Has anyone had an affair ?

[no2punter]

No, not really ever been in an actual relationship.

[A Decent Fist]

No, not really ever been in an actual relationship.

Is that your choice (which is a perfectly reasonable one if so)? Or do you qualify as one of those Incels we keep hearing about?

[Home Alone]

No; but the OH did.

Shortly before she pissed off with the bloke!

It took a while to come to terms with it, but once I had, not only have I never looked back; but I became a punter and have had arguably the most enjoyable years of my life!

[Animalbeast]

When relationships start to go sour or I sense the other sides interests has dropped then I actively start to consider my options and make new female friends sometimes I’ve already had sex with them before the current relationship ends . Psychologically it’s the best thing to do and when you know a relationship is going to end as it prepares you in advance and you can just move on. Besides, once a girl starts acting different high chance she’s already fucking someone else and lining up your replacement so might as well do the same. But beyond that, when I’m happy and sense the other half is fully committed I’d never cheat and have even turned down opportunities.

[hungrypunt]

No; but the OH did.

Shortly before she pissed off with the bloke!

It took a while to come to terms with it, but once I had, not only have I never looked back; but I became a punter and have had arguably the most enjoyable years of my life!

I seriously look back and think getting married was just not needed. It was just was the thing to do at the time.
The only good thing to come out of it was my brilliant grown up kids who are contributing well to society. And since being single again, its much better.

I have relationships flings with girls without the hassle for both of us and can punt with a clean mind

[Metalgear2018]

The truth is. Its very very common.

Its crazy to only think of having sex with one partner for the rest of your life.

[boffin]

Has anyone who is married or in a long term relationship had an affair?

If so ,how did it happen,and what became of it ?

I was a serial philanderer and had several affairs the last one with a close friend of my wife (absolute madness), my wife found out and wasn't very happy, we went to relate and sorted things out, I've stuck to punting ever since and my punting phone stays in the office.

[Mr Sinister]

Besides, once a girl starts acting different high chance she’s already fucking someone else and lining up your replacement so might as well do the same.

Branch swinging.

I had a couple affairs in a previous relationship, 1 full year, I don't know why I did it but I did. You bizarrely slip into a routine of seeing the other one. 1 girl who I was cheating with knew I was "taken" but was cool with it so fucked her and got my dick sucked at every opportunity as she enjoyed giving it, once she became emotionally invested I dipped out, that always eventually happens.