Dating a prossie. Is it as bad an idea as it sounds?

[Hanzo7]

The more you post the more you show how clueless you are about this game. A civvy who sleeps around is viewed in a totally different light to escorts and one can't be compared to the other.

Well that depends on who you ask innit mate.

Where I come from, both are seen as slags.

[MissWolf]

Well that depends on who you ask innit mate.

Where I come from, both are seen as slags.

And where i come from one is a business woman and the other is sexually liberated

Mummy needs to limit your Internet time sweetie 

[Hanzo7]

And where i come from one is a business woman and the other is sexually liberated

Mummy needs to limit your Internet time sweetie 

That's fine. I respect your opinion. I don't think you should be censored or cancelled like you are trying to cancel me. All I will say is a lot things are easier to say than do. Show and prove. In the real world,  let's see what people think about this. I guarantee you, you will not find high value men (celebrities, good looking guys) desirous over feminist sexually liberated women. Sorry.

Real life will prove the results. So let's see.

P.S don't call me sweetie. I'm not your sweetie. Thanks.

[daviemac]

Well that depends on who you ask innit mate.

Where I come from, both are seen as slags.

Honestly the more you are posting the more you are proving how little you actually know, prostitution carries a stigma that no civvy carries. Innit bro or whatever I'm supposed to say to make people think I'm cool. 

[MissWolf]

That's fine. I respect your opinion. I don't think you should be censored or cancelled like you are trying to cancel me. All I will say is a lot things are easier to say than do. Show and prove. In the real world,  let's see what people think about this. I guarantee you, you will not find high value men (celebrities, good looking guys) desirous over feminist sexually liberated women. Sorry.

Real life will prove the results. So let's see.

P.S don't call me sweetie. I'm not your sweetie. Thanks.

I'm not trying to  cancel you dear you have as much right to your opinion as have to mine

I just think you are wrong....sweetie 

[king tarzan]

Oh boy another one LOL. There's plenty of younger guys including myself that do not have your view. There's a big difference between a civvy and a pro. You know what, go make a pro your GF and let us know your experience on how that goes.  .

And how much £ went down the KAZI

[Hanzo7]

I'm not trying to  cancel you dear you have as much right to your opinion as have to mine

I just think you are wrong....sweetie 

Thats fine.

Will you please let go of this sweetie thing though? I'm not your client or your main squeeze.

[king tarzan]

Thats fine.

Will you please let go of this sweetie thing though? I'm not your client or your main squeeze.

Her public relations act 😂😂😂

[MissWolf]

Her public relations act 😂😂😂

Nah me just winding him up a treat 

[Hanzo7]

Honestly the more you are posting the more you are proving how little you actually know, prostitution carries a stigma that no civvy carries. Innit bro or whatever I'm supposed to say to make people think I'm cool.

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[Hanzo7]

Nah me just winding him up a treat 

You know it will only take me 200 bucks to wind you down a treat?

[king tarzan]

You know it will only take me 200 bucks to wind you down a treat?

Must be a fittie at that price??

[daviemac]

You know it will only take me 200 bucks to wind you down a treat?

Bucks?? is that deer, rabbits, antelopes or what?

[Hanzo7]

Must be a fittie at that price??

I don't know that's what I usually pay lool.

[Hanzo7]

Bucks?? is that deer, rabbits, antelopes or what?

Beta bucks to be precise.

[daviemac]

Beta bucks to be precise.

Can you try and communicate in English please, you will get on far better here.

[Hanzo7]

Can you try and communicate in English please, you will get on far better here.

Boomer.

[daviemac]

Boomer.

Explain??

[daviemac]

Boomer.

You've got 5 minutes to convince me that isn't the derogatory term I think it is.

