Online dating tinder experiment for woman using a mans tinder account

[Payyourwaymate]

May be of interest to some.

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In short, she really could not believe how much harder it was being a guy on tinder than being a girl and what men had to put up with trying to even initiate a convo  .


Another video on womens perspective with online dating apps.

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[MilleMiglia]

Had heard of this one. Is it any wonder that some guys just give it up as a bad job, and decide to go P4P instead?

[winkywanky]

They'll complain about all the fuckwits they meet, while not recognising they simply chose the wrong ones.

T'was ever so  .

[Chorley]

An old work colleaugue showed me her dating profiles and she was absolutely inundated with messages. I recall her telling me she'd been on one site for only a matter of days and had over 300 messages

I've been on and off the sites for years and the sum total of my efforts is one fucking date!  And cheeky fucker had been using older pictures so when she turned up I almost didn't recoginise her as she'd put on so much bloody weight! 

Not that I'm bitter or anything? 

[winkywanky]

Is that the Polish(?) bird in your office who you'd previously mentioned, who delighted in telling you all the naughty shit she got up to on her dates?

[Chorley]

Is that the Polish(?) bird in your office who you'd previously mentioned, who delighted in telling you all the naughty shit she got up to on her dates?

No . She and the other Polish girl were serial shaggers, even though they were in relatinships/married
 This was a smoking hot, but completely mental Thai MILF that I used to work with. She looked a bit like the porn star Suzie Q, so I'm not surpised she got spammed. 

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[winkywanky]

I know you cannot for one minute out yourself, but where the fuck do you work, that you get to be around all these dirty, predatory women?   

And...are you quite sure you're telling us everything?

[Chorley]

I know you cannot for one minute out yourself, but where the fuck do you work, that you get to be around all these dirty, predatory women?   

And...are you quite sure you're telling us everything?

She was from another job. And since that one foray into work place relationships when I was young and naive I promised myself never ever to shit on my doorstep again.    And just to add that as hot as she was, I probably (a) wouldn't have had a hope in hell anyway (b) She was compleltely mental, even for a Thai and I've never met anyone who had so much drama in their life before or since.

[winkywanky]

She was compleltely mental, even for a Thai and I've never met anyone who had so much drama in their life before or since.

Fair enough 

[Chorley]

Fair enough 

I can forward  you her number if you want? I'm sure she probably knows a ladyboy who can join you for some shenanigans. 

[winkywanky]

I can forward  you her number if you want? I'm sure she probably knows a ladyboy who can join you for some shenanigans. 

You know the drill Chorley, PM please 

[LittleMan86]

Tinder has done to dating and mating what Amazon has done to the retail market. Same with other dating apps. Hence the rise of so called Involuntary Celibate males who can't compete in a looks worshipped society where only the top men get sex freely.

[LittleMan86]

Tinder has done to dating and mating what Amazon has done to the retail market. Same with other dating apps. Hence the rise of so called Involuntary Celibate males who can't compete in a looks worshipped society where only the top men get sex freely.

I meant to say *Amazon*

[LittleMan86]

I meant to say *A.M.A.Z.ON*

[korx]

I meant to say *Axxxxxx*

South american river is censored to save on it getting picked up on web searchs

[Payyourwaymate]

lol wtf was wrong with L86  .

[Mr_Shins]

I watched that video. Also another one where they put an experimental male profile who used a male model photo but said they were a rapist, and yet he got loads of hits. And another one where they interviewed women about how they use Tinder. Apparently in Jakarta you'll get loads of dates, so if you like Indonesian women and fancy travelling there, you may be in luck.

My experience with these dating site / apps is they're all based on the same model, which is good for them but bad for men to find dates. They let you create a profile "for free" then expect you to pay this and that and even more to "boost" your chances, and of course the more you fail the more you have to pay to keep going.

They say "women are more picky". I guess that's the case. For me a woman needs to be average looking, and then it's more about her personality. Women may claim it's about personality but it appears to be all about looks to them.

As myself I've generally been after casual dating I'm far less picky, avoiding primarily women who are exposing too much, and WYP is by far the best dating app for me to find dates. Offer a few tenners and they'll come out and meet you. £50 is usually quite enough to secure a few dates. Don't expect sex from them, certainly not on the first meeting, but if you play them right, they may eventually offer it - even free.

[willie loman]

what is wyp?

[Payyourwaymate]

what is wyp?

I think it's whats your price. It's like SA I think.

[Yankee41]

I think i have been lucky as i generally let the girls on the sites come to me when i was doing it.   Not much work on my part either, just basic info and a few shit pictures.  Maybe go in every once in a while and swipe around.  I would only reply to women that seemed genuine and ignored the fakes or out of my league girls.  I can say i never had a bad date from them.  A few i still talk to years later as well.

[Mr_Shins]

What's Your Price is owned by the same people as Seeking, but is far more about dating than making a SB-SD relationship. You agree a price for which that person will meet you and then pay credits to open the conversation. The higher the bid, the higher the number of credits, but apart from buying credits, there are no other fees for using the site, and you can save the credits to use later, even if you de-activate your profile (mine is currently deactivated).

If you think of it as a dating site and don't expect sex, you'll do very well.

The main thing is, you will get dates there. Whereas on Tinder / Match / Bumble or whatever, a man is likely to not get any. If you have spare money and just want to get dates, that's your best option.

[JontyR]

Conscious this may look like a bragging post but I have recently joined tinder and I'm having a decent amount of success.

I think the difference is that I am never going to pull a 20-something dolly bird on there which I could pay for. But I am doing alright with a number of matches, knobbed one. Another seems (a little bit too) desperate for a go. I've "missed" a load of matches, but to be honest there seems to have been a lot of women on there who had very difficult and long paper rounds or spent their entire childhood picking up the Hovis.

