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Offline freddytb1

We can all agree that sex without a condom (with some you know and trust) feels better than sex with a johnny. Now I would never bareback an escort but at least to enhance my experience somewhat I will often bring condoms that I prefer the feel of rather than using the 'standard issue' condoms that the girls provide.

For anyone who is interested I use SKYN.

Do you guys do the same? If so which are your condoms of choice?

Offline AnthG

Do you guys do the same? If so which are your condoms of choice?

I always do as girls I tend to see usually have free ones from the gum clinic that are pretty naff.

My choice; Mates SKYN Extra Lubicated Condoms that are often on sale at Asda.
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Offline freddytb1

I always do as girls I tend to see usually have free ones from the gum clinic that are pretty naff.

My choice; Mates SKYN Extra Lubicated Condoms that are often on sale at Asda.

Snap!
Funny thing is when I first started bringing them I kept pulling out and checking that the condom hadn't come off because it felt that much better than the usual crappy ones  :lol:

Offline The Owl

Never needed to. All the escorts I've seen repeatedly have had the right size condom for me and only one used one of those really solid no feeling condoms.

I thought it wasn't wise for escorts to let punters use their own condoms because of the increased risk of sabotage? Seems like a risky habit for a sex worker.

Offline Vic69

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I know everyone works differently, but if a client bought his own condoms along it would unsettle me a bit and i would have to insist on using my own or cancel the booking, if a client had a favourite brand and mentioned it ahead of the booking I would get them in specifically for him.

Offline freddytb1

Never needed to. All the escorts I've seen repeatedly have had the right size condom for me and only one used one of those really solid no feeling condoms.

I thought it wasn't wise for escorts to let punters use their own condoms because of the increased risk of sabotage? Seems like a risky habit for a sex worker.

Yeah don't get me wrong I'm not saying it's not pleasurable using the condoms they provide, but they usually aren't 'luxury' by any means. I've yet to come across a girl who goes out and buys ultra thin or ribbed etc condoms, likely because of the price tag.

I do take on board the point about them being wary of punters' own supplies though.

Offline freddytb1

I know everyone works differently, but if a client bought his own condoms along it would unsettle me a bit and i would have to insist on using my own or cancel the booking, if a client had a favourite brand and mentioned it ahead of the booking I would get them in specifically for him.

Yeah I get that. I mean if a girl told me she would prefer to use her own I wouldn't put up a fight at all.
I guess it's best to mention it on the phone beforehand in any case

Offline Vic69

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I usually carry a big selection of condoms for all shapes and sizes lol, I have the ultra thin Japanese ones too. I don't know why other ladies would carry cheap ones, it's not worth the risk of saving a few ££ especially when we charge good rates for our services(plus they are tax deductible lol)

Offline Jerk Chicken

Unless it is a last min punt I always bring my own condoms more as a back up.

Durex thin feel is my preference.

Punts and condom preference tend to be a mix bag. I let the SP lead. If she offers a a mac I am happy with then no issue of if not I'll politely suggest I have alternatives.

Never had an issue when I use my own.
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Offline freddytb1

I usually carry a big selection of condoms for all shapes and sizes lol, I have the ultra thin Japanese ones too. I don't know why other ladies would carry cheap ones, it's not worth the risk of saving a few ££ especially when we charge good rates for our services(plus they are tax deductible lol)

Well either you're in the minority who do this or I go for the wrong girls haha

Offline freddytb1

Unless it is a last min punt I always bring my own condoms more as a back up.

Durex thin feel is my preference.

Punts and condom preference tend to be a mix bag. I let the SP lead. If she offers a a mac I am happy with then no issue of if not I'll politely suggest I have alternatives.

Never had an issue when I use my own.

Have you tried the Durex 'invisible' range at all? Been meaning to give them a go

Offline B4bcock

A couple of years ago I had a good punt ruined by a condom which was way too tight and as thick as a bicycle inner tube.   When I got home I went online and was intrigued to find that, just as ladies get measured for a correct fitting bra, we gents can also check our dimensions and then choose appropriate condoms.   I now take Skyns with me to most punts and, usually after a cursory check over, every WG so far has had no qualms about using them.   They occasionally ask why I want to use them, but when I explain about the fit and sensitivity issues they are happy to go ahead.   Another plus for me with Skyns is that they are non latex, unlike Durex etc which can leave me with a slight itching after use.

