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Kindsoul

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Good lass, very petite (5ft, size 6), good flat in the city centre with ample P/D parking, however will message you once/twice in the week to arrange more meets. Which I didn't mind (the first time) but others with OHs might be an issue. She's desperate for money a little. £150-200ppm. Hates time wasters. Loves DT (will choke herself on your cock), rough fucking and doesn't like using condoms. Met her twice and have fired multiple loads into her. Not allowed to use PM function so can't PM you mate

[Pussi]

Hi Guys,

Predominately a SE/London punter but I do stray into your manor sometimes.   

After some feedback on the below seeking girls.  Video called both and looking at planning dates. Any intel/info would be great and hugely appreciated.   

Kindsoul

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Good lass, very petite (5ft, size 6), good flat in the city centre with ample P/D parking, however will message you once/twice in the week to arrange more meets. Which I didn't mind (the first time) but others with OHs might be an issue. She's desperate for money a little. £150-200ppm. Hates time wasters. Loves DT (will choke herself on your cock), rough fucking and doesn't like using condoms. Met her twice and have fired multiple loads into her. Not allowed to use PM function so can't PM you mate

[CasualPaul1999]

Good lass, very petite (5ft, size 6), good flat in the city centre with ample P/D parking, however will message you once/twice in the week to arrange more meets. Which I didn't mind (the first time) but others with OHs might be an issue. She's desperate for money a little. £150-200ppm. Hates time wasters. Loves DT (will choke herself on your cock), rough fucking and doesn't like using condoms. Met her twice and have fired multiple loads into her. Not allowed to use PM function so can't PM you mate

Hi mate could you DM me about her if possible cheers

[madhon]

I've met Kindsoul, DM me for more details.

Wouldnt mind details please, but cant DM you.

[Funwork]

I would welcome her number as I don’t use seeking

[daviemac]

I would welcome her number as I don’t use seeking

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[Hantsolo]

AristicSeductress - Christchurch

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Chatted to her for a while on my previous profile. Rejoined and she got back in touch. Body looks good and sounds fun, wanted £400 originally but agreed to meet for a lot less. Was tempted until she said she either wants the cash or payment by bank transfer at the start of the meet.

Wasnt prepared to break my "pay at the end" rule after being conned once.

Be interested to know if anyone here as had the pleasure?

[updownandaround]

AristicSeductress - Christchurch

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Chatted to her for a while on my previous profile. Rejoined and she got back in touch. Body looks good and sounds fun, wanted £400 originally but agreed to meet for a lot less. Was tempted until she said she either wants the cash or payment by bank transfer at the start of the meet.

Wasnt prepared to break my "pay at the end" rule after being conned once.

Be interested to know if anyone here as had the pleasure?

Yes, I met her last year, she did of course try and sell me some photos and videos. She also tried the whole platonic date thing too but I managed to seal the deal for 200. She doesn't live up to her photos but has a decent body and the sex was a 6/10. I wouldn't go back, she's too much hype and not enough substance. I certainly wouldn't pay her up front, she didn't ask either.

[Doombar]

Good lass, very petite (5ft, size 6), good flat in the city centre with ample P/D parking, however will message you once/twice in the week to arrange more meets. Which I didn't mind (the first time) but others with OHs might be an issue. She's desperate for money a little. £150-200ppm. Hates time wasters. Loves DT (will choke herself on your cock), rough fucking and doesn't like using condoms. Met her twice and have fired multiple loads into her. Not allowed to use PM function so can't PM you mate

Sounds like you and she are happy to do bareback.  Same risks as barebacking with Escorts.

[Pussi]

Sounds like you and she are happy to do bareback.  Same risks as barebacking with Escorts.

Yes same risk and I'm happy. Just giving a review for this SB so YMMV

[Hantsolo]

Yes, I met her last year, she did of course try and sell me some photos and videos. She also tried the whole platonic date thing too but I managed to seal the deal for 200. She doesn't live up to her photos but has a decent body and the sex was a 6/10. I wouldn't go back, she's too much hype and not enough substance. I certainly wouldn't pay her up front, she didn't ask either.

Thanks mate, she tried platonic with me too and that along with money up front and dropping her fee significantly set the alarm bells ringing. I’ll definitely pass.

