Unsolicited contact from escorts

[Golfinggent]

Evening gents

I'm new here ( new account)

My question is should I leave a neutral or negative for an escort that contacted me days after I made an initial booking enquiry? The first meet was good but the second one I was fuming the said sp contacted me out of the blue when potentially my wife could have seen the message. It was far from discreet neither.

So is that a negative or neutral?

[Davey Dykes]

So did you see her after she contacted you?

[tynetunnel]

Welcome to UKP. My take is that as per the rules, you can only review where a booking is made. It doesn’t sound like this second one was a booking. I’d add it as a note to your first review of her

More importantly you should make sure that you’re using a punting phone/notifications are off (especially on Lock Screen)

[daviemac]

You can only leave a review if you had an agreed booking. You can't review an unsolicited contact.

There's a thread here on the subject. - https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=293587.msg3067697#new

[Golfinggent]

We did have an agreed booking however the unsolicited text was the night before very late at night confirming the postcode for the meet, Even though I already knew the postcode from the first time I met her

[daviemac]

We did have an agreed booking however the unsolicited text was the night before very late at night confirming the postcode for the meet, Even though I already knew the postcode from the first time I met her

If the booking was agreed then a review can be left, how you rate it is your choice, it depends on how you feel about it.

[Golfinggent]

I think I'll put it as a negative and then hopefully it won't be repeated with others who have a lot to lose should such activities become known to other halfs

[Kev3773]

I think I'll put it as a negative and then hopefully it won't be repeated with others who have a lot to lose should such activities become known to other halfs

Are you going to leave a positive review for your first meeting for true balance ?

[daviemac]

Are you going to leave a positive review for your first meeting for true balance ?

That's a thought, he should do both if the first went well.

[Kev3773]

That's a thought, he should do both if the first went well.

I'm sure he wouldn't have gone back if it didn't 

[Kev3773]

Your call golfinggent  while you're online

[Senna]

Get yourself a punting phone mate then you won't get unsolicited texts.
Problem solved 

[Golfinggent]

I don't want a punting phone that's the thing. I have no use for a second phone. I still think it's out of order to text someone sometimes hours later , I'm thinking it's the money aspect. The sp surely should understand that it's completely wrong to message someone randomly.unless they are desperate for custom so then message every Tom dick and Harry when they are broke I don't know. It's the first time it's happened to me and it really annoyed me ,I'll put a review up anyway

[Senna]

Without sounding like a dick mate and totally understand your predictmen, wot you do is block SPs number till your ready to communicate. You cant expect SPs to get stuff right if they don't know what's going on at your end

Live and learn.

[Kev3773]

I don't want a punting phone that's the thing. I have no use for a second phone. I still think it's out of order to text someone sometimes hours later , I'm thinking it's the money aspect. The sp surely should understand that it's completely wrong to message someone randomly.unless they are desperate for custom so then message every Tom dick and Harry when they are broke I don't know. It's the first time it's happened to me and it really annoyed me ,I'll put a review up anyway

[/b]
Would that be 2 reviews ? Your first positive experience that made you return as well as the unsolicited text  experience ?

[northface]

Get yourself a punting phone mate then you won't get unsolicited texts.
Problem solved 

How does a punting phone stop you getting an unsolicited text.?
Is there some technology out there I am not aware of.?

[northface]

We did have an agreed booking however the unsolicited text was the night before very late at night confirming the postcode for the meet, Even though I already knew the postcode from the first time I met her

To get a postcode the night before the meet is not entirely out of the blue in this business and to get a postcode, even though you have seen her just once before, is even less so.

[Senna]

How does a punting phone stop you getting an unsolicited text.?
Is there some technology out there I am not aware of.?

Your less likely to have a punting phone in a shared living space it also spends most of its time switched off so less likely to disturb the other half. With a password protected phone your reasabley safe.

[bbanks]

I’m sure this guys wife will be equally suspicious when she finds an extra phone hidden somewhere in the house that is password protected, as would anyone.

[daviemac]

I’m sure this guys wife will be equally suspicious when she finds an extra phone hidden somewhere in the house that is password protected, as would anyone.

Punters normally hide their punting phone, some are even daft enough to post on here where they hide it.   

[bbanks]

Punters normally hide their punting phone, some are even daft enough to post on here where they hide it.   

There’s a Frankie Boyle joke where he accuses an imaginary wife of being paranoid just because she’s found a mobile phone hidden in an empty Maltesers box, wrapped in an old blanket and stuffed inside the boot of his car where the spare wheel used to be 

[yorkstopguy]

How can anyone say that they have no need to have a second phone when they punt and do not live alone.
I see it as essential in order to put that part of my life into it's own area.
Even if you are single you are liable to others finding out should you leave your phone lying around or loose if.

[Addicted65]

If you use an  iPhone you could always just schedule do not disturb mode. I have mine set so that only people in my contacts list can get through after 6pm and before 8.30am. This is really to stop clients calling at all hours. I do have a punting phone though.

[Pasola1]

How can anyone say that they have no need to have a second phone when they punt and do not live alone.
I see it as essential in order to put that part of my life into it's own area.
Even if you are single you are liable to others finding out should you leave your phone lying around or loose if.

most working girls have 2 phones ive noticed

[Red viper]

Get yourself a punting phone mate then you won't get unsolicited texts.
Problem solved 

+1

A punting phone is the way forward if you have something to lose !

