixed feelings about this one, she's very gym fit with an amazing body but clearly somewhere on the spectrum. She's a flight attendant so all over the place. She wants 500 but comes down to 300. She comes across quite cold and transactional but in person she warms up to room temperature!

She's based in South Wales and since there doesn't appear to be a Welsh Seeking thread, I'll put her here.

[GoodLookinGuy]

I just checked her out, she does have a great gym fit body, in a lot of ways very much my type.

However you aren't really selling her, warmed up only to "room temperature" not sure about £300 for room temperature.

So was she just a little cold in the room or just 'off' or something else ?

[updownandaround]

I just checked her out, she does have a great gym fit body, in a lot of ways very much my type.

However you aren't really selling her, warmed up only to "room temperature" not sure about £300 for room temperature.

So was she just a little cold in the room or just 'off' or something else ?

She's just very business like and cold, it's like she's doing you a favour rather than enjoying it. YMMV.

[plymplumber]

Has anyone had any luck in the Plymouth area?. If so who is real or not?

[Phoenixisonfire]

I have signed up to this seeking.com to see what it’s all about.

I have noticed there are escorts from Bournemouth on it as well as other girls I know   

Has anyone here actually met anyone from that website

[Prifessionallondinguy]

I’ve seen her a few times, she’s enthusiastic. 100% Indian., highly intelligent, well travelled, very transactional. But for me, she just lacks a little bit of that je ne sais quoi," I just have reasonable standards, and she is slightly rough around the edges in terms of clothing and hygiene in my opinion.

Cheers, I’ll give her a miss I think.

[southcoastpunter]

I have signed up to this seeking.com to see what it’s all about.

I have noticed there are escorts from Bournemouth on it as well as other girls I know   

Has anyone here actually met anyone from that website

when you say you have "signed up" do you mean you have created a profile or do you mean you have bought a subscription? I hope the first - as ideally you need to know what its all about before parting with £100+.  My strong suggestion is read  a few pages back on this thread back, the general seeking thread on the general/national main page and perhaps the SE one too. it will give you an good idea of the issues.

When you say "I have noticed there are escorts from Bournemouth on it as well as other girls I know" do you mean you know some of the girls on Seeking from non punting / civvy/real life ? Seeking will have some Escorts on it but many others too - some who are scammers or just trying to get money from you for doing nothing but there are a few who are open to "sugar dating" and a few (not many at all) who are open to "normal dating" as is the way Seeking is trying to take the site.

In part, it may depend on what you want, your age, your situation etc. Many guys (and many/most on here) are really just after a hotel type meet and there are some ladies who are ok with that for an agreed fee - a bit like an escort type meet but the ladies generally aren't doing it full time and don't think of themselves as Escorts or sex workers etc.

you ask if anyone has actually met anyone from the site - yes, many guys have but again generally we do not "review" them. as they don't think of themselves as sex workers, most would be horrified to be reviewed on a punting site. I personally have met a number from the Bournemouth/Poole, southampton and Portsmouth areas over the last 5 or 6 years and had a lot of fun including going abroad with 4 different SB's whilst in a sugar relationship that lasted anything from 9 months to over 2 years.

IMO and in most other commentators opinion on here, Seeking is not as good as it used to be - so do your research. if you have already subscribed, just message a few ladies and see where it goes, Just remember, do not write anything on the seeking chat system that could be taken to be offering money for sex or what they term "compensation dating" otherwise you risk being banned.

 If you have any further question, ask and i will do my best to answer.

[GoodLookinGuy]

I'm pretty sure you have to have paid for a subscription before you can send or read messages

[southcoastpunter]

I'm pretty sure you have to have paid for a subscription before you can send or read messages

yes you do!

 if you have already subscribed, just message a few ladies and see where it goes, Just remember, do not write anything on the seeking chat system that could be taken to be offering money for sex or what they term "compensation dating" otherwise you risk being banned.

[Phoenixisonfire]

when you say you have "signed up" do you mean you have created a profile or do you mean you have bought a subscription? I hope the first - as ideally you need to know what its all about before parting with £100+.  My strong suggestion is read  a few pages back on this thread back, the general seeking thread on the general/national main page and perhaps the SE one too. it will give you an good idea of the issues.

When you say "I have noticed there are escorts from Bournemouth on it as well as other girls I know" do you mean you know some of the girls on Seeking from non punting / civvy/real life ? Seeking will have some Escorts on it but many others too - some who are scammers or just trying to get money from you for doing nothing but there are a few who are open to "sugar dating" and a few (not many at all) who are open to "normal dating" as is the way Seeking is trying to take the site.