[Hantsolo]

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Harmony (Lymington)

Seems keen to meet and sounds fun, anyone had the pleasure?

[mikeg1600]

Sounds like you and she are happy to do bareback.  Same risks as barebacking with Escorts.

I have met about 5 or 6 of seeking of various ages and all bar one wanted to do bareback, not for me I’m afraid

Is it the norm that bareback is on offer on seeking?

[updownandaround]

I have met about 5 or 6 of seeking of various ages and all bar one wanted to do bareback, not for me I’m afraid

Is it the norm that bareback is on offer on seeking?

My experience is more or less the same in that most girls don't ask about condoms. I think this is more a reflection of Gen Zs attitude towards sexual health than anything else. Even if you pull a girl outside of Seeking more often than not they don't seem too fussed about safe sex. What is also interesting is the lack of knowledge about STD testing even though it's widely publicised and available for free. The NHS needs to do more TikTok videos!

[Doombar]

I have met about 5 or 6 of seeking of various ages and all bar one wanted to do bareback, not for me I’m afraid

Is it the norm that bareback is on offer on seeking?

It shouldn't be a case of whether she wants to do bareback or not.  You also have a choice.  For the girl it makes no difference to her enjoyment - but for us of course bareback feels nicer.

I've only met about 6 girls off SA.  I am very fussy - will only see the prettiest slimest youngest ones who haven't met many SDs - so I don't get much success.  I always avoid those who act like escorts.  I am only interested in girls who I believe are genuinely looking for exclusive long term arrangements. 

Most of the girls I have met wanted to use condoms the first time and I insist on it.  After we've had sex once or twice I talk to them about STIs and if they get tested and agree to only have sex with me (no other SDs or boyfriends) I ask them to switch to having bareback sex.  All have agreed so far, and both of us then get tested regularly throughout the arrangement.  I have had the snip so no risk of pregnancy.  I always try to be really respectful to them at all times as they are genuinely nice girls and I want them to stay with me for a long time.

It's just my preferred way of doing arrangements, and we are all different, as are the girls.

[Pussi]

I have met about 5 or 6 of seeking of various ages and all bar one wanted to do bareback, not for me I’m afraid

Is it the norm that bareback is on offer on seeking?

Most SA girls do BB. I’d say the majority of them however I haven’t seen many that won’t be disappointed if you preferred protection. End of the day it’s all about £££ There’s nothing like blowing a load into a 20 something slim uni student. I will say however my last stint of membership (Jan 23) a high number of girls were asking for condoms only. Most not on BC or the STD risk therefore had to cut WhatsApp convos short.

[southcoastpunter]

Most SA girls do BB. I’d say the majority of them however I haven’t seen many that won’t be disappointed if you preferred protection. End of the day it’s all about £££ There’s nothing like blowing a load into a 20 something slim uni student. I will say however my last stint of membership (Jan 23) a high number of girls were asking for condoms only. Most not on BC or the STD risk therefore had to cut WhatsApp convos short.

i always have a problem when guys make such sweeping generalisations. Most = more than half. don't know how many thousand are on SA but you have had a intimate conversation with over half of them?? I don't think so! We know you BB them - you said so previously and the above seems to confirm that. Each to their own, we all have to take whatever risks that are acceptable to us and protect ourselves if we don't accept the risk.

I do agree that it seems that many of today's youngsters (under 30's  and irrespective of being civvy or SA etc) seem less concerned about using condoms than us older generations. maybe that is because they have so many different options including the patch, the day after pill, the 7 days after pill etc. Ok they don't protect against STI but most STI are more easily medically controlled these days. I am, of course, speculating here as to why their attitude is somewhat different to ours - well most of ours!

[Everhard115]

It shouldn't be a case of whether she wants to do bareback or not.  You also have a choice.  For the girl it makes no difference to her enjoyment - but for us of course bareback feels nicer.

I've only met about 6 girls off SA.  I am very fussy - will only see the prettiest slimest youngest ones who haven't met many SDs - so I don't get much success.  I always avoid those who act like escorts.  I am only interested in girls who I believe are genuinely looking for exclusive long term arrangements. 

