Seeking.com in the South West

[Everhard115]

Yes in one of earlier stints made the mistake of transferring a small amount of money as train fare. Ofcourse never saw the girl ;p dodged a bullet as one hour before the meet she started asking for full money, Fair play to her she gad full on banter before to build a rappo with me.  I knew then that I better right  without the travel money and better not transfer any more.  Since then I make it all clear part of the "ground rules"
None of my pictures on seeking are on any of my social media and they are all private I only share with the ones I like.

[updownandaround]

Yes in one of earlier stints made the mistake of transferring a small amount of money as train fare. Ofcourse never saw the girl ;p dodged a bullet as one hour before the meet she started asking for full money, Fair play to her she gad full on banter before to build a rappo with me.  I knew then that I better right  without the travel money and better not transfer any more.  Since then I make it all clear part of the "ground rules"
None of my pictures on seeking are on any of my social media and they are all private I only share with the ones I like.

I'm not sure if you're aware of Pimeyes but you might want to run some of your photos through that to see if you can be "found" online!

[southcoastpunter]

 i see this one is back on seeking:

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very attractive but be aware, she will string you along for meals out and money /arrangements etc without any intention of "delivering" what most guys seek. she played me quite well about 2 years ago.

[here4fun22]

What was the nature of the scam?

The most common ones are delaying intimacy (i.e. if you were a Gentleman you wouldn't be pressuring me for sex) or the get paid at the beginning of the date and do a runner before intimacy scam.

If it's either of those two above then make it super clear that no intimacy = no money. The scammers and rinsers soon form an orderly queue to exist stage right. Make it very clear before even meeting and you'll save yourself some time and frustration.

Linked everything to my SM and then threated to tell everyone, i should have been more ballys and said fuck it but it was my first experience on Seeking. Learnt alot from it!!

[inalco]

Reporting the threat to the police would probably have worked too.

A warning from them would have seen her off, if only so she could try and repeat the same scam in the future.

A burner phone is essential for this type of thing to avoid this very problem in my opinion.

[updownandaround]

Reporting the threat to the police would probably have worked too.

A warning from them would have seen her off, if only so she could try and repeat the same scam in the future.

A burner phone is essential for this type of thing to avoid this very problem in my opinion.

In this game, a burner is the only option.

Killing all social media (including LinkedIn) is the next best thing in my opinion and then using Pimeyes to check your visibility on the internet.

In all the years I've been using Seeking I've had very few incidences of malice but I've had my eyes opened recently. There is a small but hardcore group of girls using Seeking that are ruthless and have no issue with rinsing, stealing, scamming or indeed blackmailing. It's almost like a group of crack addicted street walkers saved up for a smart phone and joined Seeking.

[dross]

In this game, a burner is the only option.

Killing all social media (including LinkedIn) is the next best thing in my opinion and then using Pimeyes to check your visibility on the internet.

In all the years I've been using Seeking I've had very few incidences of malice but I've had my eyes opened recently. There is a small but hardcore group of girls using Seeking that are ruthless and have no issue with rinsing, stealing, scamming or indeed blackmailing. It's almost like a group of crack addicted street walkers saved up for a smart phone and joined Seeking.

I'd go as far as also suggesting at that level of scam it's probably a bunch of guys professionally doing it 

[updownandaround]

I'd go as far as also suggesting at that level of scam it's probably a bunch of guys professionally doing it 

Some probably are but the ones I am referring to are for sure women.

[here4fun22]

Quick question, so picture wise, are you guys putting up full facials??

[southcoastpunter]

Quick question, so picture wise, are you guys putting up full facials??

this is asked a lot on pretty much every Seeking board - and the answer is = some of all the options. Some guys will say "yes", some guys will say "no, none at all" and some like me, put a body shot but no face in their public gallery but have a face shot in their private gallery and only show it to those that you want to show it to. You can withdraw consent on the SA system at any time or you could send one on WA as a "one time only view.

FWIW - i say in my profile that a face pic is available to see once we have chatted and establish that we seek similar things.