Offline Jerk Chicken

Have you tried the Durex 'invisible' range at all? Been meaning to give them a go

I have not ... but now you have mentioned am going to pick up a pack to see how the compare.
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I used to take Sagami 0.2 Large (because they are a Japanese brand) but now take Skyns with extra lube. The Sagamis are a little noisy, sounds like a crisp packet. The girls said that it felt like bareback as they could feel the penis heat. I became confident with any brand once I became comfortable wearing Sagamis and Skyns. But having bareback civvie sex may have undermined my training. Not all WGs allow me to use my own but I never make a scene.  Condomless with the gf was a Eurika moment as I hadn't felt that sensation for so long because a condom is still a bit numbing on a circumcised member.

Offline winkywanky

Durex etc which can leave me with a slight itching after use.


That's funny, I normally find I start off with an itch and then it goes away afterwards  :unknown:

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That's funny, I normally find I start off with an itch and then it goes away afterwards  :unknown:

 :D

It's when you start itching a week or so later you have to worry.   :)

Offline JimmySW

I used to take the XL Sagami's with me but I find them a little too narrow, I bought a load of EXS Air Thin Condoms from Amazon that I find quite good, I guess we're all looking for the holy grail!

Skyn's are quite good and I only get told I can't use my own rarely.

Offline Strawberry

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I always do as girls I tend to see usually have free ones from the gum clinic that are pretty naff.

My choice; Mates SKYN Extra Lubicated Condoms that are often on sale at Asda.

I often have Mates Skyns available, including some of the EL you mention, as well as the standard MS. If a punter brings his own yes I may be a little anxious, partly because I don't know what he has done with these condoms. A packet with the outer plastic seal intact around the box would be reassuring. Also very early on someone used lambskin condoms which I later discovered are not impermeable to organisms, so are essentially contraceptives not an effective barrier for STIs. My standard has and seems likely always will be Mates Natural which have a slightly sweet tang and aroma to them, roll on well and roll off well.

Following a mention on here I started trialling Pasante Unique earlier this year, these are quite different as I found out on first attempt which I really botched up. Luckily only at home, not on a punter! Some really like them, some do not, one thing to watch is the lack of elastic band at the bottom makes continuing after ejaculation risky. Some guys do like to carry on, and it's not always obvious they have climaxed - so can be a two way thing. There are other pros and cons to these condoms.
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In 2020 BC (before Covid 19) one of the ladies I spend time with also was experimenting with Pasante Unique. Our joint consumer report I can say is favorable. The sensations experienced were mutually satisfactory. They are a bit more expensive of course.
Ruth mentioned the issue of post-orgasm dribbling and this is definitely a problem in my case as I de-tumesce quite rapidly after orgasm and there is a fair bit of 'pipe work' to shrink into the Tangas for the journey home.
The range includes non latex products which is good as one lady I visit is allergic to Latex.

Offline Vic69

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I often have Mates Skyns available, including some of the EL you mention, as well as the standard MS. If a punter brings his own yes I may be a little anxious, partly because I don't know what he has done with these condoms. A packet with the outer plastic seal intact around the box would be reassuring. Also very early on someone used lambskin condoms which I later discovered are not impermeable to organisms, so are essentially contraceptives not an effective barrier for STIs. My standard has and seems likely always will be Mates Natural which have a slightly sweet tang and aroma to them, roll on well and roll off well.

Following a mention on here I started trialling Pasante Unique earlier this year, these are quite different as I found out on first attempt which I really botched up. Luckily only at home, not on a punter! Some really like them, some do not, one thing to watch is the lack of elastic band at the bottom makes continuing after ejaculation risky. Some guys do like to carry on, and it's not always obvious they have climaxed - so can be a two way thing. There are other pros and cons to these condoms.

My condom of choice is pasante,  they are really satisfying how they roll on for some reason!  For the bigger gent I use Trojan Magnums.  The only ones I dont like to use are durex extra safe, when i first started years ago I had 2 go on me with a client (i think this was more the fact he was really going for it and not enough lube used, but has put me off them).

