Yeah, love the build up. I haven't ever punted on the spur of the moment - maybe I've missed out! Instead it's always been planned in advance, often as much as a week before. So it's the planning: looking through the HL, reading reviews both on AW (with a hefty pinch of salt) and on here, then making contact, usually initially on AW, sometimes direct by phone, usually by text. Then getting a street name, booking the train ticket. Text the evening before and then in the morning, and when I'm on the train. Occasionally a disaster when she doesn't respond at all, and it's all gone tits up, so frantic phone to a regular hoping she's free. Arrive at the street, usually early, and have to do a circuit of the block in the cold to eat up time. Finally the text to say "I'm ready" with the flat number, and pushing the bell, hoping you don't have to stand there too long looking like a .... well, like a punter! Buzzer sounds and you know it's all OK, up the stairs and gentle knock on the door, and she's usually behind the door, and you're waiting for the big reveal. Yes, the build-up is all part of the game, and does increase the enjoyment levels. Just occasionally it leads to a nig let down, but if you've done your research it'll probably be OK