[timsussex]

c'mon DaveMac you are getting far too tolerant in your old age

he should have been shown the door hours ago

[Norfolk12345]

Stupidly went all fluffy over a wg a few years back, i was having a torrid time with my partner and work, and this WG was very very very smart, she knew how to hook a bloke and take advantage, she manipulated a meet about 5/6 meeting in into bb sex (yes i know i was an idiot), she made out that it 'just happened' and 'it had NEVER happened before' and like a fkn idiot i believed her, i got very much emotionally attatched to her as she convinced me we were more than just client and wg.
We'd meet for 'dates' etc etc coffee, shopping, cinema, bowling, meals, some of the dates ended in sex for free, but meets at her flat were still paid sex meets,
She was super convincing and very very good at playing me,to the point i left my partner and kids and was convinced that we were going to be together.
I knew she had a cpl of other regs, andone day as i was leaving her flat i saw a guy who i believed to be another reg, so i took a chance and spoke to him, we arranged to meet for a beer and turned out we had both been played the same, he had just lost his wife so was vulnerable and i was in a really bad place.

I dont blame this girl,she was just doing her job the best she could, the fault definately laid at our feet for being soppy bolloked twats and allowing it to happen. The scarey thing is how good this girl was, and how she was BBing both of us and im pretty sure there were more of us, everytime i see a review on her profile now that says 'we shared something very special just between us' i think fk me shes hooked another fish.
Between me and the guy i went for a beer with we worked out she'd had over £20k from just us 2 (me 15months, him 18months)

So while you think your in a 'relationship' your not, your just being played!


I stopped seeing herstraight away and got a test, fk knows how but it was clear.

[The sperminator]

Stupidly went all fluffy over a wg a few years back, i was having a torrid time with my partner and work, and this WG was very very very smart, she knew how to hook a bloke and take advantage, she manipulated a meet about 5/6 meeting in into bb sex (yes i know i was an idiot), she made out that it 'just happened' and 'it had NEVER happened before' and like a fkn idiot i believed her, i got very much emotionally attatched to her as she convinced me we were more than just client and wg.
We'd meet for 'dates' etc etc coffee, shopping, cinema, bowling, meals, some of the dates ended in sex for free, but meets at her flat were still paid sex meets,
She was super convincing and very very good at playing me,to the point i left my partner and kids and was convinced that we were going to be together.
I knew she had a cpl of other regs, andone day as i was leaving her flat i saw a guy who i believed to be another reg, so i took a chance and spoke to him, we arranged to meet for a beer and turned out we had both been played the same, he had just lost his wife so was vulnerable and i was in a really bad place.

I dont blame this girl,she was just doing her job the best she could, the fault definately laid at our feet for being soppy bolloked twats and allowing it to happen. The scarey thing is how good this girl was, and how she was BBing both of us and im pretty sure there were more of us, everytime i see a review on her profile now that says 'we shared something very special just between us' i think fk me shes hooked another fish.
Between me and the guy i went for a beer with we worked out she'd had over £20k from just us 2 (me 15months, him 18months)

So while you think your in a 'relationship' your not, your just being played!


I stopped seeing herstraight away and got a test, fk knows how but it was clear.

Link?

[Norfolk12345]

Link?

I wont put a link because i know she's been on this site before, she will know instantly who i am and she knows where i live, and tbf i can do without the immense hassle that it could cause.

[Norfolk12345]

I wont put a link because i know she's been on this site before, she will know instantly who i am and she knows where i live, and tbf i can do without the immense hassle that it could cause. It was 6yrs ago now and my lifes very different.

[CatBBW]

I wont put a link because i know she's been on this site before, she will know instantly who i am and she knows where i live, and tbf i can do without the immense hassle that it could cause.

Link or not, she'll likely already know, if she's a regular lurker here. Not only did you give your story, you then added to it with the post above and THEN quoted the above post to add how long ago it was!

[Norfolk12345]

Link or not, she'll likely already know, if she's a regular lurker here. Not only did you give your story, you then added to it with the post above and THEN quoted the above post to add how long ago it was!

This is true, but im pretty sure that the only people that will work out who she is are the punter i went for a drink with and her and possibly anybody else that has a situation thats mirrored this experience.