In part, it may depend on what you want, your age, your situation etc. Many guys (and many/most on here) are really just after a hotel type meet and there are some ladies who are ok with that for an agreed fee - a bit like an escort type meet but the ladies generally aren't doing it full time and don't think of themselves as Escorts or sex workers etc.

you ask if anyone has actually met anyone from the site - yes, many guys have but again generally we do not "review" them. as they don't think of themselves as sex workers, most would be horrified to be reviewed on a punting site. I personally have met a number from the Bournemouth/Poole, southampton and Portsmouth areas over the last 5 or 6 years and had a lot of fun including going abroad with 4 different SB's whilst in a sugar relationship that lasted anything from 9 months to over 2 years.

IMO and in most other commentators opinion on here, Seeking is not as good as it used to be - so do your research. if you have already subscribed, just message a few ladies and see where it goes, Just remember, do not write anything on the seeking chat system that could be taken to be offering money for sex or what they term "compensation dating" otherwise you risk being banned.

 If you have any further question, ask and i will do my best to answer.

Okay, what I meant was I signed up to the site, I haven't paid for any subscriptions. I have noticed some escorts in Bournemouth on AW are on that seeking a a couple of friends I know in Bournemouth who are not sex workers.

I wont be jumping into anything, The profile is up and im going to see what appears in the inbox and interests side, I have noticed a lot of matched interests people are not verified accounts, so thats probably a warning sign already.

But thank you for your message on this it is very helpful.

[southcoastpunter]

I won’t get to worried about profiles that aren’t “verified “ - particularly any one of say more than a year old! I don’t think my profile is verified!!
Also be mindful that many girls know that guys who are basic members ( as you are at the moment - because you haven’t paid) can’t message back so don’t bother to message you - many just message premium and diamond members!
What are you actually looking for? Depending on this , I or other guys might be able to suggest someone !

[anotherwoody69]

Laura from Bristol
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rebecca gfe
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[GoodLookinGuy]

Laura from Bristol
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rebecca gfe
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Yes, she escorts and also I see her dip in and out of Seeking every now and again

[updownandaround]

Yes, she escorts and also I see her dip in and out of Seeking every now and again

She's also on Bumble as a "massage therapist" her profile notes that she's not looking for one night stands or sugar daddies interestingly enough! She's going super broad on her advertising channels!

[GoodLookinGuy]

She's really covering all her bases

[Maverick090]

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Trish 39 Gloucester/Stroud

Wants £250 nikker just for a coffee date and chat to discuss potential arrangements? 😳 .. based in Gloucester. Seriously, when she mentioned it, I thought she was joking.!

[GoodLookinGuy]

That's a lot of money for a coffee for someone who is almost 40. She is quite pretty though.

[southcoastpunter]

Maggie 25, Bournemouth - a liitle alternative with many tattoos and piercings (sorry forgot to get her seeking address before i blocked her)

wants a PPM for a M&G coffee and chat.

just signed up again after a bit away. i thought this time i would try a little older than my usual  and found a few new younger ladies but very few ladies in the age range 35-50 (and especially over 40). so had to go back to my "younger" ladies again! (Bournemouth and southampton area)

[sugardaddy0511]

Maggie 25, Bournemouth - a liitle alternative with many tattoos and piercings (sorry forgot to get her seeking address before i blocked her)

wants a PPM for a M&G coffee and chat.

just signed up again after a bit away. i thought this time i would try a little older than my usual  and found a few new younger ladies but very few ladies in the age range 35-50 (and especially over 40). so had to go back to my "younger" ladies again! (Bournemouth and southampton area)

. Maggie had OF and  fendom as taglines on her WhatsApp profile . Did not message her

[sugardaddy0511]

External Link/Members Only  Charli Bournemouth 28 Most probably a scammer ! Twice wanted money before meet for hospital transfer / takeaway .

[southcoastpunter]

External Link/Members Only  Charli Bournemouth 28 Most probably a scammer ! Twice wanted money before meet for hospital transfer / takeaway .

i spoke to her a while ago (slightly different name, maybe a different profile) - she didn't ask for money directly although lots of hints about bills for this and that and always an excuse/delay in meeting. i had her down as a complete time waster.

[Cunning Punt]

Laura from Bristol
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rebecca gfe
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Yes, she escorts and also I see her dip in and out of Seeking every now and again

She hasn't been on Seeking for a while. I recall her complaining on this forum a few years ago about how Seeking didn't work for men or women, which is nonsense - and certainly was then pre-COVID when it was fairly straightforward for SDs and SBs to get an arrangement.
What she evidently failed to grasp is that Seeking isn't really for escorts or punters not willing to put the hard yards in and it's very much a different dynamic. Often it's not quite as lucrative as escorting.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

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She's based in Bristol and starts at 300 but we settled on 200. Cracking body, excellent BJ and very enthusiastic but alas a very vanilla shag.