Seems like quite a nice possible balance for me for now. The getting to know you stage provides companionship, the possibility of other avenues to experiences things not otherwise open remains. Should things move on emotionally then you reassess but - and here's the advantage of tinder - there seems to be a recognition that monogamy is a step further away than in the traditional ways of meeting.  Live and learn, but if I disappear without fanfare in the coming months you can guess what's happened.

[cotton]

Conscious this may look like a bragging post but I have recently joined tinder and I'm having a decent amount of success.

I think the difference is that I am never going to pull a 20-something dolly bird on there which I could pay for. But I am doing alright with a number of matches, knobbed one. Another seems (a little bit too) desperate for a go. I've "missed" a load of matches, but to be honest there seems to have been a lot of women on there who had very difficult and long paper rounds or spent their entire childhood picking up the Hovis.

Seems like quite a nice possible balance for me for now. The getting to know you stage provides companionship, the possibility of other avenues to experiences things not otherwise open remains. Should things move on emotionally then you reassess but - and here's the advantage of tinder - there seems to be a recognition that monogamy is a step further away than in the traditional ways of meeting.  Live and learn, but if I disappear without fanfare in the coming months you can guess what's happened.

Wtf does that mean , please enough of this talking in riddles shit 

[Mr_Shins]

Conscious this may look like a bragging post but I have recently joined tinder and I'm having a decent amount of success.

I think the difference is that I am never going to pull a 20-something dolly bird on there which I could pay for. But I am doing alright with a number of matches, knobbed one. Another seems (a little bit too) desperate for a go. I've "missed" a load of matches, but to be honest there seems to have been a lot of women on there who had very difficult and long paper rounds or spent their entire childhood picking up the Hovis.

Seems like quite a nice possible balance for me for now. The getting to know you stage provides companionship, the possibility of other avenues to experiences things not otherwise open remains. Should things move on emotionally then you reassess but - and here's the advantage of tinder - there seems to be a recognition that monogamy is a step further away than in the traditional ways of meeting.  Live and learn, but if I disappear without fanfare in the coming months you can guess what's happened.

You mean you have more success if you pick the older and uglier ones? No surprise about the less pretty ones but I found on my short time on "match" that the older ones are often even more picky about who they meet, as they have already decided to "filter out" the ones that don't meet their spec and are not "desperate". That was over a year ago though before all this COVID and I guess people were less isolated then.

Given I had a 2 weeks "cancellation" period I wanted to see if I could get a single date in those two weeks. I did get conversations going, but didn't meet any of them. One of them we were going well then she just "cut" it and told me she'd met someone else. That often happens on dating sites, although with me, I arrange to meet all of them because I don't know "how it will go" until I've actually met them.

[JontyR]

Wtf does that mean , please enough of this talking in riddles shit 

Well as you asked so nicely I'll type this response slowly, I know you can't read very fast.

They look much older than their stated ages.

[JontyR]

You mean you have more success if you pick the older and uglier ones? No surprise about the less pretty ones but I found on my short time on "match" that the older ones are often even more picky about who they meet, as they have already decided to "filter out" the ones that don't meet their spec and are not "desperate".

I think its about being realistic. As a guy unless you are in the top 10% you'll probably find you have to punch below your weight.

The key is outside the top 10% is in the blurb to match interests and outlooks that means you can boost your level to parity or higher.

[Mr_Shins]

I think its about being realistic. As a guy unless you are in the top 10% you'll probably find you have to punch below your weight.

The key is outside the top 10% is in the blurb to match interests and outlooks that means you can boost your level to parity or higher.

Tinder though is all about "swipe/swipe/swipe" isn't it, based on the face?

I complained to a different dating site of which I was a member that they introduced that into their mobile app. Essentially I asked them why they had turned this particular dating site, based more on profiles / things in common, into Tinder.

That particular site is international and I got a lot of interest from women in their 50s based in the USA. It also has the model of free/basic/enhanced profile each paying a higher amount. I think that's a broken model myself, I think there should be one fee everyone pays if they are interested, and those who are not can deactivate their profiles. That means if you come across a profile, assuming they're still paying, they are interested in meeting people. And if you message them, they might message back.

They had feedback and there were tons of complaints from males who said females never reply to messages.

[Matrix]

I've had plenty of success on Tinder and Bumble.  It usually just requires a bit of patience and wit.

Although it never ceases to amaze me how many chinese supermodels are living locally using Tinder. 

As for paying for dates, No chance! 

That's what prostitutes are for.

[Mr Sinister]

Tinder though is all about "swipe/swipe/swipe" isn't it, based on the face?

I complained to a different dating site of which I was a member that they introduced that into their mobile app. Essentially I asked them why they had turned this particular dating site, based more on profiles / things in common, into Tinder.

Because it is a successful business model and they have to compete with the more popular apps. From the app to the daters everyone is a commodity now, it's all a game. Women are partially aware how hard it is for men and how they are also responsible for making dating a dump nowadays but they never own up to that and are puzzled to 'where have all the good men gone? '.

[Londonpunter30]

You mean you have more success if you pick the older and uglier ones? No surprise about the less pretty ones but I found on my short time on "match" that the older ones are often even more picky about who they meet, as they have already decided to "filter out" the ones that don't meet their spec and are not "desperate". That was over a year ago though before all this COVID and I guess people were less isolated then.

Couldn’t agree more.  Too many women don’t realise the reason they are older and single is because they are still searching for their ideal man.  Dating apps mean they can still see all the desirables and think they still stand a chance