OP, sorry to read of your poor experience but hats off for perceiving.
I'm not sure she does her own comms; did you see her mum/maid sat on the small balcony? I found her head skills admirable, but then I was perched above her, almost throat fucking as I devoured her mango. She also placed my hands on her small titties & encouraged me to squeeze, the same with her arse. I think the face down, arse in the air is the old prozzie trick to get the punter to cum quick. But saying all that she mentions mild dom on her profile, so perhaps that's her thing.
Did she say anything during your punt besides what you've already reported?