Offline AnthG

I often have Mates Skyns available, including some of the EL you mention, as well as the standard MS. If a punter brings his own yes I may be a little anxious, partly because I don't know what he has done with these condoms.

I usually carry a big selection of condoms for all shapes and sizes lol,

I am guessing 69 is your DOB and as such I think its the older escorts who do this. The younger ones (as in early to mid-20s) are usually partying all night and just wake up, dash of makeup and let the agency driver take her into work hungover and thus are never this level of prepared in my experience. And this is from about 150 or so punts now with that < the overriding trend by far.

And I also think they will see a punter using his own as "thank God he is saving me from running down my own supply"
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I am guessing 69 is your DOB and as such I think its the older escorts who do this. The younger ones (as in early to mid-20s) are usually partying all night and just wake up, dash of makeup and let the agency driver take her into work hungover and thus are never this level of prepared in my experience. And this is from about 150 or so punts now with that < the overriding trend by far.

And I also think they will see a punter using his own as "thank God he is saving me from running down my own supply"
You missed they are all drugged up as well as pissed from your generalisation.   :wacko:

Offline AnthG

You missed they are all drugged up as well as pissed from your generalisation.   :wacko:

Sorry for my generalising, I wasn't intending to there. It is Sunday and I was up all last night till late. (I could say I was partying to make myself appear cool, but no I was watching a Star Trek Voyager double bill episode :) )
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Offline Adoniron

I have never taken my own condoms. Usually whatever the girl provides is fine, except I have had a couple of occasions when it seemed we were using industrial standard rubber hose, in which case I would mention it in my report.

Offline Vic69

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I am guessing 69 is your DOB and as such I think its the older escorts who do this. The younger ones (as in early to mid-20s) are usually partying all night and just wake up, dash of makeup and let the agency driver take her into work hungover and thus are never this level of prepared in my experience. And this is from about 150 or so punts now with that < the overriding trend by far.

And I also think they will see a punter using his own as "thank God he is saving me from running down my own supply"

You are quite right in your assumption.  I am of the generation that grew up with the gravestone adverts of the 80's that put the fear of god in us! I was thinking the other day, that with the current pandemic are we now going to have a generation of kids that are quite standoffish and not tactile?

Offline B4bcock

For me, there is also a degree of psychology in taking a condom with me which I know will be comfortable.   It's one less thing to worry about, especially if it's a first meet.  If you glance at the bedside cabinet and spot a make of condom you don't recognise, it can set off a niggle in the back of your mind that can add a bit of tension to your meeting.

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For me, there is also a degree of psychology in taking a condom with me which I know will be comfortable.   It's one less thing to worry about, especially if it's a first meet.  If you glance at the bedside cabinet and spot a make of condom you don't recognise, it can set off a niggle in the back of your mind that can add a bit of tension to your meeting.

I get that, but if I was a punter and I went to visit a lady and all she had was cheap unknown brands of condoms on offer  I think I would walk, because I would start questioning how seriously she takes her health and that of her clients.

Offline AnthG

I get that, but if I was a punter and I went to visit a lady and all she had was cheap unknown brands of condoms on offer  I think I would walk, because I would start questioning how seriously she takes her health and that of her clients.

Equally though, you could argue if they use ones from the Gum clinic. They have been deemed as the safest there are to be ones deemed suitable to be given away by them.

The problem is, safe, and enjoyable are often not the same.
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Offline sparkus

I always do when visiting massage shops and I know the girl I'm going to see is a goer or has been reported on here as offering FS.  I even used to take flavoured (which aren't reliable) and proper condoms but discovered that most SPs who provide FS don't seem to mind the taste of normal condoms.  This of course does add extra outlay to the experience and it's preferable when the SP just whips a magic condom out of her little bag of tricks in the room.

I've been livid to walk away from a shop with unused johnnies I couldn't take home.

Offline Belgarion

After a visit to a porn star that didn't have any, I always keep a couple of packs with me (unopened).

Every other SP I've seen has had suitable supplies.