[dross]

Quick question, so picture wise, are you guys putting up full facials??

I'd put in my bio if the girl wants a full facial I'll give her one 

[updownandaround]

Quick question, so picture wise, are you guys putting up full facials??

What SCP says.

Even with no photo, you're going to get replies but little in the way of inbound messages from the girls.

I found having a full face photo generated the most inbound messages but that was in the days before Pimeyes became mainstream.

[Cunning Punt]

Yes in one of earlier stints made the mistake of transferring a small amount of money as train fare. Ofcourse never saw the girl

As a follow-up to that, I would suggest guys in those situations offer to buy a ticket for her ie by Trainline and then email her the barcode. I think you may be able to claim some money back if the ticket isn't used but others could advise.

Either way, scammers will probably not go for that as they don't gain from it, unless by chance they really want to come to that same location at the same time to do something else. And she's less likely to do that if you say you'll pick her up from the station.

[JoeFiddleSticks]

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Was on my list to contact as she is was listed in the south but now showing as Ireland so don't know what the score is

[updownandaround]

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Looks relatively good in her photos but I did a video chat with her and she looks like she's done 5 rounds with Mike Tyson.

[joninbristol]

As a follow-up to that, I would suggest guys in those situations offer to buy a ticket for her ie by Trainline and then email her the barcode. I think you may be able to claim some money back if the ticket isn't used but others could advise.

Off peak, super off peak and anytime tickets can be refunded if they're not used, but the last time I did this they charged a tenner for the privilege.
Advanced single tickets cannot be refunded, but you can pay a fee to use them on an alternate journey - assuming that's a useful trip for you. Not sure what the fee is, but I'd assume they'd rip you off to a similar degree for a refund.

Full details here on Trainline, most train companies run a similar policy from experience with LNER, South Eastern and GWR:
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BTW, Trainline's fees are some of the worst online - cheaper to buy directly through the train company site, like gwr.com

Hope that's useful.

[Doombar]

Anyone had any dealings with this one (who looks really hot!)

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[londonroad]

Anyone had any dealings with this one (who looks really hot!)

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Looks much taller than the 5’2” stated on her profile?

[updownandaround]

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Talk about a blast from the past but she's back on Seeking, this girl is a top tier shag and also on AW but as a cam girl: External Link/Members Only

She's in Cardiff not Bristol.

[Hantsolo]

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Talk about a blast from the past but she's back on Seeking, this girl is a top tier shag and also on AW but as a cam girl: External Link/Members Only

She's in Cardiff not Bristol.

Has platonic on her profile, so the chances of a cheap ppm arent good in my opinion

[Palace123]

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Talk about a blast from the past but she's back on Seeking, this girl is a top tier shag and also on AW but as a cam girl: External Link/Members Only

She's in Cardiff not Bristol.

Once a SB always a SB it would seem...she's married now but clearly can't leave the concept alone...except..having a platonic date with her and zero chance of scoring would, in my own opinion, be some kind of torture. I'll never get my head around how some guys would do such aa thing, goes against the very essence being a man. Surely, if someone needs a date that badly then pop over to tinder...even if one isn't that hot..it surely can't matter much if you're watching a film and have no chance of any intimacy...bonkers, in fact..just plain odd.

[updownandaround]

Once a SB always a SB it would seem...she's married now but clearly can't leave the concept alone...except..having a platonic date with her and zero chance of scoring would, in my own opinion, be some kind of torture. I'll never get my head around how some guys would do such aa thing, goes against the very essence being a man. Surely, if someone needs a date that badly then pop over to tinder...even if one isn't that hot..it surely can't matter much if you're watching a film and have no chance of any intimacy...bonkers, in fact..just plain odd.

When I met her originally she was married, she's a camgirl, ex stripper/lapdander and escort. In her interactions with me recently, she's certainly not being platonic.