Most of the girls I have met wanted to use condoms the first time and I insist on it.  After we've had sex once or twice I talk to them about STIs and if they get tested and agree to only have sex with me (no other SDs or boyfriends) I ask them to switch to having bareback sex.  All have agreed so far, and both of us then get tested regularly throughout the arrangement.  I have had the snip so no risk of pregnancy.  I always try to be really respectful to them at all times as they are genuinely nice girls and I want them to stay with me for a long time.

It's just my preferred way of doing arrangements, and we are all different, as are the girls.

Out of curiosity what sort of monies do you fork out for arrangements ? I seem to have similar tastes and was wondering how much should I set aside say for one need a week so 4 a month type.

Thanks

[Doombar]

Out of curiosity what sort of monies do you fork out for arrangements ? I seem to have similar tastes and was wondering how much should I set aside say for one need a week so 4 a month type.

Thanks

I also look for one meet per week, for 3-5hrs - so about 3 meets per month as usually someone cancels one week.
I try to get the best deal and typically start at £500 but will go upto £800 per month.  I find the more experience they've had the more they want.  I try to compete with the £300 per meet offers by saying I'm offering a long term arrangement which adds up over time.
I try to keep the allowance low then add occasional discretionary gifts eg. clothes, holiday spending money, pay a bill, etc.  They tend to be more grateful for this than the monthly allowance

[updownandaround]

i always have a problem when guys make such sweeping generalisations. Most = more than half. don't know how many thousand are on SA but you have had a intimate conversation with over half of them?? I don't think so! We know you BB them - you said so previously and the above seems to confirm that. Each to their own, we all have to take whatever risks that are acceptable to us and protect ourselves if we don't accept the risk.

I do agree that it seems that many of today's youngsters (under 30's  and irrespective of being civvy or SA etc) seem less concerned about using condoms than us older generations. maybe that is because they have so many different options including the patch, the day after pill, the 7 days after pill etc. Ok they don't protect against STI but most STI are more easily medically controlled these days. I am, of course, speculating here as to why their attitude is somewhat different to ours - well most of ours!

I've been on Seeking since 2008 and I would say that only a handful of girls have ever raised the subject of condoms or STD testing. Now I'm pretty sure I've not met half of all the girls that have ever used Seeking but I have seen a shit ton of them. It serves as a reminder that no matter how tempting it may seem at the time and how much a girl reassures you she's clean, don't take the chance if you value your own health. Even if they claim to be a Seeking virgin (count how many times you hear "it's my first time on here, my friend told me about the site") they are getting their back broken by dudes from Tinder, Instagram, the clubs or wherever.

[southcoastpunter]

I also look for one meet per week, for 3-5hrs - so about 3 meets per month as usually someone cancels one week.
I try to get the best deal and typically start at £500 but will go upto £800 per month.  I find the more experience they've had the more they want.  I try to compete with the £300 per meet offers by saying I'm offering a long term arrangement which adds up over time.
I try to keep the allowance low then add occasional discretionary gifts eg. clothes, holiday spending money, pay a bill, etc.  They tend to be more grateful for this than the monthly allowance

i am similar to you - i only do monthly arrangements and (now) don't see ladies that do PPM's  - usually 4 meeting per month but to include at least a couple of overnights. my range is similar - £500 to £750pm plus dinner or whatever we are doing. and i agree - unexpected gifts or help towards a bill etc is always very welcomed. For me (and the lady) is as much about the "what we are doing" - creating experiences and memories rather than just having sex.

[Everhard115]

I've been on Seeking since 2008 and I would say that only a handful of girls have ever raised the subject of condoms or STD testing. Now I'm pretty sure I've not met half of all the girls that have ever used Seeking but I have seen a shit ton of them. It serves as a reminder that no matter how tempting it may seem at the time and how much a girl reassures you she's clean, don't take the chance if you value your own health. Even if they claim to be a Seeking virgin (count how many times you hear "it's my first time on here, my friend told me about the site") they are getting their back broken by dudes from Tinder, Instagram, the clubs or wherever.

thanks sounds good, those are the figures I had in mind too as work will take me to bristol once a week so would be nice to chill out. Will start getting the kit ready and see how I get on

[beemer44]

Any info on this girl.  Think she works in London but lives in Bristol.  Got a date/rate arranged just after a last min heads up before I take the plunge.

