Update to this guys.
Its been nearly 3 weeks since i was supposed to have seen her and she has been messaging me through AW. She thinks this review is wrong and would like me to make factual corrections which i have agreed to as in hind sight i should have mentioned them. This is still a negative review however as at the very least she bailed on the booking. I will let you guys decide if she is worth a visit.
She does not remember our booking texts so this is from her memory.
1. The repeated calls the evening of the booking and the next day or so were from a number different than hers. She says she is independant and only uses one number. Her booking was the only one i had made in months probably and the booking i made after she left me on the curb is well known and i have seen her many, many times and know it wasnt from her, plus that booking actually happened. I cant see any reason why i would be getting messages on that phone demanding payment for a booking that i did not show up to that day if it wasnt her. To be fair i did not engage with the person to find out more details. I just wanted them to stop so ignored them until i tossed the sim. She also says that she only asks for money if the booking didnt happen and it was my fault. Its all very odd timing to me.
2. She says she is independant and its her doing everything. Her texting as mentioned was very poor but her dozen or so emails to me have been fine and well written so i dont know.
3. She says she always has good comms but may have messed up with me. As in my review her comms were fine until the booking was supposed to happen then nothing. And nothing until just yesterday via email actually.
4. She takes no responsibilty for her friend not being available suddenly. It wasnt a big deal to me but i mentioned it in her review as she is actually the one that presented her friend to me as available. Since the booking never happened it doesnt even matter.
5. Her request for another hour before she was ready may have been a double booking or something that caused her to do that. What i didnt write was that i tried to get some more info out of her after she said she needed another hour but i got nothing again. It was one way with me saying ok and if she can confirm an hour. Absolutely nothing at all until yesterday.
She has apologized to me after reading my review and offered to make it up to me so i guess thats something. I honestly dont even know why im writing this, probably the whiskey devil in me. I guess to show her side maybe. She was quite angry and made several threats at first but 7 or 8 emails later she is much softer and apologetic.
Feel free to smash away guys.
"She was quite angry and made several threats at first"
LOL...that is horrific, threats really? what kind of threats....
Sounds like red flags everywhere to be completely honest....a clear case of damage control. The bottom line is that there is a real chance of all sorts going wrong with booking her
1. Being stood up after a long trek
2. The co-incidental cold calling and abusive / threatening phone calls / texts
3. Harrasment on AW account and threatening messages
4. Mini stalking on UKP
essentially now there is absolutely no discretion and people's anonymity is put at risk
going to read through the thread again
All of a sudden the duo thing is a bit suspect though.., at first i didnt read anything into it but after all this
at first i didnt know who you were referring to as i forgot that part of the story but its interesting to know if a). there is something suspect with the friend b) wanted you to bring more money to the venue...HIGHLY unlikely but mind is running wild right now
