Hey guys,
I have been in a relationship for the last few years so haven't been punting, but I have an itch I need to scratch for a PSE session that my Mrs just isn't into. Our sex life is actually great - very intense, and there's a lot I enjoy, but she just isn't comfortable with the more rougher side of things and I'm missing it.
I've been tossing and turning around seeing an escort again. My hesitancy comes from a few things: cheating, betrayal, etc.
I don't need a lecture or anything, and the moral side of things is something I've come to terms with, but I do have one last major doubt - the risk of STIs. A few points below:
- Me and the Mrs are active, but we use condoms for sex as she can't go on the pill, so that's fine. We used to do pull out method but we had a few close calls so don't do that anymore. However, she does give me head.
- Obviously if I were to see a working girl I wouldn't do BB, but I do want OWO. The whole thing I'm missing more than anything is face fucking and stuff, so seeing a working girl and not doing OWO wouldn't tick my boxes.
I see comments from lots of gents with a Mrs at home who they're still active with, but they also see working girls and get OWO.
Any advice on how I can go about this, and if it's just not possible without putting my girl at risk (like serious risk), then let me know and I'll squash this itch straight away.
Thank you
PS: One idea I had was to see a WG whilst my Mrs is coming on her period. Would this give me time to get tested and make sure I'm clear by the time me and the Mrs get going again?