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[Palace123]

Out of curiosity what sort of monies do you fork out for arrangements ? I seem to have similar tastes and was wondering how much should I set aside say for one need a week so 4 a month type.

Thanks

£200-300 per meet around here is fairly normal...£500 for London if you're also browsing round there. If monthly, then negotiable. At an extent, it Depends on how much you like the girl tbh and whether you want to leave the door open for others...that said...when money is involved, that's always going to happen irrespective of how much you're told...I don't want to see other people. That soon changes when a big shot offers £1/2K a meet.

[Everhard115]

£200-300 per meet around here is fairly normal...£500 for London if you're also browsing round there. If monthly, then negotiable. At an extent, it Depends on how much you like the girl tbh and whether you want to leave the door open for others...that said...when money is involved, that's always going to happen irrespective of how much you're told...I don't want to see other people. That soon changes when a big shot offers £1/2K a meet.

Thank you and yes agreed the higher one offers the less the chance of being out bid . I still have not signed up again planning to do it soon though.

[Everhard115]

signed up so off I go firing away 

[updownandaround]

signed up so off I go firing away 

Good luck and enjoy!

[Everhard115]

Thank you , I had forgotten how much of a hard work it is 

Ended up with two wats app after 1 day 🙃  so count that as success. Let's see how flakey they are. My previous two 1 month stints did yield one good result each after ALOT of hard work but that is all I need one good result. Upwards and onwards

[updownandaround]

Thank you , I had forgotten how much of a hard work it is 

Ended up with two wats app after 1 day 🙃  so count that as success. Let's see how flakey they are. My previous two 1 month stints did yield one good result each after ALOT of hard work but that is all I need one good result. Upwards and onwards

You have to do a lot of farming in the SW to have a good time. I think of all the regions in the UK, the SW is the worst on Seeking.

[Everhard115]

I think all regions are the same. Its hard work but we'll worth it when and if one gets to play with a fit lass  😉
As usual a lot of flakey ones , a few seem promising with a little luck I might get in there. Let's see....

[updownandaround]

I think all regions are the same. Its hard work but we'll worth it when and if one gets to play with a fit lass  😉
As usual a lot of flakey ones , a few seem promising with a little luck I might get in there. Let's see....

I do not encounter the same quality and flakiness in London, the South East or the North West. I'll have the occasional scan of the SW but along with South Wales in the 10+ years of me using Seeking I've not had the same success as elsewhere in the country. Which is a pity!

South Wales is an interesting one, all the girls seem to know one another and they are either working in social care or strippers, or both.

[Everhard115]

Ok well no experience of London so can't comment. Looking at the Midlands and the South West Region. Conversations start but then they disappear.  It is pretty flakey still got 3 weeks to go with the membership so hopefully something will happen 

[jimbobted]

Anyone spoken to this one?
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[Everhard115]

Probably has been covered but how do I cancel seeking membership it says under payment options but I can't seem to find any payment options. I just want to cancel now so I am not charged again in case I forget.
Pipeline is now pretty healthy on what's app so let's see how many flakers I encounter. Already the score is 2 flakers and 0 meets. That being said that was all in one evening both plan A and plan B flaked joys of seeking. More promising meets for next week let's see.

[londonroad]

Probably has been covered but how do I cancel seeking membership it says under payment options but I can't seem to find any payment options. I just want to cancel now so I am not charged again in case I forget.

I sent a request to Seeking Support and they actioned my request within 48 hours.

[Everhard115]

So we just have to send a request to seeking support and nothing on the portal to help us cancel. Okay thanks

[METEOR]

So we just have to send a request to seeking support and nothing on the portal to help us cancel. Okay thanks

If using website click on your picture, settings, then click the drop down arrow next to account then membership. Can cancel from there

[Everhard115]

Thank you done now. Its a bit of a faff to cancel alright.

[simit]

This one seems interesting in Gloucester.  Any information would be welcome.  Thanks


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[Cunning Punt]

That soon changes when a big shot offers £1/2K a meet.

'Offers' being the operative word. As I've reminded many girls over the years, it's what they RECEIVE that is key. A lot of guys will offer silly money but are chancers. Then how many guys will pay 1/2k a meet, and of the the few who do have that money, certainly outside London, will mention the figure to several girls but he is only going to go ahead with meeting a very small number of them.