[MissWolf]

This is true, but im pretty sure that the only people that will work out who she is are the punter i went for a drink with and her and possibly anybody else that has a situation thats mirrored this experience.

So if you are sure she could and probably will work it out from your op and subsequent posts as she's on here then the decent thing to do is warn your fellow punting community.
Its probably the only way to also give your story and credence,  unless of course you are still holding out a candle of hope!

[Norfolk12345]

So if you are sure she could and probably will work it out from your op and subsequent posts as she's on here then the decent thing to do is warn your fellow punting community.
Its probably the only way to also give your story and credence,  unless of course you are still holding out a candle of hope!

I wont be posting her name or location, im not bothered if people believe my post or not i didnt post it for any kind of recognition, i just posted what happened to me.
Iike i said i dont blame her for the way she acted, she did her job and did it blooody well, i was the mug as was the other punter.
The rest of the punting community is not my responsabillity.

[CatBBW]

I wont be posting her name or location, im not bothered if people believe my post or not i didnt post it for any kind of recognition, i just posted what happened to me.
Iike i said i dont blame her for the way she acted, she did her job and did it blooody well, i was the mug as was the other punter.
The rest of the punting community is not my responsabillity.

1) she didn't "do her job", because playing people to get them to leave their partner(s) is NOT in a prostitute's job description.

2) You do have a responsibility towards the punting community here, as that's what this site's ethos is about if you are posting here - especially with issues like yours. However, it's not my responsibility to pull you up about this and will leave this point for the punting members here to help you with.


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[daviemac]

I wont put a link because i know she's been on this site before, she will know instantly who i am and she knows where i live, and tbf i can do without the immense hassle that it could cause.

if you aren't prepared to name her you should not have posted your 'story', you need to name her or you get banned. This site is for the benefit of punters and we need to know who this barebacking, manipulative escort is. 

If you think she won't recognise you from what you have already posted you are mistaken.

[daviemac]

c'mon DaveMac you are getting far too tolerant in your old age

he should have been shown the door hours ago

We are trying to give the newbies a chance but far too many seem reluctant to take it.  Like the bloke who said this - "The rest of the punting community is not my responsibility". We are supposed to help each other here.

[funfungoodguy]

'Fraid this is another unfortunate reminder of the fact that there are some very convincing manipulative people out there, in this case a WG who 'rinsed' or 'milked' this guy (and apparently another). Of course this can happen in usual 'relationships' too, outside of the paid sex world. In life generally, think of ways to test her loyalty for example seeing how flexible she is about the boundaries she puts in place. This may be hard if you are vulnerable. hopefully this guy will move on ok. And as mentioned in another thread recently see what she does if you stop paying is a good test of how much she 'loves' you.
 

[daviemac]

I wont be posting her name or location, im not bothered if people believe my post or not i didnt post it for any kind of recognition, i just posted what happened to me.
Iike i said i dont blame her for the way she acted, she did her job and did it blooody well, i was the mug as was the other punter.
The rest of the punting community is not my responsabillity.

Look mate, if you won't name her then you are either a fantasist or you have the wrong attitude to be a member here. You need to name her and you ned to do it quickly.

[smiths]

I wont be posting her name or location, im not bothered if people believe my post or not i didnt post it for any kind of recognition, i just posted what happened to me.
Iike i said i dont blame her for the way she acted, she did her job and did it blooody well, i was the mug as was the other punter.
The rest of the punting community is not my responsabillity.

So if you hold such views what the fuck are you doing joining UKP. You clearly don't give a shit about others so why post this. Fucking waste of space in my view.

[Mr_Shins]

This topic has got heated. Perhaps it should be "off-topic", as it isn't about actual punting per se.

And led to more than one banning. A bit of a shame about AlmondMilk, I think the only issue for her was this is in the wrong forum.

In any case, there are many escorts who have real-life partners, are married and many have children.