[scutty brown]

I don't want a punting phone that's the thing. I have no use for a second phone. I still think it's out of order to text someone sometimes hours later , I'm thinking it's the money aspect. The sp surely should understand that it's completely wrong to message someone randomly.unless they are desperate for custom so then message every Tom dick and Harry when they are broke I don't know. It's the first time it's happened to me and it really annoyed me ,I'll put a review up anyway

Then you are a fool.
What happens if a girl IDs you through the phone number and tries blackmail?
What happens if your wife gets suspicious and checks the phone records? Even if you delete the record from the handset the itemised bill will still show the calls.

In this case it sounds like the girl was just confirming that the meeting was still on, just normal courtesy. The text wasn't unsolicited.
She obviously assumed you were an experienced punter and took precautions such as a punting phone. The fact that you're too naive to protect yourself is your problem, not hers

[myothernameis]

Get yourself a punting phone mate then you won't get unsolicited texts.
Problem solved 

To keep his wife getting suspicious, maybe use a second sim card

[scutty brown]

To keep his wife getting suspicious, maybe use a second sim card

Still leaves a record on the phone

[daviemac]

Then you are a fool.
What happens if a girl IDs you through the phone number and tries blackmail?
What happens if your wife gets suspicious and checks the phone records? Even if you delete the record from the handset the itemised bill will still show the calls.

In this case it sounds like the girl was just confirming that the meeting was still on, just normal courtesy. The text wasn't unsolicited.
She obviously assumed you were an experienced punter and took precautions such as a punting phone. The fact that you're too naive to protect yourself is your problem, not hers

Have you read his review of her, he seems to have some odd ideas, he thinks she can't be in a relationship with the bloke she's BBing with because she was working in Hebburn and he's from the North West.   

[myothernameis]

Still leaves a record on the phone

thanks

[scutty brown]

Have you read his review of her, he seems to have some odd ideas, he thinks she can't be in a relationship with the bloke she's BBing with because she was working in Hebburn and he's from the North West.   

No I hadn't seen that. Arguably a good case for merging this thread into that one?

Whatever, looking at the girl's photos  and profile I get the impression of another NE girl in danger of heading down the teenpanties route. Just something in her facial expression. I hope I'm  wrong

[daviemac]

No I hadn't seen that. Arguably a good case for merging this thread into that one?

Whatever, looking at the girl's photos  and profile I get the impression of another NE girl in danger of heading down the teenpanties route. Just something in her facial expression. I hope I'm  wrong

He posted this first so it would come out on top of the review.

[stardust]

Then you are a fool.
What happens if a girl IDs you through the phone number and tries blackmail?
What happens if your wife gets suspicious and checks the phone records? Even if you delete the record from the handset the itemised bill will still show the calls.

In this case it sounds like the girl was just confirming that the meeting was still on, just normal courtesy. The text wasn't unsolicited.
She obviously assumed you were an experienced punter and took precautions such as a punting phone. The fact that you're too naive to protect yourself is your problem, not hers

Yep,my thoughts exactly when I saw this thread. I've seen this particular WG twice and had no problems with unsolicited texts but then I do have a punting phone. Switch it on in the morning of the punt to confirm the booking and get any messages then. Job done.

[stardust]

No I hadn't seen that. Arguably a good case for merging this thread into that one?

Whatever, looking at the girl's photos  and profile I get the impression of another NE girl in danger of heading down the teenpanties route. Just something in her facial expression. I hope I'm  wrong

Something in her facial expression makes her look like she is going down the teen panties route? I don't understand that statement.

I do think that BB backing the fella is a bit worrying though

[scutty brown]

Something in her facial expression makes her look like she is going down the teen panties route? I don't understand that statement.

I do think that BB backing the fella is a bit worrying though

Its a reference to another girl who went down the drug abuse / psychiatric collapse route, and we've seen similar cases since.
This profile and its photos bear a strong resemblance, though its clearly not the same girl

[stardust]

Its a reference to another girl who went down the drug abuse / psychiatric collapse route, and we've seen similar cases since.
This profile and its photos bear a strong resemblance, though its clearly not the same girl

Thanks for the explanation. She seemed perfectly normal when I saw her last year before lock down. However I personally find it a little worrying that she has continued to work throughout the pandemic, although at least she is up front about it unlike others.
I'm not sure about her bb "partner" who I think is either in the porn industry or an SP or both.

[The Outsider]

No I hadn't seen that. Arguably a good case for merging this thread into that one?

Whatever, looking at the girl's photos  and profile I get the impression of another NE girl in danger of heading down the teenpanties route. Just something in her facial expression. I hope I'm  wrong

Two things:

1) Really? I don't see any similarities whatsoever with TP.  Not a single mention of mental hospitals or photos of her pissing blood.   
2) Even if that was the case, drugs are hardly an exclusively "NE problem".   

[Boob_lover98]

Ive been punting, intermittently, for a long time. I dont think theres any justifiable reason why a sp makes unsolicited calls or texts. It happened to me once and it took a shit load of quick thinking and acting to get out of it and even then my wife at the time wasnt entirely convinced. Having a punting phone is even lore risky imo as the potential for discovery is ever present. The best solution as far as i can see, has already been suggested - set phone to do not disturb except for certain contacts between whatever hours suit you and minimise notification visibility.

Its inexcusable for them to contact you unsolicited. They're not idiots, they know the score but tje consequences arent theirs to bear.