Either way, the damage is done and girls then think they are 'worth' that amount even though they are never going to actually get it, or maybe as a one-off if they're lucky.

[updownandaround]

'Offers' being the operative word. As I've reminded many girls over the years, it's what they RECEIVE that is key. A lot of guys will offer silly money but are chancers. Then how many guys will pay 1/2k a meet, and of the the few who do have that money, certainly outside London, will mention the figure to several girls but he is only going to go ahead with meeting a very small number of them.

Either way, the damage is done and girls then think they are 'worth' that amount even though they are never going to actually get it, or maybe as a one-off if they're lucky.

Couldn't agree more, all girls claim to have been offered a lot more but that normally comes from their ego rather than reality. Fact is, most girls are getting the going rate of 150-300 a go. Even in London.

[here4fun22]

Interring thread, what’s the best way to avoid scams. Was on seeking before I joined UKP and got scammed a good one. Ended up costing me around £2,000 I was really fucking naive. What’s the best way to avoid scams from this??

[beemer44]

Well done on being honest. 

Someone tried scamming me.  I would just suggest talking with verified profiles, the scammer I encountered actually messaged me 1st.  So be wary if someone initiating a message.  Also maybe change your relationship status to something like single/separated. They asked for a selfie of me and probably via PimEyes found a some wedding pictures we had done back in 2008. They seen my exs name and said “oh what would  ******* say about this. 

To be honest we’re divorced next month anyway so I didn’t care if they did contact her. I just laughed at them and told them to crack on.  I now know it was a load of shit as this dirt would’ve been lobbed at me if she’d of found out. 

Basically avoid sending selfies and use a burner phone and you can’t go wrong.  Also my hidden pic on seeking was filtered a little and that didn’t obviously work on pim eyes.  Maybe filter every picture. 

[here4fun22]

Thanks for the advice.

Have a feeling the scammer messaged me first so will make note of that. Should have done a you and said fill your boots as I am getting divorced as well. Sacked off all social media as well so that should help, but will also grab a burner phone.

Site seems like it could be worth it if you put the effort in, just getting a bit bored of SP in this area!!

[southcoastpunter]

obviously, as in all walks of life, you need to keep your wits about you but in my (nearly) 4 years of being very active on seeking i have not been scammed in that way - even after "playing alone" with a couple of ladies (if that is what they were) i thought were potential scammers.

the more common "scams" are ladies trying to get a PPM or arrangement or travel expenses etc of of you before any "action" (whatever that is for you).

just keep your guard up, put in the work and enjoy. when it works well, boy does it work well !!!

[dross]

Well done on being honest. 

Someone tried scamming me.  I would just suggest talking with verified profiles, the scammer I encountered actually messaged me 1st.  So be wary if someone initiating a message.  Also maybe change your relationship status to something like single/separated. They asked for a selfie of me and probably via PimEyes found a some wedding pictures we had done back in 2008. They seen my exs name and said “oh what would  ******* say about this. 

To be honest we’re divorced next month anyway so I didn’t care if they did contact her. I just laughed at them and told them to crack on.  I now know it was a load of shit as this dirt would’ve been lobbed at me if she’d of found out. 

Basically avoid sending selfies and use a burner phone and you can’t go wrong.  Also my hidden pic on seeking was filtered a little and that didn’t obviously work on pim eyes.  Maybe filter every picture.

wow hadn't come across pimeyes specifically before! Gonna spend an hour now seeing how good it is compared to tineye/google etc... I've always flipped the images I upload on the horizontal axis so most of these reverse image searches won't work on any images I send...

[updownandaround]

Interring thread, what’s the best way to avoid scams. Was on seeking before I joined UKP and got scammed a good one. Ended up costing me around £2,000 I was really fucking naive. What’s the best way to avoid scams from this??

What was the nature of the scam?

The most common ones are delaying intimacy (i.e. if you were a Gentleman you wouldn't be pressuring me for sex) or the get paid at the beginning of the date and do a runner before intimacy scam.

If it's either of those two above then make it super clear that no intimacy = no money. The scammers and rinsers soon form an orderly queue to exist stage right. Make it very clear before even meeting and you'll save yourself some time and frustration.