Just missed her. She’s flying out on the day I’m arriving. Would’ve seen as a dinner / drink then hotel time seems better than getting an escort around. Very easy to get along with.  Will make the effort to see later.
Private SA photos look good.

[updownandaround]

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Natalie is back. I originally met her around 10-11 years ago and then she disappeared presumably into a relationship. She's quite the character, ditzy, disorganised but quite a lot of fun and at £150 quite the bargain! She is into virtually anything including water sports, anal and rimming. She's a swinger so used to performing in front of a crowd and probably has the loudest orgasm on the planet. For her age her body is in very decent nick and worth a go if you're into the MILFy Welsh sort.

[Johnjones2018]

Just missed her. She’s flying out on the day I’m arriving. Would’ve seen as a dinner / drink then hotel time seems better than getting an escort around. Very easy to get along with.  Will make the effort to see later.
Private SA photos look good.

I’ve met her also, her body is not bad and her bj skills are excellent but she wears a hell of a lot of makeupl. I finished up looking like an umpa lumpa covered in her orange makeup and what’s underneath is quite scary to be honest. One of the worst faces I’ve seen. If you go on secret benefits you’ll find her on there and she has a video without her makeup. You’ll see what I mean from here ….id avoid personally and as previously mentioned her hygiene is questionable

[paul_tall_]

I’ve met her also, her body is not bad and her bj skills are excellent but she wears a hell of a lot of makeupl. I finished up looking like an umpa lumpa covered in her orange makeup and what’s underneath is quite scary to be honest. One of the worst faces I’ve seen. If you go on secret benefits you’ll find her on there and she has a video without her makeup. You’ll see what I mean from here ….id avoid personally and as previously mentioned her hygiene is questionable

for all of secret benefits faults the video feature is an eye opener.
is she easy to spot ie currently active, same age etc ?

[Johnjones2018]

Yes I’ve seen her on there in the last few days I’ll have a look later again. I’d strongly advise anyone to watch the video as her face without make up is shocking to be honest and I feel I am being slightly kind here

[southcoastpunter]

anyone met, chatted to or have any info on any of the following please:

Jasmine, 19, New Milton (yes technically just in Hampshire and SE but likely to have seen guys from Bournemouth area too)
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Shelly, 47, Poole
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Holly, 18, Bournemouth
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i can provide a little info on the following:

Katie 22 Bournemouth
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met for a drink and chat. Got drunk very easily and she was asking me to take her home and fuck her. Her pics are flattering. If, like me, you want more than just sex, i am not sure that socially, she would be what you want.

Kelly 21 Bournemouth
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nice enough girl, a little curvier than i like, actually lives nearer Yeovil than Bournemouth. Only met for a chat, nothing more! Unlike many, did not ask for any money to meet.

[Danj89]

Chatting to Kelly , but dunno if I'm willing to make a trip so far for just a drinks meet, potentially might do as I prefer curvier.

[Danj89]

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Magnolia - Bournemouth

Wants a ppm payment for a coffee meet with her friend. Apparently has multiple sugar daddies on the go. Giving me stripper/content seller vibes. Seems fake.

[updownandaround]

Just a quick PSA..

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[Prifessionallondinguy]

I’ve met her also, her body is not bad and her bj skills are excellent but she wears a hell of a lot of makeupl. I finished up looking like an umpa lumpa covered in her orange makeup and what’s underneath is quite scary to be honest. One of the worst faces I’ve seen. If you go on secret benefits you’ll find her on there and she has a video without her makeup. You’ll see what I mean from here ….id avoid personally and as previously mentioned her hygiene is questionable

Cheers, I’ll take your advice. 

[Southwestben]

Hello ‘Seeking experts’!
I’m on the brink of signing up to try this site out. I’ve read your tips on here and they have been super helpful. Before I take the plunge and upgrade my plan from the free one to the paid one - what are your thoughts on the search filters? For example would you advise always ensure the people you are talking to are ‘Selfie Verified’ or ‘ID verified’?

Also I’m married so obviously need to keep my search for a fun student to play with on the down low.
Do you find that you have to have a clear identifiable picture of yourself to get any interest from the girls or are they happy to chat and then swap a face picture once you’ve discussed what you’re both after?

Thanks guys.
I promise to share intel here if I do take the plunge and subscribe.