[updownandaround]

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Finally bagged this one. I say finally because she's a real pain in the ass and difficult to deal with. She wanted 2.5K a month allowance but settled for 300 which I have to say was poorly spent. Banging body but more vanilla than custard.

[updownandaround]

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I'm pretty sure I've seen this one on AW but can't seem to find her on there. PimEyes pegs her as a used panty seller. She wants money up front so suspect she's a scammer. Anyone know of her?

[simit]

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Finally bagged this one. I say finally because she's a real pain in the ass and difficult to deal with. She wanted 2.5K a month allowance but settled for 300 which I have to say was poorly spent. Banging body but more vanilla than custard.

She looks older than 33?

[updownandaround]

She looks older than 33?

I have no idea how old she is but I would agree, she's probably in her 40s but in very good nick.

[updownandaround]

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Seeing as I can't find the Wales Seeking thread I thought I'd post this Swansea girl here. Super fun gym fit girl, very tidy body, fun and submissive. She's currently out of action due to an accident. 200.

[updownandaround]

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Here's a girl I thought was too good to be true but turned out legit. Bristol based pretty 20 year old, gym fit with tiny waist, can host, latina looks and a total bargain at 100 notes.

[southcoastpunter]

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Here's a girl I thought was too good to be true but turned out legit. Bristol based pretty 20 year old, gym fit with tiny waist, can host, latina looks and a total bargain at 100 notes.

Bristol based? Her profile (now) says London. do you think she is trying to get London guys to go see her in Bristol or maybe she has/is moving?

[updownandaround]

Bristol based? Her profile (now) says London. do you think she is trying to get London guys to go see her in Bristol or maybe she has/is moving?

Like a lot of girls I think she's putting London because it's more profitable and probably goes there a few times a month. She works in Bristol so I imagine she heads off to London at the weekends.

[updownandaround]

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This one is a bit of a hard nosed semi pro but if you like them tall, this is the girl for you. She started off wanting 700 (Yes, in Bristol) but soon came down to 400, which is still too expensive. In the end she settled for 250 and she can accommodate too so you can save a few quid on a hotel. She's not in Bristol per se but on the very outskirts, not too far from the Gordano junction of the M5.

[Mr_Kinky]

Lots of time wasters on SA.  I have had some good encounters in Wales.  I should start making a list of the ones to avoid.  There's "Polish Gem". Complete waste of time.

[updownandaround]

Lots of time wasters on SA.  I have had some good encounters in Wales.  I should start making a list of the ones to avoid.  There's "Polish Gem". Complete waste of time.

What's her link? Bristol is not the easiest market, unless you like alternative girls and I agree, Newport/Cardiff is quite a bit better in terms of prospects.

[Mr_Kinky]

Yes I agree.  I have my city as Cardiff and had good time there.  Also away from home.  Although I must say it's not been easy and in my experience I found most girls flaky.

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Looks like her account got blocked.  Not surprised.

[updownandaround]

Yes I agree.  I have my city as Cardiff and had good time there.  Also away from home.  Although I must say it's not been easy and in my experience I found most girls flaky.

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Looks like her account got blocked.  Not surprised.

Girls are just flakey and space rangers regardless where you meet them, Seeking, Tinder, real life, you name it.

[updownandaround]

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Here's another lovely Welshy, marmite looks but makes up for it in bedroom antics department. I'd been chatting with her for ages (mainly because I couldn't make up my mind whether I fancied her or not) and at no point had she ever discussed money or an arrangement, so whilst in Cardiff she came to see me. A few drinks later, she's back in my room.

[Mr_Kinky]

Overall SA has not been bad.  For £200 to £300 I get to spend all day/night with a girl and do all kinds of stuff.  Great for a free weekend to chill and have fun.

[updownandaround]

Overall SA has not been bad.  For £200 to £300 I get to spend all day/night with a girl and do all kinds of stuff.  Great for a free weekend to chill and have fun.

You can find some really nice girls on Seeking, ones that you actually want to spend the whole day with but I'm afraid these days they are few and far between. Or maybe my preferences have changed. I'm happy with a couple of hours max and then on to the next.