If you think of being in a relationship (rather than married) to a WG as simply a good way to get "freebies" then you're going to be doing well. If she was your "regular" in a way that you actually never visited any others, then if you can start getting it for free, then great.

Issues of being in a relationship with someone is you're going to want to introduce her to your friends, your family etc. People will ask about her, what she does, etc. And there's all the stigma in the industry. We ourselves are all punters, I guess. And just because she's seeing other men for money, will she allow you to continue to punt? (Don't worry darling, it's only sex, I'm paying them after all...). Even if you browse on here, well, not allowed and all...you know the rest. And given this is part of "her" world, you'll get detected very easily.

The closest I got was having some free "dates" in addition to paid sessions with one, but that ended due to the COVID, and it wasn't really a relationship, just an agreement we had.

[daviemac]

Norfolk12345 The clock's ticking, I'm trying to give you a chance to redeem yourself here.

[daviemac]

This topic has got heated. Perhaps it should be "off-topic", as it isn't about actual punting per se.

And led to more than one banning. A bit of a shame about AlmondMilk, I think the only issue for her was this is in the wrong forum.

In any case, there are many escorts who have real-life partners, are married and many have children.

If you think of being in a relationship (rather than married) to a WG as simply a good way to get "freebies" then you're going to be doing well. If she was your "regular" in a way that you actually never visited any others, then if you can start getting it for free, then great.

Issues of being in a relationship with someone is you're going to want to introduce her to your friends, your family etc. People will ask about her, what she does, etc. And there's all the stigma in the industry. We ourselves are all punters, I guess. And just because she's seeing other men for money, will she allow you to continue to punt? (Don't worry darling, it's only sex, I'm paying them after all...). Even if you browse on here, well, not allowed and all...you know the rest. And given this is part of "her" world, you'll get detected very easily.

The closest I got was having some free "dates" in addition to paid sessions with one, but that ended due to the COVID, and it wasn't really a relationship, just an agreement we had.

I haven't seen where this has got heated. How do you propose we get this to off topic? and what do you mean about "a shame about AlmondMilk", did you read the banning reason?

[JontyR]

The rest of the punting community is not my responsabillity.

I understand why you say this. But in the light of this post the rest of the community has no responsibility to you.

This may sound harsh but what you have done here is post "you may get scammed by a WG - (especially if you are vulnerable)" but in a very long winded way. The alternative is that you want attention, or therapy. Because of your statement around your responsibility to others you cannot expect anything else other than pelters for this.

After all you spent thousands for this kind of attention. 

[Mr_Shins]

and what do you mean about "a shame about AlmondMilk", did you read the banning reason?

I don't normally want to argue with the moderators, but I'd like to think bannings for multiple accounts are proven / certain rather than "possible". Maybe the "doesn't understand the rules" was a different rule and not that one, and even then I'd like to think members are given a warning first unless they're a deliberate troll. Possibly being a provider means she has to show more respect to the fact this is primarily a punters' forum.

[daviemac]

I don't normally want to argue with the moderators, but I'd like to think bannings for multiple accounts are proven / certain rather than "possible". Maybe the "doesn't understand the rules" was a different rule and not that one, and even then I'd like to think members are given a warning first unless they're a deliberate troll. Possibly being a provider means she has to show more respect to the fact this is primarily a punters' forum.

I'm not prepared to discuss how we look for multiple accounts, or how we decide on the probability of accounts being duplicated, it has nothing to do with you. As far as the rest of your post is concerned you are free to think what you want and I have no inclination to justify myself to you.

As with any moderating decision, if you feel I have acted in any way unfairly or been excessive in any action I have taken feel free to report it to the site owner, Head1. Or if you prefer I will raise the issue with him myself on your behalf.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

'Fraid this is another unfortunate reminder of the fact that there are some very convincing manipulative people out there, in this case a WG who 'rinsed' or 'milked' this guy (and apparently another). Of course this can happen in usual 'relationships' too, outside of the paid sex world. In life generally, think of ways to test her loyalty for example seeing how flexible she is about the boundaries she puts in place. This may be hard if you are vulnerable. hopefully this guy will move on ok. And as mentioned in another thread recently see what she does if you stop paying is a good test of how much she 'loves' you.

