She's literally done this today. Been trying on and off since 2018, usually she reads her messages after the time I'm able to visit. 3 weeks ago I decided rather than ask for a date I'll let her choose. She agrees a date a week later, asks me to book the appointment then sends me her mob number and postcode. Awesome. I'm excited. The night before we message to confirm. All good. The morning I get a message saying cancelled due covid. Cannot argue with that. Shame.
I wait nearly 3 weeks and do the same. She selects a day nearly a week later, that's fine. I message the night before. Nothing. Needing stuff in town I head off that way and message an hour before the meet. Nothing. Get my bits sorted and message bang on the appointment time of 1030. Completely ghosted.
Ok I think, maybe she forgot. Maybe she turns phone off when not working. That's all fine. So I message on AW to suggest a meet that evening (previous comms said she works evenings too). Unread and deleted!
Like someone else has said about her, all it takes is some comms, an excuse or even an apology. Her comms manner is really poor.
Won't be trying again.