[GoodLookinGuy]

Hello ‘Seeking experts’!
I’m on the brink of signing up to try this site out. I’ve read your tips on here and they have been super helpful. Before I take the plunge and upgrade my plan from the free one to the paid one - what are your thoughts on the search filters? For example would you advise always ensure the people you are talking to are ‘Selfie Verified’ or ‘ID verified’?

Also I’m married so obviously need to keep my search for a fun student to play with on the down low.
Do you find that you have to have a clear identifiable picture of yourself to get any interest from the girls or are they happy to chat and then swap a face picture once you’ve discussed what you’re both after?

Thanks guys.
I promise to share intel here if I do take the plunge and subscribe.

Hello,

As for pictures, I only have clear photos of my face in my private gallery, gives you a little more control without losing out on potential matches as most of the girls on there will want to see your face at some point before meeting.

I have social media verified my account, you could also do a selfie verification or an ID verification. The only reason I haven't so far is laziness. I'd happily verify if a girl asked me too but I don't find it an issue on there. Your account is mapped to who you are once you subscribe via the card you use to pay for it. So any girl that you message will know there is a real person behind the account and they can at least afford the £100 odd pound subscription fee.

I don't filter my searches on only verified accounts. I've never yet met with a girl that didn't look like her photos. If I did meet a girl who looked nothing like her photos it will be the world shortest meet so she would only really be wasting her own time.

Hope this helps, have fun :-)

[Southwestben]

Hello,

As for pictures, I only have clear photos of my face in my private gallery, gives you a little more control without losing out on potential matches as most of the girls on there will want to see your face at some point before meeting.

I have social media verified my account, you could also do a selfie verification or an ID verification. The only reason I haven't so far is laziness. I'd happily verify if a girl asked me too but I don't find it an issue on there. Your account is mapped to who you are once you subscribe via the card you use to pay for it. So any girl that you message will know there is a real person behind the account and they can at least afford the £100 odd pound subscription fee.

I don't filter my searches on only verified accounts. I've never yet met with a girl that didn't look like her photos. If I did meet a girl who looked nothing like her photos it will be the world shortest meet so she would only really be wasting her own time.

Hope this helps, have fun :-)

Sounds sensible, thanks for the advice! I’ll feed back here with my findings!!

[Punting2022]

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Natalie is back. I originally met her around 10-11 years ago and then she disappeared presumably into a relationship. She's quite the character, ditzy, disorganised but quite a lot of fun and at £150 quite the bargain! She is into virtually anything including water sports, anal and rimming. She's a swinger so used to performing in front of a crowd and probably has the loudest orgasm on the planet. For her age her body is in very decent nick and worth a go if you're into the MILFy Welsh sort.

I Contacted her, fancied a Milf. Looks hot. But unorganised as you say. Suggest a meet then forgets she had something on. I was wanting something milfy this week. But gave up in the end. Cheapish id say.

[Cunning Punt]

Some info from SW girls I've recently dealt with, in case helpful.

Evelyn, 38, Swindon
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She moved rapidly to WhatsApp then asks me straightaway "So how much do you pay these ladies, then?" So basically an escort-type. Put me right off. And wanted £300 and couldn't host, so I ended it there. Her profile photos seem adjusted so reckon she will be fairly rough looking IRL.

MiMi, 20, Swindon
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Timewaster who is clearly a semi-pro chatting to lots of guys and not keeping up with messages.
She guided me to WhatsApp quickly then ghosted me on there for 6 weeks, after which she messaged out of the blue and apologised and asked if I still wanted to meet. I responded but she hasn't bothered reading it let alone replied.

Teexo, 28, Swindon
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At best a timewaster, at worst a dodgy profile.
Was pushing for a meet that day on Seeking and then WhatsApp. Agreed 250 and said she could host, but I'm wary about meeting a stranger in a random location first up. When I suggested a M&G, she ghosted me. When I suggested a video call then hotel meet first meet, she still ghosted me.
She still keeps viewing my Seeking profile.
 
Rosa, 38, Cheltenham
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She's not been active on the site for a month but posting for posterity so there is a record here if and when she returns.

Nice girl, good to chat to and better looking IRL and doesn't seem so pouty collagen-lipped. She said she expected 400-500 because she thinks that's standard, could host but doesn't really want to as it's temporary accommodation. Far too much for me, so didn't take it beyond a M&G.

[Danj89]

Thanks for this CP. Spoke to Evelyn who said I have seen one of her friends, she said blonde with tattoos and I said you need to narrow it down and then blocked me.

Have a M&G lined up with rosa but I won't be doing that much , but will see how the vibes go in person, I won't be doing that high a ppm though that's for sure.