[Mr_Kinky]

Yes I agree.  I think it's just a random trend.  I find things just pick up all of a sudden out of the blue.  I don't know may be it's to do with how Venus aligns with Mars.  Would you consider travelling abroad to meet one?  Risky I know.

[updownandaround]

Yes I agree.  I think it's just a random trend.  I find things just pick up all of a sudden out of the blue.  I don't know may be it's to do with how Venus aligns with Mars.  Would you consider travelling abroad to meet one?  Risky I know.

I would only travel to another country if I had a few lined up. Paris and Madrid are exceptional for this. In Paris you get all the North African girls (Morocco/Algeria/Tunisia) along with a smattering of Vietnamese girls. In Madrid you get a fantastic array of Latinas from all the Latin American countries. And then when you go to Asia, you don't really need to use Seeking as it's pretty easy regardless. I've had some amazing times in Australia on Seeking too, Melbourne and Sydney in particular.

[Mr_Kinky]

I would go pretty much anywhere in Europe as long as I am quite sure the girl is genuine.  Which can be quite tricky.

Recently I have been seeing pop up messages warning me not to solicitate for sex or risk getting blocked.  I think it's recognising certain terms like "ppm".  Not had it before.

[southcoastpunter]

Recently I have been seeing pop up messages warning me not to solicitate for sex or risk getting blocked.  I think it's recognising certain terms like "ppm".  Not had it before.

I strongly suggest you read a bit wider on the seeking threads on here. PPM is a term that is likely to get you banned. Seeking now hate any direct or indirect comment or even suggestion that you are offering money for sex. Leave all that for another platforn like WhatsApp.

[updownandaround]

I would go pretty much anywhere in Europe as long as I am quite sure the girl is genuine.  Which can be quite tricky.

Recently I have been seeing pop up messages warning me not to solicitate for sex or risk getting blocked.  I think it's recognising certain terms like "ppm".  Not had it before.

Keep all biz discussions offline on Whatsapp or text. You run the risk of them banning you and losing whatever is left on your sub. It's also pretty difficult to get back on as they keep track of the photos (if any) you used, email addresses and so on. If you're using the app then they ban your phone so you have to change phone to get back on, or at least have a rooted on where you change change that info.

[Mr_Kinky]

I never noticed a warning before but heard SA has a reputation of banning people.  I notice this especially with girls, whom don't pay for messaging, getting banned.  It's pity especially when I have established a rapport with them and next thing gone !!

[updownandaround]

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Another Bristol girl from the burbs but is willing to travel. Wanted 400 originally and didn't budge so I sacked her off and left then dooropen, then out of the blue she said 200. After our ses she told me that she needed money for her holiday hence the price drop. I'd say a pretty accomplished shag with a good positive attitude, gets right down to business and delivers. She also has a mate she can bring for a threesome (with huge tits apparently, she's the girl with the massive forehead in her photos) but the friend is a bit of a minger per my tastes. I wouldn't bother again but don't read too much into that as I rare do revisit the same girl.

[updownandaround]

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This one is a nightmare to maintain a conversation with so be forewarned. She also answers her messages once every few days so expect that. Bristol based, very shy and quiet, submissive, in shape and a damned good shag. Seemed happy as larry with 200.

[Mr_Kinky]

Thanks for that.  I messaged both of them while back but never got a reply.  I am chatting to one in Bristol but she takes ages to reply

[Mr_Kinky]

I normally go for submissive types.  There's plenty about but mostly in Cardiff for some reason.

[whiskeygogo]

For anyone that regularly does seeking in Bristol, do most girls not accommodate and you have to get a hotel (if you can't bring them home)?

[updownandaround]

For anyone that regularly does seeking in Bristol, do most girls not accommodate and you have to get a hotel (if you can't bring them home)?

I find it's very rare that a girl anywhere in the country can accommodate, they have flatmates, security concerns and what not. That changes once they get older of course but not many are looking for the 40+ ones. So hotels it is.