Offline Kool Keef

In my early punting days I used to struggle keeping wood throughout the punt because of the rubbers some WGs used, a punting pal told me he took his own so I thought I'd do the same,.
I tried it for the first time at a parlour punt.
The WG didn't approve of the idea to put it mildly  :scare:
Haven't tried it since.  :sarcastic:

Offline freddytb1

I have not ... but now you have mentioned am going to pick up a pack to see how the compare.

Let me know what you think! Ordered a batch of SKYN 'intense' myself as they have a sale on

Offline Jerk Chicken

Let me know what you think! Ordered a batch of SKYN 'intense' myself as they have a sale on

Funny what UKP comrades in arms incentivises you to do!

Jumped online and ordered a batch of invisibles, the one you just mentioned lol plus some of the others doscissed in this thread ready for my first post Covid punt. If they are an improvement on Durex thin then happy days ahead  :rolleyes: 
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I take my own.

Early in my punting career, a johnny slipped off when I pulled out which freaked both me and the SP out. Obviously she had to find it.  :scare: Afterwards I went away and looked into condoms that "fit" me. Here's the link I used that has width and length of lots of makes, just measure yourself first. Glad to say since I started taking my own, zero issues.  :thumbsup:

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Equally though, you could argue if they use ones from the Gum clinic. They have been deemed as the safest there are to be ones deemed suitable to be given away by them.

The problem is, safe, and enjoyable are often not the same.

I have a suspicion a 'deal' may also be involved sometimes they are Durex, sometimes Pasante which I find plasticky (apart from the Unique I mentioned which I doubt the NHS would provide), occasionally Mates Skyns are provided as a latex free option. The Freedoms online shop run by an NHS authority can be a useful source, have bought from there a few times. Years ago the packs given out contained Durex flavoured, bright green apple, yellow banana, orange orange.

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I know everyone works differently, but if a client bought his own condoms along it would unsettle me a bit and i would have to insist on using my own or cancel the booking, if a client had a favourite brand and mentioned it ahead of the booking I would get them in specifically for him.

Excellent post, this is my thoughts and feelings too

I use skyns as they are latex free and feel much nicer, they also don't numb your lips and mouth or taste disgusting like Durex, when doing OW which gets requested more often than you guys think.

I carry the standard and the extra large and I also carry passante in slim fit and king size, like others if you wanted flavoured or ribbed or something else out of the ordinary then a bit of pre warning and they can be bought in advance.

My local gum clinic give out skyns if you ask for latex free which is how I discovered them, durex make me sore.

Ebay is a great source for bulk purchases of condoms at a really good price.
« Last Edit: June 21, 2020, 04:56:31 pm by MissWolf »

Offline freddytb1

Funny what UKP comrades in arms incentivises you to do!

Jumped online and ordered a batch of invisibles, the one you just mentioned lol plus some of the others doscissed in this thread ready for my first post Covid punt. If they are an improvement on Durex thin then happy days ahead  :rolleyes:

Haha nice let me know how they suit!

This can be the official condom discussion/appreciate thread  :D

Offline winkywanky

:D

It's when you start itching a week or so later you have to worry.   :)


Indeed. Thankfully it hasn't happened yet  :cool:

Offline freddytb1

I take my own.

Early in my punting career, a johnny slipped off when I pulled out which freaked both me and the SP out. Obviously she had to find it.  :scare: Afterwards I went away and looked into condoms that "fit" me. Here's the link I used that has width and length of lots of makes, just measure yourself first. Glad to say since I started taking my own, zero issues.  :thumbsup:

External Link/Members Only

I have heard others swear by made-to-measure ones too, might try it out one day. Thankfully I'm around bang-on average so the regular ones are usually ok

Offline freddytb1

Excellent post, this is my thoughts and feelings too

I use skyns as they are latex free and feel much nicer, they also don't numb your lips and mouth or taste disgusting like Durex, when doing OW which gets requested more often than you guys think.

I carry the standard and the extra large and I also carry passante in slim fit and king size, like others if you wanted flavoured or ribbed or something else out of the ordinary then a bit of pre warning and they can be bought in advance.

My local gum clinic give out skyns if you ask for latex free which is how I discovered them, durex make me sore.

