Sussybustynatural - NW1 - Time Waster

[Bassman]

So finally got hold of this one who doesn’t respond to WhatsApp at all unless you are a regular and takes a while to respond to emails.

Comms by text. Agreed a date and time a week in advance. Day before I text to confirm. No response. Checked profile and no green light so assumed day off - phone off etc.

Location: Camden Town. “Free” parking in Sainsbury’s but only if you spend £10. On street pay by phone/app. Over £6 for an hour. 5-10 mins walk up the road from Camden Town tube.

Day of punt. No answer to text in the morning. Phone goes straight to voicemail.  Checked AW, no green light but noticed not she states she starts at 11am. So thought I’d make my way and she’ll prob turn her phone on at some point. Get there a little early. Phones off, no green light. Wait a little past punt time. Nothing. I leave.

Still no comms from her at all. I mean it’s not hard to send a quick text apologising to save someone the journey. Shows her regard for customers.

Reading past reviews she’s done this before. Probably have an excuse of some sort at the ready.

Luckily, whenever I punt this sort of distance away, I make over plans near by so I haven’t wasted my time if this happens. But I’d be a lot more annoyed if I hadn’t and had to travel all the way back after this performance.

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[Weathersmo]

Agree doesn't take long to send a message.. I gave up trying to make a booking as no replies from her. I'll stick to my Thai ladies

[Fu-Qin Boi-Ling]

 Probably have an excuse of some sort at the ready.

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did you not contact her afterwards to find out what happend or didnt she contact you with an excuse??? just curious what excuse she would have used

[Bassman]

did you not contact her afterwards to find out what happend or didnt she contact you with an excuse??? just curious what excuse she would have used

I text when I arrived (10min early). I text her just after the time I booked and then I text when I was leaving. I actually sat in the car for another 10 mins or so whilst speaking to someone on the phone.

I don’t think I need to try to contact her for an explanation.

[Stanmil]

I personally wouldnt go without a confirmation on the day as you cant expect all WGs to be 100% professional. she should have texted you though. Next time you ll know 

[rebelscum]

I text when I arrived (10min early). I text her just after the time I booked and then I text when I was leaving. I actually sat in the car for another 10 mins or so whilst speaking to someone on the phone.

I don’t think I need to try to contact her for an explanation.

Yep, exactly-should be her contacting you Bassman-why chase after her any more and let her waste more of your time?! 

[Payyourwaymate]

She's a member on this site right? Maybe she will post as to her reason for such behaviour like her other threads. Or perhaps the other threads damage potential £££££ wise was too high for her to ignore and she felt compelled to post.

[puntingpumping1920]

Booking a week in advance is OTT for a sex worker like her....unless you want to see her for an overnight
 
2hrs in advance is enough
 
I personally wouldnt travel without a confirmation an hour before an agreed booking

[Bassman]

Booking a week in advance is OTT for a sex worker like her....unless you want to see her for an overnight
 
2hrs in advance is enough
 
I personally wouldnt travel without a confirmation an hour before an agreed booking

OTT or not she was happy to take the booking.

[expeller]

Now in Oxford.

[Convince Me]

When booking days ahead I always state I will text or call on the morning of the meet to confirm, in the process asking what is a good time to make contact. On the day I give them an hours grace after three attempts & if command silent move on.

[Saint.George]

I personally wouldnt travel without a confirmation an hour before an agreed booking

Good advice. This particular SP has a history of ghosting,  which is obviously a problem. But even were she a reliable SP, I almost always reconfirm the morning of and if not confirmed it's basically cancelled. No point in wasting one's time.

[Bassman]

Good advice. This particular SP has a history of ghosting,  which is obviously a problem. But even were she a reliable SP, I almost always reconfirm the morning of and if not confirmed it's basically cancelled. No point in wasting one's time.

Yes I hear this. It’s good advice from all. It’s why I make other plans in the area so if this happens I’m not totally put out. Non punting plans of course. If I’d travelled there and this happened and had to travel all the way home then I’d probably feel worse about it.

But it’s wise words. If I can’t make other plans in the area in the future, I’ll certainly do as mentioned.

[Love23]

Hi

*My policy for new customers is firstly I don’t reply to WhatsApp because many people waste my time with this & we have to gain trust from each other. Second is that you can book in advance up to one week but I expect you to follow it up at least the day before with a call. This is for both our safety and peace of *mind to know that you can definitely still come and for you to know that I am also still available*
*Just because you have my postcode does not automatically make our arrangement final. For you to *then still make the journey to meet me and haven’t spoken to me this is not my fault, most people would surely get confirmation, so if I’m not replying then it’s for a good reason and highly likely will *eventually mean I won’t be able to see you. On this one occasion I had recently been robbed, so I *didn’t have my phone to be able to reply and because of it I have been also working much less these days as it was a frightening experience for me.*
Im sorry for u waster your time - I will very very happy if we can arrange again

Merry Christmas 🎄
And happy new year 
Sussy xx

[Jerk Chicken]

Thanks for the review @Bassman

I really do think this neg is a bit harsh.

You book a week in advance but on the day you hear nothing but make your way??? ... so much shit could have happened in the intervening period. It simply makes no sense to me to assume this booking was still valid.

Even if I book in the morning for an evening punt I seek confirmation again from the SP say 2-3 hours before the booking with a simple text are we still on for x time. If no reply I simply do not make my way.