Apologies for the offence , didn’t realise people were so sensitive 
It isn't a case of being sensitive it's a case of the way you asked for help, we aren't mind readers. Why should I search for something you should be linking to in the first place, even if I do search how do I know if I've found the right place.
You want help? make it as easy as possible for others to help you then they will be more inclined to.