Ebay is a great source for bulk purchases of condoms at a really good price.

I wish most girls did this! Maybe I will start asking in advance what range they have, thanks for the advice

Offline Daffodil

I use whatever they have!

I’ve not read the thread but my understanding is some girls wont trust a punters condoms?

Regardless I can get off in any johnny and it’s one of the small things they’ll pay for. I actually cancelled a punt recently because she asked if I’d pick some up on my way and a pack of cigarettes. Punting is meant to be about my convenience.

Offline B4bcock

Let me know what you think! Ordered a batch of SKYN 'intense' myself as they have a sale on

Better check their 'best before' date, they may perish before you get to use them according to your previous post;

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I don't see how that's relevant to this post. If you look at my profile you can also see that I hardly use this site and hardly punt in general
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I am intrigued to know why someone who has been a member here for 5 years chooses not to read the reviews but instead goes on AW reviews and gut instinct.   Please tell.
  Most of your posts ask for information and definitely give the impression you are a regular punter.

Offline mrfishyfoo

I usually carry a big selection of condoms for all shapes and sizes lol, I have the ultra thin Japanese ones too. I don't know why other ladies would carry cheap ones, it's not worth the risk of saving a few ££ especially when we charge good rates for our services(plus they are tax deductible lol)

That's a novelty as most lasses haven't even heard of them.  :hi: :hi:

I take a full unopened box if the lass is new to me.

Never been refused.


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That's a novelty as most lasses haven't even heard of them.  :hi: :hi:

I take a full unopened box if the lass is new to me.

Never been refused.

If it was a single condom out of your wallet I'd refuse and ask you to use mine

A fresh sealed pack of 3 with the cellophane still intact is a different thing,  except if they are Durex, as in my case as they make me sore and itchy  :(

Offline Jerk Chicken

I use whatever they have!

I’ve not read the thread but my understanding is some girls wont trust a punters condoms?

Regardless I can get off in any johnny and it’s one of the small things they’ll pay for. I actually cancelled a punt recently because she asked if I’d pick some up on my way and a pack of cigarettes. Punting is meant to be about my convenience.

Good decision bro.

Whilst I have no issue with a SP asking if I can pick up some protection en-route ..  fags is a big no-no. I recall many moons ago one SP asking if I could top up her work phone via a £10 online voucher and she will deduct from the cost of the booking. I cancelled.
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Offline freddytb1

Better check their 'best before' date, they may perish before you get to use them according to your previous post

Contrary to popular belief some people have sex with girls who aren't escorts  :lol:
Anyway, I'm staying on topic now. I don't need to justify myself to 20 odd butthurt dudes who come out the woodworks to jump on the 'let's attack someone' bandwagon  :coolgirl:

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Good decision bro.

Whilst I have no issue with a SP asking if I can pick up some protection en-route ..  fags is a big no-no. I recall many moons ago one SP asking if I could top up her work phone via a £10 online voucher and she will deduct from the cost of the booking. I cancelled.

Good shout, although some people may look down on the profession/indulgence of punting, a degree of professionalism is still required in my books

Offline B4bcock

Contrary to popular belief some people have sex with girls who aren't escorts  :lol:
Anyway, I'm staying on topic now. I don't need to justify myself to 20 odd butthurt dudes who come out the woodworks to jump on the 'let's attack someone' bandwagon  :coolgirl:

I did not attack you, and it's a bit rich to say I'm the one coming out of the woodwork!  Simply asked why you choose to ignore reviews on here in favour of AW feedback and gut instinct.  I think many others on here would also be interested to hear your reply, but I doubt we will get a sensible one.

It also seems a little strange that you claim to have been having civvy sex, using condoms, but don't appear to have put much effort into finding the best ones to use.

Offline B4bcock

Good shout, although some people may look down on the profession/indulgence of punting, a degree of professionalism is still required in my books

Jeez!  You say you hardly ever punt and suddenly you're a fucking professional!   Make your mind up.   
 

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Whilst I have no issue with a SP asking if I can pick up some protection en-route ..

It’s happened to me once, I did, but it was a crap punt and I should have cancelled.

It’s a sign of piss poor planning.

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