When i think of how much the divorce cost me, and it wasnt my fault, puntings cheap!...

Perhaps that woman just had a grudge with men?, and was affecting retribution? we don't know all her past history and some blokes feel rather "sore" about women, and in a lot of cases for very good reason..

[Mr_Shins]

When i think of how much the divorce cost me, and it wasnt my fault, puntings cheap!...

Perhaps that woman just had a grudge with men?, and was affecting retribution? we don't know all her past history and some blokes feel rather "sore" about women, and in a lot of cases for very good reason..

Indeed it is, my divorce was terrible and cleaned me out.

[daviemac]

Indeed it is, my divorce was terrible and cleaned me out.

Do you want me to raise your concerns or are you doing it yourself.

[Mr_Shins]

Do you want me to raise your concerns or are you doing it yourself.

Admin decisions are for admins to discuss, so I'll let you discuss the policy with Head1. If users are going to have say in this policy it doesn't belong in this topic.

[Colston36]

Really, lovely word and mindset  so a woman having multiple partners  before she settles down is tainted

What about a man........is he tainted too......no? Ah maybe he's just a stud....yes?

 

Ah! As we all know, a man who has had "multiple" - American for many - partners is a dashing fine fellow. But a woman is "tainted". What drivel. 

[Colston36]

Bollocks 

Polygyny means marrying several women. Practiced in some Muslim countries, where in some cases another practice is locking them up or setting fire to them.

[daviemac]

Admin decisions are for admins to discuss, so I'll let you discuss the policy with Head1. If users are going to have say in this policy it doesn't belong in this topic.

I'm asking you if you want me to raise the specific issues you mentioned on this thread and about this thread, not the policies of the site in general.

I don't normally want to argue with the moderators, but I'd like to think bannings for multiple accounts are proven / certain rather than "possible". Maybe the "doesn't understand the rules" was a different rule and not that one, and even then I'd like to think members are given a warning first unless they're a deliberate troll. Possibly being a provider means she has to show more respect to the fact this is primarily a punters' forum.

You are implying I have banned someone without reasonable suspicion of a duplicate account. You are also suggesting I acted hastily in banning her as, according to you, I should have warned her first.

These are all moderation matters that you are questioning and therefore should be refereed to the site owner to see if your concerns are justified. Something I am more than happy with should at any time any member feels I have acted unfairly or unjustly in any situation. If Head1 then feels a decision I have made is wrong he will reverse it.

[Mr_Shins]

I'm asking you if you want me to raise the specific issues you mentioned on this thread and about this thread, not the policies of the site in general.

You are implying I have banned someone without reasonable suspicion of a duplicate account. You are also suggesting I acted hastily in banning her as, according to you, I should have warned her first.

These are all moderation matters that you are questioning and therefore should be refereed to the site owner to see if your concerns are justified. Something I am more than happy with should at any time any member feels I have acted unfairly or unjustly in any situation. If Head1 then feels a decision I have made is wrong he will reverse it.

Can we switch this discussion to the "Forum Issues" post where it is more on-topic?

[daviemac]

Can we switch this discussion to the "Forum Issues" post where it is more on-topic?

It has nothing to do with Forum Issues. You have expressed concerns about how I have conducted myself on this thread so it is a simple question that requires a yes or no answer.

Do you want me to raise the concerns you have with the way I have conducted myself on this thread with Head1 for him to look at.

Edit

had you thought it was a general forum issue you should have raised it in the relevant thread, you didn't you raised it here.

[Shearer1955]

The mods are acting on behalf of the responsible members ... I have no qualms in letting them do their jobs which is at the behest of Head1